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you all know about this 'controversy' feminists are often rubbin in people's faces.
The one that says it's discriminating to call a promiscuous male a stud (which is a compliment), while if the same person were female, she'd be called a slut, which is a bad word.
This morning in half-sleep just before waking up, this topic crossed my mind and I immediately gave an answer to it.
"Coz the slut is probly pregnant."
It's easy to understand why calling someone a stud is a compliment, and the reason for that is that the term alpha-male is very known these days. So people can draw parallels easily. The alpha male is the best male in the herd, so all females want his semen for best possible genetic combination.
But I didn't realize why 'slut' would be a bad, unappealing thing.
Well, it's because if you've witnessed a female getting phyisical with another male, she's probably gonna carry his baby and she's not worth your time. In evolution terms.
One other thing.
Why do women constantly throw little tests at men?
Again, to determine if he's alpha.
The top dog won't look over his shoulder, he will be confident, coz he knows he's superior to all other males out there.
However, we all watched documentaries where we could see a young male dethroning an alpha male (who's perhaps getting old). The old alpha get's insecure and the switch happens, all females go to the new alpha.
So, imo, all this testing it just to keep "up to date", it connects directly to each mans internal indicator of status among other men.
  
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males can have multiple mates and females can't
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As an omega male I find this depressing.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
um...well...i mean yeah..
but...ok...
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more like they woman are betraying their own kind while the men stick together. It's the girls who call each other sluts, and they are the one who sleeps with the stud and increasing his status. But yes, we are still so primitive in alot of ways, but our ability to think and comprehend makes us able to change the way of nature.
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i think its kind of bullshit how slut and stud carry the opposite meanings =/
'sluts' and 'studs' are held in exactly the same regard to me
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On October 24 2009 21:20 niteReloaded wrote:
It's easy to understand why calling someone a stud is a compliment, and the reason for that is that the term alpha-male is very known these days. .
very chauvinist if you ask me. in a society where gender sensitivity is given primacy, it's hardly ideal to stick to a "top dog" mentality.
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On October 24 2009 21:52 JohnColtrane wrote:
i think its kind of bullshit how slut and stud carry the opposite meanings =/
'sluts' and 'studs' are held in exactly the same regard to me
On October 24 2009 22:17 Harpoon wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2009 21:20 niteReloaded wrote:
It's easy to understand why calling someone a stud is a compliment, and the reason for that is that the term alpha-male is very known these days. . very chauvinist if you ask me. in a society where gender sensitivity is given primacy, it's hardly ideal to stick to a "top dog" mentality.
gender instincts were never about whats wise or smart or fair.
You can only learn how they work, and it may actually help understaning that it's nothing to do with chauvinisim, it's just how men and women are hard-wired to operate.
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On October 24 2009 22:17 Harpoon wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2009 21:20 niteReloaded wrote:
It's easy to understand why calling someone a stud is a compliment, and the reason for that is that the term alpha-male is very known these days. . very chauvinist if you ask me. in a society where gender sensitivity is given primacy, it's hardly ideal to stick to a "top dog" mentality. This isn't about, unless i'm misunderstanding, what is ideal in society. Rather, he's explaining why certain mentalities within our society exist.
edit: that being said we should try to surpass our lower, base instincts, and attempt to equalize social norms. "It's the way evolution made us" is a poor excuse for social injustices.
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in this blog the op points out the obvious
edit: fuck I love being a man. sure it's a little harder than being a girl, but you just have so much more potential. fuck yeah
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On October 24 2009 22:30 lazz wrote:
in this blog the op points out the obvious
edit: fuck I love being a man. sure it's a little harder than being a girl, but you just have so much more potential. fuck yeah
some things seem obvious even tho you never thought of them in a way that now seems obvious.
I just explained why 'slut' has a negative conotation.
Were you aware of that?
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On October 24 2009 22:47 niteReloaded wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2009 22:30 lazz wrote:
in this blog the op points out the obvious
edit: fuck I love being a man. sure it's a little harder than being a girl, but you just have so much more potential. fuck yeah some things seem obvious even tho you never thought of them in a way that now seems obvious. I just explained why 'slut' has a negative conotation. Were you aware of that?
Just ignore lazz, he doesn't know what he's talking about. I enjoyed reading about your little realization.
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rubbin' in peoples faces?
It's the truth unfortunately. I never got why guys think that equality is a good thing but not feminism, it's the same thing lol
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On October 24 2009 22:57 Foucault wrote:
rubbin' in peoples faces?
It's the truth unfortunately. I never got why guys think that equality is a good thing but not feminism, it's the same thing lol
Usually, it is not. There are some feminists out there who want to fight for true equality as it is meant to be. Then there's the rest of them who can go take a long walk off a short pier.
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On October 24 2009 21:20 niteReloaded wrote:
you all know about this 'controversy' feminists are often rubbin in people's faces.
The one that says it's discriminating to call a promiscuous male a stud (which is a compliment), while if the same person were female, she'd be called a slut, which is a bad word.
This morning in half-sleep just before waking up, this topic crossed my mind and I immediately gave an answer to it.
"Coz the slut is probly pregnant."
It's easy to understand why calling someone a stud is a compliment, and the reason for that is that the term alpha-male is very known these days. So people can draw parallels easily. The alpha male is the best male in the herd, so all females want his semen for best possible genetic combination.
But I didn't realize why 'slut' would be a bad, unappealing thing.
Well, it's because if you've witnessed a female getting phyisical with another male, she's probably gonna carry his baby and she's not worth your time. In evolution terms.
One other thing.
Why do women constantly throw little tests at men?
Again, to determine if he's alpha.
The top dog won't look over his shoulder, he will be confident, coz he knows he's superior to all other males out there.
However, we all watched documentaries where we could see a young male dethroning an alpha male (who's perhaps getting old). The old alpha get's insecure and the switch happens, all females go to the new alpha.
So, imo, all this testing it just to keep "up to date", it connects directly to each mans internal indicator of status among other men.
Because men have to work to get laid, a woman doesn't.
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On October 24 2009 22:30 lazz wrote:
in this blog the op points out the obvious
edit: fuck I love being a man. sure it's a little harder than being a girl, but you just have so much more potential. fuck yeah
It's a little harder than being a girl?
Whaaaaat?
Girls:
- Have a period
- Have to worry about pregnancy
- Are more susceptible to STDs
- Are still archaically viewed as a "slut" if they're promiscuous like a man
- Are paid, on average, 40% less than a man is for doing the same job worldwide
The only consolation is that they're given an easier ride if they're physically attractive. However, being handed freebies through life typically does not make you a good person.
Can you think of 5 reasons that come EVEN CLOSE to any of those? I tend to bugger off around women because the lot of them are psycho, but on the flipside, they have to deal with a lot more shit than we do.
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haha a guys life is easier then a girls period. anyone who whores themselves out though is pretty sad, whether it be man or woman.
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On October 24 2009 23:48 PokePill wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2009 21:20 niteReloaded wrote:
you all know about this 'controversy' feminists are often rubbin in people's faces.
The one that says it's discriminating to call a promiscuous male a stud (which is a compliment), while if the same person were female, she'd be called a slut, which is a bad word.
This morning in half-sleep just before waking up, this topic crossed my mind and I immediately gave an answer to it.
"Coz the slut is probly pregnant."
It's easy to understand why calling someone a stud is a compliment, and the reason for that is that the term alpha-male is very known these days. So people can draw parallels easily. The alpha male is the best male in the herd, so all females want his semen for best possible genetic combination.
But I didn't realize why 'slut' would be a bad, unappealing thing.
Well, it's because if you've witnessed a female getting phyisical with another male, she's probably gonna carry his baby and she's not worth your time. In evolution terms.
One other thing.
Why do women constantly throw little tests at men?
Again, to determine if he's alpha.
The top dog won't look over his shoulder, he will be confident, coz he knows he's superior to all other males out there.
However, we all watched documentaries where we could see a young male dethroning an alpha male (who's perhaps getting old). The old alpha get's insecure and the switch happens, all females go to the new alpha.
So, imo, all this testing it just to keep "up to date", it connects directly to each mans internal indicator of status among other men. Because men have to work to get laid, a woman doesn't.
That is actually the most simple explanation that explains why being a stud is good but being a slut is bad. +1
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