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SpoR
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States1542 Posts
November 16 2011 21:04 GMT
#1081
On November 16 2011 21:12 sunprince wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 16 2011 21:05 SpoR wrote:He was depressed and suicidal because he has daddy issues.


How'd you come to that conclusion? As far as I can tell, it's due to having bipolar and narcissitic personality disorders.

I read the game. There is a part about him and his problems with his father and iirc Strauss says that Mystery always felt like he wasn't good enough to his dad.
A man is what he thinks about all day long.
sunprince
Profile Joined January 2011
United States2258 Posts
November 16 2011 21:46 GMT
#1082
On November 17 2011 06:04 SpoR wrote:I read the game. There is a part about him and his problems with his father and iirc Strauss says that Mystery always felt like he wasn't good enough to his dad.


I must have skimmed over it, but that's rather amusing.
FFGenerations
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
7088 Posts
November 17 2011 01:13 GMT
#1083
On November 16 2011 20:56 sunprince wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 16 2011 20:02 FFGenerations wrote:i ask what PUAs do because my understanding is a decent PUA has a clearer image of how to deal with people, seduction or not


See, the impression I get is that you're an average frustrated chump without a lot of romantic prospects. Girls tend to send you to let's-just-be-friends land and frequently use you as an emotional tampon when they need someone to whine to, but don't actually want to sleep with you. This happens because you're great at building rapport, but don't know how to escalate. Being an intelligent, logical person, you try to persuade girls that they should be with you instead of actually trying to turn them on. Consequently, certain types of low self-esteem girls use you to fulfill their emotional needs, while satisfying their physical needs with other dudes (who tend to be jerks).

Alphas disregard low self-esteem trainwrecks who use you without ever giving you the time of day, because they'd rather find stable, secure chicks who aim to please them. However, because you don't actually have a lot of sexual options, you're instead seeing consoling them as an opportunity to get into their pants. In which case, defining them as your "friends" is quite questionable since they're using you as an emotional tampon while you're just trying to take advantage of their misery to sleep with them.

That would be the 'clearer image' I'm getting, based on the limited information you've provided so far. Feel free to correct any areas where I'm mistaken, and I can provide some advice based on your clarifications.


not really, i just wanna know how to console someone properly :d got some awesome answers in my blog pretty quick. i actually only know 2 girls so fortunately dont need to come to this thread asking for general PUA advice ha ha :D
Cool BW Music Vid - youtube.com/watch?v=W54nlqJ-Nx8 ~~~~~ ᕤ OYSTERS ᕤ CLAMS ᕤ AND ᕤ CUCKOLDS ᕤ ~~~~~~ ༼ ᕤ◕◡◕ ༽ᕤ PUNCH HIM ༼ ᕤ◕◡◕ ༽ᕤ
sunprince
Profile Joined January 2011
United States2258 Posts
November 17 2011 03:23 GMT
#1084
On November 17 2011 10:13 FFGenerations wrote:not really, i just wanna know how to console someone properly :d


There's an obvious discrepancy when you ask PUAs for advice instead of therapists/counselors/etc and consider advice like "Be attractive to her, simple as that."

On November 17 2011 10:13 FFGenerations wrote:i actually only know 2 girls so fortunately dont need to come to this thread asking for general PUA advice ha ha :D


Lol, this mostly reinforces my read. The only question in my mind is whether you're being disingenuous with yourself, or just the people you're asking for advice. In any case, feel free to follow the how-to-be-more-of-an-emotional-tampon advice in your thread, just don't be surprised by the results.
FractalsOnFire
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Australia1756 Posts
November 17 2011 10:04 GMT
#1085
The greatest PUA i have ever seen.



If you couldn't tell he's asian.
sunprince
Profile Joined January 2011
United States2258 Posts
November 17 2011 10:15 GMT
#1086
On November 17 2011 19:04 FractalsOnFire wrote:The greatest PUA i have ever seen.


I hope you're being sarcastic, because aside from being hilarious, that was terribad.
FFGenerations
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
7088 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-17 17:53:17
November 17 2011 17:51 GMT
#1087
On November 17 2011 12:23 sunprince wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 17 2011 10:13 FFGenerations wrote:not really, i just wanna know how to console someone properly :d


There's an obvious discrepancy when you ask PUAs for advice instead of therapists/counselors/etc and consider advice like "Be attractive to her, simple as that."

Show nested quote +
On November 17 2011 10:13 FFGenerations wrote:i actually only know 2 girls so fortunately dont need to come to this thread asking for general PUA advice ha ha :D


Lol, this mostly reinforces my read. The only question in my mind is whether you're being disingenuous with yourself, or just the people you're asking for advice. In any case, feel free to follow the how-to-be-more-of-an-emotional-tampon advice in your thread, just don't be surprised by the results.


ok look, the girl in question is 1000 miles away from where i live and we barely talk so no i am not trying to bone her

the only other girl i know is a 50+ year old woman who i can probably bone anytime if i was in the mood/whatever

so right now i am not interested in the whole spectrum of PUA advice, i just simply asked for some specific perception/insight from you guys with regards to this particular thing/situation/whatever i posted about

i dont really understand your first sentence up there at all, but anyway. when i said "PUAs will probably say 'be attractive to her etc if you want to make her happy'" then i guess thats exactly what your first reply to me did actually say. idk im tired

believe me, ill come back to this thread sometime in the future and explore your proper advice when i feel ready to, just gotta work on myself atm with some current things
Cool BW Music Vid - youtube.com/watch?v=W54nlqJ-Nx8 ~~~~~ ᕤ OYSTERS ᕤ CLAMS ᕤ AND ᕤ CUCKOLDS ᕤ ~~~~~~ ༼ ᕤ◕◡◕ ༽ᕤ PUNCH HIM ༼ ᕤ◕◡◕ ༽ᕤ
reapsen
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Germany559 Posts
November 17 2011 18:30 GMT
#1088
Basically the best PUA would be Tim Berners-Lee, i mean which chic wouldn't fall for an approach like "sup babe? who i am? well, i pretty much invented the internet. so, wanna go see my place?" Jackpot guaranteed.
SpoR
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States1542 Posts
November 17 2011 22:10 GMT
#1089
On November 17 2011 19:04 FractalsOnFire wrote:
The greatest PUA i have ever seen.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qwVLn1-t304

If you couldn't tell he's asian.


dude if that guy didn't have the shitty ebonics and change the subject every 2 seconds he might of had a chance. Unless he was trying to sound silly on purpose just to fuck around.
A man is what he thinks about all day long.
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
November 17 2011 22:27 GMT
#1090
On November 18 2011 07:10 SpoR wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 17 2011 19:04 FractalsOnFire wrote:
The greatest PUA i have ever seen.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qwVLn1-t304

If you couldn't tell he's asian.


dude if that guy didn't have the shitty ebonics and change the subject every 2 seconds he might of had a chance. Unless he was trying to sound silly on purpose just to fuck around.



Hes plowing alright but definitely not amazing. Hes basically stalling because he cant find anything interesting to say. Dude the idiot is filming blatantly. No wonder hes fucking up his sets. I thought it was a spy cam. Dude, if a chick sees you recording its fucking over. Yeah, I cant believe hes asian, he sound hella black. He has a good voice base if he fixed up his ghettoness.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
November 17 2011 22:29 GMT
#1091
One of the best links I have come across in a long time. Check out his posts on the right.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/keeping-your-cool-dont-chase-women
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
LostDevil
Profile Joined March 2005
Fiji283 Posts
November 18 2011 02:50 GMT
#1092
On November 18 2011 07:29 squattincassanova wrote:
One of the best links I have come across in a long time. Check out his posts on the right.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/keeping-your-cool-dont-chase-women



Thank you for this. I went through this about 5 months ago in a bad way for the first time in my life. I am now on the other side and have been for a while but it takes me back to that time and all that I did wrong. I probably would never have done any of it ever again just because I did a 180 as a person since then but it still reinforces good habits and tells me that the choices I'm making now are the correct ones. It also goes a little deeper than my experience and will help me to never make the same mistake again.
freelander
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Hungary4707 Posts
November 18 2011 05:07 GMT
#1093
what is plowing?
And all is illuminated.
GuYuTe-
Profile Joined February 2005
United States550 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-18 06:34:01
November 18 2011 06:16 GMT
#1094
On November 18 2011 14:07 freelander wrote:
what is plowing?


It just means trying too hard. It's a bad choice of words even for someone with English as a first language, but he basically just means being overly persistent.

EDIT: I just assumed that's what it meant based on the previous article in that link. Upon further review it seems as if it's some retarded PUA lingo, but based on the context of that article it seems like he just meant 'plowing' as in trying too hard and looking desperate.
gugarutz
Profile Joined August 2010
Austria110 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-18 15:34:55
November 18 2011 15:31 GMT
#1095
On November 18 2011 14:07 freelander wrote:
what is plowing?

it means to just be persistent and go through the shit which is thrown at you.


EDIT: I just assumed that's what it meant based on the previous article in that link. Upon further review it seems as if it's some retarded PUA lingo, but based on the context of that article it seems like he just meant 'plowing' as in trying too hard and looking desperate.


trying to hard is not the same as not to give up

trying to hard comes across different than just not going away and ignore what you don't like to hear.
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
November 19 2011 10:21 GMT
#1096
When ever you are learning something. You ALWAYS look like you are a try hard. Who gives a fuck? Over time, it becomes natural.

Have you ever tried to dunk a basketball for the first time? You look like a try hard. Have you ever tried to dunk a basketball after 5 years of dunking? It looks natural. Its about the PROCESS.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
November 19 2011 10:58 GMT
#1097
Plenty of Fish Girl LOL!

http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
Catch
Profile Joined September 2010
United States616 Posts
November 21 2011 15:24 GMT
#1098
So a decent little weekend.

Went to another college in my area (well... 2 and a half hours away lol) so we all know the shenanigans that were gonna go down. We were on branch campus, which means that we didn't go the main campus. Instead we went to a ~20 person party that wasn't bad. I prefer those kind of parties, I know a few people but I can actually sit down and talk to mofos, instead of being jammed into a room with 100 people.

Unnecessary details skipped, I was having a good time with pretty much everybody and sat down with a blonde chick who turned out to be a nutrition major and who was definitely into it. Even if she wasn't, I fucking assumed she was anyway. I was slightly tipsy, so after awhile of talking I excused myself to go to the bathroom, went into another room to talk to someone and I think she was still waiting for me. Then someone came and asked her to go do something and she went outside. Shitty part was as soon as I walked back into the living room, my ride told me we were leaving. No win for Catch Didn't even get to get her number when I went back up there.

Saturday I was back on my own campus, ready to go. Went out sober like I normally do. I was in a house on the dance floor when some chick asked me to dance. Golden ticket? Lol. She was pretty good too. Eventually I went outside with her and we only talked for a little before I had to leave (I thought the people I was with left the house), but I got her number.

Ended up finding one of my friends still there, and sitting and talking to a group of people about sex. Had my eye on another girl, but couldn't tell if she was attractive to me or not (dark outside at midnight, in case ya didn't know) so I just got her facebook. Now Imma have to find a way to get her number

Good weekend, I just need to learn how to escalate quicker and I'd be fuggin' golden.
Victory Loves Preparation
squattincassanova
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States650 Posts
November 21 2011 18:55 GMT
#1099
Your field reports dont get you better because they are way too vague and really you are just story telling in a way that people can't give you feedback. So what if your ride has to leave? Call a cab? Did you get her logistics? Who she come with? Where is she staying? Thats the shit you shoulda figured out within like 10 minutes of talking to a girl.
http://www.youtube.com/squattincassanova (Pickup In-Field) Subscribe if you like!
Colbert
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Canada148 Posts
November 21 2011 23:06 GMT
#1100
On November 18 2011 07:29 squattincassanova wrote:
One of the best links I have come across in a long time. Check out his posts on the right.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/keeping-your-cool-dont-chase-women


Great post.
Sometimes you win, Sometimes you learn
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