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SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 02:13 GMT

#81

rofl thats funny but its still simply put you dodging my question. besides that im not actually attempting to attack your character it is just a simple question. all that it does require is just a simple answer. so please before you go around saying things like cheating is wrong and thats why it feels so good think about it first and how you would actually feel if some girl you fell in love with did it to you.

Feuerbach

Germany95 Posts

May 02 2005 02:17 GMT

#82

I just realised that you are an American.

Feuerbach out

Yuljan

2196 Posts

May 02 2005 02:19 GMT

#83

On May 02 2005 11:17 Feuerbach wrote:
I just realised that you are an American.

Feuerbach out

I do not have to address personal attacks that are irrelevent to my point.
That you have turned to them in lieu of providing intellectual material reflects poorly on the weight of your reserves.

Yuljan out

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 02:25 GMT

#84

ROFL nicely done yuljan

Unforgiven

Venezuela238 Posts

May 02 2005 02:25 GMT

#85

just 2 months far away?! and she cheated you...

she's a bitch...fuck her a few times and then dump her..make her feel the pain!!!

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 02:28 GMT

#86

its best if he just sais good bye considering how much more difficult it will make it on him if he doesnt. i mean all of those old feelings will resurface basically making it to where he made no forward progress. which will really hurt him more and more b/c he may feel betrayed for the rest of his life with her but then again he may not.

Vendetta[eV]

United States93 Posts

May 02 2005 02:55 GMT

#87

On May 02 2005 11:17 Feuerbach wrote:
I just realised that you are an American.

Feuerbach out

I will now stop responding to your posts because I just realized people like you flip my burgers around noon.

Me and my sick Vendetta are out.

Feuerbach

Germany95 Posts

May 02 2005 03:00 GMT

#88

My collegue from America has implied I have never had a girlfriend and that if I did, I would not cheat on her. I believe this distraction, raised by him, was only out of his choice to not respond to my initial, on-topic statements:

O, it feels good to cheat. It's "wrong" for that very reason. You can cheat on someone and still love them. There is such a thing as "just sex", and furthermore, it's possible to fall in love with more than one person. Myu collegue finds these notions incomprehensible yet he suggests I am the inexperienced one. He tells me first that I have not yet grown up, been in a great relationship and wanted a family of my own -- that if I had only done this, I would agree with him. Well I have done all of this, and I disagree with him, still. Now where is his response to this fact?

It's also possible to leave someone that you love. It feels worse, perhaps, but we all probably will do it once in our lifetime. Love is not a simple 1 or 0. This man's girl may love him but not enough for him to be happy with her. And if your goal in life is to never feel guilt, to never feel loss, you will feel the least good, the most guilt, and the most loss.

To this man seeking advice: She hurt you. How does she know this? How does this change her? Have you hurt her? Why was she willing to hurt you?

Feuerbach out

Vendetta[eV]

United States93 Posts

May 02 2005 03:03 GMT

#89

Mein Name ist Erdbeere; im eine rote Frucht.

HeadBangaa

United States6512 Posts

May 02 2005 03:03 GMT

#90

On May 02 2005 05:44 Liquid`Drone wrote:
there's no such thing as a perfect partner, searching for that will leave you single.

(I know from experience! )

It's not about looking for a perfect partner. It's about being the only man who get's to fill her with cock. I would say that's a fundamental component of any committed relationship

Is that too much to ask? I'd rather be single than swim in a public pool, if you get my drift.

Stat.Quo

Canada540 Posts

May 02 2005 03:08 GMT

#91

I don't know about you guys but whenever he says feuerbach out i kind of chuckle. I find it really funny.

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 03:24 GMT

#92

lol what i have been trying to say friend is that it is not really possible to ever feel the same way about a person after she has done this to you.It wont be the same, that "true love" feeling will not be there regardless of what you may believe. If you do stay with her then you have to be true to yourself and care for her regardless of what she has done. If you cheat in my opinion you should be skinned alive and have salt poured on the open wounds. Its a disgusting thing to do to someone and just wrong. Yes i know everyone has fucked up at 1 time or another but still i think that a relationship should be a little bit stronger and both partners have to be willing to stay commited. Even if she is monogomously challenged....furthermore it is my OPINION that if you have the nerve to cheat on someone its most likely that you do not love them. Yes its possible to love more than one person but not in that traditional sense. Maybe you have confused yourself into thinking that Love and Lust are the same thing whereas in reality they are not. Often times these feelings are confused and misunderstood. Love is not just a word and it is more than how you feel, it is so much more complicated than that and cannot be explained easily. Which is why i feel the way i do about this subject regardless of what anyone else thinks. My simple advice though is still what you think is right do it, if it hurts you this much then dont be afraid to say good bye your friends and loved ones will still be there. Besides no one should be treated this way.

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 03:26 GMT

#93

and one more thought for you. i never told you to grow up, but i really think that i should have.

relapse

629 Posts

May 02 2005 03:53 GMT

#94

i commend the topic starter for wanting to stay with your girlfriend. don't stay in the relationship because you've been together for 6 years and you're used to being with her. if you choose to stay with her, stay because you love her and make it well-known that if she decides to do cheat again (i don't know how you would find that out) then she needs to find someone else. who knows, maybe there's someone else out there worth starting a new relatonship with and 6 years from now she would still be faithful to you.

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 03:58 GMT

#95

As i said once before. Losing a gf is like losing a puppy, at first yea you miss it of course. Then next thing you know, you get a new puppy and forget all about the old one

Feuerbach

Germany95 Posts

May 02 2005 03:59 GMT

#96

of course it will never be the same. the relationship that stays the same is the one that is over. of course it is wrong. i disagree that someone should be skinned alive for being human. of course wrong things are disgusting. breaking a commitment is one of the most liberating acts a human being can do. it is an oversimplification to say that what i have said of love can only apply to lust. if you believe that, you have not really read me.

Feuerbach out

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 04:08 GMT

#97

Feelings often get mixed up and to sit there and think that cheating is liberating is just ignorance at its greatest. I do not think that it should be thought of that way i think that it is best said as immoral. To break the trust of someone who loves you and to go out and fuck someone else. You really think that is liberating? To have all of those years and all that effort thrown away for afew moments of passion. That is idiotic, and i would really rather not have to read anything more on that idea. Simply put yes i think he should dump the bitch because if he is truly this commited at this young of an age then yea that sais alot about his character but your beliefs say just as much. If you would want some chick to liberate herself from you thats fine but the rest of the world im sure doesnt exactly feel that way. As much as you try to convince yourself that cheating is ok you still have to face facts and thatis that its wrong and it isnt liberating because even if that person forgives you, YOU and only you have to live with the knowledge of what you did and have it on your mind forever.

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 04:11 GMT

#98

So yes i did read what you wrote, but it still makes little sense and should perhaps be worded a little bit better. As a person you are entitled to your own opinions so i hope the best for you and the next gf that fucks you over. I know i have experienced pain, loss, guilt and alot more and i regret nothing i have ever done. I can say this though, i wont fuckin cheat on my gf to "liberate" myself. That just sounds stupid.

baal

10708 Posts

May 02 2005 04:34 GMT

#99

omg someone Ban these 2 hijacker newbs -_-

SkieS[eV]

United States129 Posts

May 02 2005 04:37 GMT

#100

actually im trying to stay on topic and do my best to say what i think. also just trying to respond to feuer as well but yea sorry for taking up alot of space lol my bad guess i really didnt think about it.

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