EPTTelling my parents about her... - Page 2
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muse5187
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On October 02 2010 05:46 DoubleZee wrote: No offense, but grow up, you're 22. Your parents should have no weight in what decisions you make in your personal life. yeah I agree with this guy just tell them already... | ||
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Masamune
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rezoacken
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If they argue very badly tell them to fuck off. If they are very persistant in being annoying tell them they really should stop if they want to remain on good term with you, tell them you're twenty two and baby sitting is over. If everything fails tell your parents a man of this age need to put his dick somewhere to not turn mad and be able to actually focus on something else. Really, sex at this age for a boy is the best thing for him to stop thinking about it... just as long as you do not give her too much time saboting your study time and stuff. If they do not understand facepalm and worry about their own sexlife  | ||
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Box.N.Straw
Canada55 Posts
I also come from a conservative Asian family, and my parents took it surprisingly well. Turns out they sort of knew/guessed I was dating someone anyway. It's difficult to hide secrets for that long from your parents lol. Just casually tell them you're dating someone, and that you've been with her for 2 years. If they flip out, point out that your marks have not dropped at all in the past 2 years so they really have nothing to worry about. I imagine they would be a little miffed at first, but they'll accept it eventually. | ||
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Licmyobelisk
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Kralic
Canada2628 Posts
On October 02 2010 06:38 Licmyobelisk wrote: at least this is a happy girl blog Soon to be a TL help give me advice I just broke up blog... I would tell them and if they have issues with it, then I guess they will have to live with your decision. | ||
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HobbitGotGame
Canada178 Posts
It doesn't matter what your parents think. Two years is far too long. If you really cared, respected, and loved her, it should've happened much earlier in your relationship. It's only fair for her to be acknowledged as an important part of your life. | ||
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
On October 02 2010 06:10 Masamune wrote: you're fucking 22 just tell them. they'll probably be relieved you aren't gay. this actually made me burst out laughing and is probably more accurate than you'd think. While not having a girlfriend is probably their wish, every dad secretly wonders if their kid is a closet case if they aren't ever bringing women around. lol @ being 22 and afraid to tell your parents something, that is an interesting aspect of life that inclines me to want to meet more asian people as their numbers are quite small here. anyways just DO IT, when you tell them you've been dating for 2 years there's nothing they can say. Well i mean any irrational person could try, but they'd look like an idiot | ||
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seRapH
United States9830 Posts
On October 02 2010 06:03 Chill wrote: WHOA WAIT YOURE AN ASIAN DUDE WITH A WHITE GIRL? Fucking rights man you did it!!!! is it really that hard? i always thought the only reason there are 10x more azn girl/white guy couples than azn guy/white girl couples was because most of the time the azn girl > white girl. but thats just me :D | ||
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piroko139
United States261 Posts
You probably already know the results of waiting too long to tell a secret, judging by my own Asian parents. | ||
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Kishkumen
United States650 Posts
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muse5187
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On October 02 2010 06:28 rezoacken wrote: Tell them, if they argue just ignore it. If they argue very badly tell them to fuck off. If they are very persistant in being annoying tell them they really should stop if they want to remain on good term with you, tell them you're twenty two and baby sitting is over. If everything fails tell your parents a man of this age need to put his dick somewhere to not turn mad and be able to actually focus on something else. Really, sex at this age for a boy is the best thing for him to stop thinking about it... just as long as you do not give her too much time saboting your study time and stuff. If they do not understand facepalm and worry about their own sexlife Don't do this, bad advice. Should always show respect to your parents, why bring in the negativity? | ||
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Slithe
United States985 Posts
Let's just do the exercise of weighing the consequences. What is going to happen if you tell them? Are they going to yell at you? Fuck it just let them yell to their hearts content. Don't bother arguing back, it's a pointless endeavor. Logical arguments do not apply. Are they going to try and force you to break up with her? Do they have any kind of leverage on you? At your age, I assume any leverage that they have is not nearly substantial enough. Are they going to disown you? If so, then fuck them, they're douches. | ||
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polgas
Canada1791 Posts
1. I have a girlfriend. 2. She's white. 3. She's pregnant. Ahahaha, got you! She's not pregnant! | ||
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zenMaster
Canada761 Posts
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Deleted User 61629
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RyuChus
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 Good job though! | ||
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Elegance
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NevilleS
Canada266 Posts
On October 02 2010 06:51 polgas wrote: Mom, Dad, I have a few confessions to make. 1. I have a girlfriend. 2. She's white. 3. She's pregnant. Ahahaha, got you! She's not pregnant! Best advice so far. Hopefully this doesn't turn into a typical TL fail girl blog. | ||
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