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what makes my situation worse is that ive all been a high achiever, and now my parents are extremely disappointed coz they always expected too highly of me (and they complain that i play too much video games... they dont understand what 7k means?!) of course i can't find the motivation to study hard for something i grew to hate so now i just scrape by (edge of depression) what makes it worse is that both of my siblings are even higher achievers (cambridge graduates: also masters/phd at cambridge which is like harvard or mit for u guys) so my parents compare me to them. and it's my parents who compelled me to continue my studies instead of going pro in dota (im sure finishing studies is logically/rationally the best thing to do, but im a romantic)
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On May 29 2015 06:34 Plansix wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:32 PassiveAce wrote: it kind of blows me away that so many people are willing to spend $5 of their parents hard earned money to have a meme show up on a bunch of peoples screens. Remember this post the next time you order a bottle of beer at a bar. no more paying for bar beer for me, too expensive. if i drink bar beer from now on its gonna be for free and while im working.
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On May 29 2015 06:35 Plansix wrote:Street performers have the same gig.
idk if id make the comparison because there can be stigmas surrounding street performers.
but honestly theres no way to make an analogy with donations/tips on stream that doesn't carry a stigma i think
On May 29 2015 06:37 ChunderBoy wrote: what makes my situation worse is that ive all been a high achiever, and now my parents are extremely disappointed coz they always expected too highly of me (and they complain that i play too much video games... they dont understand what 7k means?!) of course i can't find the motivation to study hard for something i grew to hate so now i just scrape by (edge of depression) what makes it worse is that both of my siblings are even higher achievers (cambridge graduates: also masters/phd at cambridge which is like harvard or mit for u guys) so my parents compare me to them. and it's my parents who compelled me to continue my studies instead of going pro in dota (im sure finishing studies is logically/rationally the best thing to do, but im a romantic)
i think doing what you're saying you're going to do after you graduate is perfect. you have a goal and you have an education to fall back on. if your parents don't like it, then i don't think they are good parents.
its not like you're just some casual dota player looking to go pro
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On May 29 2015 06:37 ChunderBoy wrote: what makes my situation worse is that ive all been a high achiever, and now my parents are extremely disappointed coz they always expected too highly of me (and they complain that i play too much video games... they dont understand what 7k means?!) of course i can't find the motivation to study hard for something i grew to hate so now i just scrape by (edge of depression) what makes it worse is that both of my siblings are even higher achievers (cambridge graduates: also masters/phd at cambridge which is like harvard or mit for u guys) so my parents compare me to them. and it's my parents who compelled me to continue my studies instead of going pro in dota (im sure finishing studies is logically/rationally the best thing to do, but im a romantic) go win ti6 and shove your gigantic check in ur parents faces i bet that will make you feel better
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On May 29 2015 06:37 ChunderBoy wrote: what makes my situation worse is that ive all been a high achiever, and now my parents are extremely disappointed coz they always expected too highly of me (and they complain that i play too much video games... they dont understand what 7k means?!) of course i can't find the motivation to study hard for something i grew to hate so now i just scrape by (edge of depression) what makes it worse is that both of my siblings are even higher achievers (cambridge graduates: also masters/phd at cambridge which is like harvard or mit for u guys) so my parents compare me to them. and it's my parents who compelled me to continue my studies instead of going pro in dota (im sure finishing studies is logically/rationally the best thing to do, but im a romantic) Don't worry life gets really good after college!
oh wait
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another thing is that i was forced to take a gap year after high school before going to uni so i get to pay home student tuiton fees instead of international (have to have lived in uk for 3 years), and in the same exact year the government changed do conservative from labour and they decided to triple the tuition fees for home students. so basically a waste of 1 year
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Dunno about most parents but I'm quite sure mine would be prouder of me for having a Masters from Cambridge than $1M from a Dota tournament.
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Holy cow, have you guys seen this modern work of art: + Show Spoiler +
Truly movie of the year. Has to be watched with youtube captions/subtitles, truly adds to this unique experience.
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wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be 
Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize.
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On May 29 2015 06:40 Sn0_Man wrote: Dunno about most parents but I'm quite sure mine would be prouder of me for having a Masters from Cambridge than $1M from a Dota tournament. when i was growing up my dad always told me that being happy was what was most important. he would say to me "i dont care if your a ditch digger as long as your happy"
not sure if thats actually a good thing to say to a kid lol
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On May 29 2015 06:43 TheEmulator wrote:wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be  Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize. "Just look on the bright side of life"
#1 Advice from someone who isn't depressed that doesn't understand depression HEH
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On May 29 2015 06:43 PassiveAce wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:40 Sn0_Man wrote: Dunno about most parents but I'm quite sure mine would be prouder of me for having a Masters from Cambridge than $1M from a Dota tournament. when i was growing up my dad always told me that being happy was what was most important. he would say to me "i dont care if your a ditch digger as long as your happy" not sure if thats actually a good thing to say to a kid lol my brother came to the conclusion that happiness is overrated and the most important thing to be merely content
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On May 29 2015 06:43 Comeh wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 TheEmulator wrote:wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be  Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize. "Just look on the bright side of life" #1 Advice from someone who isn't depressed that doesn't understand depression HEH You know absolutely nothing about me.
+ Show Spoiler +not everyone has the need to talk about their issues in every page of an internet forum
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On May 29 2015 06:44 TheEmulator wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 Comeh wrote:On May 29 2015 06:43 TheEmulator wrote:wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be  Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize. "Just look on the bright side of life" #1 Advice from someone who isn't depressed that doesn't understand depression HEH You know absolutely nothing about me. #KellyClarkson
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On May 29 2015 06:43 Comeh wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 TheEmulator wrote:wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be  Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize. "Just look on the bright side of life" #1 Advice from someone who isn't depressed that doesn't understand depression HEH
#1 Advice from someone who is depressed that doesn't understand depression
psychologists are good for the depressed. mine is doing wonders right now.
On May 29 2015 06:43 PassiveAce wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:40 Sn0_Man wrote: Dunno about most parents but I'm quite sure mine would be prouder of me for having a Masters from Cambridge than $1M from a Dota tournament. when i was growing up my dad always told me that being happy was what was most important. he would say to me "i dont care if your a ditch digger as long as your happy" not sure if thats actually a good thing to say to a kid lol
no that's great advice as long as he encouraged you to get a good education before pursuing your ditch digging career so you had something to fall back on
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On May 29 2015 06:47 BluemoonSC wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 Comeh wrote:On May 29 2015 06:43 TheEmulator wrote:wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be  Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize. "Just look on the bright side of life" #1 Advice from someone who isn't depressed that doesn't understand depression HEH #1 Advice from someone who is depressed that doesn't understand depression psychologists are good for the depressed. mine is doing wonders right now. Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 PassiveAce wrote:On May 29 2015 06:40 Sn0_Man wrote: Dunno about most parents but I'm quite sure mine would be prouder of me for having a Masters from Cambridge than $1M from a Dota tournament. when i was growing up my dad always told me that being happy was what was most important. he would say to me "i dont care if your a ditch digger as long as your happy" not sure if thats actually a good thing to say to a kid lol no that's great advice as long as he encouraged you to get a good education before pursuing your ditch digging career so you had something to fall back on Who has time for that tho
except passive has the most useless major of all time
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Beesa how are u gonna form a team with 04 when he lives on the west coast of Canada
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On May 29 2015 06:47 BluemoonSC wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 Comeh wrote:On May 29 2015 06:43 TheEmulator wrote:wow your life is so hard you have a great education and so many opportunities I can't imagine how difficult it must be  Ok I'm not being serious, I understand you aren't happy in your situation but try to look at it in a positive light. You have a lot of fortune in your life that you don't realize. "Just look on the bright side of life" #1 Advice from someone who isn't depressed that doesn't understand depression HEH #1 Advice from someone who is depressed that doesn't understand depression psychologists are good for the depressed. mine is doing wonders right now. Show nested quote +On May 29 2015 06:43 PassiveAce wrote:On May 29 2015 06:40 Sn0_Man wrote: Dunno about most parents but I'm quite sure mine would be prouder of me for having a Masters from Cambridge than $1M from a Dota tournament. when i was growing up my dad always told me that being happy was what was most important. he would say to me "i dont care if your a ditch digger as long as your happy" not sure if thats actually a good thing to say to a kid lol no that's great advice as long as he encouraged you to get a good education before pursuing your ditch digging career so you had something to fall back on yeah since iv grown up hes been pretty pushy about careers that have nothing to do with digging
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uh oh passive u done fucked up
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On May 29 2015 06:48 Sn0_Man wrote: Beesa how are u gonna form a team with 04 when he lives on the west coast of Canada idk. its up to him not up to me
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