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On July 16 2010 16:08 DatTheMighty wrote:
Wow, men love pussies why you guys acting like your shit dont stink. pussies can be reused you know that shit self cleans and last for years. why you all so fucking uptight, i dont go around grabbing my friend's titties but i aint turning consensual sex down ever. EVER.
Hey my HIV positive friend wants to blow you. Lets take this to PMs so I can give you the details.
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On July 16 2010 16:14 SCC-Faust wrote:Show nested quote +On July 16 2010 16:08 DatTheMighty wrote:
Wow, men love pussies why you guys acting like your shit dont stink. pussies can be reused you know that shit self cleans and last for years. why you all so fucking uptight, i dont go around grabbing my friend's titties but i aint turning consensual sex down ever. EVER. Hey my HIV positive friend wants to blow you. Lets take this to PMs so I can give you the details.
lol hiv. this shit aint the 80's u cant scare anyone with hiv
cure for hiv in this spoiler
+ Show Spoiler +dont fuck anyone up the ass and dont do drugs
User was temp banned for this post.
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^Well the girl did do drugs...
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On July 16 2010 15:21 IefNaij wrote:
A lot of girls use that "Oh I ___ you but I probably wont remember this" as an excuse to tell you how they really feel.. I know a few people who did that on purpose lol.
I THINK only girls that are desperate for you resort to that method, go for it if you really like her! But ofc talk to the friend first :D
Pretty much this, she knows she'll remember it shes just trying to see what you think.
Bro's before ho's though Sir Empy.
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I say avoid the Ambien, Its powerful and addictive. My doctor had me try it once because my insomnia was close to forcing me to drop out of college (talking 4 to 5 days without sleep sometimes). Anyway, I took just one 5mg as directed and woke up 32 hours later in a hospital full of needles. Apparently I swallowed every single pill in the bottle and I have absolutely no recollection of the event. My friends say that they called the ambulance after I wandered into their room, fell on my face and started having a seizure. I ended up being forced to stay in the hospital for two weeks on suicide watch until they had a psychiatrist evaluate me.
So yeah I would avoid it.
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On July 16 2010 16:35 Azerbaijan wrote:
I say avoid the Ambien, Its powerful and addictive. My doctor had me try it once because my insomnia was close to forcing me to drop out of college (talking 4 to 5 days without sleep sometimes). Anyway, I took just one 5mg as directed and woke up 32 hours later in a hospital full of needles. Apparently I swallowed every single pill in the bottle and I have absolutely no recollection of the event. My friends say that they called the ambulance after I wandered into their room, fell on my face and started having a seizure. I ended up being forced to stay in the hospital for two weeks on suicide watch until they had a psychiatrist evaluate me.
So yeah I would avoid it.
Holy cow! i hope you didnt get any brain damage from that O.o
drugs these days...
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i don't know.. why would you have any moral commitments to an 'acquaintance'? ok, some maybe, but not with his EX gf.
it's just the question if you see any greater potential in this acquaintance as a future friend and you think you'd lose him did you do anything with his ex girl.
if it stings really bad you can still meet with her and not go out openly for some time (but as we've seen in deadling's tiny-dick-rub example girls often don't even give a fuck about the feelings of some ex or suitor)
either way i wouldn't remind her of it. if she got feelings for you (which seems to be the case if she's not just a slut or in general need of love) she'll probably make another move, so let her make it. time plays also in your favour if you still got those moral constraints (meaning: somewhen the dude will be over her).
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On July 16 2010 16:01 SCC-Faust wrote:Show nested quote +On July 16 2010 15:52 DatTheMighty wrote:
you guys take these shit too seriously. if you're both kewl with it, nothing wrong with a bit of dirty casual sex i am sure that acquaintance of yours dont give a flying fuck either and if he does, well fuck him too. you're not expected to marry and have children jesus christ. I'm so glad we have a little diversity and variety on Teamliquid. I hope your friends know to not trust you around their girlfriends/ex's. + Show Spoiler +And then after you're fucking her you PULL OUT A GLOCK AND AIM IT STRAIGHT AT HER HEAD AND MAKE A BRAIN SLUSHIE, RIGHT? Or after you are making sweet sweet love to her on the candlelit bed, you start to feel the room shaking gently. Are you still having an orgasm? No, that isn't it. The shaking gets harder and more frequent. Is there an earthquake? Maybe.. but unlikely. Then all of a sudden fucking rhinos blast through the window along with dozens and dozens of safari animals, rampaging faster than you'd see on Animal Planet. After what seems to be minutes of animals passing you by and going through the house, a lone pelican waddles by. Before you can get out of missionary position, the pelican grabs Jumanji and makes a run for it back into the street.
That second spoiler reminds me of the Choose Your Own Drug Filled Adventure articles on cracked.com, which you should read if you haven't. Fucking gold.
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Yo I'm not the one to judge people by far but I'm just gonna drop off some thoughts
1. Analyze how much you like/love her - sounds kinda dumb but seriously it's the first thing you should do.
2. Was it a minor or major act - can you resolve/talk it out or is this upsetting the balance of the relationship?
3. Consider the circumstances/factors - she was clearly high/ex-boyfriend was present/is an attention-seeker = conclusively: what factors made her say such things?
4. Internally calm yourself - keep yourself collected no rage/emotions/angst
5. Hear her out - ask very abstractly and hear her side of the story. If she doesn't remember/doesn't say anything then be straightforward and hear her out then.
6. After listening you talk - say what's on your mind: you were dumbfounded when you heard about it, and just ask sincerely how she would have reacted in a similar situation.
7. Judge/Come to a conclusion - now that you have some info and heard her out, you have to figure somethings out (myself or the internet) cannot help you with just because you know your life best. Just be real with yourself.
a) Is the relationship worth pursuing? (overall-semi long term)
b) Can this drama bullshit be prevented?
c) What are some preventive measures?
d) Could breaking up be better for both of you?
My thoughts:
- Girls that still have their ex's around are trouble
- Your friend should get a pat on the back for being a bro
- Your girl should either apologize and somehow make it up by seriously thinking about preventive measures or you should just leave her
- The issue at hand could be a much bigger issue where she may have felt neglected by you and just expressed it in a bullshit way. Probe this if you think there is a chance.
- Next girl you meet try to stay away from girls that know your guy friends too much.
- I say she deserves another chance if you believe in her. It's nothing serious she didn't sleep with the guy she just said some stupid shit. Just keep your girl in check man.
GL
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Generic girl advice, don't take girl advice from TL.
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Real friends let other friends go after exes. Shit didn't work our between them but that shouldn't stop you from being happy. That's real bros before hoes. Don't let your emo feelings get in the way of your friend from being happy.
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That whole 'bro's before ho's' thing is a load of crap. In my opinion, you shouldn't be pursuing a ho in the first place.
Talk to her when she's sober. It sounds like this girl would be more stress in a relationship than anything else, but if you like her, you like her.
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This girl sounds awesome. I don't care what you end up doing but she sounds like she would be really fun to fool around with.
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larjase i call upon thee!
he's a cookin something up (sleeping)
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go for it dude. as long as she is the same when shes not messed up, i dont see the problem. forget your 'acquaintance', he's not even your friend lol
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On July 16 2010 15:21 IefNaij wrote:
A lot of girls use that "Oh I ___ you but I probably wont remember this" as an excuse to tell you how they really feel.. I know a few people who did that on purpose lol.
I THINK only girls that are desperate for you resort to that method, go for it if you really like her! But ofc talk to the friend first :D
The champ spits the truth.
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Good decision, glad to see the world isn't filled with idiots trying to stick themselves into every hole they can get.
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If you're looking for anything meaningful (meaning something that transcends sex/sexual behavior) this girl will not fulfill your hopes. To make a long advice post short:
I think a relationship should not start with something sexual, simply because it won't last. Either you or she will get bored if it is a sexual relationship.
Your call dude!
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From my point of view:
She want to hook up. She (like any girl with dignity) doesn't want to outright tell it to you, so she only does it when she's high. The high didn't make her tell it, the high is the excuse for telling it without looking like a slut. I'm almost certain she will remember it, but will of course leave it to YOU to make the initiative. This is natural. The following is what I'm guessing she's been imagining as the ideal scenario to follow her little stunt:
You realize you like her and call her later today/tommorow and tell her:
You: "Her, how are you/are you ok? You called me yesterday and said some things that got me thinking.. do you remember?"
Her: uh-oh, I was high, plz tell me I didn't do anything stupid?! (saving dignity)
You: nah, it was kinda cute. Listen, you mentioned you'd like to go to the beach, and I was just about to go do it, wanna come?
Her: not sure, I have to do xy, but I'll let you know
You: kk, I'll be going over there at around X o'clock
(...) eventually you both end up there.
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If you want something with her, don't NOT do it because some acquaintance. If he worries you, talk to him for a minute and let him know that you're making your move and that you hope your 'friendship' won't be awkward because of this.
Bros before hoes does not apply here, because the 'bro' is just a random dude you know.
If you like her for any of the possible reasons, go for it imo.
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