ive been in the same situation with a girl from work , u find they fuck around early then when they are older they come back to you when they realise u can provide/care/look after them and love them more then any other.

its jus that u wish they were that way now

Sean.G

Spain889 Posts

May 19 2005 23:57 GMT

#43

Let's get one thing straight. you're not supposed to let her "try out" other people to see whether they're better thank you or not. It's either you, or not you. tell her to fucking make a decision, you're not a doll.

best of luck

BloodBath

United States409 Posts

May 20 2005 00:04 GMT

#44

sounds to me like she is young and she wants to hook up with more guys and stuff before she commits big to someone, i say tell her its over (seeing as how she said she doesnt want to lose you) have her see what it feels like. also find the ugliest bitch you can find to carry on your arm and show off to her. if this doesnt work get over it, nothing else you can do , sorry man.

Wizzra

Netherlands514 Posts

May 20 2005 00:13 GMT

#45

On May 20 2005 08:18 FlavOrs wrote:
"Who's more attractive?"
Shelley : "You"
Me: "Who do you see yourself with?"
Shelley : "You, I can see me raising kids with you."
Me: "Wtf is the problem then?"
Shelley : "I need to make sure that you're the one for me, things haven't been going to good lately"
Me: "This guys a fucking joke, he works at fast food and he's 21."
Shelley: "I know."

You shouldn't have to compare you to other guys about such things, because love is nothing rational. If the other guy were rich and goodlooking, then you would've given up already because he's better 'fit' for her?

You should make it clear to her that what she's doing is unacceptable for you. Be stern even if it goes against your feelings for this once. If she really loves you, she'll comes back to you and realize she can't miss you and she'll like you more because you showed you're a 'real' man. Then you can be sweet to her again, and your relationship will be even better. And the other way around, if she has been losing her feelings for you, now she has an opportunity to get it out. Then you know where you stand.

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:15 GMT

#46

i think everybody know what is my option about.
girls = lie
starcraft = even bigger lie

and life is so damn shitty somedays...
will i get just a little fun and luck in my life ever ?
i am pesimist because my life is soooooooo badddd and FlavOrs,that is nothing u will be happy if u know my situations in my 'normal' week

So if u have someone to fuck - fuck it cool
If u have someone to hate - hate it forever cuz stupit people in big groups making shits that stay forever on you (like my parents)

exalted

United States3612 Posts

May 20 2005 00:28 GMT

#47

Haha, don't mind Girlzsux, he's just "about to break" with his emo spirit.

Seriously, attraction is not a choice, you can't "force" her to like or dislike this guy, what you need to be prepared for is just to drop her, becuase it's useless to "force" feelings on other people - especially women, who are more emotional than men - men will date a woman becuase they are at least good for sex, but women if they're into a guy, it's almost hopeless to get with her.

Tons of single women out there, sounds like you are getting too "attached" to her (in comparison to her to you) and as assholish as it sounds, you shouldn't care so much - sometimes I feel that Reese's way of dealing with girls is the least compassionate but most effective - it's obvious that that kind of attitude is killer when dealing with females, everyone wants what they can't have, and we all have an insane attraction for those who are cool, aren't afraid to say their opinion, bust out on you and are cool about it, but at the same time you're not sure if they really like you or not.

exalted

United States3612 Posts

May 20 2005 00:30 GMT

#48

Is she your first girlfriend? Quite frankly, how do YOU know she's the one for you? Getting engaged right out of highschool is really not the right idea, and you seem to just be willing to dump your life for her when the feeling does not seem to be mutual, when you say you both love each other "you a little more", that is a gigantic understatement.

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:36 GMT

#49

i just wanna know why i am unlucky and bad things happent to me any time.my father beat me and my mother

(((((
what can i do ?
i cant sucess in nothing because of this

lastprobeALIVE

United States974 Posts

May 20 2005 00:46 GMT

#50

Ok, If she does go to this party tonight, and likes the guy. I asked, "would you kiss him if you liked him?". She said yes she would. That hurts me, because in my mind kissing is very romantic. Shoudl I drop her completely if she kisses this guy?

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:47 GMT

#51

yes and kill the bitch !!!

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 20 2005 00:49 GMT

#52

--- Nuked ---

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:50 GMT

#53

u must be so damn freak if she kisses the guy
i have idea - why dont u first fuck her and afhter this kill with naked hands !!!

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:51 GMT

#54

is this good idea guys ??

lastprobeALIVE

United States974 Posts

May 20 2005 00:52 GMT

#55

Man 7 hours of work is going to be really really fucking tough. Me stressing out that she kissed/likes him is going to tear me apart. Thanks for the advice guys. I just talked to her online, and it got no where. I really just have to drop it and live on. If she comes back, hey she comes back, but other than that I have to really suck it up, and be a man.

Ceril

Sweden1343 Posts

May 20 2005 00:53 GMT

#56

If things get realy bad ask around to borrow a cold beer and a bicycle lock...

Seriously, a break does not include flirting with others and possibly kissing++ them, they are for silent meditation(^_^) on your feelings, quite often you might just need a little breather to be away for awhile to remember what it feels like to miss the one you love... Not humping the first girl/guy that comes along in a haystack.

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:55 GMT

#57

nooooooo u must kill the bitch right now !!!!
if u know where she lives do it at the night and today !!!
dont wait - if not now she will die afther years but what is realy matter when ? just kill it and the connection between you and she will be broken forever!
am i right ?
answer me !

lil.sis

China4650 Posts

May 20 2005 01:23 GMT

#58

On May 20 2005 08:18 FlavOrs wrote:
Me: "This guys a fucking joke, he works at fast food and he's 21."
Shelley: "I know."

ROFL

Dude if nothing else you should show up at his job and make him make you a sandwich

Ceril

Sweden1343 Posts

May 20 2005 01:28 GMT

#59

On May 20 2005 10:23 lil.sis wrote:

Show nested quote +

ROFL

Dude if nothing else you should show up at his job and make him make you a sandwich

That would be so awesome...

Clutch3

United States1344 Posts

May 20 2005 01:33 GMT

#60

On May 20 2005 09:52 FlavOrs wrote:
Man 7 hours of work is going to be really really fucking tough. Me stressing out that she kissed/likes him is going to tear me apart. Thanks for the advice guys. I just talked to her online, and it got no where. I really just have to drop it and live on. If she comes back, hey she comes back, but other than that I have to really suck it up, and be a man.

Good for you. You probably feel like crap now but, as someone said, time heals all wounds.