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On June 25 2010 09:44 TaaiJoeng wrote:
Exchanging numbers seems more formal and classy to me.
Yep. You should know her name afterward and be able to look her up on facebook anyhow, but probably shouldn't add her until you meet her again or if you exchange a good number of texts.
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Numbers is better in most cases, but it really depends on the overall situation. I only go for a number if it's not even slightly uncomfortable. That's why it's a big deal to set another "date," even if it's only pretend, so you have a reason to get the number. Number is better because you can easily get her facebook over text, but it's harder to get a number over facebook.
If you think it might be awkward to get a number, you can suggest you should become facebook friends with her. Usually you can get her number from that point, but it might be more difficult. Wooooo!
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I ask them for thier teamliquids ID
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Uh... both? I don't club but when I meet girls I usually get both. :| It's just become natural after you get their name for your cell that you find out their full name and get the FB add.
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On June 29 2010 22:51 Kyuukyuu wrote:
Uh... both? I don't club but when I meet girls I usually get both. :| It's just become natural after you get their name for your cell that you find out their full name and get the FB add.
This, generally both. Obviously number first then add her on FB later that night, next day, next week. Depending on how well you guys kick it off.
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On June 26 2010 03:44 Warrior Madness wrote:Show nested quote +On June 25 2010 20:53 Hawk wrote:On June 25 2010 08:25 Warrior Madness wrote:
I feel like I have to defend the rest of the 5 people who voted for facebook.
First and foremost there isn't really a step by step thing I follow when I go out. I just like to have fun, make love to the dance floor, celebrate something. Sometimes I'll ask for their facebook 5m inutes into the conversation other times 2 hours later when we've bounced to another club/karoke bar together. And other times I'll ask for the number or she'll ask for mine. It's highly situational.
Using facebook isn't about "not having the balls" to just go in for the kill. If you have the balls, then "let's get out of here", will always always trump numbers or facebook. I like to use facebook because it does a lot of the work for me, it's easy, it's very low pressure, I have an iphone and usually she has a BB, an iphone, or some other smart phone which allows her to keep in contact with me immediately. Here is how it usually goes. I ask for her facebook, sometimes she'll ask for my number "just to make sure". Sometimes, she doesn't contact me until the next or following days (Or I contact her later on and we'll set something up). Sometimes, she'll actually text me sometime during the night. She will get my number off my facebook profile.
That's one of the ways FB works for me. If a girl puts in the effort to actually find my number and contact me. That's what I prefer. That she makes the effort and I reward her for her effort rather than vice versa, like high fiving my buddies on the asses once I've "won" her phone number. FB's primary function for me though is it wings for me. I don't have to say shit about myself because my FB almost acts like a business card. There are pictures of me doing a lot of things, of places I've travelled to, me having fun with friends, my having an active social life; it has all my interests, and it has a lot of pretty girls writing on my wall and what not. The profile itself does all the bragging for me. It does all the winging.
In fact I'd say FB is a pretty apt analogy for the bar scene itself. If it's vacant and inactive and you add girls to it... You think they're gonna poke you, or message you or even comment on your wall? No. Well if other cool people, and hot chicks are doing it, then you think she's more likely to do so? Yes. It's highschool. And as we all know, highschool is life!
And yet another function FB serves is that I don't have to explain myself! Alot of the times, the girl will actually just bring up a topic someone posted on my wall, a picture of mine, a place i've been to, or an interest or whatever. "Hey warrior madness, when you went to LA did you go to Pinks? Is it true they have the best hotdogs in the world?". So, she'll probably know what my favourite colour is and my philosophy on life before I even know what her last name is. Of course you don't wanna give everything away. You don't want to be figured out so easily.
Lastly, of course you add girls only who are already interested in you or are DTF. I'd say FB is the superior method for consistent casual sex. If you go out a lot, and your facebook is made well, and you hit it off with a girl you can add her on for later. And you can build up quite a little pipeline of girls. give girls your fb if they like you theyll contact you Exactly how many girls have you got with this time tested method bro Nice manner bro Mike. It works for me 9 out of 10 times. And thanks for twisting my words. That isn't the "method". Neither is using FB the method for that matter, anymore than you use your phone to attract girls. In the end it's inconsequential whether you use the phone or FB, it's only part of the small picture. But I think FB is better for the reasons I've already stated.
Where is this pipeline of girls you speak of?? I want to go to where you are. It seems to be the only place in the world where the girls chase you and the most work you have to do is upload a few photos. I might be in luck. I just broke 300 friends the other day!!
These girls, when you drop your full name on them at the club, do they immediately run to the bathroom to oogle over your facebook page?
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ive actually exchanged facebook contact once at a bar... it was really weird..
sadly i had my facebook blocked to outsiders so they couldnt find me lol
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On June 29 2010 23:19 Hawk wrote:Show nested quote +On June 26 2010 03:44 Warrior Madness wrote:On June 25 2010 20:53 Hawk wrote:On June 25 2010 08:25 Warrior Madness wrote:
I feel like I have to defend the rest of the 5 people who voted for facebook.
First and foremost there isn't really a step by step thing I follow when I go out. I just like to have fun, make love to the dance floor, celebrate something. Sometimes I'll ask for their facebook 5m inutes into the conversation other times 2 hours later when we've bounced to another club/karoke bar together. And other times I'll ask for the number or she'll ask for mine. It's highly situational.
Using facebook isn't about "not having the balls" to just go in for the kill. If you have the balls, then "let's get out of here", will always always trump numbers or facebook. I like to use facebook because it does a lot of the work for me, it's easy, it's very low pressure, I have an iphone and usually she has a BB, an iphone, or some other smart phone which allows her to keep in contact with me immediately. Here is how it usually goes. I ask for her facebook, sometimes she'll ask for my number "just to make sure". Sometimes, she doesn't contact me until the next or following days (Or I contact her later on and we'll set something up). Sometimes, she'll actually text me sometime during the night. She will get my number off my facebook profile.
That's one of the ways FB works for me. If a girl puts in the effort to actually find my number and contact me. That's what I prefer. That she makes the effort and I reward her for her effort rather than vice versa, like high fiving my buddies on the asses once I've "won" her phone number. FB's primary function for me though is it wings for me. I don't have to say shit about myself because my FB almost acts like a business card. There are pictures of me doing a lot of things, of places I've travelled to, me having fun with friends, my having an active social life; it has all my interests, and it has a lot of pretty girls writing on my wall and what not. The profile itself does all the bragging for me. It does all the winging.
In fact I'd say FB is a pretty apt analogy for the bar scene itself. If it's vacant and inactive and you add girls to it... You think they're gonna poke you, or message you or even comment on your wall? No. Well if other cool people, and hot chicks are doing it, then you think she's more likely to do so? Yes. It's highschool. And as we all know, highschool is life!
And yet another function FB serves is that I don't have to explain myself! Alot of the times, the girl will actually just bring up a topic someone posted on my wall, a picture of mine, a place i've been to, or an interest or whatever. "Hey warrior madness, when you went to LA did you go to Pinks? Is it true they have the best hotdogs in the world?". So, she'll probably know what my favourite colour is and my philosophy on life before I even know what her last name is. Of course you don't wanna give everything away. You don't want to be figured out so easily.
Lastly, of course you add girls only who are already interested in you or are DTF. I'd say FB is the superior method for consistent casual sex. If you go out a lot, and your facebook is made well, and you hit it off with a girl you can add her on for later. And you can build up quite a little pipeline of girls. give girls your fb if they like you theyll contact you Exactly how many girls have you got with this time tested method bro Nice manner bro Mike. It works for me 9 out of 10 times. And thanks for twisting my words. That isn't the "method". Neither is using FB the method for that matter, anymore than you use your phone to attract girls. In the end it's inconsequential whether you use the phone or FB, it's only part of the small picture. But I think FB is better for the reasons I've already stated. Where is this pipeline of girls you speak of?? I want to go to where you are. It seems to be the only place in the world where the girls chase you and the most work you have to do is upload a few photos. I might be in luck. I just broke 300 friends the other day!! These girls, when you drop your full name on them at the club, do they immediately run to the bathroom to oogle over your facebook page?
Wow what's your problem? Maybe he doesn't have your sarcastic attitude. That'd probably work for him.
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Yeah i don't think people exchange facebook info, they add people the next day, you should really consider that for your research because i would think most people do that regardless of numbers, and also they often will do it with new friends they met not just a girl-guy pickup thing.
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Many hot girls don't even use Facebook.
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On June 24 2010 02:47 larjarse wrote:
And if you need help gettin that number, just remember...
<CENSORED>
please ask for numbers and not for facebooks. Or make her ask you.
I appreciate you are trying to help people. That's pretty kind of you. But it really rubs me up the wrong way listening to a 19yo endlessly promote himself. I'm sure you're competent with women, dating and flirting. And most people don't work it out till they are older, so well done. But no one has life completely worked out at your age. I think you should let that thread rest in peace.
Even if you were an amazing Casanova or held multiple degrees in psychology creating these 'Advice on Dating' threads is irritating. It comes across as boasting. And as LosingID8 and Hot_Bid said in this thread link there's an etiquette to boasting. I think the same rules apply for talking about your ability with women.
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On June 29 2010 23:32 Subversive wrote:Show nested quote +On June 29 2010 23:19 Hawk wrote:On June 26 2010 03:44 Warrior Madness wrote:On June 25 2010 20:53 Hawk wrote:On June 25 2010 08:25 Warrior Madness wrote:
I feel like I have to defend the rest of the 5 people who voted for facebook.
First and foremost there isn't really a step by step thing I follow when I go out. I just like to have fun, make love to the dance floor, celebrate something. Sometimes I'll ask for their facebook 5m inutes into the conversation other times 2 hours later when we've bounced to another club/karoke bar together. And other times I'll ask for the number or she'll ask for mine. It's highly situational.
Using facebook isn't about "not having the balls" to just go in for the kill. If you have the balls, then "let's get out of here", will always always trump numbers or facebook. I like to use facebook because it does a lot of the work for me, it's easy, it's very low pressure, I have an iphone and usually she has a BB, an iphone, or some other smart phone which allows her to keep in contact with me immediately. Here is how it usually goes. I ask for her facebook, sometimes she'll ask for my number "just to make sure". Sometimes, she doesn't contact me until the next or following days (Or I contact her later on and we'll set something up). Sometimes, she'll actually text me sometime during the night. She will get my number off my facebook profile.
That's one of the ways FB works for me. If a girl puts in the effort to actually find my number and contact me. That's what I prefer. That she makes the effort and I reward her for her effort rather than vice versa, like high fiving my buddies on the asses once I've "won" her phone number. FB's primary function for me though is it wings for me. I don't have to say shit about myself because my FB almost acts like a business card. There are pictures of me doing a lot of things, of places I've travelled to, me having fun with friends, my having an active social life; it has all my interests, and it has a lot of pretty girls writing on my wall and what not. The profile itself does all the bragging for me. It does all the winging.
In fact I'd say FB is a pretty apt analogy for the bar scene itself. If it's vacant and inactive and you add girls to it... You think they're gonna poke you, or message you or even comment on your wall? No. Well if other cool people, and hot chicks are doing it, then you think she's more likely to do so? Yes. It's highschool. And as we all know, highschool is life!
And yet another function FB serves is that I don't have to explain myself! Alot of the times, the girl will actually just bring up a topic someone posted on my wall, a picture of mine, a place i've been to, or an interest or whatever. "Hey warrior madness, when you went to LA did you go to Pinks? Is it true they have the best hotdogs in the world?". So, she'll probably know what my favourite colour is and my philosophy on life before I even know what her last name is. Of course you don't wanna give everything away. You don't want to be figured out so easily.
Lastly, of course you add girls only who are already interested in you or are DTF. I'd say FB is the superior method for consistent casual sex. If you go out a lot, and your facebook is made well, and you hit it off with a girl you can add her on for later. And you can build up quite a little pipeline of girls. give girls your fb if they like you theyll contact you Exactly how many girls have you got with this time tested method bro Nice manner bro Mike. It works for me 9 out of 10 times. And thanks for twisting my words. That isn't the "method". Neither is using FB the method for that matter, anymore than you use your phone to attract girls. In the end it's inconsequential whether you use the phone or FB, it's only part of the small picture. But I think FB is better for the reasons I've already stated. Where is this pipeline of girls you speak of?? I want to go to where you are. It seems to be the only place in the world where the girls chase you and the most work you have to do is upload a few photos. I might be in luck. I just broke 300 friends the other day!! These girls, when you drop your full name on them at the club, do they immediately run to the bathroom to oogle over your facebook page? Wow what's your problem? Maybe he doesn't have your sarcastic attitude. That'd probably work for him.
Oh ok. Please listen to the internet pimp/facebook Pick Up Artist. Maybe you can debate how many IOIs are in a girl's 12 word comment on his wall.
heaven forbid someone makes fun of the dude who wrote a post implied that he has a pipeline of girls because of facebook!
The whole point of the thread is to debate which is better, and I'm saying it's absurd that anyone would use fb
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Who the hell uses failbook? They own everything you post there...
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On June 30 2010 00:50 Hawk wrote:Show nested quote +On June 29 2010 23:32 Subversive wrote:On June 29 2010 23:19 Hawk wrote:On June 26 2010 03:44 Warrior Madness wrote:On June 25 2010 20:53 Hawk wrote:On June 25 2010 08:25 Warrior Madness wrote:
I feel like I have to defend the rest of the 5 people who voted for facebook.
First and foremost there isn't really a step by step thing I follow when I go out. I just like to have fun, make love to the dance floor, celebrate something. Sometimes I'll ask for their facebook 5m inutes into the conversation other times 2 hours later when we've bounced to another club/karoke bar together. And other times I'll ask for the number or she'll ask for mine. It's highly situational.
Using facebook isn't about "not having the balls" to just go in for the kill. If you have the balls, then "let's get out of here", will always always trump numbers or facebook. I like to use facebook because it does a lot of the work for me, it's easy, it's very low pressure, I have an iphone and usually she has a BB, an iphone, or some other smart phone which allows her to keep in contact with me immediately. Here is how it usually goes. I ask for her facebook, sometimes she'll ask for my number "just to make sure". Sometimes, she doesn't contact me until the next or following days (Or I contact her later on and we'll set something up). Sometimes, she'll actually text me sometime during the night. She will get my number off my facebook profile.
That's one of the ways FB works for me. If a girl puts in the effort to actually find my number and contact me. That's what I prefer. That she makes the effort and I reward her for her effort rather than vice versa, like high fiving my buddies on the asses once I've "won" her phone number. FB's primary function for me though is it wings for me. I don't have to say shit about myself because my FB almost acts like a business card. There are pictures of me doing a lot of things, of places I've travelled to, me having fun with friends, my having an active social life; it has all my interests, and it has a lot of pretty girls writing on my wall and what not. The profile itself does all the bragging for me. It does all the winging.
In fact I'd say FB is a pretty apt analogy for the bar scene itself. If it's vacant and inactive and you add girls to it... You think they're gonna poke you, or message you or even comment on your wall? No. Well if other cool people, and hot chicks are doing it, then you think she's more likely to do so? Yes. It's highschool. And as we all know, highschool is life!
And yet another function FB serves is that I don't have to explain myself! Alot of the times, the girl will actually just bring up a topic someone posted on my wall, a picture of mine, a place i've been to, or an interest or whatever. "Hey warrior madness, when you went to LA did you go to Pinks? Is it true they have the best hotdogs in the world?". So, she'll probably know what my favourite colour is and my philosophy on life before I even know what her last name is. Of course you don't wanna give everything away. You don't want to be figured out so easily.
Lastly, of course you add girls only who are already interested in you or are DTF. I'd say FB is the superior method for consistent casual sex. If you go out a lot, and your facebook is made well, and you hit it off with a girl you can add her on for later. And you can build up quite a little pipeline of girls. give girls your fb if they like you theyll contact you Exactly how many girls have you got with this time tested method bro Nice manner bro Mike. It works for me 9 out of 10 times. And thanks for twisting my words. That isn't the "method". Neither is using FB the method for that matter, anymore than you use your phone to attract girls. In the end it's inconsequential whether you use the phone or FB, it's only part of the small picture. But I think FB is better for the reasons I've already stated. Where is this pipeline of girls you speak of?? I want to go to where you are. It seems to be the only place in the world where the girls chase you and the most work you have to do is upload a few photos. I might be in luck. I just broke 300 friends the other day!! These girls, when you drop your full name on them at the club, do they immediately run to the bathroom to oogle over your facebook page? Wow what's your problem? Maybe he doesn't have your sarcastic attitude. That'd probably work for him. Oh ok. Please listen to the internet pimp/facebook Pick Up Artist. Maybe you can debate how many IOIs are in a girl's 12 word comment on his wall. heaven forbid someone makes fun of the dude who wrote a post implied that he has a pipeline of girls because of facebook! The whole point of the thread is to debate which is better, and I'm saying it's absurd that anyone would use fb
I think you should have let it slide. It was pretty minor compared to some of the brags people post on here. It's fine to say you think fb is absurd in this situation. Just give the guy a break.
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On June 29 2010 23:55 jstar wrote:
Many hot girls don't even use Facebook.
The girls I go for don't even know how to use computers.
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On June 30 2010 01:37 TurbulentTurtle wrote:The girls I go for don't even know how to use computers.
LOL I like this one.
But they might know how to use an IPhone... oh Apple, how they ruin things 
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On June 30 2010 01:37 TurbulentTurtle wrote:The girls I go for don't even know how to use computers.
haha yep. Hot dumb girls ftw.
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