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On March 06 2011 12:15 HopLight wrote:
since you are Swedish I would reccomend the simple, "why don't we meet for coffee" as a safe semi-date. (For non-swedes, Swedish dating is weird, a large percentage of relationsships start while drunk and end the same, coffee is the safe alternative for non-dunk hookups).
At first, before I finished reading, I was like...wtf is that sentence in Swedish like...human mating call? I almost asked how you said that in swedish to see if I became attracted to you.
On March 06 2011 11:31 wolfy4033 wrote:
I started to like her quite a bit and I asked for her msn or facebook in a casual, masculine way.
can you type your MSN....>here< *flexes*
What about facebook, just click... >there< *flexes again*
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Thanks for your posts ^_^ I'll just ask her sometime again and if that doesn't work out.. well, there are more girls out there!
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don't lie being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of
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Wow dude, perfect situation, the hard part is all over. As the above posters have said, she is on the fence, this is good.
Start flirting it up with other girls, especially when she is around, and you don't even have to ignore her, just give her that feeling that you have options, and that you aren't waiting on her. Jealousy is huge
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Have you considered that maybe she actually has some personal issues that will be eating up her time? I could imagine a girl actually having some problems, she thinks the guy's cute, but is annoyed because he seems to be assuming shes just lying to him to see how he'll react or to think about it longer.
Either way, I would suggest asking her if she's willing to tell you more about this supposed problem. It would show that you care, if she is just trying to buy time. Otherwise, it might actually get you information on what kind of personal issues shes dealing with. It could be a thing that'll be resolved in a week or a year, and that's an important detail to you.
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of course she COULD have personal issues that are pretty relevant.
When I lived in Japan I was getting close to a girl, and things had evolved to a state where it was pretty obvious we were going to end up dating, she wrote me this letter talking about personal issues etc etc. and was it still ok. I said yeah, its fine, and we ended up together.
Don't want to write a wall of text, but long story short,we were driving home one day and she had a nervous breakdown-- threw her shoes out of the car, drove the car into the curb twice (cuz she just got insta-angry for some reason), and started biting her arm (while driving, almost sending the car upside down into the ditch... as it was the two right tires went flat from hitting the curb and I had to change them, while making sure she didn't walk barefoot into the forest while raging)....
Sometimes there really are personal issues that aren't obvious from the start dude. Tons of girls in the world.
Advice: just talk to her, you've made your intentions known, its pretty much in her court, but keep contact. Dont be pushy, and importantly, don't disregard what she said about personal issues.-- if its fluff brush-off stuff, then you aint gonna end up together, and it wont help to be pushy/incessant. If its legit issues, you got your eyes open. If she's fence-sitting, you're keeping the contact open. Theres only one way to go ahead.
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I did get the feeling there was some "real" issues behind it, and not just some excuse. I dont wanna feel too pushy but I think I'll ask her about it, thanks ^_^
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