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kidd
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
United States2848 Posts
September 30 2009 20:15 GMT
#61
I think a lot of people are not realizing just how nice a 4 diamond restaurant is. I would say slacks are definately a must and a nice dress shirt or something would be the right thing to wear. Although their dress code may say otherwise you might look weird walking into a restaurant like that wearing jeans.
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itzme_petey
Profile Blog Joined February 2004
United States1400 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-09-30 20:23:03
September 30 2009 20:16 GMT
#62
On October 01 2009 00:39 RaiZ wrote:
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On September 30 2009 19:01 PlaycaLm wrote:
heres a good example of what i think i might be going for.

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He looks retarded. At least Semi retarded sorry.
Just remove the suit and he's good to go.
You can even retire the pull (spelling ?) but i don't know how the weather is like in Alaska, so that could be kinda weird to not wear it.
But definitely not a suit with this jean. Hell no.


I don't think its retarded. The fit of the clothes is spot on and looks elegant though a bit stuffy. By suit, do you mean blazer or jacket? As a 20 year old, dont wear a full suit if it is a casual date. Also, do not wear slacks with mismatched blazer, only older gentlemen can pull off that look. A slim dark pair of jeans (just realized you have to wear slacks) with a darker dress shirt (not black). You can wear a tie only if it is relatively slim and not a business tie thats like 4" wide.
"Last night, I played a game.. as I recall it was a strategy game.. Peeked around and what did I see, a girl playing starcraft better than me.. and I jizzed in my pants.."
Tom Phoenix
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
1114 Posts
September 30 2009 20:35 GMT
#63
As long as you do not have clothes with akward features, such as intentional rips in your jeans, and the restaurant does not have a dress code, you should be fine. First impressions are important, but I think people wrongly assume that expensive(-looking) clothes always automatically give a good impression. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable with the clothes you wear. If you feel comfortable, you feel good and if you feel good, that will positively influence how people around you feel about you.

Besides, the girls you two are going out with do not seem to know what to wear either. As such, even if you end up making what would normally be an akward choice, they will probably be a little more forgiving about it.
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bellweather
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States404 Posts
September 30 2009 21:22 GMT
#64
On October 01 2009 05:15 kidd wrote:
I think a lot of people are not realizing just how nice a 4 diamond restaurant is. I would say slacks are definately a must and a nice dress shirt or something would be the right thing to wear. Although their dress code may say otherwise you might look weird walking into a restaurant like that wearing jeans.


Four diamond as rated by what organization? No one here, except those really into restaurants/critics/etc is fit to judge how "nice" it is. There's a difference between Michelin stars and diamonds.
A mathematician is a blind man in a dark room looking for a black cat which isnt' there. -Charles Darwin
HopLight
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Sweden999 Posts
September 30 2009 21:33 GMT
#65
First decide what more important impressing the ladies or wearing restaurant appropriate wear. (hint pick them)

Second think about what they would like to see you wear. What type of women are they? Would they prefer that washed pair of jeans or maybe a suit? I generally go with high end dark jeans, dress shirt and blazer, its casual but still dressed up and stylish. But like I said find out what they want.

Third think about your shoes. If you don't own a decent pair of dress shoes buy them. If you decide on a relaxed look, get a really nice pair of leather sneakers to go with it, and for God's sake don't use them for everyday wear, they will only look decent like 5-10 times. Make them count.


Best of luck!
uNcontroLable
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States1180 Posts
September 30 2009 21:44 GMT
#66
I vote no jeans! Even if they are nice, the fact that you are wearing them takes your dress code down a level, whereas if you stick to something just as casual that is not jeans, like khakis and a blazer etc, you could reasonably fit in a more casual OR more formal code, and thus will be more likely to be comfortable with your level of dress no matter what everyone else is wearing when you get there. Trust me, the girl will be less impressed if you underdress than if you overdress. And for her, a little black dress is appropriate for almost any code, so good advice!
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uiCk
Profile Blog Joined December 2002
Canada1925 Posts
September 30 2009 21:50 GMT
#67
dress to impress (the girls not the restaurant)
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dekuschrub
Profile Joined May 2008
United States2069 Posts
September 30 2009 22:10 GMT
#68
for the love of god no jeans
cz
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States3249 Posts
September 30 2009 22:12 GMT
#69
In Canada you can just go to Moore's (fancier/formal clothing store), describe what you are going to be doing, and the clerk will go through and pick stuff out with you/do your measurements/ get everything right. There are probably stores like this wherever you are now: I'd go to one of them and get advice from people who did it everyday and do your shopping at the same time.
cz
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States3249 Posts
September 30 2009 22:14 GMT
#70
And for godsakes no jeans. I'd wear something nice with a dinner jacket or something on top and take it off if I'm overdressed.
cz
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States3249 Posts
September 30 2009 22:14 GMT
#71
Oh and shoes are really important too. Make sure they are compatible with what you are wearing. Don't get nice pants, shirt, belt and dinner jacket or w/e and wear your usual shoes.
praetor.at
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Austria92 Posts
September 30 2009 22:39 GMT
#72
On October 01 2009 01:25 GreEny K wrote:
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On September 30 2009 16:49 Hot_Bid wrote:
at minimum pants and a shirt

look at the picture on this page:
http://www.captaincook.com/restaurants.php

thats what you should be wearing, probably not required (though it wouldn't hurt) to wear a tie + jacket, but shirt and pants, definitely

seems like a nice place, have fun!



He means the outfit the girl behind the guy in the blue shirt, what she is wearing definitely.


she's on her own, as it seems. too bad its not real.
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
September 30 2009 23:49 GMT
#73
On September 30 2009 17:04 So no fek wrote:
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On September 30 2009 16:56 Manifesto7 wrote:
Just call them and find out if there is a dress code. From the images on the site it looks like a jacket and tie place, but it is also Alaska. If Sarah Palin taught me anything it is that while snowmobiles are certainly not, ties may be optional.

After you call the restaurant to make sure you don't need a jacket and tie you want to look good. Stay away from jeans for formal dining. Even if you can get away with it at the restaurant it just looks bad. You cant go wrong with dress pants, a shirt, and a tie. Shoes are as important though.

Women have much more freedom when it comes to formal dining. As long as they aren't wearing pants and tshirt they can do dress, skirt/blouse, pantsuit, etc.

On September 30 2009 16:55 stanley_ wrote:
how bout a wifebeater and some short shorts? reaally though you should wear a nice suit.


I don't think a suit is necessary. A suit is not normally formal dining wear unless there is an event attached. Do you wear a suit to a nice dinner after a concert? Sure. After a job interview? Sure. After a wedding? Sure. But on a date? Not so much imo.

On September 30 2009 16:51 So no fek wrote:
I'm going to a nice place tomorrow night myself, and unfortunately don't have any decent slacks. Do you think a nice pair of jeans with a tucked shirt (and maybe tie) would be acceptable?


Jeans send a certain message. Sometimes that message is "I don't own real pants". I am sure you will look fine, but investing in a pair of "go to" pants is never a bad idea.


Going out to dinner tomorrow night was a bit of a spur of the moment thing, but I'll definitely look into getting a good pair of pants in the future. I checked my closet and I do have a pair of dress pants, but they don't fit as well as a good pair of jeans, and also have one of those stretchable waist bands, so I'm not sure if I should go with those, or with the jeans.

As far as the restaurant goes, I've been doing whatever research I can. The attire is listed as business casual, so I should be fine without a tie. On review sites, they say there isn't a very strict dress code, but most of the comments were from 2006/7, so they might have gotten a bit stricter since then. I'll just see how the slacks look on me, and only go to the jeans if absolutely necessary.


As a side note, I'm a bit excited, the restaurant is a steakhouse called N9NE, and it's apparently a bit of a celebrity hangout (not that I care much).


N9NE is great, you have good taste--but it's best with a large group. In that case, you have more wiggle room, as the general rule is that while two sloppy people will stand out in a restaurant, ten casual (but not too casual) people will fit right by virtue of numbers.

As for the reason that N9NE is great with a large group, it's because the menu has a lot of expensive items that lend themselves to sharing. Try the caviar or the filet--you can't go wrong and the N9NE guys in Chicago were absolutely fantastic. Me and this other analyst on my floor used to go there all the time when we were working in Chicago (but back then we could expense the dinners lol.)
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Failsafe
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States1298 Posts
October 01 2009 01:28 GMT
#74
be real. wear your genetically endowed coat and don't sully it with commercial fabrics. at the very most kill some wild thing of appropriate size. take measures to ensure the wild thing is neither too large nor too small. wear the wild thing's pelt to your dinner. should you choose to wear a polar bear, know that it is a rite of passage to kill the beast with a swiss army pocket knife and no other assistance. to do otherwise is extremely disrespectful.
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Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
October 01 2009 01:31 GMT
#75
On October 01 2009 05:15 kidd wrote:
I think a lot of people are not realizing just how nice a 4 diamond restaurant is. I would say slacks are definately a must and a nice dress shirt or something would be the right thing to wear. Although their dress code may say otherwise you might look weird walking into a restaurant like that wearing jeans.


It largely depends on the restaurant. I went to Jean Georges in jeans (nice jeans, but still jeans); and Jean Georges is a 5-diamond restaurant.
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
{CC}StealthBlue
Profile Blog Joined January 2003
United States41117 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-10-01 02:00:55
October 01 2009 01:31 GMT
#76
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Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-10-01 01:35:06
October 01 2009 01:31 GMT
#77
On October 01 2009 06:22 InsideTheBox wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 01 2009 05:15 kidd wrote:
I think a lot of people are not realizing just how nice a 4 diamond restaurant is. I would say slacks are definately a must and a nice dress shirt or something would be the right thing to wear. Although their dress code may say otherwise you might look weird walking into a restaurant like that wearing jeans.


Four diamond as rated by what organization? No one here, except those really into restaurants/critics/etc is fit to judge how "nice" it is. There's a difference between Michelin stars and diamonds.


rated by AAA, not that prestigious. Zagat and Michelin are arguably the authorities of restaurant reviews/ratings.

A Michelin 3 star is probably more prestigious than a 5-diamond.
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
Probe.
Profile Joined May 2009
United States877 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-10-01 01:54:41
October 01 2009 01:46 GMT
#78
Where a CJ entus shirt, and a MBC Heros sweater.
But seriously Manifestos advice is the best so far. Stay away from jeans. And wear a nice shirt and a some slacks, and nice shoes. No tie required no jacket required. (unless restaurant says otherwise)
meow
Cloud
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Sexico5880 Posts
October 01 2009 03:14 GMT
#79
On October 01 2009 10:31 Cambium wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 01 2009 05:15 kidd wrote:
I think a lot of people are not realizing just how nice a 4 diamond restaurant is. I would say slacks are definately a must and a nice dress shirt or something would be the right thing to wear. Although their dress code may say otherwise you might look weird walking into a restaurant like that wearing jeans.


It largely depends on the restaurant. I went to Jean Georges in jeans (nice jeans, but still jeans); and Jean Georges is a 5-diamond restaurant.


Wow, what an attention whore.
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Pieguy314
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada262 Posts
October 01 2009 03:32 GMT
#80
Hmm. At formal events I usually wear a V neck sweater along with dress shirt + tie or bowtie.
For pants I just wear some nice jeans, and for my shoes I just wear my Chuck Taylors (black) .
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