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well i should chime on this too.
Regarding that ilovekittens post with that handsome korean actor picture, my wife made a comment:
"not every guy can rock that look"
I thought about what she said, and it's true. I mean, just to go any asian mall eg. Yaohan, Parker Place and take a look at all the hong kong kids with their spiky FF7-Cloud/Sephiroth hair and count how many of them actually look good. Most of them...that style doesn't fit their face. I hate to say this, but if you have some or many of these features:
- roundish nose with flared nostrils
- large or buck teeth
- acne-covered face
- chubby cheeks
- too skinny(need some muscle)
- too short(good height is paramount in all asian cultures)
The list goes on, but I suspect many of you know what I'm talking about. Sure, you can dress and act like a movie star, but let's not be under any illusions that these movie stars were born with that look(the most powerful beauty product in the world, is photoshop). They've had work done...legions of staff to make them the polished product that they are.
But I do totally agree with the attitude shift. Isn't it sad that "just be yourself" just isn't good enough? Unless you really, be nature and by heart, really really deep down inside, are Final Fantasy angst material, but honestly? What terrible agony did your parents inflict upon you, to make you that way? Nah. You're not born in a world of materia and everything literally crumbling around you.
Many of us are at heart, truly very boring people. We're really not all that interesting, therefore we need to build up an act - an in many cases, an alternate persona where we tell ourselves over and over:
- I don't take anything personally
- everything's cool, it's all cool
- i'm not that interested, even when i am.
- if it happens, it doesn't matter. even if it happens, well it's nothing I ain't seen before.
- I'm good enough for me. But are you?
See all that? A mixture of vanity, self-absorbed attitude, a bit of jerk sprinkled in, and suddenly you're a cool person. Very unlike the self-conscious, easily angered, deeply flawed people who we truly are.
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On June 20 2011 14:46 Lemonwalrus wrote:Show nested quote +On June 20 2011 14:42 Turbovolver wrote:On June 20 2011 14:37 Lemonwalrus wrote:
Since when is Chinese-Korean interracial?
Edit: And please don't read racism/hatfulness into my question, that isn't how I mean it to be taken. You do realise all the different breeds of Asian also have lots of varying opinions about each other, right? I have varying opinions on people from wisconsin and indiana, but if I dated them it wouldn't be interracial.
Its because they are both inbred hic places =]
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you assume its a race thing when they are not interest in you. i highly doubt that. maybe they just arent interested in you for other reasons.
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This blog makes me feel really awkward xD
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On June 20 2011 14:33 Probulous wrote:
Girls you say?
As some sort of friend?
So, the prophecy was true...
They do exist. Mmmm I'm going to have consult the oracle on this one.
Lawl, I was wondering why this was spotlighted, but the 1st 5 or so posts clues me in.
To the OP, bros before hoes is generally pretty stupid IMO.
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On June 21 2011 10:12 Tin_Foil wrote:Show nested quote +On June 20 2011 14:33 Probulous wrote:
Girls you say?
As some sort of friend?
So, the prophecy was true...
They do exist. Mmmm I'm going to have consult the oracle on this one. Lawl, I was wondering why this was spotlighted, but the 1st 5 or so posts clues me in. To the OP, bros before hoes is generally pretty stupid IMO.
Close, but you're looking for this: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=235370¤tpage=2#23
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When I see people that fit ILOVEKITTENS' guide, I think the same thing as I do with people who wear excessive make up: what and why are they hiding something?
I think the most important time to look at your partner is when they wake up and when they come out of the shower. With all the masks off, are you still attracted to them? (meaning their personality)
A lot of the girls and guys are pretty, but so are dolls, and in the end you'll want someone that's more than a figure. Having both would be a huge plus though.
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I came for the spotlight... I stayed for Kittens...
My job is actually right in the middle of the "Asian Market District" in Dallas, and I see cute Korean chicks all the time- and never once have I been totally ignored ((I'm white, too))...
I don't rightly fall into any of the things in Kittens' post, however- I do rock the, 'my hair would look emo if I weren't so fucking awesome' hair... Although, I do spend most of my lunch hour disagreeing with one of my co-workers and repeatedly saying things like, 'ya know what, I just don't care...' and having that smug over-educated look on my face.
*GASP* I DO FIT SOME OF THESE!
Time to hit up a reputable Korean establishment and meander about singing along to the kpop on my ipod. ((note to self- invest in cardigan))
Question: Do tinted polarized safety glasses count as sunglasses?
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If there was ever one time in my life that I wanted to eat my own eyes after reading a post, that time would be now.
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Kpop girls get a lot of plastic surgery done... So if you want a pretty girlfriend, then just pay for her to go under the knife ;D
Regarding Korean gfs, I've heard horror stories about having a Korean girlfriend (especially FOBs). My friends have dated them and complained that they're nothing but a chore...Super drama causing and not very compromising. Maybe it's just when they get to California, they get that SoCal attitude of being super stuck up. OH RICH FOBS all up in the UCs... ):
But that's pretty bad if you just want a girl to be pretty. Like Blisse said, are you still going to be attracted to her when she comes out of the shower?
Also, are you going to be grossed out when she's sick as hell?
:p If you're a good guy, you'd be like my boyfriend. He kept me warm while I was sick with strep throat and coughing up mass amounts of, um, throat gunk.
If you wanna get a girl, you gotta become less shy. Talk to girls, but don't act to desperate. The worst thing you can do is come off as a creeper. If you become a creeper, she will know and all of her friends will know to avoid your ass.
Don't make a move unless you know she's ready for one.
Become friends before anything, because then you'll know her personality and (if any) her faults. Then you win!
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on the topic of interracial relationships i recently came across an african american male sitting on a bench with an asian female who appeared to be his girlfriend
as soon as we were out of earshot my friends and i began to sing "black and yellow" by wiz khalifa
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Pfft, when it comes to Korean girls, this is 2 step autowin build order
19- Grow to a height of 183~185cm
25~28- Earn one or more of JD, MD, MBA, PhD, or any other letters after your name that mean you will be able to support their shoppping issues.
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Tbh Ilovekittens you should just make your own blog and write an extensive guide on this subject, you seem to be , how do will you describe it
awesome.
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Have you ever considered the fact that subconsciously unable to be attracted to women who display interest in you? This is a large problem that I had to overcome. Sort of: it's not attractive when they start trying.
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ILOVEKITTENS is the greatest response to any thread ever lmao
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This is how it works for me: I meet a sexy girl and talk to her for about a week. After that we make out once or twice (three times if she's lucky) and I go on to the next one.
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Utterly confused as to why this was highlighted??
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^^ Page 2 ILoveKittens saves the day
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I now know why my Korean friend wears moving rubber---it was such a mystery to me. THANK YOU ILOVEKITTENS
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ilovekittens can I buy coaching? lol jk, awesome post, this thread, crazy gsl selections, and Huk winning dreamhack made my day =)
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