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Anyone elses parents as fucking stupid as mine are? I was out today at 10 a.m. and I just got home. It's now about 9 p.m. One of my friends calls and asks if I can do anything, and I can't because I was out all day. THAT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE! WHO FUCKING CARES IF I WAS GONE!? CLEARLY I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING BE HERE, AND THEN YOU GIVE A BULLSHIT REASON AS TO WHY I CAN'T GO OUT!?
Then, after I get pissed off at my dad for being such a fucktard, he starts telling me about how I need to "change my attitude." Yeah! That's it dumbass, being pissed off because your parents give the most half-assed retarded reasons as to why you are not allowed to do something shows I have a BAD attitude. Perhaps, just perhaps, I don't like when people do stupid shit for no reason at all, and then give a bullshit reason as to why, simply because they don't want you to.
The other day I asked if I could stay over at my friend's house, and they say no. Why? Because I was up until 3 a.m. the night before. AS IF THAT FUCKING MATTERED. Yep, it's the fucking summer, but I can't stay up later than usual. That makes a whole shitload of sense.
I can't wait until I am 18, because I am moving out, whether I can afford it or not.
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A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. An optomist sees opportunity in every difficulty. -Winston Churchill
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yeh omg sometimes they come up with the most fucked up reasons...
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On July 18 2004 18:28 exalted wrote:
A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. An optomist sees opportunity in every difficulty. -Winston Churchill
The thing is, my dad is one of the cocksuckers who doesn't change his mind no matter what is represented to him, and my mom isn't home.
I'm 17, I just turned 17 a few days ago. This is why it's so fucking stupid; at 17 I SHOULD be able to go out all day (not until 1 a.m. This I can understand), and there SHOULDN'T be a fucking problem with it. The thing is, I HAVE to ask about everything I do, because my parents are faggots.
I thought I'd add this: I am home almost all day on most days, and my parents keep telling me I need to go out more. So now, when I have the opportunity to be out of this shit hole, I can't go anywhere? Where's the logic in that?
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Dude, I had parents for 18 years and I learned a few things. One, if you yell at them or get really pissed at them, they let you do less things, because they think you are a problem child.
Two: If you are truthful with them about what you do when you are out late, they trust you to go out more. Even if you smoke weed or drop acid one time, you can 'spin' it right so that they still trust you.
3) A good relationship with your parents is worth say not going out because you were out till 3am the night before. A good relationship makes all those hours you HAVE to spend with them seem less sucky. Trust me here dude, and just calm a little.
PS exalted your comment is genius, I didn't even notice that.
Edit: once they trust you, you also will be able to explain things to them like the above and they will not be on the defensive, and so will follow your logic, and be less 'retarded.'
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I agree. It's the Summer right? You are right... unless there is some reason for your parents to not trust you. You haven't f*ked up recently, that your parents know about, right? If you aren't a constant F*U*, I don't see why you shouldn't be allowed to VACATION, during your Summer VACATION.
I was a nerd in Highschool... got all my work done and good grades. Even during the school year, I'd sometimes hang out until 1AM, 2AM and my parents where cool about it since I still got everything done. This was when I was 17 though.
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On July 18 2004 18:25 SickofLife wrote:
Anyone elses parents as fucking stupid as mine are? I was out today at 10 a.m. and I just got home. It's now about 9 p.m. One of my friends calls and asks if I can do anything, and I can't because I was out all day. THAT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE! WHO FUCKING CARES IF I WAS GONE!? CLEARLY I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING BE HERE, AND THEN YOU GIVE A BULLSHIT REASON AS TO WHY I CAN'T GO OUT!?
Then, after I get pissed off at my dad for being such a fucktard, he starts telling me about how I need to "change my attitude." Yeah! That's it dumbass, being pissed off because your parents give the most half-assed retarded reasons as to why you are not allowed to do something shows I have a BAD attitude. Perhaps, just perhaps, I don't like when people do stupid shit for no reason at all, and then give a bullshit reason as to why, simply because they don't want you to.
The other day I asked if I could stay over at my friend's house, and they say no. Why? Because I was up until 3 a.m. the night before. AS IF THAT FUCKING MATTERED. Yep, it's the fucking summer, but I can't stay up later than usual. That makes a whole shitload of sense.
I can't wait until I am 18, because I am moving out, whether I can afford it or not.
You're one angst ridden teenager. Listen to your parents.
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On July 18 2004 18:37 pooper-scooper wrote:
Dude, I had parents for 18 years and I learned a few things. One, if you yell at them or get really pissed at them, they let you do less things, because they think you are a problem child.
Two: If you are truthful with them about what you do when you are out late, they trust you to go out more. Even if you smoke weed or drop acid one time, you can 'spin' it right so that they still trust you.
3) A good relationship with your parents is worth say not going out because you were out till 3am the night before. A good relationship makes all those hours you HAVE to spend with them seem less sucky. Trust me here dude, and just calm a little.
PS exalted your comment is genius, I didn't even notice that.
First off: I was up until 3 a.m. Not out. I was in my fucking house all night.
Secondly: I hate my dad, and have NO interest in, after him not being there the first 14 years of my life, making a "relationship" with him. If he wanted to be a "father," perhaps he should have been there the first 14 years, and stop trying to get involved in a life I don't want him in now.
Third: He just took the quote from my sig, it's been there for a couple of weeks.
Fourth: My parents do trust me. The most wrongful thing I do is play video games too much. I don't do drugs, I don't drink, and I have no girls around to fuck. I'm pretty much a straight-edge (except if it's there, I'll drink it).
EDIT: The ONLY thing I have done wrong lately, aside from too many games, is that I said I'd have a certain amount of school work done by a certain time. The work turned out to be more than I expected, and a hell of a lot more boring (meaning I REALLY hated to do it), so I didn't get it done on the said date. I still completed a year of highschool in under the amount of time I would have in a public school.
I haven't done shit for them to be such fucking cocks about everything.
Maynard, clearly, I do listen to them, or I would have walked the fuck out of the house.
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With freedom comes responsibility. Show them that you are responsible, and they will give you freedom. Get a part time job for the summer. Clean up your room. Help around the house.
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my mom is the same way. Just lie to them about everything you do. It's worked wonders for me this summer.
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just do tons of drugs in ur bathroom so u won't get so mad at them
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On July 18 2004 18:46 TeCh)PsylO wrote:
With freedom comes responsibility. Show them that you are responsible, and they will give you freedom. Get a part time job for the summer. Clean up your room. Help around the house.
Done, done and done. I help around the house. I wash the dishes many days (though I often get caught up in the games). I wash my own clothes a lot, and don't say a word about it. I vacuum the floor, too. I don't clean my room a lot, being that the house I live in sucks ass, and I have to share a room with my brother, and a lot of it is his stuff, which I don't know what to do with, so I leave it. I have a job, and am looking for another one.
My dad, specifically (my mom is fine about this stuff most of the time), is a cocksucker, that's all. He just doesn't want me to, so I can't.
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On July 18 2004 18:47 Bleww wrote:
my mom is the same way. Just lie to them about everything you do. It's worked wonders for me this summer.
The problem is, I simply can't leave the house. It's like being grounded for doing nothing wrong at all. It doesn't make sense.
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hmmm... why do you hold it against your dad that he wasn't there your 1st 14yrs, was it his fault or smth? just wondering... cuz if it is then I see where you're comin from, but if not, I really think you oughta cut him some slack.
And look at it this way, it takes them energy to ask about you, take care of you, keep you from doing stuff that they think is bad. If they didn't care they could just say, go out all night, go smoke weed till your too stoned to open your eyes, go fuck whoever you want, we don't care if you get STDs  . I know this sounds cheesey, but chances are they care about you, at least enough to try to keep you out of trouble.
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my parents are just like that. they make no sense and will not listen. i think they develop this way because they get used to bossing around a child for so long, they grow to like it, or need it, whatever. it's all they seem to be able to do anymore.
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On July 18 2004 18:54 0_0 wrote: hmmm... why do you hold it against your dad that he wasn't there your 1st 14yrs, was it his fault or smth? just wondering... cuz if it is then I see where you're comin from, but if not, I really think you oughta cut him some slack. And look at it this way, it takes them energy to ask about you, take care of you, keep you from doing stuff that they think is bad. If they didn't care they could just say, go out all night, go smoke weed till your too stoned to open your eyes, go fuck whoever you want, we don't care if you get STDs . I know this sounds cheesey, but chances are they care about you, at least enough to try to keep you out of trouble.
The thing is, they aren't keeping me out of anything that will get me into trouble. Allowing me to go to a LAN where a bunch of people over 21, who I could get alcohol from, is potentially a lot more dangerous than say... allowing me to go to watch a movie with a friend that they know.
It was his fault that he wasn't there. He just didn't want to take the time to be involved in any of our lives, and we all hate him for it.
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On July 18 2004 18:59 SickofLife wrote: Show nested quote +On July 18 2004 18:54 0_0 wrote: hmmm... why do you hold it against your dad that he wasn't there your 1st 14yrs, was it his fault or smth? just wondering... cuz if it is then I see where you're comin from, but if not, I really think you oughta cut him some slack. And look at it this way, it takes them energy to ask about you, take care of you, keep you from doing stuff that they think is bad. If they didn't care they could just say, go out all night, go smoke weed till your too stoned to open your eyes, go fuck whoever you want, we don't care if you get STDs . I know this sounds cheesey, but chances are they care about you, at least enough to try to keep you out of trouble. The thing is, they aren't keeping me out of anything that will get me into trouble. Allowing me to go to a LAN where a bunch of people over 21, who I could get alcohol from, is potentially a lot more dangerous than say... allowing me to go to watch a movie with a friend that they know. It was his fault that he wasn't there. He just didn't want to take the time to be involved in any of our lives, and we all hate him for it.
well... that sucks  .
I suppose just ask yourself:
1. Does he think what he's doing is good for you?
2. Or do you truely believe that he hates you enough to go out of his way to make you miserable?
. Best of luck.
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ahhhhh nvm ignore #2 .
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Russian Federation1020 Posts
Haha, i only read the first few posts, but your parents sound alot like mine. Always "Omg, you're on the computer all day long!! You need to get out!" Then whenever i want to get out, i get berrated by questions and shit. Now i just leave cuz i got sick and tired of all the bullshit.
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my mom thinks it's better for me to watch tv than play a computer game. she also thinks it's better for me to go gamble and drink with my dad than play a video game. she also says i need to get out more even though she cant exactly give me one example of wtf "out" is. does she want me to go to bars blowint $200 a night trying to pick up drunk sluts that i cant bring home? id really like to know.
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My parents did the same thing. If you are gone all day, come home and want to go out again, there is some innate feeling as a parent that the child does not need to go out again.
Accept the fact that parents hate having their children out 24/7. Ultimately dont throw tantrums over your parents parenting, you will understand their point of view in several years.
The best advice you can be given (from what little we can assume about your parents), is give them hours of your time, so that you can spend more time away from them. Just do what we all did when we were younger. Anticipate the time home routine, and tell your friends.
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On July 18 2004 18:49 SickofLife wrote:
Done, done and done. I help around the house. I wash the dishes many days (though I often get caught up in the games). I wash my own clothes a lot, and don't say a word about it. I vacuum the floor, too. I don't clean my room a lot, being that the house I live in sucks ass, and I have to share a room with my brother, and a lot of it is his stuff, which I don't know what to do with, so I leave it. I have a job, and am looking for another one.
My dad, specifically (my mom is fine about this stuff most of the time), is a cocksucker, that's all. He just doesn't want me to, so I can't.
Have you asked them why?
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On July 18 2004 19:10 STIMEY d okgm fish wrote:
my mom thinks it's better for me to watch tv than play a computer game. she also thinks it's better for me to go gamble and drink with my dad than play a video game. she also says i need to get out more even though she cant exactly give me one example of wtf "out" is. does she want me to go to bars blowint $200 a night trying to pick up drunk sluts that i cant bring home? id really like to know.
This is indacative of alot of parents. I think from their point of view they dont want their children to do just one thing all the time. I wouldnt want my children to live like that either. Simply put, they dont want a boring child.
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On July 18 2004 19:17 TeCh)PsylO wrote: Show nested quote +On July 18 2004 18:49 SickofLife wrote:
Done, done and done. I help around the house. I wash the dishes many days (though I often get caught up in the games). I wash my own clothes a lot, and don't say a word about it. I vacuum the floor, too. I don't clean my room a lot, being that the house I live in sucks ass, and I have to share a room with my brother, and a lot of it is his stuff, which I don't know what to do with, so I leave it. I have a job, and am looking for another one.
My dad, specifically (my mom is fine about this stuff most of the time), is a cocksucker, that's all. He just doesn't want me to, so I can't. Have you asked them why?
Yes, and this is why I get pissed off. I ask, "why can't I?" and I do it in a nice, calm, rational way. They then say, "because you don't NEED to." So I ask, "Well, why not?" They say, "because YOU DON'T NEED TO! I DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF TO YOU! DON'T EVER QUESTION ME." That is what they say, and I did not just make that up.
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When you turn 18 nothing chnages, expect if you kill you parents you will be charged as an adult.
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On July 18 2004 19:35 {CC}StealthBlue wrote:
When you turn 18 nothing chnages, expect if you kill you parents you will be charged as an adult.
What changes is I leave, and they can't do dick about it.
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If they are don't worry. All Asian Parents are like that...
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dude, dunno why i read this almost never read general forums but jus stay calm and never lose control or get angry at them, that works best iv'e learned that, i used to throw stuff outta my window and fight my dad when i was younger(15-16) now(18) i fukin work them out and its working great
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asian parents suck fuckign cock
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Just wait another year until you're 18. You can't do anything about parents until you've got the law on your side.
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respect your parents, obey them be a good son and you will have all the permissions you want
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On July 18 2004 20:39 LoL_OdiN wrote:
respect your parents, obey them be a good son and you will have all the permissions you want
I did, and I didn't.
No, I'm not Asian.
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My parents have never gave me a curfew hour or something, i guess i "tamed" them since if they dont allow me to get after 2 ill get home at 3, and if they dont allow me after 3 ill get 4, if they forbid me to use the TV ill watch it all day long etc...
Now we are all cool and we all get along
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On July 18 2004 19:17 SW)RIF wrote:
My parents did the same thing. If you are gone all day, come home and want to go out again, there is some innate feeling as a parent that the child does not need to go out again.
Accept the fact that parents hate having their children out 24/7. Ultimately dont throw tantrums over your parents parenting, you will understand their point of view in several years.
The best advice you can be given (from what little we can assume about your parents), is give them hours of your time, so that you can spend more time away from them. Just do what we all did when we were younger. Anticipate the time home routine, and tell your friends.
^is right. All parents want that little level of control, i doubt it was THAT big a deal that u wanted to go out, just that u thought it was messed up u can't, right? its the principle which can be understood but ur parents just wanna make sure u aint getting into any trouble, even tho ur aint, they might think u are or potentially could especially if u have a bad attitude about them saying u have to stay home or something, always act as the "aww mom" kinda kid, never "why the hell not?" kind. my parents are same way, so i just expect that i can't go out EVERYTIME.
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On July 18 2004 18:25 SickofLife wrote:
Anyone elses parents as fucking stupid as mine are? I was out today at 10 a.m. and I just got home. It's now about 9 p.m. One of my friends calls and asks if I can do anything, and I can't because I was out all day. THAT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE! WHO FUCKING CARES IF I WAS GONE!? CLEARLY I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING BE HERE, AND THEN YOU GIVE A BULLSHIT REASON AS TO WHY I CAN'T GO OUT!?
Then, after I get pissed off at my dad for being such a fucktard, he starts telling me about how I need to "change my attitude." Yeah! That's it dumbass, being pissed off because your parents give the most half-assed retarded reasons as to why you are not allowed to do something shows I have a BAD attitude. Perhaps, just perhaps, I don't like when people do stupid shit for no reason at all, and then give a bullshit reason as to why, simply because they don't want you to.
The other day I asked if I could stay over at my friend's house, and they say no. Why? Because I was up until 3 a.m. the night before. AS IF THAT FUCKING MATTERED. Yep, it's the fucking summer, but I can't stay up later than usual. That makes a whole shitload of sense.
I can't wait until I am 18, because I am moving out, whether I can afford it or not.
hahahahahaha I remember I used to be just like you. How hilarious is that. Anyway the short answer is you need to be thinking less about yourself. If you're gone for much of the day, your parents just want to have you home so they can see you and talk to you about stuff. They just want to know you're okay. They're looking out for you whether you realize it or not. Of course they're going to give you some bullshit reason that makes no sense, because they're going to be too proud to say the real reason which is they don't want to have to worry about you. Parents worry a ton, so take that into consideration.
They sound like pretty good parents to me. You're a lucky guy.
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Your parents should have beaten you more often. Listen to them, they're not as stupid as you think.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On July 18 2004 18:25 SickofLife wrote:
Anyone elses parents as fucking stupid as mine are? I was out today at 10 a.m. and I just got home. It's now about 9 p.m. One of my friends calls and asks if I can do anything, and I can't because I was out all day. THAT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE! WHO FUCKING CARES IF I WAS GONE!? CLEARLY I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING BE HERE, AND THEN YOU GIVE A BULLSHIT REASON AS TO WHY I CAN'T GO OUT!?
Then, after I get pissed off at my dad for being such a fucktard, he starts telling me about how I need to "change my attitude." Yeah! That's it dumbass, being pissed off because your parents give the most half-assed retarded reasons as to why you are not allowed to do something shows I have a BAD attitude. Perhaps, just perhaps, I don't like when people do stupid shit for no reason at all, and then give a bullshit reason as to why, simply because they don't want you to.
The other day I asked if I could stay over at my friend's house, and they say no. Why? Because I was up until 3 a.m. the night before. AS IF THAT FUCKING MATTERED. Yep, it's the fucking summer, but I can't stay up later than usual. That makes a whole shitload of sense.
I can't wait until I am 18, because I am moving out, whether I can afford it or not.
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