EPTAnyway you seem like a good guy so I'm sure you'll find a better girl, lot's of girls in the world ^^
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CaffeineFree-_-
United States712 Posts
Anyway you seem like a good guy so I'm sure you'll find a better girl, lot's of girls in the world ^^ | ||
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Greggle
United States1131 Posts
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
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Zidane
United States1684 Posts
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Torenhire
United States11681 Posts
On June 30 2011 10:23 Zidane wrote: Is it just me or are more and more girls playing LoL looking for male attention? hey, I only call it League of Dildos because I just refer to things that are crappy as "that was dildos" or "this weather ams dildos" But if I have another reason to back my name up, I'm down. For reals though, sorry to hear it. If you're still unsure whether you want to keep things together or not, just take a break from each other. Give it a while to simmer down and then you can decide to try things again if you both want, or by then you'll be separated from her and happy about it. | ||
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AngryFarmer
United States560 Posts
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
On June 30 2011 10:14 AyeH wrote: Thanks guys for all the responses so far. I spoke to her and she told me that she had started to have feelings for a friend of mine that she met while playing LoL (I am not trolling anyone here at all, being completely fucking serious). I blew up on her and told her to GTFO, but she wouldn't leave. She eventually left after we talked things over maturely and we decided that we didn't want to end it just yet, but the more I think about it, the more I want to. When I'm with her, I don't want to end it, but when I'm away, I do want to end it. I am most likely going to end it later tonight somehow. It's just really painful to be reminded of the good times we've had and everything we've done together. It's hard just to ignore all that and call it quits after working so hard to get past all the other past events. Thanks again for the deep/thoughtful responses. More comments, responses, suggestions, tips, whatever the fuck it may be, are accepted with gratitude. I'll need some help getting through this.. Don't be a pussy. Dump her as hard as possible. Also, after you do so, you will have a period of time where you're utterly convinced you will never be happy again without her in your life. This is a retarded feeling and completely not true. Do not give into it. This feeling does not mean you love the girl. Love doesn't even matter. What matters is practicality. And this girl is practically dirt to you. Remember that and be strong. She is your enemy. Never forget that. | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On June 30 2011 03:33 Kentor wrote: Bang her one more time then leave. this is the best advice in the thread imo | ||
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Wyred
United States52 Posts
On June 30 2011 10:14 AyeH wrote: Thanks guys for all the responses so far. I spoke to her and she told me that she had started to have feelings for a friend of mine that she met while playing LoL (I am not trolling anyone here at all, being completely fucking serious). I blew up on her and told her to GTFO, but she wouldn't leave. She eventually left after we talked things over maturely and we decided that we didn't want to end it just yet, but the more I think about it, the more I want to. When I'm with her, I don't want to end it, but when I'm away, I do want to end it. I am most likely going to end it later tonight somehow. It's just really painful to be reminded of the good times we've had and everything we've done together. It's hard just to ignore all that and call it quits after working so hard to get past all the other past events. Thanks again for the deep/thoughtful responses. More comments, responses, suggestions, tips, whatever the fuck it may be, are accepted with gratitude. I'll need some help getting through this.. See? I told you. If you were playing HoN, your GF wouldn't have met that dude. Actually since everybody playing HoN is a tryhard, she probably wouldn't have been very attracted. Not much room for flirting when there is a serious game to be played! | ||
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Caphe
Vietnam10817 Posts
On June 30 2011 10:14 AyeH wrote: Thanks guys for all the responses so far. I spoke to her and she told me that she had started to have feelings for a friend of mine that she met while playing LoL (I am not trolling anyone here at all, being completely fucking serious). I blew up on her and told her to GTFO, but she wouldn't leave. She eventually left after we talked things over maturely and we decided that we didn't want to end it just yet, but the more I think about it, the more I want to. When I'm with her, I don't want to end it, but when I'm away, I do want to end it. I am most likely going to end it later tonight somehow. It's just really painful to be reminded of the good times we've had and everything we've done together. It's hard just to ignore all that and call it quits after working so hard to get past all the other past events. Thanks again for the deep/thoughtful responses. More comments, responses, suggestions, tips, whatever the fuck it may be, are accepted with gratitude. I'll need some help getting through this.. If she told you that, its time to let it go. Of course you feel a bit bitter now, some regrets etc, but once you let it go you will have a relief and back on your track for the next good thing. Every long relation will leave with a not so pleasure taste once it comes to an end, esp when you have feeling/love for her. But still, I don't think this can work out if you continue to stay in it. It only will makes you feel for pain and unjust. Like you said, there are better fishes out there and you seems like a generous guy, so I don't think you have problem score yourself some of them :D. | ||
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tgun
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Demonace34
United States2493 Posts
In all seriousness, get out before you get into this rut where you are trying to repair the situation that is unrepairable. Find someone who makes you happy, doesn't stress you out and is good in bed. | ||
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Cr4zyH0r5e
Peru1308 Posts
If this one still has feelings for you, she'll come back to you and you can tell her how happy you are in your new relationship/friends with benefits/videogame addiction/free time, whatever floats your boat.. | ||
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MetalMarine
United States1559 Posts
2. Tell her she owes you for the LoL points LOL jk jk | ||
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itachisan
Canada109 Posts
a relationship is clearly over... | ||
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Stratos
Czech Republic6104 Posts
This is a nice breakup song btw.. Just the general message it carries is I think a good way of approaching it. | ||
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Cuddle
Sweden1345 Posts
The girl you eventually decide to spend the rest (or large parts) of your life with, will also have this freakout. Most of them (guys too) go through this when the relationship goes from "oooh I'm so in loooove" to "I love this woman, she is my best friend!". It's supposed to happen. I think it hardwired into our brain so that we don't go around being over our heads in love all the time. People do stupid, crazy shit when they're in that state. It's great for a while, but sooner or later it gets oooooold. So, are you ready to go into "best friend lover"-mode or do you want more of the "lovey dovey first kiss"-kind of feelings? Not ready? Then your relationship with this girl is over, I'm sorry to say. If you're ready, then you need to consider if she is. In this case, I'd say she's not ready and again, this relationship is probably over. She'll not be happy going around missing the "first kiss"-feeling all the time. She'll want the other stuff in time, but not yet. You're both young, you have time! Maybe she'll come back when she wants it, but probably not. Nor is it likely that you'll want her back. Me, I always preferred the "best friend lover"-thing and once i found a girl that did too, I grabbed her and hung on for dear life. We had our moments of doubt, we even tried breaking up when it all became too "every day" even for us, but there was no use. We both just missed the hell out of being in a stable relationship so we started over and have been together for 12 years now. We're both 28. Crazy that. | ||
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
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Ganjamaster
Argentina475 Posts
On July 05 2011 04:49 AyeH wrote: So after a few days of thinking about it, I finally broke up with her. She didn't take it well. I realized that I can't let her walk all over me and that I deserve way better. I could live my life with a woman who I never have to worry about cheating on me. I chose to cut all contact for now with her. Thanks guys for the advice. Well done man. When u hook with another girl you will forget her quickly, it gets better with time. Sometime down the road you will get the opportunity to bang her no strings attached, and it will be good. | ||
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
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