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On January 05 2013 15:24 Gprime wrote:Show nested quote +On January 05 2013 08:48 KurtistheTurtle wrote:really nsfw instructions. but you need to do this, ESPECIALLY if these instructions make you uncomfortable. + Show Spoiler +What she wants more than anything else is for you to make her your bitch. Get her into the bedroom and do this, a lot, you both want it. Simple as that. Spank her, fuck her, lead through positions, just get horny and get SICK. She's only free when you dominate her & you're getting what you want. Tell her shit like "give yourself to me" "i love spanking your tight little ass" and "you're my dirty little slut. and i know you love it because you're so wet" at the start, tell her, "By the end of tonight, your pussy is gonna be mine" then later when shes real into it & making whatever noise she does say "this isn't your pussy, this is MY pussy" & spank her loudly while fucking her harder. show her you dominate her and that she loves it
if you need a break pin her onto the bed & go down on her, then when you start again do this: go slowly, "tell me you're mine" she'll say it, insist on it if she's shy & go faster after she says it, "tell me you'd give me anything" same as before & faster, "tell me you'd die for me" & when she says this go really hard & say reveal emotionally how much you care about her
probably the most powerful thing is grabbing her head, saying "look into my eyes" and fucking her hard when she does. then when she closes them, stop, tell her again, and reward her again. continue this until your eyes are locked and your face & her pleasure are the only things that exist for her. then after a little bit of that, when you're really feeling the connection, tell her "I'm fucking you so deep I feel like I'm touching your soul"
and *always* light kisses, cuddle & whatever else where you're together after sex for at least 5 mins. more often than not she might cry if somethings been really stressing her, she might just smile and fall asleep in your arms, who knows -- she will be utterly open, utterly yours, and you must show her you're able to hold her & connect to her without judgement and reservation. this is what will make you two lovers. also kinda nsfw. + Show Spoiler +
he makes some really good points, but i think what you really want to emphasize is powerful eye contact during intense fucking. you can make her feel like she is your plaything with only your eyes really. you just need to be expressive. eyes are really how you communicate your sexual appetite. basically look at her like you are a lion and she is a gazelle.
the other bits are also important , but i think you should emphasize what i mentioned.
I literally lawl'ed
would it be possible for you guys to make a youtube video of this? (I want to see your sexy eyes)
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Ahhh the good ole 6 months during a relationship. To me that is the time where you get into fights and question yourselves so its normal. In your case it may just be that its time to let go...I mean seeing her less? What's that accomplish a fresh start? If anything a compatible relationship wouldn't have this problem seems like shes tired of you 
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On January 05 2013 16:22 Kalingingsong wrote:Show nested quote +On January 05 2013 15:24 Gprime wrote:On January 05 2013 08:48 KurtistheTurtle wrote:really nsfw instructions. but you need to do this, ESPECIALLY if these instructions make you uncomfortable. + Show Spoiler +What she wants more than anything else is for you to make her your bitch. Get her into the bedroom and do this, a lot, you both want it. Simple as that. Spank her, fuck her, lead through positions, just get horny and get SICK. She's only free when you dominate her & you're getting what you want. Tell her shit like "give yourself to me" "i love spanking your tight little ass" and "you're my dirty little slut. and i know you love it because you're so wet" at the start, tell her, "By the end of tonight, your pussy is gonna be mine" then later when shes real into it & making whatever noise she does say "this isn't your pussy, this is MY pussy" & spank her loudly while fucking her harder. show her you dominate her and that she loves it
if you need a break pin her onto the bed & go down on her, then when you start again do this: go slowly, "tell me you're mine" she'll say it, insist on it if she's shy & go faster after she says it, "tell me you'd give me anything" same as before & faster, "tell me you'd die for me" & when she says this go really hard & say reveal emotionally how much you care about her
probably the most powerful thing is grabbing her head, saying "look into my eyes" and fucking her hard when she does. then when she closes them, stop, tell her again, and reward her again. continue this until your eyes are locked and your face & her pleasure are the only things that exist for her. then after a little bit of that, when you're really feeling the connection, tell her "I'm fucking you so deep I feel like I'm touching your soul"
and *always* light kisses, cuddle & whatever else where you're together after sex for at least 5 mins. more often than not she might cry if somethings been really stressing her, she might just smile and fall asleep in your arms, who knows -- she will be utterly open, utterly yours, and you must show her you're able to hold her & connect to her without judgement and reservation. this is what will make you two lovers. also kinda nsfw. + Show Spoiler +
he makes some really good points, but i think what you really want to emphasize is powerful eye contact during intense fucking. you can make her feel like she is your plaything with only your eyes really. you just need to be expressive. eyes are really how you communicate your sexual appetite. basically look at her like you are a lion and she is a gazelle.
the other bits are also important , but i think you should emphasize what i mentioned.
I literally lawl'ed would it be possible for you guys to make a youtube video of this? (I want to see your sexy eyes)
sorry, highly situational. youd have to catch it on tape, like in a documentary of the Steve Erwin-ish persuasion. ;D
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ps:i want to note that i think that what i said before about giving her some space is more important than the part i mentioned about sex, though i think sex is also something that can really help push a relationship forward.
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On January 05 2013 08:48 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
2. Demonstrate you're trying to become the ideal man you want to be. This just means doing shit you want to and being really happy when you're being the man you want to be, and trying to get what you want when you're not. Be entirely practical and results-based about this.
3. Take away the element of certainty in your relationship & replace it with drama. Have some pseudo-boundaries about meaningless irrational things where if she crosses them, you'll throw a hissy fit. (Like being invited to do stuff - even if you both know you weren't going, get kind of mad when she doesn't invite you. Never thank her for when she does, say no to almost everything, but when she stops throw another hissy fit -- "Why wasn't *I* invited? You're an asshole, you know that?" -- specifically about events you both know you weren't going to do)
I really like Kurtis' post because I think he sums up the "asshole" you need to be for a girl to be attracted to you. It sounds bad to say it that way, but women love drama so the men who keep this feeling in their lives are the ones who experience more success. But it's not just about neglecting her more, it's also about making her feel special. Put another way, she needs you to give her lots to talk about with her girlfriends - both good and bad.
Play her hot and cold. Do your own thing for a few days, but also do nice things for her spontaneously. When she's expecting you to maybe pull the trigger on the break-up, come back with flowers and tell her how much she means to you (since she does, right?). All women want to be desired, but the caveat is they must perceive their SO as an Alpha and that's why neediness is such an unattractive quality in a man. Remember, Alphas do what they want when they want, and even if all you want is to be with her, independence is the road to achieving what your relationship needs.
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What you're describing has a scientific basis:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_relationship_energy
She needs to accept that this will go away eventually in every relationship, and find something else to replace that feeling so that the relationship can continue.
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On January 06 2013 01:51 mijellin wrote:What you're describing has a scientific basis: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_relationship_energyShe needs to accept that this will go away eventually in every relationship, and find something else to replace that feeling so that the relationship can continue.
ROFL I can't believe there's a wiki article for this
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On January 02 2013 02:47 xiaofan wrote:Show nested quote +On January 02 2013 02:37 CosmicSpiral wrote:
OP, the simple fact is that you may have stumbled into a good relationship occurring in a bad space. Every relationship requires a certain balance in order to maintain consistent emotional responses (unlike sports/music/writing practice, there is no clear distinct goal you work towards). Considering that 60 hours a week is the near-equivalent of 9 hours per day, both of you are probably suffering from overexposure. There is little to look forward to and you are dealing with each other's personalities on a daily basis.
You can stop interacting with her at work and do it during your free time, or you can break off the relationship and remain friends. Either option is infinitely preferable to a sexual, intimate relationship that lacks sexuality and intimacy. Thank you. I appreciate your analysis. Have you or anyone you know spent 9+ hours a day with your significant other and maintained a steady relationship?
People have alone time for a reason, imo. My parents have been married for ~25 years or something and they each have their own activities. My girlfriend and I are long distance, and even personally we don't spend every waking minute texting (although we're somewhat atypical). When we're together (on the weekends we are), we'll spend maybe 2/3 or 4/5 of the days that I'm home together, but still take one day off to hang out with other friends. Overexposure definitely sounds possible to me, coming from a currently strong nearly 2 year relationship.
Essentially, when I get back (I'm in college, she's in her senior year of hs, been long distance since last june), we spend a lot of the time together, but even we still have time for me to see my other friends, even though we've been apart for a while.
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On January 05 2013 08:48 KurtistheTurtle wrote:B. SexThis is absolutely huge. You two need to do it, thats the difference between friends & lovers. but when you do have sex she wants to be a woman, and that requires you to be a man. You need to dominate her physically & forcefully, but vastly more importantly, emotionally. really nsfw instructions. but you need to do this, ESPECIALLY if these instructions make you uncomfortable. + Show Spoiler +What she wants more than anything else is for you to make her your bitch. Get her into the bedroom and do this, a lot, you both want it. Simple as that. Spank her, fuck her, lead through positions, just get horny and get SICK. She's only free when you dominate her & you're getting what you want. Tell her shit like "give yourself to me" "i love spanking your tight little ass" and "you're my dirty little slut. and i know you love it because you're so wet" at the start, tell her, "By the end of tonight, your pussy is gonna be mine" then later when shes real into it & making whatever noise she does say "this isn't your pussy, this is MY pussy" & spank her loudly while fucking her harder. show her you dominate her and that she loves it
if you need a break pin her onto the bed & go down on her, then when you start again do this: go slowly, "tell me you're mine" she'll say it, insist on it if she's shy & go faster after she says it, "tell me you'd give me anything" same as before & faster, "tell me you'd die for me" & when she says this go really hard & say reveal emotionally how much you care about her
probably the most powerful thing is grabbing her head, saying "look into my eyes" and fucking her hard when she does. then when she closes them, stop, tell her again, and reward her again. continue this until your eyes are locked and your face & her pleasure are the only things that exist for her. then after a little bit of that, when you're really feeling the connection, tell her "I'm fucking you so deep I feel like I'm touching your soul"
and *always* light kisses, cuddle & whatever else where you're together after sex for at least 5 mins. more often than not she might cry if somethings been really stressing her, she might just smile and fall asleep in your arms, who knows -- she will be utterly open, utterly yours, and you must show her you're able to hold her & connect to her without judgement and reservation. this is what will make you two lovers.
this feels like some kind of furry fanfic erotica on deviantart
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On January 08 2013 00:16 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 05 2013 08:48 KurtistheTurtle wrote:B. SexThis is absolutely huge. You two need to do it, thats the difference between friends & lovers. but when you do have sex she wants to be a woman, and that requires you to be a man. You need to dominate her physically & forcefully, but vastly more importantly, emotionally. really nsfw instructions. but you need to do this, ESPECIALLY if these instructions make you uncomfortable. + Show Spoiler +What she wants more than anything else is for you to make her your bitch. Get her into the bedroom and do this, a lot, you both want it. Simple as that. Spank her, fuck her, lead through positions, just get horny and get SICK. She's only free when you dominate her & you're getting what you want. Tell her shit like "give yourself to me" "i love spanking your tight little ass" and "you're my dirty little slut. and i know you love it because you're so wet" at the start, tell her, "By the end of tonight, your pussy is gonna be mine" then later when shes real into it & making whatever noise she does say "this isn't your pussy, this is MY pussy" & spank her loudly while fucking her harder. show her you dominate her and that she loves it
if you need a break pin her onto the bed & go down on her, then when you start again do this: go slowly, "tell me you're mine" she'll say it, insist on it if she's shy & go faster after she says it, "tell me you'd give me anything" same as before & faster, "tell me you'd die for me" & when she says this go really hard & say reveal emotionally how much you care about her
probably the most powerful thing is grabbing her head, saying "look into my eyes" and fucking her hard when she does. then when she closes them, stop, tell her again, and reward her again. continue this until your eyes are locked and your face & her pleasure are the only things that exist for her. then after a little bit of that, when you're really feeling the connection, tell her "I'm fucking you so deep I feel like I'm touching your soul"
and *always* light kisses, cuddle & whatever else where you're together after sex for at least 5 mins. more often than not she might cry if somethings been really stressing her, she might just smile and fall asleep in your arms, who knows -- she will be utterly open, utterly yours, and you must show her you're able to hold her & connect to her without judgement and reservation. this is what will make you two lovers. this feels like some kind of furry fanfic erotica on deviantart
you like dat shit. lol
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On January 05 2013 16:22 Kalingingsong wrote:
would it be possible for you guys to make a youtube video of this? (I want to see your sexy eyes)
well youtube isnt the right site for it
"sexy eyes" = "i want to bone you so bad" + "i find everything about you unbelievably attractive"
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The most important things in my opinion is to change the routine. Once a relationship gets into a routine if spending time on this exact time, going to the cinemas on this day, doing this that day, you are in trouble. Spice things up a bit, make unexpected plans that will blow her mind, or do something romantic.
Relationships are tough, but also I have to mention, if she doesn't want to see the light at the end of the tunnel, maybe it is time that you start considering other options as well. Don't chase, because then you become the b#### in the relationship.
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On January 06 2013 02:56 Shady Sands wrote:ROFL I can't believe there's a wiki article for this
I know right?! I couldn't believe it lol... and apparently it's an actual, legitimate term or something =D
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Spend less time together..and pretty much everything KurtistheTurtle said - mostly the part about Sex. Make her cum and she'll fucking love you.
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