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Feuerbach
Germany95 Posts
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MVP[eV]
United States270 Posts
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SkieS[eV]
United States129 Posts
 <3 you much hahaha | ||
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rplant
United States1178 Posts
On May 02 2005 12:00 Feuerbach wrote: My collegue from America has implied I have never had a girlfriend and that if I did, I would not cheat on her. I believe this distraction, raised by him, was only out of his choice to not respond to my initial, on-topic statements: O, it feels good to cheat. It's "wrong" for that very reason. You can cheat on someone and still love them. There is such a thing as "just sex", and furthermore, it's possible to fall in love with more than one person. Myu collegue finds these notions incomprehensible yet he suggests I am the inexperienced one. He tells me first that I have not yet grown up, been in a great relationship and wanted a family of my own -- that if I had only done this, I would agree with him. Well I have done all of this, and I disagree with him, still. Now where is his response to this fact? It's also possible to leave someone that you love. It feels worse, perhaps, but we all probably will do it once in our lifetime. Love is not a simple 1 or 0. This man's girl may love him but not enough for him to be happy with her. And if your goal in life is to never feel guilt, to never feel loss, you will feel the least good, the most guilt, and the most loss. To this man seeking advice: She hurt you. How does she know this? How does this change her? Have you hurt her? Why was she willing to hurt you? Feuerbach out +10 for unique viewpoint +20 for clear presentation in a second language +30000 for repeated use of "collegue" You must be right. | ||
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VdP]fuNfUn
United Kingdom7 Posts
dunno maybe im just dumb, was just curious :p | ||
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Smorrie
Netherlands2956 Posts
On May 02 2005 13:50 Feuerbach wrote: Your whole argument is still basically that you disagree with me for no reason given, and, therefore, I am ignorant, immature, etc. You also added that you can't understand me. Read yourself please. Feuerbach out dayyummm girl. can't you just type normal? T_T; we all know your english is better than the german average but please don't try to act smart by making all these 'intellectual' sentences because they aren't.. imo it only makes your english worse and it's very annoying to read -,- so stop using that online translator x.x and get back on topic instead of having some flamewar with the other dude -,- | ||
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rplant
United States1178 Posts
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Tien
Russian Federation4447 Posts
Its all up to the individual. However, I would tell her to do something to CONVINCE me she wants this to work. Since her word no longer means much after breaking it THREE times, she has to prove to you through actions that she really means it. Let her know this. | ||
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TheOdMan
Sweden238 Posts
On May 02 2005 14:58 VdP]fuNfUn wrote: just wondering...why did she wait 6 years to cheat on you? you said you never had any major arguments to make her think of anything like cheating at the time, 6 years is a very long time. dunno maybe im just dumb, was just curious :p I've asked myself the very same question, I I can't come up with any reasonable answer, neither can she...... She says that this is the worst mistake of her life, and would do anything to make it undone. I just don't know why she did it. | ||
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TheOdMan
Sweden238 Posts
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Hydrolisko
Vanuatu1659 Posts
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MoltkeWarding
5195 Posts
I think you should always try to stick with the first. Breaking up becomes a bad habit :/ | ||
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SkieS[eV]
United States129 Posts
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United States7081 Posts
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TheOdMan
Sweden238 Posts
On May 03 2005 13:52 SkieS[eV] wrote: Sometimes its that you need a break because sometimes you forget why you are in love with someone. I dont know the reasoning behind this at all but i have heard it before and it really sounds dumb. Maybe you two should take a break from eachother and figure it out i dont mean like break up or see other people i just mean like just give it a couple weeks and see how it goes. If you 2 truly are in love then yea man it will work out but you wont forget this...its sad but its true We are on a break now, since I can't get my head around this atm, and need some time to make up my mind... right now, we are both single. We agreed to give it another shot when she comes home, who knows, by that time I might be over her and don't want her back, but then again, I might still be in love with her and wanna give it another try. Right now, I really don't want to be single, I have absolutly no need for it... but time will tell. thx again to all you serious posters, I acually think you might have helped a little bit. | ||
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SkieS[eV]
United States129 Posts
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