Dancing (grinding)... - Page 2

On May 18 2010 07:39 meteorskunk wrote:
HAHA best topic. KudoJoe sums it up pretty well.

sounds to me, like you don't get drunk enough. whats this watching others to learn? just do what your drunken reptile mind tells you and thrust to the beat.

I mean you don't wanna be a perv, but chances are shes giving you some pretty good signs so when she does you are probz free to like follow her waist with ur hands a bit to get a feel for her rhythme and follow allong with ur pelivs. Eventually she will be like mmm ya and turn around and make out w/ u if it goes on for like longer than 10 minutes shes into you enough for that or horney enough or w/e.

On May 18 2010 07:41 Newguy wrote:
Pretty much go with what she does, if she seems really comfortable around you then you can probably get closer quicker, just watch people around you. As for tricks and tips there really are none, this is grinding we are talking about, but chicks dig guys that move a lot when they dance, according to studies. Bust some moves like this guy

On May 18 2010 07:36 Chill wrote:

ding ding.

dont sweat it and just fucking get out there.

On May 18 2010 07:51 Grobyc wrote:

ehhh I was pretty drunk; I almost fell over on someone a few times LOL. but i caught my balance and it was all good

On May 18 2010 07:58 JWD wrote:

+1

my only tip is that if you start to get hard, tuck it under your belt. that is, if you don't want her to notice it WOO WOO

On May 18 2010 07:55 REDBLUEGREEN wrote:

Don't dance like that guy. Girls dig guys who dance with a manly style. The guy in the video moves way too feminine. Sure if you got nice move you can impress her and attract her that way but if you just move manly she will be attracted thanks to her instincts or subconsciousness or whatever

On May 18 2010 08:02 zerglingsfolife wrote:
Hands on hips, then move down to her thighs once she gets comfortable. If she turns to dance face to face put one of your legs in between hers slightly so your legs are kind of intertwined. Dance and if you want you can hold her close with your faces close to each other. Makes it extremely easy to kiss her after that transition.

Edit: Obviously use common sense when deciding how far to go

On May 18 2010 08:00 KudoJoe wrote:


Honestly you shouldn't be drunk to the point where you are tipsy and walk straight. At that point dancing with you is out of the question for most girls unless they are drunk as well. You should just drink enough where you have enough confidence to let yourself be relaxed on the dance floor.

On May 18 2010 08:05 Orome wrote:
Grinding's the desperate guy's way of dancing. Real men actually dance with their girl and have fun on the dance floor.

On May 18 2010 08:09 DeathByMonkeys wrote:


What this guy said.

The normal way I go about it is either just go up to a girl face to face and ask if she'd like to dance. Or if she's already dancing (happens like 70% of the time) with her friends just come up behind her, put your hands on her hips, and ask if she'd like to dance. Being shot down happens all the time, don't worry about it (even though you'll probably be embarrassed the first few times). One of the easiest ways to do this is bring a buddy and just got looking for 2 girls that are friends all night, having a wing-man makes it more fun too. Just ask with confidence.

The dancing portion... basically just put your hands on her hips and let her do the moving. Keep her body close and just try to keep up. Like the guy above me said if she's digging on you turn her around and make-out (this makes it harder to keep dancing to the beat but who cares), while keeping one leg in between hers. One thing I like to do if she's digging on you and you're still dancing on her back is slowly run my hands up and down her legs a few times, and/or just get a little bit firmer grip letting her know you're digging on her too.

On May 18 2010 08:10 Orome wrote:
I'm entirely serious btw, grinding's the worst form of dancing. Sure it might be enough to get you that horny drunk girl but if you like girls that are a bit more classy, get out there and actually dance with them. It's not that hard if you've got a bit of rhythm, and you don't need to be great at it since most guys are completely terrible.

On May 18 2010 08:04 mmp wrote:


lol if you could dance half as well as that guy you'd be set. Don't try to excuse bad dancing by calling it a "manly style."

OP you should see if there are any dance lessons/classes/groups at your school. Meet chicks and learn some moves - not that it takes any skill to grind, but it all comes together once you know how to use your body.