I wouldn't want my gf going out with just one other guy, and she wouldn't want me going out with another girl. But I agree with BuGz it depends on both your standards on what is and whats not acceptable.

btw whats a shisha?

kOre

Canada3642 Posts

July 19 2009 16:41 GMT

I have no idea what it exactly is, just some sort of thing brown people go to (kind of like weed except weaker?) but yeah she was getting mad at me because I told her I didn't want her to go.

Slaughter

United States20254 Posts

July 19 2009 16:43 GMT

Me and my ex-fiance both decided that we wouldn't be comfortable with that situation unless it was someone we both knew pretty well. Like what was said above you both need to decide what the boundaries are for that kind of thing.

brian

United States9578 Posts

July 19 2009 16:45 GMT

if you were invited to go you cant blame her regardless
but yeah, its controlling. she's allowed to go out for a drink with people. its a social thing. its like catching up. obviously i would not like it if she did it every weekend.

Pengu1n

United States552 Posts

July 19 2009 16:46 GMT

If only girls knew what really goes through a guys mind when they are alone, especially drinking...then she probably wouldn't even want to go. She probably thinks its a just friends thing and your just being controlling, but looking at it from a guys perspective I think your right in not wanting her to go.

plated.rawr

Norway1675 Posts

July 19 2009 16:46 GMT

If it's an old friend of hers, you shouldn't have to worry too much. If it's a random guy every weekend, then your girlfriend's a cheating whore.

In any case, if you're not feeling comfortable about it, talk to her about it.

kOre

Canada3642 Posts

July 19 2009 16:47 GMT

I don't mind if it's like with a GROUP of people because that, I would understand.

But to go with 1 other person of the opposite sex? Isn't that like ... against some guy code or some shit?

Snet

United States3573 Posts

July 19 2009 16:53 GMT

#10

Dude, relationships are not the defining aspect of the the human race. It's not weird or wrong at all to want to just get to know someone or chill with someone over a drink. Put your jealousy aside and you will enjoy life |----this----| much more.

bN`

Slovenia504 Posts

July 19 2009 16:54 GMT

#11

The title is so misleading, I was expecting something about the social or physical effects of drinking and whatnot.

Btw, you shouldn't let her go and if you don't approve of it just let her know that you don't. In the end it's her decision anyway.

P.S.: Shisha = like a water pipe right?

Edit: nice ninja op edit dude :>

kOre

Canada3642 Posts

July 19 2009 16:55 GMT

#12

@ Pengu1n - I know what you mean, I've gotten into so many fights because of this shit.
@ Gene - Not something she does every weekend, but frequent enough to make me pissed off.
@ plated.rawr - It's not an old friend, and I tried talking to her about it, but it always leads into a fight.