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On November 27 2011 13:06 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 27 2011 12:47 Silverfoxx wrote:On November 27 2011 07:52 HeavOnEarth wrote:
so i told my dad about how im bi basically even though i haven't experimented with any guys ( gf 3 years =] <3)
all my life my dad has been like hey , only man and woman okay ? man and man *makes a disgusted face*
the moment i told him he instantly accepted it and said "hey ur my son everything is fine" , "mayb i dont change my opinion on other (gay ) people but ur my son, ur alright with me." Hehe, kind of a goofy reaction, but definetly understandable. They do say blood runs thicker than water and there are a lot of people who have bad reactions against gay people, and then start feeling better about it in family. I'm glad he took it so well though. <3 So, question. Have you guys ever wished you were more... feminine? I mean, not a girl. Maybe it's just a grass is always greener kinda thing, but I'm currently 6' tall, 195 pounds,look about 180-190 (bit out of shape. Boo.) And I look very... manly. to the point where you could almost describe me as rugged. But I don't like it. There is too much testosterone coming out of me. X3 But what I WANT to be? I want to be that guy who's like... 5'6, 5'7 (or lower) curvy, feminine characteristics... girly boi-esque. and I don't. at all. x.x Currently the only thing I've done that made me feel any better was switching from antibacterial soap to an exfoliating one. X3 So... uhm... can anyone offer serious solutions? I'm starting a good diet and getting back into more exercise now that break is over but... I feel so... in the wrong body. Not gender-wise, but body-wise. x.x So keep doing what you're doing haha. If you don't like your body. Change your body. I'm the opposite. I feel too feminine and wish I was more rugged. A lot of that is because I look like a freaking 12 year old. I don't shave and I've started wearing less fitted stuff but I still feel too effeminate. You could also like, super style your hair, wear deep deep v-necks, shape your eyebrows, skinny jeans, bright shoes, and I guess you could force a lisp.
Well, I mean, I don't really want to be flamboyant, but just... more feminine, if that makes any sense. XD I know, it doesn't really to me. I try thinking about it and thats the best way to put it. I dunno... I guess I really want to be... treated more girly, if that makes any sense? x.x God thinking about explaining this hurts my brain too. XD
So yes. I am too much of a guy for my own liking. X3. I REALLY need to go get a gay soccer league or something like that, go to a gay bar where I'll get hit on, make me feel less like the one wearing the pants anyways. X3
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On November 27 2011 13:29 Silverfoxx wrote:Show nested quote +On November 27 2011 13:06 Klondikebar wrote:On November 27 2011 12:47 Silverfoxx wrote:On November 27 2011 07:52 HeavOnEarth wrote:
so i told my dad about how im bi basically even though i haven't experimented with any guys ( gf 3 years =] <3)
all my life my dad has been like hey , only man and woman okay ? man and man *makes a disgusted face*
the moment i told him he instantly accepted it and said "hey ur my son everything is fine" , "mayb i dont change my opinion on other (gay ) people but ur my son, ur alright with me." Hehe, kind of a goofy reaction, but definetly understandable. They do say blood runs thicker than water and there are a lot of people who have bad reactions against gay people, and then start feeling better about it in family. I'm glad he took it so well though. <3 So, question. Have you guys ever wished you were more... feminine? I mean, not a girl. Maybe it's just a grass is always greener kinda thing, but I'm currently 6' tall, 195 pounds,look about 180-190 (bit out of shape. Boo.) And I look very... manly. to the point where you could almost describe me as rugged. But I don't like it. There is too much testosterone coming out of me. X3 But what I WANT to be? I want to be that guy who's like... 5'6, 5'7 (or lower) curvy, feminine characteristics... girly boi-esque. and I don't. at all. x.x Currently the only thing I've done that made me feel any better was switching from antibacterial soap to an exfoliating one. X3 So... uhm... can anyone offer serious solutions? I'm starting a good diet and getting back into more exercise now that break is over but... I feel so... in the wrong body. Not gender-wise, but body-wise. x.x So keep doing what you're doing haha. If you don't like your body. Change your body. I'm the opposite. I feel too feminine and wish I was more rugged. A lot of that is because I look like a freaking 12 year old. I don't shave and I've started wearing less fitted stuff but I still feel too effeminate. You could also like, super style your hair, wear deep deep v-necks, shape your eyebrows, skinny jeans, bright shoes, and I guess you could force a lisp. Well, I mean, I don't really want to be flamboyant, but just... more feminine, if that makes any sense. XD I know, it doesn't really to me. I try thinking about it and thats the best way to put it. I dunno... I guess I really want to be... treated more girly, if that makes any sense? x.x God thinking about explaining this hurts my brain too. XD So yes. I am too much of a guy for my own liking. X3. I REALLY need to go get a gay soccer league or something like that, go to a gay bar where I'll get hit on, make me feel less like the one wearing the pants anyways. X3
Ah I see what you mean. Yeah, you definitely need to go and socialize with other gays. You can be the little spoon, let guys grind on you, and hang out with the drag queens.
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On November 27 2011 12:47 Silverfoxx wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On November 27 2011 07:52 HeavOnEarth wrote:
so i told my dad about how im bi basically even though i haven't experimented with any guys ( gf 3 years =] <3)
all my life my dad has been like hey , only man and woman okay ? man and man *makes a disgusted face*
the moment i told him he instantly accepted it and said "hey ur my son everything is fine" , "mayb i dont change my opinion on other (gay ) people but ur my son, ur alright with me." Hehe, kind of a goofy reaction, but definetly understandable. They do say blood runs thicker than water and there are a lot of people who have bad reactions against gay people, and then start feeling better about it in family. I'm glad he took it so well though. <3 So, question. Have you guys ever wished you were more... feminine? I mean, not a girl. Maybe it's just a grass is always greener kinda thing, but I'm currently 6' tall, 195 pounds,look about 180-190 (bit out of shape. Boo.) And I look very... manly. to the point where you could almost describe me as rugged. But I don't like it. There is too much testosterone coming out of me. X3 But what I WANT to be? I want to be that guy who's like... 5'6, 5'7 (or lower) curvy, feminine characteristics... girly boi-esque. and I don't. at all. x.x Currently the only thing I've done that made me feel any better was switching from antibacterial soap to an exfoliating one. X3 So... uhm... can anyone offer serious solutions? I'm starting a good diet and getting back into more exercise now that break is over but... I feel so... in the wrong body. Not gender-wise, but body-wise. x.x
Dress like a Korean. :3
Shave, keep your hair short-medium length, and use a wax instead of a gel to style it. Just in general keep yourself well groomed, acne medication, or whatever you need to keep clear skin. Exercise, and don't eat like me (pizza *drool*).
Also, being short isn't that cool. I don't think I would want to be taller, I'm portioned fairly well and it would be odd if I was any taller, but there are drawbacks to being as short as I am (5'6/5'7). -.-
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Hehe, Dress like a korean. XD I do need to let my hair grow out a bit more and I NEVER style it... I guess that's a start. I dunno. It also doesn't help that I feel so... out of place in clubs and bars or anything. x.x I mean, I'm not exactly one to be hanging out... I always have to be doing something with my hands (Perverts.  ) or I just feel... bored and out of place. Also, alcohol tastes horrible to me. X3 Also, Mora mentioned something about a gay soccer club either back a few pages of the thread, or in a PM with me. (oops, airing personal stuff. Too bad. Mora <3.) Any idea how to even get STARTED in talking about something like that as well? Sorry, I'm just so... lost in the gay scene still. XD <3
It also feels kinda weird to be discussing this because 2 people KNOW I frequent this thread and may be checking for things to see what's up with me. And here I am spilling not-secrets that I probably wouldn't tell them unless they asked. XD Hi Ed, Hi Alex. <3
Also, thankies, love ya all! ^^
Edit: also, if someone wants messengers to talk on since im rarely if ever on SC2, PM me and i'll send them to you. ^-^
<3'sies.
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On November 26 2011 04:22 Silverfoxx wrote:
This thread not on the front page? Blasphemy!
Question: Anyone been in a weird situation with family? not the coming out part, but afterwards?
Decided I'd tell my mother's side of the family (Very liberal and supportive) about it and not my fathers side of the family (Very republican, not supportive.) Both sides of the family coming together for turkey day dinner? I was so expecting some kind of disaster and yelling... especially since alcohol was involved (though not as much as usual).
Everything turned out great though. ^-^ But im curious, any of you been in kinda goofy weird situations like that?
You handled the whole thing as cool as can be. I on the other hand ... was visibly worried, but it turned out to be the most welcoming and amazing Thanksgiving.
Also, Gaybar. Missed opportunity. ; -;
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On November 27 2011 12:47 Silverfoxx wrote:Show nested quote +On November 27 2011 07:52 HeavOnEarth wrote:
so i told my dad about how im bi basically even though i haven't experimented with any guys ( gf 3 years =] <3)
all my life my dad has been like hey , only man and woman okay ? man and man *makes a disgusted face*
the moment i told him he instantly accepted it and said "hey ur my son everything is fine" , "mayb i dont change my opinion on other (gay ) people but ur my son, ur alright with me." Hehe, kind of a goofy reaction, but definetly understandable. They do say blood runs thicker than water and there are a lot of people who have bad reactions against gay people, and then start feeling better about it in family. I'm glad he took it so well though. <3 So, question. Have you guys ever wished you were more... feminine? I mean, not a girl. Maybe it's just a grass is always greener kinda thing, but I'm currently 6' tall, 195 pounds,look about 180-190 (bit out of shape. Boo.) And I look very... manly. to the point where you could almost describe me as rugged. But I don't like it. There is too much testosterone coming out of me. X3 But what I WANT to be? I want to be that guy who's like... 5'6, 5'7 (or lower) curvy, feminine characteristics... girly boi-esque. and I don't. at all. x.x Currently the only thing I've done that made me feel any better was switching from antibacterial soap to an exfoliating one. X3 So... uhm... can anyone offer serious solutions? I'm starting a good diet and getting back into more exercise now that break is over but... I feel so... in the wrong body. Not gender-wise, but body-wise. x.x
but your body type sound h0t
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On November 27 2011 18:07 ppterodactyl wrote:
but your body type sound h0t
The grass is always greener on the other side, my friend. I'm sure if I WERE small I'd wish I were big. but I do really wish I were small. Getting thrown around is only fun when it's not a game of watch your boyfriend take 5 seconds to pick you up and then drop you back on your feet afterwards. :3
And yes, when having fun with my friends, I do enjoy throwing them onto couches. :D
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On November 27 2011 12:47 Silverfoxx wrote:
So, question. Have you guys ever wished you were more... feminine? I mean, not a girl. Maybe it's just a grass is always greener kinda thing, but I'm currently 6' tall, 195 pounds,look about 180-190 (bit out of shape. Boo.) And I look very... manly. to the point where you could almost describe me as rugged. But I don't like it. There is too much testosterone coming out of me. X3 But what I WANT to be? I want to be that guy who's like... 5'6, 5'7 (or lower) curvy, feminine characteristics... girly boi-esque. and I don't. at all. x.x
Yeah, we are pretty similar, and I felt the same way in college. I guess it had something to do with being surrounded by smart, attractive teenage boys, haha . . . Anyway, I somehow grew out of that, and now I'm just comfortable with my body (except for getting out of shape now lol TT). So I can't really offer any advice except to say that this seems fairly normal.
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Hey if I'm possibly, maybe, could be.. a lesbian, is this the place for me?
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Yes indeedy AnYvia, all are welcome but the trolls. Just remember, most of us are guys so it will kinda be talk about male uncomfortable experiences and questions and good things, but there's a good chunk that overlaps and hopefully another girl will show up in here to give another female perspective. (at least one anyways. <3)
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*sigh* I don't know what it is with me! I will go on a tear and win like 7 games in a row and then I lose like 13 in a row  I know I probably rocket up my MMR and then it gets pulled back down but I'd like it if I was at least trending up and getting better.
1 step forward, two steps back, one very sad sad z-snap.
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Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha.
Now Brandon, stop reading this thread.
Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3
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...Well. Saves you the trouble of figuring out how to tell him at least GDR. XD
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On November 28 2011 14:07 GDR wrote:Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha. Now Brandon, stop reading this thread. Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3
Brandon,
Alternatively you could keep reading this thread and tell us all the hilarious and embarrassing stories you know about GDR.
I'd be up for some customs later this week. I actually just read the thread in general about watching too many streams and I think I might be watching too many. I always have one on in the background at work so I end up watching 40+ hours of stream a week. If watching too many streams hurts your gameplay, I'm murdering mine.
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On November 28 2011 14:07 GDR wrote:Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha. Now Brandon, stop reading this thread. Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3
stalker
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On November 28 2011 14:07 GDR wrote:Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha. Now Brandon, stop reading this thread. Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3
the more important issue is: whos higher ranked?
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On November 28 2011 16:12 adrenaLinG wrote:Show nested quote +On November 28 2011 14:07 GDR wrote:Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha. Now Brandon, stop reading this thread. Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3 the more important issue is: whos higher ranked?
Hes rank 18... I'm rank 98 with 0 games played. Hes got me beat! Well, he would if Platinum was equal to Masters and 300+ games where equal to 0.
And yeah, I guess this way is easier for me. Too bad I don't think he knows any embarrassing stories -- just tales about my stupidity. I mean if you can really call it stupidity... People who wear jackets in December are just pussies in my opinion.
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On November 28 2011 16:16 GDR wrote:Show nested quote +On November 28 2011 16:12 adrenaLinG wrote:On November 28 2011 14:07 GDR wrote:Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha. Now Brandon, stop reading this thread. Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3 the more important issue is: whos higher ranked? Hes rank 18... I'm rank 98 with 0 games played. Hes got me beat! Well, he would if Platinum was equal to Masters and 300+ games where equal to 0. And yeah, I guess this way is easier for me. Too bad I don't think he knows any embarrassing stories -- just tales about my stupidity. I mean if you can really call it stupidity... People who wear jackets in December are just pussies in my opinion.
yeah i meant league he cant make fun of you now for being gay since youre owning him at starcraft >
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On November 28 2011 16:18 adrenaLinG wrote:Show nested quote +On November 28 2011 16:16 GDR wrote:On November 28 2011 16:12 adrenaLinG wrote:On November 28 2011 14:07 GDR wrote:Apparently my brother tracked down my TeamLiquid account, and read this thread. Well, now he knows, haha. Now Brandon, stop reading this thread. Klondike I'm sorry. You can play customs against me if you want! :3 the more important issue is: whos higher ranked? Hes rank 18... I'm rank 98 with 0 games played. Hes got me beat! Well, he would if Platinum was equal to Masters and 300+ games where equal to 0. And yeah, I guess this way is easier for me. Too bad I don't think he knows any embarrassing stories -- just tales about my stupidity. I mean if you can really call it stupidity... People who wear jackets in December are just pussies in my opinion. yeah i meant league he cant make fun of you now for being gay since youre owning him at starcraft >
Well, I think I posted 50 odd pages back (or in another thread) how I thought he would feel. I said something along the line of, "My bother probably wouldn't really care if I came out as gay - he would just be mad at me for being better at Starcraft." Not those exact words but you get the point. It was just funny because he said he read a few posts, only 3-4, and that was one of them. His response was, "That is pretty much exactly how I feel."
I found it pretty funny, haha.
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