OMG being heartbroken is one of the most horribly things that can happen to anyone... i know your situation.. sucks as hell, i was cheated twice fuck women... you need to have dignity, pride and honor, do not let her play with you, not caring how much you love her, i waited for a year for a girl and in the end she told me to fuck off..... no breaks, no time IS NOW OR NEVER, yu have to use absolutes here, you have to use determinism, if not, you will get screwed, and she willb e happy with this nerd looser or whoever comes next, i dont know you, but you are worth a lot, and that is for the patience and the love you have for her, but do not confuse this love that can later on lead you in a big ass depression, if she DOES KISSES THIS guy, then its time to... put an end to this.. best of luck

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

May 20 2005 01:38 GMT

#63

leave her now, wtf, dont wait for her to kiss the guy, WTF WTF big mistake if u wait, do it now!!! NOW!

Tien

Russian Federation4447 Posts

May 20 2005 02:06 GMT

#64

You poor bastard.

I can see throughout this thread your heart is being eaten alive.

Hope this works out well for you. It probably will though, I don't think you should worry about it too much, this guy is a nobody.

Ghin

United States2391 Posts

May 20 2005 02:12 GMT

#65

On May 20 2005 10:28 Ceril wrote:

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That would be so awesome...

I've done that, it doesn't make you feel much better. Not to mention what's extra on the sandwich...

schooled_bc

141 Posts

May 20 2005 02:18 GMT

#66

Quit being an idiot, and dump her. your letting her push you around like a little boy. Your so whipped at this point its gonna eat you forever if you dont do it. She's just hoping that she can do whatever she wants, and using the 4 letter word as an excuse for you to take her back after. Dont trust a crying girl. EVER! Its 90% bullshit. The fact that she'd even kiss another guy while your on your "break" is just rediculous. Unbelievable. I know how you feel though, i've been in a VERY similiar position, and I regret taking her back. Still do... shhhhh

Go out have fun, and enjoy your young life.

Sean.G

Spain889 Posts

May 20 2005 03:07 GMT

#67

You should forget about her now, and just tell her it's already over. TRUST ME you will thank me (and the others who share my opinion) later in your life, may it be tomorrow, or may it be in a couple of years.

Seriously, if she even told you she would KISS the guy.. I mean.. good lord.. when a girl even CONSIDERS kissing another guy, it's OBVIOUS she doesn't love you enough to be in a relationship with you.

Even if she comes back, her love for you won't be as strong as your love for her, which would make the relationship imba. Nope, it won't work.

Just let go, I know it's hard, but hey.. as I said, you'll feel great about it after you've given it some time. If you don't realize it now, you'll realize later it was the right thing to do.

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 03:33 GMT

#68

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OhThatDang

United States4685 Posts

May 20 2005 04:48 GMT

#69

damnit...rich....boyle...--;
well hopefully you get her back

8882

2718 Posts

May 20 2005 05:47 GMT

#70

On May 20 2005 08:18 FlavOrs wrote:
"Who's more attractive?"
Shelley : "You"
Me: "Who do you see yourself with?"
Shelley : "You, I can see me raising kids with you."
Me: "Wtf is the problem then?"
Shelley : "I need to make sure that you're the one for me, things haven't been going to good lately"
Me: "This guys a fucking joke, he works at fast food and he's 21."
Shelley: "I know."

maybe he doesn't use the f word all the time
it pisses off many girls

I'd advise something, but I don't know what you should do.

[X]Ken_D

United States4650 Posts

May 20 2005 06:43 GMT

#71

It is understandable that you are mad as you should be. However, with that attitude, no wonder she question if you are the right person for her. Looks and money isn't everything. Have you try asking yourself what does the other guy do that you don't do? Maybe you should try doing it too.

Revlett

United States61 Posts

May 20 2005 10:23 GMT

#72

Not to sound too harsh or anything, but taking a "break" means she wants to go fuck around with someone. My ex and I took a "break" at one point before I moved away to college because she wasn't sure she loved me or whatever. I figured it was some other guy, which I later found out to be true. After I officially broke it off completely, she wanted me back, but I wouldn't take her back as much as I wanted to. My advice is to get rid of her and stay far, far away no matter how much it hurts.

Casper...

Liberia4948 Posts

May 20 2005 12:22 GMT

#73

psst
she's been fucking that guy the whole time haha

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 12:50 GMT

#74

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Manifesto7

Osaka27121 Posts

May 20 2005 12:58 GMT

#75

Get on msn rich.

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 13:08 GMT

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ZaplinG

United States3818 Posts

May 20 2005 13:23 GMT

#77

Y o u r i n h i g h s c h o o l (the end of it, anyway) Dont base your life around someone else. Its too early. Drop it like its hot and enjoy yourself.

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 13:27 GMT

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lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 13:28 GMT

#79

Uh ok, it's 12:22 AM. She hasn't texted me saying whether or not she likes him. I'm assuming she does. This sucks, really does fucking suck.

Zorglub1

Denmark532 Posts

May 20 2005 13:38 GMT

#80

dude i feel for you, but you have to let her go. If she doesnt like this guy she will soon find another one she likes and as long as your sucking up to her she will disrespect you.... The only way you will have a chance is to be a cold bastard towards her, but then again you shouldnt even want to have her back after this...