EPTI'm sure they are more tired of being ogled than flattered.
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ComaDose
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I'm sure they are more tired of being ogled than flattered. | ||
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gedatsu
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On October 25 2013 03:28 ComaDose wrote: your old manager was an idiot, being male doesn't make you a caveman and its not your job to objectify women. I'm sure they are more tired of being ogled than flattered. Women are always tired of being ogled when it's the wrong men checking them out, and always flattered when it is the right men. | ||
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ComaDose
Canada10357 Posts
On October 25 2013 04:47 gedatsu wrote: Women are always tired of being ogled when it's the wrong men checking them out, and always flattered when it is the right men. people are always flattered to get attention from people they are attracted to. | ||
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dAPhREAk
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gedatsu
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On October 25 2013 04:48 ComaDose wrote: people are always flattered to get attention from people they are attracted to. That's what I said. | ||
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ComaDose
Canada10357 Posts
yeah you just threw some generalization by gender and sexuality in there for some reason. | ||
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Qpid
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farvacola
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Najda
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On October 25 2013 05:19 Qpid wrote: Well, Lets see, When I was 19. I met a girl in the mall. Her name was Michelle. Married her 3 days later because I was military. LOL. She and I became friends but she fell inlove with me and I wanted to deploy. So, I never instigated it while sleeping with her. She slept with a guy I worked with and then thought she could sleep with me in my bed.... I put the bed in the living room, Pulled my couch into my room. Let her have the bed. I slept in my room on my couch. Had PT at 4:30am. Didnt get back to 6pmish. We had a talk. Decided we wanted to be together if we spent some time actually getting to know eachother more. Well, With out the details. Im a full custodial father, Who owns a house in New jersey, My wife and her boyfriend lives with me while they have their child. Tell me about commitment issues. Um what...? I hope this isn't real. | ||
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Derrida
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IgnE
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Chemist391
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Kenpachi
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On October 25 2013 05:19 Qpid wrote: Well, Lets see, When I was 19. I met a girl in the mall. Her name was Michelle. Married her 3 days later because I was military. LOL. She and I became friends but she fell inlove with me and I wanted to deploy. So, I never instigated it while sleeping with her. She slept with a guy I worked with and then thought she could sleep with me in my bed.... I put the bed in the living room, Pulled my couch into my room. Let her have the bed. I slept in my room on my couch. Had PT at 4:30am. Didnt get back to 6pmish. We had a talk. Decided we wanted to be together if we spent some time actually getting to know eachother more. Well, With out the details. Im a full custodial father, Who owns a house in New jersey, My wife and her boyfriend lives with me while they have their child. Tell me about commitment issues. wot | ||
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Vain
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Maybe it sounds worse than it is?though i have no idea how  | ||
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Aerisky
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On October 25 2013 05:19 Qpid wrote: Well, Lets see, When I was 19. I met a girl in the mall. Her name was Michelle. Married her 3 days later because I was military. LOL. She and I became friends but she fell inlove with me and I wanted to deploy. So, I never instigated it while sleeping with her. She slept with a guy I worked with and then thought she could sleep with me in my bed.... I put the bed in the living room, Pulled my couch into my room. Let her have the bed. I slept in my room on my couch. Had PT at 4:30am. Didnt get back to 6pmish. We had a talk. Decided we wanted to be together if we spent some time actually getting to know eachother more. Well, With out the details. Im a full custodial father, Who owns a house in New jersey, My wife and her boyfriend lives with me while they have their child. Tell me about commitment issues. Jesus Crucifixion-Gangbang Christ that sounds horrible. How do you get up in the morning without stabbing him, or yourself for that matter? I feel terrible when I hear my 'crush' having a guy over, but neither am I married to her, nor is she my baby-momma. I can't even imagine what you go through. My deepest sympathy, my brother from another mother. | ||
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Maski
Germany335 Posts
Short background on me: + Show Spoiler + 22 years old, student (junior year), gamer, doing lots of sports (running and gym), shy, never had a girlfriend So I am currently studying abroad in the US and I met this awesome Swedish girl who is not just beyond beautiful and smart, but also down-to-earth, good hearted and funny. We hang out a lot and go on trips (traveling, sightseeing) and I am pretty sure I entered the friendzone already. Since she is just here for one semester, she will leave in less than two months (I stay longer). I am totally into her, despite telling me again and again that I should just leave it and it's not going to happen. However, the heart is always stronger than the brain and so I feel totally shitty about myself. I have no idea how to make a move on women (trust me, it's really bad, I am so desperate). I suck at small talk so I usually just get to know women when I meet them in a class or, like this time, in my program, so we can get to know each other on a casual basis first and then I start falling for them once I know they have a good character, but this also means I always end up as just a friend. Like I said, I'm bad at moves or even reading the signs women send so I never know how to make it clear that I have feelings, because I am always afraid that I would make it awkward once it's out there. I don't even know what to expect in this case here, since I am not looking for casual sex, but rather reciprocal intimacy and affection. So since she is here for just 2 more months, that would make it so fucking complicated... I just don't know what to do right know since this is all I can think about all the time and this really hurts the otherwise great experience of studying abroad. On the other hand, I don't want to let another opportunity go just because I am too fucking shy and cowardly to take a chance... Please, please, help me guys!! What should I do? Just suck it up, spend two more months knowing that I am an idiot or try my luck with the risk of making it weird and awkward for the next month? And if I try, how should I even do it? I have no idea.... | ||
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