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Anyone elses parents as fucking stupid as mine are? I was out today at 10 a.m. and I just got home. It's now about 9 p.m. One of my friends calls and asks if I can do anything, and I can't because I was out all day. THAT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE! WHO FUCKING CARES IF I WAS GONE!? CLEARLY I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING BE HERE, AND THEN YOU GIVE A BULLSHIT REASON AS TO WHY I CAN'T GO OUT!?
Then, after I get pissed off at my dad for being such a fucktard, he starts telling me about how I need to "change my attitude." Yeah! That's it dumbass, being pissed off because your parents give the most half-assed retarded reasons as to why you are not allowed to do something shows I have a BAD attitude. Perhaps, just perhaps, I don't like when people do stupid shit for no reason at all, and then give a bullshit reason as to why, simply because they don't want you to.
The other day I asked if I could stay over at my friend's house, and they say no. Why? Because I was up until 3 a.m. the night before. AS IF THAT FUCKING MATTERED. Yep, it's the fucking summer, but I can't stay up later than usual. That makes a whole shitload of sense.
I can't wait until I am 18, because I am moving out, whether I can afford it or not.
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A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. An optomist sees opportunity in every difficulty. -Winston Churchill
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yeh omg sometimes they come up with the most fucked up reasons...
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On July 18 2004 18:28 exalted wrote:
A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. An optomist sees opportunity in every difficulty. -Winston Churchill
The thing is, my dad is one of the cocksuckers who doesn't change his mind no matter what is represented to him, and my mom isn't home.
I'm 17, I just turned 17 a few days ago. This is why it's so fucking stupid; at 17 I SHOULD be able to go out all day (not until 1 a.m. This I can understand), and there SHOULDN'T be a fucking problem with it. The thing is, I HAVE to ask about everything I do, because my parents are faggots.
I thought I'd add this: I am home almost all day on most days, and my parents keep telling me I need to go out more. So now, when I have the opportunity to be out of this shit hole, I can't go anywhere? Where's the logic in that?
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Dude, I had parents for 18 years and I learned a few things. One, if you yell at them or get really pissed at them, they let you do less things, because they think you are a problem child.
Two: If you are truthful with them about what you do when you are out late, they trust you to go out more. Even if you smoke weed or drop acid one time, you can 'spin' it right so that they still trust you.
3) A good relationship with your parents is worth say not going out because you were out till 3am the night before. A good relationship makes all those hours you HAVE to spend with them seem less sucky. Trust me here dude, and just calm a little.
PS exalted your comment is genius, I didn't even notice that.
Edit: once they trust you, you also will be able to explain things to them like the above and they will not be on the defensive, and so will follow your logic, and be less 'retarded.'
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I agree. It's the Summer right? You are right... unless there is some reason for your parents to not trust you. You haven't f*ked up recently, that your parents know about, right? If you aren't a constant F*U*, I don't see why you shouldn't be allowed to VACATION, during your Summer VACATION.
I was a nerd in Highschool... got all my work done and good grades. Even during the school year, I'd sometimes hang out until 1AM, 2AM and my parents where cool about it since I still got everything done. This was when I was 17 though.
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On July 18 2004 18:25 SickofLife wrote:
Anyone elses parents as fucking stupid as mine are? I was out today at 10 a.m. and I just got home. It's now about 9 p.m. One of my friends calls and asks if I can do anything, and I can't because I was out all day. THAT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE! WHO FUCKING CARES IF I WAS GONE!? CLEARLY I DON'T WANT TO FUCKING BE HERE, AND THEN YOU GIVE A BULLSHIT REASON AS TO WHY I CAN'T GO OUT!?
Then, after I get pissed off at my dad for being such a fucktard, he starts telling me about how I need to "change my attitude." Yeah! That's it dumbass, being pissed off because your parents give the most half-assed retarded reasons as to why you are not allowed to do something shows I have a BAD attitude. Perhaps, just perhaps, I don't like when people do stupid shit for no reason at all, and then give a bullshit reason as to why, simply because they don't want you to.
The other day I asked if I could stay over at my friend's house, and they say no. Why? Because I was up until 3 a.m. the night before. AS IF THAT FUCKING MATTERED. Yep, it's the fucking summer, but I can't stay up later than usual. That makes a whole shitload of sense.
I can't wait until I am 18, because I am moving out, whether I can afford it or not.
You're one angst ridden teenager. Listen to your parents.
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On July 18 2004 18:37 pooper-scooper wrote:
Dude, I had parents for 18 years and I learned a few things. One, if you yell at them or get really pissed at them, they let you do less things, because they think you are a problem child.
Two: If you are truthful with them about what you do when you are out late, they trust you to go out more. Even if you smoke weed or drop acid one time, you can 'spin' it right so that they still trust you.
3) A good relationship with your parents is worth say not going out because you were out till 3am the night before. A good relationship makes all those hours you HAVE to spend with them seem less sucky. Trust me here dude, and just calm a little.
PS exalted your comment is genius, I didn't even notice that.
First off: I was up until 3 a.m. Not out. I was in my fucking house all night.
Secondly: I hate my dad, and have NO interest in, after him not being there the first 14 years of my life, making a "relationship" with him. If he wanted to be a "father," perhaps he should have been there the first 14 years, and stop trying to get involved in a life I don't want him in now.
Third: He just took the quote from my sig, it's been there for a couple of weeks.
Fourth: My parents do trust me. The most wrongful thing I do is play video games too much. I don't do drugs, I don't drink, and I have no girls around to fuck. I'm pretty much a straight-edge (except if it's there, I'll drink it).
EDIT: The ONLY thing I have done wrong lately, aside from too many games, is that I said I'd have a certain amount of school work done by a certain time. The work turned out to be more than I expected, and a hell of a lot more boring (meaning I REALLY hated to do it), so I didn't get it done on the said date. I still completed a year of highschool in under the amount of time I would have in a public school.
I haven't done shit for them to be such fucking cocks about everything.
Maynard, clearly, I do listen to them, or I would have walked the fuck out of the house.
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With freedom comes responsibility. Show them that you are responsible, and they will give you freedom. Get a part time job for the summer. Clean up your room. Help around the house.
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my mom is the same way. Just lie to them about everything you do. It's worked wonders for me this summer.
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just do tons of drugs in ur bathroom so u won't get so mad at them
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On July 18 2004 18:46 TeCh)PsylO wrote:
With freedom comes responsibility. Show them that you are responsible, and they will give you freedom. Get a part time job for the summer. Clean up your room. Help around the house.
Done, done and done. I help around the house. I wash the dishes many days (though I often get caught up in the games). I wash my own clothes a lot, and don't say a word about it. I vacuum the floor, too. I don't clean my room a lot, being that the house I live in sucks ass, and I have to share a room with my brother, and a lot of it is his stuff, which I don't know what to do with, so I leave it. I have a job, and am looking for another one.
My dad, specifically (my mom is fine about this stuff most of the time), is a cocksucker, that's all. He just doesn't want me to, so I can't.
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On July 18 2004 18:47 Bleww wrote:
my mom is the same way. Just lie to them about everything you do. It's worked wonders for me this summer.
The problem is, I simply can't leave the house. It's like being grounded for doing nothing wrong at all. It doesn't make sense.
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hmmm... why do you hold it against your dad that he wasn't there your 1st 14yrs, was it his fault or smth? just wondering... cuz if it is then I see where you're comin from, but if not, I really think you oughta cut him some slack.
And look at it this way, it takes them energy to ask about you, take care of you, keep you from doing stuff that they think is bad. If they didn't care they could just say, go out all night, go smoke weed till your too stoned to open your eyes, go fuck whoever you want, we don't care if you get STDs  . I know this sounds cheesey, but chances are they care about you, at least enough to try to keep you out of trouble.
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my parents are just like that. they make no sense and will not listen. i think they develop this way because they get used to bossing around a child for so long, they grow to like it, or need it, whatever. it's all they seem to be able to do anymore.
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On July 18 2004 18:54 0_0 wrote: hmmm... why do you hold it against your dad that he wasn't there your 1st 14yrs, was it his fault or smth? just wondering... cuz if it is then I see where you're comin from, but if not, I really think you oughta cut him some slack. And look at it this way, it takes them energy to ask about you, take care of you, keep you from doing stuff that they think is bad. If they didn't care they could just say, go out all night, go smoke weed till your too stoned to open your eyes, go fuck whoever you want, we don't care if you get STDs . I know this sounds cheesey, but chances are they care about you, at least enough to try to keep you out of trouble.
The thing is, they aren't keeping me out of anything that will get me into trouble. Allowing me to go to a LAN where a bunch of people over 21, who I could get alcohol from, is potentially a lot more dangerous than say... allowing me to go to watch a movie with a friend that they know.
It was his fault that he wasn't there. He just didn't want to take the time to be involved in any of our lives, and we all hate him for it.
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On July 18 2004 18:59 SickofLife wrote: Show nested quote +On July 18 2004 18:54 0_0 wrote: hmmm... why do you hold it against your dad that he wasn't there your 1st 14yrs, was it his fault or smth? just wondering... cuz if it is then I see where you're comin from, but if not, I really think you oughta cut him some slack. And look at it this way, it takes them energy to ask about you, take care of you, keep you from doing stuff that they think is bad. If they didn't care they could just say, go out all night, go smoke weed till your too stoned to open your eyes, go fuck whoever you want, we don't care if you get STDs . I know this sounds cheesey, but chances are they care about you, at least enough to try to keep you out of trouble. The thing is, they aren't keeping me out of anything that will get me into trouble. Allowing me to go to a LAN where a bunch of people over 21, who I could get alcohol from, is potentially a lot more dangerous than say... allowing me to go to watch a movie with a friend that they know. It was his fault that he wasn't there. He just didn't want to take the time to be involved in any of our lives, and we all hate him for it.
well... that sucks  .
I suppose just ask yourself:
1. Does he think what he's doing is good for you?
2. Or do you truely believe that he hates you enough to go out of his way to make you miserable?
. Best of luck.
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ahhhhh nvm ignore #2 .
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