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boesthius
United States11637 Posts
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
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Wineandbread
United States2065 Posts
On May 18 2010 08:53 boesthius wrote: grobyc let me teach you how to 2 step ![[image loading]](http://img401.imageshack.us/img401/1403/1262367144176.gif) just do this in the middle of the dance floor, bitches be all over you I couldn't stop laughing at this picture for some reason | ||
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TommyGG
United States142 Posts
On May 18 2010 08:10 Orome wrote: I'm entirely serious btw, grinding's the worst form of dancing. Sure it might be enough to get you that horny drunk girl but if you like girls that are a bit more classy, get out there and actually dance with them. It's not that hard if you've got a bit of rhythm, and you don't need to be great at it since most guys are completely terrible. you are either 40+ years old or have been living under a rock your whole childhood/young adulthood when you say that only horny drunk girls with no class grind. i cannot think of a major city in the world where grinding isn't the socially accepted norm practiced by the general public | ||
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Fenris
Lithuania14 Posts
This is completely enough to be good on the dancefloor. Girls don't expect you to be really good on the dancefloor so if you don't freak them out you are good to go. However there are some extra things you can do if you are confident enough and get positive body language from her. What girls don't expect is that you will take the initiative. This is where I can use my pro skills the most, not that I know any particular dance moves, but that I can take initiative. This requires some skill, but is not that hard to pick up. Remember I mentioned how to follow her. Now if you can carefully reverse the roles it is going to score you huge points and you become the most wanted guy on the floor :D. It's a bit delicate, but if you have a good sense of rythm and practice you can get a grasp of it. Also some small things to do once you get a positive response from her. If she is wearing jeans and you are dancing face to face, slide the hands from the waist into her back pockets. Turns them on fire. Dancing back to back, keep one hand on the waist while using other to slowly slide your fingertips up her leg all the way to the chest, sloooowly. There are many other, so just be confident. Learn to follow and observe her reactions and once you are comfortable get the lead. Once you mastered that you can experiment with all the little touches and stuff. Good luck! | ||
Liquid`Drone
Norway28731 Posts
eventually I became legitimately awesome at it, like rest of the dancefloor stops dancing to form a semicircle around me clapping me on awesome. im sure to some some degree this happened because I have a semblance of natural rhythm and a complete willingness to embarass myself, but also largely just because I kept dancing. first 10 times people told me I was great I thought they were joking tho. and grinding is dumb but I guess it can be fun. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
On May 18 2010 09:14 TommyGG wrote: you are either 40+ years old or have been living under a rock your whole childhood/young adulthood when you say that only horny drunk girls with no class grind. i cannot think of a major city in the world where grinding isn't the socially accepted norm practiced by the general public and you must be 18 because grinding isn't the main form of dancing unless you're some college kid or around a bunch of drunks. Sure, everyone that has been to a club or something of the sort has had to at some point, but that generally isn't the way to get a girl unless she's just incredibly easy. | ||
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DreaM)XeRO
Korea (South)4667 Posts
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TommyGG
United States142 Posts
On May 18 2010 09:50 tonight wrote: and you must be 18 because grinding isn't the main form of dancing unless you're some college kid or around a bunch of drunks. Sure, everyone that has been to a club or something of the sort has had to at some point, but that generally isn't the way to get a girl unless she's just incredibly easy. so you are agreeing with me. it is the main form of dancing for college kids and people well into their 20s. sorry for making assumptions that this thread was intended for people within that age range. and yes, i am 18. good guess | ||
Chill
Calgary25991 Posts
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G3CKO
Canada1430 Posts
grobyc where are you going to school O_O | ||
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craz3d
Bulgaria856 Posts
On May 18 2010 07:51 yesplz wrote: if you have real balls you just ask the chick to fuck straight up skipping dancing and that bs Yeah, real blue balls. | ||
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[NyC]HoBbes
United States803 Posts
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arb
Noobville17921 Posts
On May 18 2010 07:58 JWD wrote: +1 my only tip is that if you start to get hard, tuck it under your belt. that is, if you don't want her to notice it WOO WOO then she'll be thinking "what is he gay?" | ||
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
On May 18 2010 08:53 boesthius wrote: grobyc let me teach you how to 2 step just do this in the middle of the dance floor, bitches be all over you >_> On May 18 2010 09:43 Fenris wrote: The guys already pretty much summed everything there is to dancing/grinding at clubs and parties. Now I'm a pro competitive Latin dancer so will share some extra tips that did not get mentioned already. First of all be confident - the girl does not have any idea about your dancing skills and most likely doesn't care much, as 99% of the guys are just like you. Now you can either be confident, because you have cold nerves or just drink enough. Girls love confidence. So when you get on the dancefloor follow her body movements and body language (2 very different things). By following or mirroring her body movements (say she has her back turned to you and swings hips left and right with some variation - you do the same, while holding her on the waist and not overdoing with skin contact, at least at first). Once you are comfortable with this react to her body language, it's easily readable most of the time and will end up in a more intimate grinding, making out or simply continuing dancing for a while. Just follow what you observe and what she does. This is completely enough to be good on the dancefloor. Girls don't expect you to be really good on the dancefloor so if you don't freak them out you are good to go. However there are some extra things you can do if you are confident enough and get positive body language from her. What girls don't expect is that you will take the initiative. This is where I can use my pro skills the most, not that I know any particular dance moves, but that I can take initiative. This requires some skill, but is not that hard to pick up. Remember I mentioned how to follow her. Now if you can carefully reverse the roles it is going to score you huge points and you become the most wanted guy on the floor :D. It's a bit delicate, but if you have a good sense of rythm and practice you can get a grasp of it. Also some small things to do once you get a positive response from her. If she is wearing jeans and you are dancing face to face, slide the hands from the waist into her back pockets. Turns them on fire. Dancing back to back, keep one hand on the waist while using other to slowly slide your fingertips up her leg all the way to the chest, sloooowly. There are many other, so just be confident. Learn to follow and observe her reactions and once you are comfortable get the lead. Once you mastered that you can experiment with all the little touches and stuff. Good luck! thanks for input  On May 18 2010 11:28 G3CKO wrote: I just don't evne bother with this stuff... grobyc where are you going to school O_O Okanagan College, B.C. | ||
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Mickey
United States2606 Posts
On May 18 2010 08:53 boesthius wrote: grobyc let me teach you how to 2 step just do this in the middle of the dance floor, bitches be all over you You almost killed me. | ||
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Orome
Switzerland11984 Posts
On May 18 2010 10:05 TommyGG wrote: so you are agreeing with me. it is the main form of dancing for college kids and people well into their 20s. sorry for making assumptions that this thread was intended for people within that age range. and yes, i am 18. good guess It being the main form doesn't make it fun or a good way to get girls. And yeah, I've done my fair share of grinding. Anyway, who cares, just do whatever you like and feel comfortable with and you'll be fine. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
On May 18 2010 10:05 TommyGG wrote: so you are agreeing with me. it is the main form of dancing for college kids and people well into their 20s. sorry for making assumptions that this thread was intended for people within that age range. and yes, i am 18. good guess Re-read what I said. I didn't say it was the main form of dancing. I said it in the context that those criteria are really the only exceptions to where it should be happening. It happens at clubs too where people are easy, but generally it is NOT the main form of dancing, anywhere. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32100 Posts
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