Now my question is should I be persistent and ask her out again this weekend or should I wait a little, mind you we havent texted since I asked her out, weve only been chatting through facebook.
UPDATE: She's dating another guy. Life sucks? Maybe.





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							sMi.Days
							
							
						 
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						 Now my question is should I be persistent and ask her out again this weekend or should I wait a little, mind you we havent texted since I asked her out, weve only been chatting through facebook. UPDATE: She's dating another guy. Life sucks? Maybe.      | ||
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						 just call/text her when she gets back. | ||
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							JWD
							
							
						 
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						 WTF is going on with kids these days....? | ||
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							JWD
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:06 sMi.Days wrote: jwd that's why i said , "we say i love you in that cute way" we don't really mean we LOVE each other, but you know .... that teenage type of love Uhhhh, I'm still not seeing how that is possible though you've never hung out together, I mean shouldn't even "that teenage type of love" at least require some level of personal interaction?  Obviously go for it, I mean she's clearly into you. Make a move ASAP. | ||
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							PlaycaLm
							
							
						 
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						 talking to girls isn't hard man. They're people just like you and me :D. If you liked the cookies, ask her to come over and teach you the recipe. or take her to a movie or go on a walk or something. Shes into you or she wouldnt keep talking to you and she def. wouldnt have made you cookies. Oh and when you guys break that internet only contact barrier, make sure you try and go for the "holding of the hands" or the arm "around her shoulder" when you're going for a walk. YOU CAN DO IT, confidence man, confidence!  gl. | ||
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							Jibba
							
							
						 
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						 She wants to go out with you. She had legitimate plans last weekend. Ask her out again, you dumb motherfucker. Do you need us to manually guide your dick into her clam as well because I'm sure Inc would be down for it. | ||
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							PlaycaLm
							
							
						 
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							sMi.Days
							
							
						 
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						 and to jibba, yea man it'd be nice if you not only guided my dick into her pussy, but when we're doing it you might as well hop in and join us. | ||
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							Malongo
							
							
						 
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						 Meh just date her asap and win, no second thoughts. | ||
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							arb
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:09 Jibba wrote: Jesus christ. She wants to go out with you. She had legitimate plans last weekend. Ask her out again, you dumb motherfucker. Do you need us to manually guide your dick into her clam as well because I'm sure Inc would be down for it. LOL | ||
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							Jibba
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:13 sMi.Days wrote: well see the bad thing is that we havent really talked since like last week since she left for that camp, and i havent seen her all week since we dont have the same class anymore. Yeah, and she's probably thinking "why isn't that douche bag calling me" so unless you're going to be | ||
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							PlaycaLm
							
							
						 
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						 use your experiences and what you guys have talked about/done so far to set up time for another date. you dont even need to do anything really special, and even if you can't afford to do anything or have no idea on what to do call her up and say you miss her and you wanna spend some time. try and stop TEXTING so much if you actually have her number. I just dumped a chick for texting me all the fucking time. all she wanted to do was hang out and watch tv and text me when i wasn't around watching tv. BORING. but this isn't about me. Sorry. :D | ||
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							Zapdos_Smithh
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:15 nAi.PrOtOsS wrote: LOL yea definently ask her out againg. How old are you? yeah I'm curious as well how old you are. Yeah and also ask her out again asap. Seriously asap, if you don't she will think you are WEAK (sad but true). | ||
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							Cambium
							
							
						 
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							emperorchampion
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:09 Jibba wrote: Jesus christ. She wants to go out with you. She had legitimate plans last weekend. Ask her out again, you dumb motherfucker. Do you need us to manually guide your dick into her clam as well because I'm sure Inc would be down for it. wow, lol fail | ||
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							Chau
							
							
						 
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						 She made you cookies. She has legitimate excuse. ASK HER OUT! =) | ||
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							PlaycaLm
							
							
						 
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						 The worst thing that can happen is she doesnt like you anymore in which case you can say something like. "Your fucking cookies sucked anyway." or you can be a gentleman and say "It was a pleasure... Oh and your fucking cookies su..." jk. | ||
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							Polar_Nada
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:31 sMi.Days wrote: last week like a couple of days before the last day of our class, she kept saying in her texts, "your going to miss me next semester etc. etc." but i told her we should hang out and shes like yeah definitely! but i dunno lol i just have this feeling she dosnt wanna chill with me ASK HER OUT. | ||
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							Malongo
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:27 sMi.Days wrote: fuck alright im going to ask her out tomorrow if i see her, hopefully she wont have plans AGAIN since it already is friday I see a problem with your confidence here, wtf: ask her out even if you dont see her, and prepare a good date she wont have plans you idiot shes crazy about you, dont be a fucking pussy with some lame pre-excuses. You have to be more self-secure here. | ||
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							il0seonpurpose
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:40 cgrinker wrote: Ask her in a text over the weekend how her camp is going. Then she will say "It's awesome" and you say "Man camp is so cwl kk?" or she says "it sucks" and you go "Lol thats too bad" Yeah and then say like, I wish you were here so we can hang out. | ||
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							Zapdos_Smithh
							
							
						 
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						 If so, plz just do yourself a favour and when you ask her out, don't make it formal, b/c that makes things really awkward. For example: Formal(bad): "Would you like to go out with me?" Informal(good):"Hey are you free this weekend? Wanna get together and _____?(w/e you plan to do on the date, ex. see a movie, go ice-skating, lunch/dinner etc.) I am not suggesting that you are bad @ asking girls out, I am just saying that a lot of people your age make it very serious, which isn't good. However if you already know how to ask her out then good, so just do what you did before. | ||
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							Pengu1n
							
							
						 
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						 you know what you gutta do, so man up and do it...... + Show Spoiler + GO BAKE SOME BROWNIES!!!!!!!!!!! ...then ask her out obviously. | ||
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							BottleAbuser
							
							
						 
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						 He talks to girls. Time is limited. Spend it on things that matter. If you're getting nowhere with Starcraft, switch to dota or civ4. I'd tell you to trust me, but you already seem quite inclined to follow advice on a gaming forum. | ||
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						 On January 23 2009 14:09 Piko wrote: Make her cookies too :D this | ||
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							dekuschrub
							
							
						 
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						 no really just keep askin her to hang out. if she says no then be like wtf then whats with the cookiesss!? then call her a cock tease till she does it LOL | ||
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						 On January 23 2009 13:57 ilovejonn wrote: ask her out again May I have some advice oh wise one? keke <3 u | ||
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							danmooj1
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:44 Resonance wrote: Informal(good):"Hey are you free this weekend? Wanna get together and __fuck___? jk. but make it casual so that she feels comfortable in person since you guys seem limited to texting and facebook... (sigh, whats going on nowadays) and as others mentioned before, whatever you do, do it with confidence. | ||
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							BottleAbuser
							
							
						 
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						 whatever you do, do it with confidence. This. Especially true for things you know are stupid - it can fool anyone who's watching into thinking that you have some gosu plan that they aren't seeing. | ||
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							PH
							
							
						 
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						 In fact you should've done that when you first did... "Oh, you can't go out this weekend cuz of jew camp? kk...how about next weekend?" "Yeah I'm free that weekend, sure!" -____-;; Wait...actually...how old are you guys? | ||
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							Grobyc
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:58 dekuschrub wrote: 4 pool her gg lololol Even jokingly this is getting really annoying and isn't funny. OP: It seems like she likes you so definitely ask her out again but don't do it the bad way like before and be like "You wanna go out with me?" Actually hang out with her a few times then be like "I'm really attracted to you, I wanted to know if you'd like to be more than just friends." | ||
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							BanZu
							
							
						 
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						 + Show Spoiler + No crap you should ask her out T__T | ||
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							eshlow
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 15:30 BanZu wrote: This isn't even a girl problem thread. This is a "i don't have a brain" problem thread. + Show Spoiler + No crap you should ask her out T__T Yeah, pretty much. Jibba already provided you with the right answer... and it still took EVERYONE else beating the right answer into your head until you're grudgingly going to do it. NO EPIC DODGING. | ||
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							Tensai176
							
							
						 
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						 I wish girls would bake me cookies =(. | ||
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							Grobyc
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 16:07 Tensai176 wrote: Dude, Cookies are instant GG. I wish girls would bake me cookies =(. haha yeah cookies = "ask me out nao!" Should have made your move before the jews got to her =O | ||
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							lilsusie
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 16:16 lilsusie wrote: http://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Girls-Alec-Greven/dp/0061709999/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1232694968&sr=8-1 even this 9 year old can figure it out. hahahah: u can keep her till middle school and maybe even high school , and then...get married? ohh god , hahaha | ||
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							Varn
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:25 il0seonpurpose wrote: ... Also talk to her in a more human way, actually call her and stuff, not just facebook and texting. I've never understood this view. How are written words somehow less human than spoken words? Both are expressions of a human's thought, are they not? I would say, unless you're throwing out slang-drenched one-liners all the time (which I'm sure many people do), that communicating through writing is much more human than speaking, as there is much more time and thought behind it. OP: She baked you fucking cookies...seriously this isn't even a question. | ||
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						 On January 23 2009 14:02 jwd241224 wrote: Wait...you say "I love you" but you've never been on a date before? WTF is going on with kids these days....? He's saying "I love you" in the same way you would say "I love you" to MoC or R1CH after they release an AWESOME SC add-on or something. I think :O | ||
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							InfeSteD
							
							
						 
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						 tip #1... DONT STOP TEXTIN HER FAG! tip #2... Be cool about it and ask her out again not desperately (kinda like you're a busy guy but u'd stop doin watever ur doin for her because u like her) tip#3 Dont stop textin.. but dont text too much cuz then u wont have anythin to talk about when u go out on a date! so has anythin happened? | ||
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							Jibba
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 23:52 Varn wrote: Show nested quote + On January 23 2009 14:25 il0seonpurpose wrote: ... Also talk to her in a more human way, actually call her and stuff, not just facebook and texting. I've never understood this view. How are written words somehow less human than spoken words? Both are expressions of a human's thought, are they not? I would say, unless you're throwing out slang-drenched one-liners all the time (which I'm sure many people do), that communicating through writing is much more human than speaking, as there is much more time and thought behind it. OP: She baked you fucking cookies...seriously this isn't even a question. Voice, eye contact and the things you say aren't planned as well like you said. It makes things more clumsy, but it's more natural as well. | ||
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							Varn
							
							
						 
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						 On January 24 2009 03:19 Jibba wrote: + Show Spoiler + On January 23 2009 23:52 Varn wrote: Show nested quote + On January 23 2009 14:25 il0seonpurpose wrote: ... Also talk to her in a more human way, actually call her and stuff, not just facebook and texting. I've never understood this view. How are written words somehow less human than spoken words? Both are expressions of a human's thought, are they not? I would say, unless you're throwing out slang-drenched one-liners all the time (which I'm sure many people do), that communicating through writing is much more human than speaking, as there is much more time and thought behind it. OP: She baked you fucking cookies...seriously this isn't even a question. Voice, eye contact and the things you say aren't planned as well like you said. It makes things more clumsy, but it's more natural as well. True. I'm incredibly inarticulate when I speak though (clumsy is too lenient), at least about things that I've thought about a lot, so I prefer the clarity of writing if I have something important to say or discuss. Emotionally vacant, I know, although sometimes something actually comes out right when I'm hanging out with someone, but generally those situations only arise with girls I know aren't interested in me whom I feel I can speak openly with. Anyway, I guess it depends on what you're going for, communication or emotion. | ||
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							Hypnosis
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 13:54 sMi.Days wrote: Well im sure you guys are bored already with all these girl problems that are posted, so i'm going to be quick. Basically i'm getting it on with this girl pretty good, were texting pretty much every day we mutually say we love each other in that cute way you know, and then we flirt when were in school. so then its our last day in the same class together and she makes me cookies lol yea pretty silly, but anyways this kind of made me grow the balls to ask her out, which I did but she said she had plans already, which was the truth because over the weekend she went to this jewish camp. Now my question is should I be persistent and ask her out again this weekend or should I wait a little, mind you we havent texted since I asked her out, weve only been chatting through facebook. rofl:D go for it she likes you | ||
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							Nyovne
							
							
						 
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						 *always* Seal the deal in person by asking someone out and have a good time. There's no beating laughing and smiling to gether and sharing those awkward moments. 80% of human communication is non verbal but bodylanguage and someone asks hows texts are inferior to words and being there in person? Ask her out, be interested in her and how her camp was, ask questions and let her talk while you take her coat, hold the door, order drinks for her and yourself after asking what she wants. This gets her more comfortable with you and you don't get yourself into trouble by saying stupid shit if you're not a smoothe talker (like me ^^). gl hf  | ||
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							vGl-CoW
							
							
						 
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						 i don't think she's coming back dude | ||
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							Folca
							
							
						 
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						 On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote: a jew camp.. i don't think she's coming back dude What the fuck I dont know whether to laugh my ass off, or be serious, but the moment I read that I was laughing pretty badly | ||
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						 On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote: a jew camp.. i don't think she's coming back dude #1 poster | ||
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							il0seonpurpose
							
							
						 
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						 On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote: a jew camp.. i don't think she's coming back dude LMAOOOOOO To the op, please give us updates!! | ||
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							Conquest101
							
							
						 
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						 On January 26 2009 09:50 sMi.Days wrote: Well guys I asked her out again, and again she said she went to a jewish camp which she did.... but she came back with a little surprise. she's got a boyfriend. her facebook status just changed from single to being in a relationship. all i gotta say is fuck life LMFAO  Have you seen this boyfriend? Have you talked with her since than? Have you considered that maybe YOU are the boyfriend? Just a thought, you want to avoid misunderstandings. | ||
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							sMi.Days
							
							
						 
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						  sad but true. and know those cookies were for me, she called me the night she was baking them to ask me what type of frosting i liked. i guess they were friendship cookies sad fucking shit fuck life.  | ||
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							TheYango
							
							
						 
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						 On January 26 2009 10:53 sMi.Days wrote: no dude her facebook says "in a relationship with XXXXX" and that XXXX isn't me hahahaha  sad but true. and know those cookies were for me, she called me the night she was baking them to ask me what type of frosting i liked. i guess they were friendship cookies sad fucking shit fuck life.  Welcome to the friend zone. GLHF. Seriously though, that sucks. Best of luck to you, I guess. | ||
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							Jibba
							
							
						 
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						 On January 26 2009 10:53 sMi.Days wrote: no dude her facebook says "in a relationship with XXXXX" and that XXXX isn't me hahahaha  sad but true. and know those cookies were for me, she called me the night she was baking them to ask me what type of frosting i liked. i guess they were friendship cookies sad fucking shit fuck life.  Friendship cookies do not exist unless you are sick or something. Maybe they just met. Sorry. :/ EDIT: Unless she was mass baking for some other thing. | ||
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						 On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote: a jew camp.. i don't think she's coming back dude hahahaaha | ||
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						 On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote: a jew camp.. i don't think she's coming back dude WOW. HAHA. nice post. winner. | ||
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							Pengu1n
							
							
						 
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							{CC}StealthBlue
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:09 Jibba wrote: Jesus christ. She wants to go out with you. She had legitimate plans last weekend. Ask her out again, you dumb motherfucker. Do you need us to manually guide your dick into her clam as well because I'm sure Inc would be down for it. Win. | ||
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							Etherone
							
							
						 
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						 I am going to sound like an ass for a bit, but bare with me. when did she bake you the cookies? before she met her current boyfriend? If so, did she bake him cookies as well? you can kinda see where I'm going with this, sadly it's a possibility, albeit one that can be easily ruled out, so please rule it out first. done being an ass. does she still talk to you, or has she been talking to you A LOT less, or stopped completely? have you met this guy? if not, is there anyway you can? ( you, her, him, and some other mutual friend, preferably a girl) answer these questions please, and i might be able to help you work from where you are. | ||
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							CharlieMurphy
							
							
						 
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						 On January 23 2009 14:07 jwd241224 wrote: Show nested quote + On January 23 2009 14:06 sMi.Days wrote: jwd that's why i said , "we say i love you in that cute way" we don't really mean we LOVE each other, but you know .... that teenage type of love Uhhhh, I'm still not seeing how that is possible though you've never hung out together, I mean shouldn't even "that teenage type of love" at least require some level of personal interaction?  Obviously go for it, I mean she's clearly into you. Make a move ASAP. he means as a joke, you know how people really enjoy conversation and say shit like "omfg, i love you" its not to be taken literally. sort of like how you play sc and you go "OMFG I RAPED UR ASS BITCH". get a clue, what are you doing in girl advice thread? PS On January 23 2009 14:16 Raithed wrote: girls have fucking pussies, fucking hell. fixed | ||
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						 On January 28 2009 05:19 sMi.Days wrote: well to etherone, we have pretty much stopped talking completely i dont see her in school anymore either. and to ffswowsucks, the bad thing was that she knew this guy thats going out with her right now way before me, so maybe she never liked me? I don't buy it, I think she did and he just moved first. Take it as a lesson learned, and don't be so passive next time. | ||
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							Insane Lane
							
							
						 
						United States397 Posts
						 On January 27 2009 14:29 sMi.Days wrote: Heh that sucks insanelane, and what happened after? She stayed with the guy for a long time? Hmm well it turns out that things didn't work out between them after just a short while. Lame as hell and it was pretty much because that guy basically told her it couldn't work out(for some other reasons). At that point, it was too late and I have more pride than to go try and go back in as a rebound when she clearly turned me down before. However, I still love her in the sense that she is awesome and she feels that way about me too, so we're really great friends still. Never going to go out though, but it's all good. In fact, I feel like us going out might've just set back our relationship in terms of our closeness. And I've moved on with romantic interests. So stay friends with her. She sounds like a really valuable friend, and she must be to have baked you cookies and such. You definitely meant something special to her and it just might not of been "boyfriend" special. And those feelings are really hard to lose unless you do something unforgivable, and asking her out is not nearly on that list- she should understand (especially considering she sent you that song). I would seriously reach out and get in touch with her somehow and just start casual contact again (of course preferable in person). EDIT: Ok I realize that I automatically assumed that she doesn't like you in a boyfriend sense. Well just to jump off of that and your post: On January 28 2009 07:08 sMi.Days wrote: will I ever get to know if she likes me? should i ask if her if she had feelings for me? i doubt she did bro, seriously i am quite sure i made it clear i wanted to hang out with her, and she said no she had stuff to do. I questioned this too. Of course its important to know whether or not she loved/loves you, just because. I really thought about this a lot especially considering how when she said no she sounded really sincere and was practically crying for me. My resolution, aided by what other people told me, is that she didn't. Still, I overanalyzed the shit out of it. Really, though, the main reason to know is whether its still possible to go out with her. I just accepted that it's not going to happen and moved on, so it really became irrelevant to me after a while. But NO, don't ask her if she had feelings for you, not now at least. Give it a long while for it to all simmer down and for it to just be another thing to laugh about. She probably feels extremely uncomfortable at the moment talking about it. Personally, I have never asked the girl whether she liked me but have told her exactly how I felt and currently feel. | ||
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							Hypnosis
							
							
						 
						United States2061 Posts
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							Xeris
							
							
						 
						Iran17695 Posts
						 most girls think that a person who relies on IM and text messaging or w/e to do things like ask them out are really bad... so in the future make sure you do all this kinda stuff in person, makes you seem a lot more incontrol of yourself, etc. | ||
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							sMi.Days
							
							
						 
						United States29 Posts
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							Zapdos_Smithh
							
							
						 
						Canada2620 Posts
						 On January 28 2009 13:19 sMi.Days wrote: Meh I think i'm just going to move on, not going to linger around waiting to see what happens. Good idea. | ||
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							il0seonpurpose
							
							
						 
						Korea (South)5638 Posts
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							BanZu
							
							
						 
						United States3329 Posts
						 On January 28 2009 17:07 il0seonpurpose wrote: So no more texting her? That makes it even weirder between you two doesnt it? I think he means just staying as friends | ||
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							decafchicken
							
							
						 
						United States20069 Posts
						 On January 26 2009 14:42 sMi.Days wrote: im pretty sure i made it clear i liked her and wanted to go out with her.... she just wasnt in to me bro Bullshit, she definitely wanted your nuts. You just fucked up and/or got screwed. | ||
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							EsX_Raptor
							
							
						 
						United States2802 Posts
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							ruXxar
							
							
						 
						Norway5669 Posts
						 a jew camp.. i don't think she's coming back dude Drinking and reading TL.net at the same time can be hazardous to your environment. *dries keyboard* | ||
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							Chef
							
							
						 
						10810 Posts
						 UPDATE: She's dating another guy. Life sucks? Maybe. Liberate her. | ||
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							sMi.Days
							
							
						 
						United States29 Posts
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							decafchicken
							
							
						 
						United States20069 Posts
						 On January 29 2009 05:46 sMi.Days wrote: wow so today i see her after 2 weeks and she tells me "wow i havent talked you in a long time man!, text me!" i havent texted her though, i dont want to play her little games, she's going out with a kid i don't know what the fuck she wants. She doesnt know what the fuck she wants either. She needs you to grab life by the balls and take control of her. Dating another guy is nothing. | ||
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							Jibba
							
							
						 
						United States22883 Posts
						 On January 27 2009 14:11 semioldguy wrote: Ask if she can make you more cookies. edit: I'm serious. | ||
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							ahswtini
							
							
						 
						Northern Ireland22208 Posts
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							KingofHearts
							
							
						 
						Japan562 Posts
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