EPTDating: How's your luck? - Page 464
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
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Bongy
Denmark151 Posts
On May 07 2014 21:46 Ideal26 wrote: So say you hit it off really well with someone, go on several dates, everything seems just perfect and you both decide that you'd like this to develop into a real relationship. In all the talking you did, for some reason age didn't come up until after this decision... and then it comes up and you learn there's a 10 year gap. We're both grad students so that usually puts you within 4-5 years of each other, so that's what I assumed. What opinions do you all have on age differences? Age is just a number, yeah? Even if that number is bigger than you're comfortable with, it shouldn't be a deciding factor as to whether or not you keep seeing someone... right? Personally I would only question the desire for kids and when. Older women might want them earlier than you have planned in your mind. | ||
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TwiggyWan
France334 Posts
On May 08 2014 22:43 chadissilent wrote: The strangest thing I've ever heard from a girl in bed is "you're so much bigger than my boyfriend." It has happened on multiple occasions too. Other times girls just tell me they have a boyfriend right away, I make it clear I'm not hitting on them, and we usually talk for a bit. Thanks that just made my day D: And thanks for your insight Six, i do believe I'm like you now. Also even if you're not hitting on girls i'd assume she would bring the bf status in the conversation to make things clear? | ||
KwarK
United States43464 Posts
On May 08 2014 22:43 chadissilent wrote: The strangest thing I've ever heard from a girl in bed is "you're so much bigger than my boyfriend." It has happened on multiple occasions too. Other times girls just tell me they have a boyfriend right away, I make it clear I'm not hitting on them, and we usually talk for a bit. Not to ruin it for you but 90% chance that if she says that she's left her phone on speaker on a call to him and he's jacking it off on the other end. | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On May 08 2014 23:57 KwarK wrote: Not to ruin it for you but 90% chance that if she says that she's left her phone on speaker on a call to him and he's jacking it off on the other end. How does that thought even enter your mind? Why would ANYONE in the entire world jack off to something that unpleasant? I'd rather get water boarded than listening to my GF (if I had one) get fucked. | ||
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KwarK
United States43464 Posts
On May 09 2014 00:32 SixStrings wrote: How does that thought even enter your mind? Why would ANYONE in the entire world jack off to something that unpleasant? I'd rather get water boarded than listening to my GF (if I had one) get fucked. Because it's not your thing. You'd probably also not like to suck a dick but some people like that. I ain't judgin'. But seriously, that shit is pretty popular. | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
On May 09 2014 00:40 KwarK wrote: Because it's not your thing. You'd probably also not like to suck a dick but some people like that. I ain't judgin'. But seriously, that shit is pretty popular. lay of the porn kwark | ||
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KwarK
United States43464 Posts
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VayneAuthority
United States8983 Posts
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
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WombaT
Northern Ireland26225 Posts
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Chocolate
United States2350 Posts
On May 09 2014 02:15 KwarK wrote: I'm not especially into cuckolding porn, I just have a working knowledge of fetishes. If a girl is suddenly humiliating her boyfriend out of nowhere with no provocation from you and he isn't present you gotta ask yourself "who is this for?" "why would she think I'd be getting something out of this?" etc. It's for him. It is actually hilarious that you think that this is actually a popular and prevalent thing in real life. Of course it exists, but I find it much more likely that these girls are just trying to make the guy feel good, or at least better than someone else. I mean come on. Sometimes you just have to apply the isthiscrazy test to things. In this case, we get a yes | ||
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KwarK
United States43464 Posts
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WombaT
Northern Ireland26225 Posts
That said there does appear to be no relation whatsoever between sexual proclivities and peoples' personalities, so go nuts I guess. Actually when I say 'no relation' I tell a lie, but it doesn't seem something that you would be able to make an accurate guess on. | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On May 09 2014 10:32 chadissilent wrote: Not to ruin it for you but I know that is 100% not the case. It was just said in the heat of the moment as I was smashing them like a champ. Now isn't that an uplifting message for all the youngsters coming here for dating advice. "Boys, whoever she is, she will trade a lifetime of love and happiness with you for a night with a well hung stranger." | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
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furymonkey
New Zealand1587 Posts
On May 09 2014 10:52 SixStrings wrote: Now isn't that an uplifting message for all the youngsters coming here for dating advice. "Boys, whoever she is, she will trade a lifetime of love and happiness with you for a night with a well hung stranger." Rofl. Personally I know what KwarK suggesting isn't far-fetched. Me myself know, and have heard a few couples that are into that sort of things, mostly on the requested of the male. Some don't go as far as actual cheating, it can simply be female saying humiliating stuff while they are doing their business. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On May 09 2014 13:39 chadissilent wrote: Here's the takeaway message: Girls love sex just as much as guys, sometimes even more. They're just not allowed to admit it due to societal norms. Liking sex is not the same thing as cheating, which is what he was talking about. | ||
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