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On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so.
This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel.
Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it.
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On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it.
oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires?
EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want."
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On September 12 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it. oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires? EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want."
..and that, in your mind, means condoning rape?
It doesn't. It just means that people aren't always honest about their desires, even with themselves.
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On September 12 2013 23:57 Killscreen wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it. oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires? EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want." ..and that, in your mind, means condoning rape? It doesn't. It just means that people aren't always honest about their desires, even with themselves.
pretty sure if someone says no it means no
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On September 12 2013 23:57 Killscreen wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it. oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires? EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want." ..and that, in your mind, means condoning rape? It doesn't. It just means that people aren't always honest about their desires, even with themselves.
No, he's specifically saying that, based on the tiny bit of info available, he knows that this woman wants to have sex. The stupidity in that ought to be self-evident.
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On September 12 2013 23:57 ComaDose wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 23:57 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it. oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires? EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want." ..and that, in your mind, means condoning rape? It doesn't. It just means that people aren't always honest about their desires, even with themselves. pretty sure if someone says no it means no
Yeah, it doesn't necessarily. Common misconception.
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On September 13 2013 00:02 Killscreen wrote:Show nested quote +On September 12 2013 23:57 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:57 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it. oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires? EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want." ..and that, in your mind, means condoning rape? It doesn't. It just means that people aren't always honest about their desires, even with themselves. pretty sure if someone says no it means no Yeah, it doesn't necessarily. Common misconception.
stay away from my family
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Gosh, never have I felt so accomplished in regards to having gotten legitimate yes's from the women I've slept with. Thanks Cloud and Killscreen!
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On September 13 2013 00:03 ComaDose wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:02 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:57 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:57 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:48 ComaDose wrote:On September 12 2013 23:37 Killscreen wrote:On September 12 2013 23:00 farvacola wrote:
Nah, your delicate sensibilities are not my concern, and when PUA attitudes combine with teenage ignorance and a gross older man, I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Cloud regularly gives terrible, ill founded advice that oftentimes reads like the back cover of some sticky book on gaming women. If that's the sort of dating world you want to live in, fine. Just don't get hissy when others find it in bad taste and are willing to say so. This is just more judgmental prejudice. There is not a single rational argument among all that drivel. Your personal taste really isn't relevant here, but yeah, really brave of you to share it. oh aye his judgmental prejudice was don't rape people mate you just jumped on the age he mentioned to defend your desires? EDIT: "You should have sex with her. What people say =/= what people want." ..and that, in your mind, means condoning rape? It doesn't. It just means that people aren't always honest about their desires, even with themselves. pretty sure if someone says no it means no Yeah, it doesn't necessarily. Common misconception. stay away from my family
Too late.
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On September 13 2013 00:04 farvacola wrote:
Gosh, never have I felt so accomplished in regards to having gotten legitimate yes's from the women I've slept with. Thanks Cloud and Killscreen!
If you would have persisted and not just given up the second she gives you some token resistance, like a pussy, you would've gotten a lot more yes's. The last couple of girls I hooked up with both told me no, and half an hour later were telling me to take them home and fuck them.
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On September 13 2013 00:08 Killscreen wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:04 farvacola wrote:
Gosh, never have I felt so accomplished in regards to having gotten legitimate yes's from the women I've slept with. Thanks Cloud and Killscreen! If you would have persisted and not just given up the second she gives you some token resistance, like a pussy, you would've gotten a lot more yes's. The last couple of girls I hooked up with both told me no, and half an hour later were telling me to take them home and fuck them.
Look man, we can't all be ugly or stupid enough to have the women we pursue tell us no. God loves each and everyone of us all the same.
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On September 13 2013 00:13 farvacola wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:08 Killscreen wrote:On September 13 2013 00:04 farvacola wrote:
Gosh, never have I felt so accomplished in regards to having gotten legitimate yes's from the women I've slept with. Thanks Cloud and Killscreen! If you would have persisted and not just given up the second she gives you some token resistance, like a pussy, you would've gotten a lot more yes's. The last couple of girls I hooked up with both told me no, and half an hour later were telling me to take them home and fuck them. Look man, we can't all be ugly or stupid enough to have the women we pursue tell us no. God loves each and everyone of us all the same.
Yeah, and some of us like to pursue hot intelligent women who make sure that the guys they sleep with aren't pussies.
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It's never long in these conversations before some form of "I'm banging 10/10 model/physicists" rears its head. At least y'all are consistent.
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On September 13 2013 00:15 Killscreen wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:13 farvacola wrote:On September 13 2013 00:08 Killscreen wrote:On September 13 2013 00:04 farvacola wrote:
Gosh, never have I felt so accomplished in regards to having gotten legitimate yes's from the women I've slept with. Thanks Cloud and Killscreen! If you would have persisted and not just given up the second she gives you some token resistance, like a pussy, you would've gotten a lot more yes's. The last couple of girls I hooked up with both told me no, and half an hour later were telling me to take them home and fuck them. Look man, we can't all be ugly or stupid enough to have the women we pursue tell us no. God loves each and everyone of us all the same. Yeah, and some of us like to pursue hot intelligent women who make sure that the guys they sleep with aren't pussies.
hot intelligent women who make sure that the guys they sleep with aren't pussies => manipulative women with self confidence issues
my advice => dont play their games. love comes from honesty and trust. and with love amazing sex.
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^this dude knows what's up.
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The amount of bigotry and aggressiveness of incompetent and uneducated people in this thread is never disappointing. I suggest to take things further when both like each other and some random dude screams rape wtf? Somebody has to make the first move and most girls are afraid or scared to do so. It's very easy to understand when they want you to as they keep sending signals they like you and when they want you to stop and shut you down. Only a complete retard is unaware of body language and bases his interaction on words alone.
And yes I'm dating a 17 yo girl at the moment and I really like her. I don't judge people by age and she's mature enough to be with me. People arguing about age without knowing the person are pretty dumb, but that should come without saying.
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And here i thought we would have some new quality postings in this thread. Sick "discussion" guys.
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On September 13 2013 00:41 aTnClouD wrote:
The amount of bigotry and aggressiveness of incompetent and uneducated people in this thread is never disappointing. I suggest to take things further when both like each other and some random dude screams rape wtf? Somebody has to make the first move and most girls are afraid or scared to do so. It's very easy to understand when they want you to as they keep sending signals they like you and when they want you to stop and shut you down. Only a complete retard is unaware of body language and bases his interaction on words alone.
And yes I'm dating a 17 yo girl at the moment and I really like her. I don't judge people by age and she's mature enough to be with me. People arguing about age without knowing the person are pretty dumb, but that should come without saying.
well he described the signals as wanting to take it slow and you said what she says and what she wants are different. have sex with her. pretty sure you weren't calling him a retard unless he realized she wanted his dick but it's hard to follow.
You said your immature emo girlfriend cuts her wrists when her parents don't let her go out with you.
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On September 13 2013 00:46 ComaDose wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:41 aTnClouD wrote:
The amount of bigotry and aggressiveness of incompetent and uneducated people in this thread is never disappointing. I suggest to take things further when both like each other and some random dude screams rape wtf? Somebody has to make the first move and most girls are afraid or scared to do so. It's very easy to understand when they want you to as they keep sending signals they like you and when they want you to stop and shut you down. Only a complete retard is unaware of body language and bases his interaction on words alone.
And yes I'm dating a 17 yo girl at the moment and I really like her. I don't judge people by age and she's mature enough to be with me. People arguing about age without knowing the person are pretty dumb, but that should come without saying. well he described the signals as wanting to take it slow and you said what she says and what she wants are different. have sex with her. pretty sure you weren't calling him a retard unless he realized she wanted his dick but it's hard to follow. You said your immature emo girlfriend cuts her wrists when her parents don't let her go out with you.
If she likes him he should try to have sex with her asap or he will lose her to someone else who will make a move when she's horny. That's what human beings who are attracted to each other do.
And I've been suicidal and depressed too when I was in high school and I understand it. Happens when you have to obey a strict family that will not allow you to be happy and it doesn't make you unworthy of anything.
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On September 13 2013 00:55 aTnClouD wrote:Show nested quote +On September 13 2013 00:46 ComaDose wrote:On September 13 2013 00:41 aTnClouD wrote:
The amount of bigotry and aggressiveness of incompetent and uneducated people in this thread is never disappointing. I suggest to take things further when both like each other and some random dude screams rape wtf? Somebody has to make the first move and most girls are afraid or scared to do so. It's very easy to understand when they want you to as they keep sending signals they like you and when they want you to stop and shut you down. Only a complete retard is unaware of body language and bases his interaction on words alone.
And yes I'm dating a 17 yo girl at the moment and I really like her. I don't judge people by age and she's mature enough to be with me. People arguing about age without knowing the person are pretty dumb, but that should come without saying. well he described the signals as wanting to take it slow and you said what she says and what she wants are different. have sex with her. pretty sure you weren't calling him a retard unless he realized she wanted his dick but it's hard to follow. You said your immature emo girlfriend cuts her wrists when her parents don't let her go out with you. If she likes him he should try to have sex with her asap or he will lose her to someone else who will make a move when she's horny. That's what human beings who are attracted to each other do. And I've been suicidal and depressed too when I was in high school and I understand it. Happens when you have to obey a strict family that will not allow you to be happy and it doesn't make you unworthy of anything.
I think your advice is more applicable to the animal kingdom.
And you said it was cause she was spoiled.
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