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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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farvacola
United States18843 Posts
On September 13 2013 02:57 Mortal wrote: how's about you swing your way down to Portland? actually no, I'll make the drive. Lol, so I take it the rumors about Portland's dating scene have a token of truth? Hiking boot city?  | ||
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
On September 13 2013 02:53 farvacola wrote: Well since you don't want to be a dick about it, just be honest. Say that you do want to know, as it sounds like you value her friendship, and then say that you aren't looking to date around right now. :D, if you come round Seattle ill be your wingman dawg. Let me tag along so i can take notes on how to be a wingman. I'll go incognito with my trench coat and fake glasses, I'll even bring my spy notebook and invisible ink so no one will suspect anything... | ||
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farvacola
United States18843 Posts
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Mortal
2943 Posts
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KaiserKieran
United States615 Posts
good? | ||
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
On September 13 2013 03:16 KaiserKieran wrote: I still like you as a friend either way. good? I want to keep you as a friend is better imo. | ||
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KaiserKieran
United States615 Posts
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Mortal
2943 Posts
On September 13 2013 03:06 MysteryMeat1 wrote: Let me tag along so i can take notes on how to be a wingman. I'll go incognito with my trench coat and fake glasses, I'll even bring my spy notebook and invisible ink so no one will suspect anything... funny thing is, that's everyone in Portland. so much so that you'll stand out being so inconspicuous. meta. | ||
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farvacola
United States18843 Posts
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KaiserKieran
United States615 Posts
GOD THIS THREAD IS AWESOME | ||
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PooLsharK
Germany179 Posts
![[image loading]](http://s1.directupload.net/images/130912/u69w3d27.jpg) User was warned for this post | ||
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Mortal
2943 Posts
On September 13 2013 03:45 farvacola wrote: Just do not wear crocs mm1. Unless you're secretly Mario Batali, in which case I'm sure it'll work out fine. i might be mario batali. | ||
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kaykaykay
Singapore637 Posts
On September 12 2013 23:16 kaykaykay wrote: So this girl i like in school, ( she's 18. real athlete type, swims, tennis and just gives people the "I'm always improving" vibe which i find really attractive. ) During the holidays, we went out together in a group once, we had fun and everything and i tried to escalate things from there. However when school started, she has her own group of friends and I kinda botched things with a letter. She said she lost the letter I wrote asking her out which I find it hard to believe hahaha I might be wrong though. today we met up for some extra curricular activities and during the exercise, we had to write each other letters. She tells me to continue being mysterious, knowledgeable and confident, that I'm reliable. ( yes I help her too damn much, she's the president of my club ) how would you carry on from here? I'm trying to encourage more communication between us because I find that lacking sorely.. Advice keenly needed. | ||
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VayneAuthority
United States8983 Posts
how do you get across to a guy that you are just studying and having coffee as friends and not as a date what is the general consensus oh tL citizens | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
Just ask her out in person. Though the letter was a nice idea and a lot of girls would find that really sweet and charming. Asking in person shows more confidence and you're gonna have to deal with her eventually. Just get her alone for like 3-5min and then just go for it. You can go from there depending on her response and how she reacts. Ask her to go do something together or just straight up ask her to be your gf haha. Haven't been in highschool for awhile but more than a few HS relationships I knew of started pretty bluntly lol. | ||
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
On September 13 2013 11:47 VayneAuthority wrote: asking for a girl friend how do you get across to a guy that you are just studying and having coffee as friends and not as a date what is the general consensus oh tL citizens I don't think you can really go for coffee with a guy(or vice versa, whichever way you swing for whichever gender) and not have it at least somewhat assumed there is something more. I'd just straight up say it, but I lack tact as a matter of fact. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On September 13 2013 11:47 VayneAuthority wrote: asking for a girl friend how do you get across to a guy that you are just studying and having coffee as friends and not as a date what is the general consensus oh tL citizens I think it's pretty clear that it won't be a date as long as studying is the focus of your meeting. If I were to ask a girl to study with me over cofee or whatever I wouldnt think of it as a date but rather to get to know her better to decide if I wanted to date her, and then ask more directly to hang out. | ||
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biology]major
United States2253 Posts
On September 13 2013 11:47 VayneAuthority wrote: asking for a girl friend how do you get across to a guy that you are just studying and having coffee as friends and not as a date what is the general consensus oh tL citizens do the worst thing you can to him, treat him as a brother | ||
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Jonoman92
United States9105 Posts
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
On September 13 2013 12:51 Jonoman92 wrote: Tinder is out for Android now! Gonna give this a go. Oh fuk LOL. I feel like this could be the beginning of some terribly hilarious thread stories. | ||
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