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icystorage
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Jollibee19346 Posts
December 30 2010 15:52 GMT
#21
dude, i just confessed to a girl i like two weeks ago, you just gotta man up. I was hesitant at first but once you start talking, your gonna talk all the way. trust me, its way better. feels good man.
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niteReloaded
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Croatia5281 Posts
December 30 2010 16:16 GMT
#22
Do whatever the hell you want.

Sure, not everything you do will get results you want, but the purpose of life is not being an efficient robot, but trying out things that YOU thought of and YOU like, and enjoying and learning the experience.

If you can follow it up with being ok with whatever happens, and never getting too attached to the outcome, you'll have a great life.
Dagobert
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Netherlands1858 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-30 16:20:56
December 30 2010 16:16 GMT
#23
Yes, please confess your love for her. I want to see you fail. :D

No seriously... best advice here was "tell her you kinda like her and ask her out". Sending a love letter will work on maybe 0.0001% of the female population. They're usually around 12-14 years of age. Telling her straight to her face, when you're not even in a relationship with her... is just stupid. Heck, even I (guy) rejected (reasonably good looking) girls purely because they showed too much affection way too early on. It's a turnoff. Get her to like you, get her to want you, have sex, make her want more. That's how it usually goes. At least where I'm from.
Frits
Profile Joined March 2003
11782 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-30 16:28:47
December 30 2010 16:27 GMT
#24
This is a terrible idea bro.

Also you've done things one 'might' call dating? What the hell does that even mean, are you dating her or not? Have you kissed her yet? If not just tell her you like her when you're alone together or ask her on a date, like dinner or something and then tell her.

ps: BE CONFIDENT!!!!!!!!!
Zapperkhan
Profile Joined October 2008
United States436 Posts
December 30 2010 16:28 GMT
#25
Just do it. Don't make excuses for yourself. That's the girl's job to decide if she likes you.
lungo
Profile Joined October 2005
Denmark276 Posts
December 30 2010 17:02 GMT
#26
aww bro'h you just need to ride the barrels and get pitted
as Arnold said: you have been erased! but dont worry!
BroOd
Profile Blog Joined April 2003
Austin10831 Posts
December 30 2010 17:14 GMT
#27
On December 31 2010 01:27 Frits wrote:
This is a terrible idea bro.

Also you've done things one 'might' call dating? What the hell does that even mean, are you dating her or not? Have you kissed her yet? If not just tell her you like her when you're alone together or ask her on a date, like dinner or something and then tell her.

ps: BE CONFIDENT!!!!!!!!!

You might remember Frits from such forum posts as "Smoke Yourself Thin" and "Get Confident, Stupid!"
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gongryong
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Korea (South)1430 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-30 17:24:27
December 30 2010 17:22 GMT
#28
Use the Johnny Tapia love letter verbatim, just add this as PS:

"my love for you burns like the thousand suns in the skies, while my lust for you bursts like the sperm whale's mating call"

^^ from: MrHoon * December 30 2010 23:33


It would be PERFECT! xD
JAEDONG ÜBERBONJWA!
synapse
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
China13814 Posts
December 30 2010 17:48 GMT
#29
Man up.
:)
FraCuS
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United States1072 Posts
December 30 2010 18:18 GMT
#30
Tell her straight up, you got TeamLiquid on your side.
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swanized
Profile Blog Joined September 2009
Canada2480 Posts
December 30 2010 18:20 GMT
#31
On December 30 2010 23:44 Konamix wrote:
This one time I sent a letter to a girl but then her mom ended up reading it first, then her dad, then her little bro and then her.
Laughter echo'd through my little town that day and I was forever known as that guy who draws smily faces and hearts sideways in real life

Go on a date couple times, buy her food, don't be omg pressure, and dont send love letters


konamix post is always epic
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n3gative
Profile Joined May 2009
Canada369 Posts
December 30 2010 19:05 GMT
#32
teamliquid, where socially awkward nerds learn to branch out to find love...and blog about it.

please go the love letter route.
LazyMacro
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
976 Posts
December 30 2010 19:34 GMT
#33
With regards to the "might be dating," unless it's specifically said, how do you know if what you're doing with a girl is considered a date or not? I mean, if I and a girl do something (just the two of us, I mean) at what point is it a date? -_-
hazelynut
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States2195 Posts
December 30 2010 20:13 GMT
#34
I think a letter would be kind of cute :< depends on what you write in it, of course. Letters of confession can give really bad impressions of yourself, aka radiate weakness and romanticism. But remember, once upon a time, people flirted exclusively through letters! You can be a stud even in the written form. See Court Duel by Sherwood Smith for an teen-fantasy example of what every girl wants in a letter.

Also, if you're in Asia, this might be more acceptable.
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HwangjaeTerran
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Finland5967 Posts
December 30 2010 20:26 GMT
#35
the baller(TL) way: love letter
the boring way: any other way

"the choice is yours & yours alone"
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Arkansassy
Profile Joined October 2010
358 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-30 20:34:35
December 30 2010 20:29 GMT
#36
There are definitely some things to consider here before making your move:

1. Are you willing to sacrifice her friendship? Telling her - even writing to her - about your feelings if she doesn't feel the same, might make your current relationship with her a bit awkward.

2. Are you willing to face rejection? If not, then feel her out before professing your love for her.

Good grief, if you want her you have to do something. The easiest way is to just ask her questions that will or will not give you a clue as to how she feels about you.

Save yourself some embarrassment and rejection. Don't pour your heart out until you're at least half way sure how she feels about you.

One thing is for sure, if you don't want anyone else to know your feelings, you NEVA put anything in writing. *looks at Konamix.

Myrkskog
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Canada481 Posts
December 30 2010 20:37 GMT
#37
Just slip her this in spelling class.

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jlim
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Spain943 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-30 21:21:27
December 30 2010 21:20 GMT
#38
^ love dat trolling lol

Love letters are outdated. Sad, but true.
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
December 30 2010 21:33 GMT
#39
On December 30 2010 23:31 plated.rawr wrote:
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and I came to the conclusion that sending a love letter would be a great option to consider.

Don't. Seriously. If you want the girl to respect you, you'll tell it to her face. If you can't, then it's not meant to be.

I don't this is completely true. Depends on the type of girl but some girls would really, absolutely love this. Please don't think you know everything about girls, and then generalize all girls into one lump.
I, personally, would love to get a love letter.

I think the biggest thing is if you're going to write a girl a love letter, then write it, and give it to her yourself, and tell her you like her at the same time. Not only does she get a cute reminder that you like her(the love letter), which she can read over and over(if she likes you back =P), you'll also get to man up and tell her, and she'll like that too.

A lot of girls(myself included) like to keep things as reminders. With one of my ex's, I kept every greyhound ticket I ever bought every time I went to see him. (He lived like an hour away, but no public busses went there) :>
you are perfect porcelain.
BuuGhost
Profile Joined December 2010
Netherlands340 Posts
December 30 2010 21:35 GMT
#40
On December 31 2010 05:37 Myrkskog wrote:
Just slip her this in spelling class.

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Yeah just don't forget the Hearth on the I.
"Kinda like this thing but there’s something you should know, I just came to say hello."
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