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Shock710
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deathgod6
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MaV_gGSC
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Perguvious
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ImbaTosS
United Kingdom1732 Posts
On August 10 2012 17:10 MaV_gGSC wrote: all that research.. damn. Just talk to her o_O Yeah, wow, my god! It's really not one millionth as tricky as you're making it look :p and this from a guy who had difficulty talking to anybody for some time! Just *ahem* man up. | ||
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Ghin
United States2391 Posts
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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
I'll be able to report back after monday lol | ||
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heha
Australia425 Posts
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Azera
3800 Posts
 Really love the girl blog. LOL | ||
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
1) Does she like me? 2) Why is she angry u can be as fabulous and flamboyant with ur answers  | ||
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Ghin
United States2391 Posts
You won't be able to plan everything out all the time. The first step is to say hi. The longer you wait, the more she'll think of you as the weird guy who stares at her instead of someone she might like to know. | ||
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Masq
Canada1792 Posts
problem solved | ||
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zalz
Netherlands3704 Posts
She gave you smiles, she gave you glances, she did everything short of waving the landing sign. You didn't approach her, giving her a non-verbal fuck you, regardless of how many glances you threw back. She realized you were never going to talk to her, so she moved on. Don't talk to her, you will only look like an idiot if you try anything at this point. Either you go for it, or you don't. The longer you wait, the weirder things get. Notably, the establishment of an elaborate bus schedule that is only appropriate on the fridge of a serial killer. | ||
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Sporadic44
United States533 Posts
On August 10 2012 17:33 Ghin wrote: Instead of stalking her with an elaborate bus schedule scheme, talk to her ask her to go some place with you. Easy advice to give, harder to actually carry out. Especially for the shy-guys out there. This is however the truth. This blog actually felt kind of ridiculous while reading. The amount of thought you put into assessing QT's age for example. You've obviously spent more than a fleeting moment thinking about it. When really you could just find out how old she is through talking to her. That said I also found this blog extremely enlightening to read. It's never been age for me but I realize now I've often spent a fair deal of time dwelling on specific(often times seemingly random) characteristics or impressions concerning girls that I would be dating, talking to, or crushing on. So much so that at times I get hung up on the details i'm staring at while remaining oblivious to the many other facets unique to each girl. When you're in a committed long term relationship this very same idea can ruin things unless sorted out and discussed between partners. Likewise, when you're crushing on a girl, a detail like age can deter you from taking a risk and talking to the girl. In both instances the idea and practice of communication is paramount. You cite her age as a reason for not talking to her So this continued till the first semester ended, we never said a word to each other in that time just smiles and glances. (cause I have no balls and also the age thing) Following the logic above, you would more than likely find out QT's age before it was even relevant in your interactions with her. You can be friendly toward people of all ages without being thrown in jail, yet your categorizations of asian age stages says you've thought about this one detail for longer than you probably should. --A lot of this is simply me brainstorming. As I mentioned this blog really made me consider my perception of girls i'm attracted to. On more than one occasion I spent too much time, or weighed too much worth on assumptions or guesstimations about girls. Because of that I lost several opportunities to get to know said girls better. A kind of self defeating course to take. Let me know if anything i've said rings true with you. Maybe I personalized your words too much. For me this blog has a message. Details are innumerable and certain aspects of a woman seem to swallow my attention and curiosity. It can be enticing to consider each detail and think through them like sorting through gold. But sometimes the big picture is what you need to be looking at, if you hope to establish deeper connections with a girl. Idk let me know what you think. As for the looking out the window, aloof demeanor following your vacation; I see this as one of three possibilities. Of course all hypothetical 1. She's now seeing someone//no longer seeking companionship 2. She's in a rough point in her life(bad day, week, etc) and internally focused on that instead of her physical surroundings 3. She may recognize you, but never gave a rats ass about getting to know you//The special connection you feel for her may not be reciprocated. This coincides with my original thought regarding communication. Simply assuming or guessing why she didn't look at you is ultimately a fruitless thought to pursue. Find your next window of opportunity to open up the lines of communication with this girl. Worst comes to worst you suffer through an awkward moment of embarassment or blatant rejection and come out a lot stronger because you took the chance. Who knows until you try right? Grats on 2k posts. Thanks for sharing! | ||
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Cyber_Cheese
Australia3615 Posts
She specifically went out of her way to get off at your stop, it's been a long time, and you still didn't do anything, so... HURRY OR YOU'LL MISS IT Also, you may or may not need to be reminded that she's human. People enjoy being challenged, so worshipping them like gods is counter-productive. Here's the plan: 1) See her alone on the bus/tram/w.e 2) Sit next to her - No more testing the waters, she's tried an all-in, you defended it, and if you don't counter-attack to win now, you're just wasting her time and your own. (and also giving yourself unnecessary chances to lose the game) 3) TALK - i suggest opening with 'hi, I'm X' (She should reply with her name here) 'I see you here a lot, what's your stop?' when she replies high school, that's an easy lead-in for asking what year, If she's interested, the talk will go well. If sitting down next to her isn't possible and she isnt looking happy, tell her she's looking down, and that you seeing her smile in the mornings helps you put on a positive mindset or something. It'll cheer her up, and maybe you can swap names. I wouldn't push this one much further than that in one go, you don't just want to dump everything on her in one go when you've spent months preparing. At any rate, if you don't approach her, it's not going to happen. You do want it to happen, right? | ||
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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MyLastSerenade
Germany710 Posts
if u really talk to her, let us know how it went! | ||
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Yanami
Germany49 Posts
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ArcticMuse
Australia93 Posts
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