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On September 08 2012 07:23 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 08 2012 06:45 32 wrote:
I've read a few of your blogs, and most of the people commenting in them don't seem to have a high opinion of you. You never get upset though. You just provide more information, and then make another blog. I'm starting to get curious. Whats the point? Curious are you? I actually mentioned in one of my first blogs about college of how I am going to be keeping a blog of my college experience. Now whether people want to read or not, I let them decide by posting it on TL rather than keeping it in a little diary (i have a friend who does that and I have nothing against it except that you have to carry around a pen in your pocket). I know that I am going to laugh at these when I see them in the future, like when I'm a sophomore, junior, and senior to be reminded of my freshman year. I also like the amount of comments that I get and what people get out of the way I say how these events happened and what I think about them
This whole thing is interesting I agree- most people just post their side of any disagreement, or at least emphasize their case whenever I read the blogs, but you seem to be recording the the world as you experience it, and you are getting results from this effort. There is a certain amount of intrigue involved as well, I find myself wondering what you will post about next. Thanks for telling me why the posts, I probably should've checked your earlier blogs before asking.
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On September 08 2012 07:35 32 wrote:Show nested quote +On September 08 2012 07:23 StateofReverie wrote:On September 08 2012 06:45 32 wrote:
I've read a few of your blogs, and most of the people commenting in them don't seem to have a high opinion of you. You never get upset though. You just provide more information, and then make another blog. I'm starting to get curious. Whats the point? Curious are you? I actually mentioned in one of my first blogs about college of how I am going to be keeping a blog of my college experience. Now whether people want to read or not, I let them decide by posting it on TL rather than keeping it in a little diary (i have a friend who does that and I have nothing against it except that you have to carry around a pen in your pocket). I know that I am going to laugh at these when I see them in the future, like when I'm a sophomore, junior, and senior to be reminded of my freshman year. I also like the amount of comments that I get and what people get out of the way I say how these events happened and what I think about them This whole thing is interesting I agree- most people just post their side of any disagreement, or at least emphasize their case whenever I read the blogs, but you seem to be recording the the world as you experience it, and you are getting results from this effort. There is a certain amount of intrigue involved as well, I find myself wondering what you will post about next. Thanks for telling me why the posts, I probably should've checked your earlier blogs before asking.
its ok haha and now I will keep making blogs for you to follow :D
But ya Im so glad you asked that and now you knwo :D
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Usually when people are being unreasonable like this its because they are reacting to something that has happened them or something you did. Reasoning with him in this state is mostly useless until you find what bothers him. your distrustfulness for example could be a factor.
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Not sure if you realize it, but you're kind of being a huge jerk to him. It sounds like he just wants to be your friend, and share your computer with you. You should seriously praise him, and even try to help him with his homework. College is tough, and some people need to be guided the right way. I have numerous bad college experiences, and a lot of them would be way too inappropriate for tl.net.
This story kind of reminds me of this guy, who had bad add/adhd probs at my high school. He was social, but wasn't too popular, because he talked often. He didn't feel comfortable, if he wasn't talking all the time. You should maybe direct him to a major, in which he could "focus" harder, and use his extra energy, and just praise him on it. He might even get so zoned in on it, that he won't shower for the whole weekend, he'll just be studying, because he's so interested.
This guy got accepted into a good school, and had a full scholarship, but was often bullied, because he was a ginger supposedly. People would tie his bike up in the trees all the time, and cut the lock on his bike, just to laugh at him getting his bike out of the tree all the time. For the past 7 years, he's been working at Zaxby's, and has finally gotten back to school this year.
He's a lot older now, and he's a lot more mature too. You just have to give him time, and help him out. If you're a lot bigger than him, then you should be standing up for him, instead of being a douche to him. It's easy to instigate fights, but it takes a better man to stop them. 
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On September 11 2012 08:01 Nymphaceae wrote:Not sure if you realize it, but you're kind of being a huge jerk to him. It sounds like he just wants to be your friend, and share your computer with you. You should seriously praise him, and even try to help him with his homework. College is tough, and some people need to be guided the right way. I have numerous bad college experiences, and a lot of them would be way too inappropriate for tl.net. This story kind of reminds me of this guy, who had bad add/adhd probs at my high school. He was social, but wasn't too popular, because he talked often. He didn't feel comfortable, if he wasn't talking all the time. You should maybe direct him to a major, in which he could "focus" harder, and use his extra energy, and just praise him on it. He might even get so zoned in on it, that he won't shower for the whole weekend, he'll just be studying, because he's so interested. This guy got accepted into a good school, and had a full scholarship, but was often bullied, because he was a ginger supposedly. People would tie his bike up in the trees all the time, and cut the lock on his bike, just to laugh at him getting his bike out of the tree all the time. For the past 7 years, he's been working at Zaxby's, and has finally gotten back to school this year. He's a lot older now, and he's a lot more mature too. You just have to give him time, and help him out. If you're a lot bigger than him, then you should be standing up for him, instead of being a douche to him. It's easy to instigate fights, but it takes a better man to stop them.
I wasnt being a jerk to him. Frankly that is absolutely ridiculous "share your computer with you". My computer actually has some important information about financials and passwords for accounts already saved. I cant tell him about it brcause he doesnt know that kind of stuff is there because he didnt look so really all i can say is gtfo without giving a solid reason that doesnt make me look like a jerk. I have my room mates back though. If he gets beaten up I got his back im not gonna call him a little bitch for getting beat up.
But if he is rolling down a hill and loses control and hits his head against a brick wall and has to go to the emergency room to get some stiches, then thats his dumb luck. By the way he didnt even tell me about it. My gay friend made a big deal about it and blew the situation out of proportion.
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FYI regarding the smell, one of my 2nd year roommates (it was a triple) had all his clothes in one giant pile under his bed, which he never washed, but only sprayed with febreze (air freshener) from time to time.
At least he showered regularly, but other than that his giant clothespile made our room smell like shit. I contemplated pissing all over it once, but my girlfriend was there and she dissuaded me (we sprinkled glitter all over it instead.... yay for cute little asian girls keeping you from doing dumb shit lol).
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I don't know how else to explain it to you, in a way that it would be TL appropriate. You should invite him to study with you. It sounds like he needs some one to help get his attention on the books. I could give you numerous examples of my bad room mates, but most of them are too inappropriate for TL. Going to write a short list of things that weren't too bad, and ask you if they've happened.
1. Has your room mate pissed in the ice maker?
2. Has your room mate pooped in the vacuum?
3. Has your room mate pooped on the couch?
4. Has your room mate tried to convince everyone that you're a jezebel?
5. Has your room mate tried to convince people that he's had sex with you?
6. Has your room mate begged to cry on your shoulder?
7. Has your room mate left their blood undies on the floor, until bugs started to live off of them?
8. Has your room mate screamed at himself all throughout the night?
9. Has your room mate been to prison?
10. Has your room mate stolen all of your food?
11. Has your room mate poured milk all over your computer?
12. Has your room mate talked a lot about raping an anonymous some one, and then asked you what certain drugs would do to you?
13. Has your room mate had a long lecture with you about how you shouldn't study what you're studying, because it's for sinners, and then tried to burn your books?
14. Has your room mate told people that you were in satan club?
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On September 11 2012 09:31 Nymphaceae wrote:
I don't know how else to explain it to you, in a way that it would be TL appropriate. You should invite him to study with you. It sounds like he needs some one to help get his attention on the books. I could give you numerous examples of my bad room mates, but most of them are too inappropriate for TL. Going to write a short list of things that weren't too bad, and ask you if they've happened.
1. Has your room mate pissed in the ice maker?
2. Has your room mate pooped in the vacuum?
3. Has your room mate pooped on the couch?
4. Has your room mate tried to convince everyone that you're a jezebel?
5. Has your room mate tried to convince people that he's had sex with you?
6. Has your room mate begged to cry on your shoulder?
7. Has your room mate left their blood undies on the floor, until bugs started to live off of them?
8. Has your room mate screamed at himself all throughout the night?
9. Has your room mate been to prison?
10. Has your room mate stolen all of your food?
11. Has your room mate poured milk all over your computer?
12. Has your room mate talked a lot about raping an anonymous some one, and then asked you what certain drugs would do to you?
13. Has your room mate had a long lecture with you about how you shouldn't study what you're studying, because it's for sinners, and then tried to burn your books?
14. Has your room mate told people that you were in satan club?
You should totally make this a blog series.
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On September 11 2012 09:59 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 09:31 Nymphaceae wrote:
I don't know how else to explain it to you, in a way that it would be TL appropriate. You should invite him to study with you. It sounds like he needs some one to help get his attention on the books. I could give you numerous examples of my bad room mates, but most of them are too inappropriate for TL. Going to write a short list of things that weren't too bad, and ask you if they've happened.
1. Has your room mate pissed in the ice maker?
2. Has your room mate pooped in the vacuum?
3. Has your room mate pooped on the couch?
4. Has your room mate tried to convince everyone that you're a jezebel?
5. Has your room mate tried to convince people that he's had sex with you?
6. Has your room mate begged to cry on your shoulder?
7. Has your room mate left their blood undies on the floor, until bugs started to live off of them?
8. Has your room mate screamed at himself all throughout the night?
9. Has your room mate been to prison?
10. Has your room mate stolen all of your food?
11. Has your room mate poured milk all over your computer?
12. Has your room mate talked a lot about raping an anonymous some one, and then asked you what certain drugs would do to you?
13. Has your room mate had a long lecture with you about how you shouldn't study what you're studying, because it's for sinners, and then tried to burn your books?
14. Has your room mate told people that you were in satan club? You should totally make this a blog series.
It's not appropriate. I'll pm you the long story, because I know you're more mature.
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On September 11 2012 09:59 Shady Sands wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 09:31 Nymphaceae wrote:
I don't know how else to explain it to you, in a way that it would be TL appropriate. You should invite him to study with you. It sounds like he needs some one to help get his attention on the books. I could give you numerous examples of my bad room mates, but most of them are too inappropriate for TL. Going to write a short list of things that weren't too bad, and ask you if they've happened.
1. Has your room mate pissed in the ice maker?
2. Has your room mate pooped in the vacuum?
3. Has your room mate pooped on the couch?
4. Has your room mate tried to convince everyone that you're a jezebel?
5. Has your room mate tried to convince people that he's had sex with you?
6. Has your room mate begged to cry on your shoulder?
7. Has your room mate left their blood undies on the floor, until bugs started to live off of them?
8. Has your room mate screamed at himself all throughout the night?
9. Has your room mate been to prison?
10. Has your room mate stolen all of your food?
11. Has your room mate poured milk all over your computer?
12. Has your room mate talked a lot about raping an anonymous some one, and then asked you what certain drugs would do to you?
13. Has your room mate had a long lecture with you about how you shouldn't study what you're studying, because it's for sinners, and then tried to burn your books?
14. Has your room mate told people that you were in satan club? You should totally make this a blog series.
Did you get it?
I just wrote a few pages about my room mates, but I think it was too long or something. 
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I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool
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On September 11 2012 12:04 StateofReverie wrote:
I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool
I hope so, you're really lucky tbh
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On September 11 2012 12:10 Nymphaceae wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 12:04 StateofReverie wrote:
I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool I hope so, you're really lucky tbh
what makes you say that?
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On September 11 2012 12:34 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 12:10 Nymphaceae wrote:On September 11 2012 12:04 StateofReverie wrote:
I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool I hope so, you're really lucky tbh what makes you say that?
because you don't understand how you are obviously being just as much of an asshole as he is
telling someone "fuck you" isn't civil, because it sure doesn't sound like you asked him reasonably about all those issues you have listed out here
even if you are "right," that actually means fuck all, because you're trying to live with this guy for a year. you have to compromise and act nice even if you aren't feeling nice or you'll both have a very miserable year. try asking civilly, don't yell or tell him he's a lazy fuck or retarded or smelly or whatever
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I can kick him really hard between the legs for 20 bucks and return tickets =D
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On September 11 2012 12:34 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 12:10 Nymphaceae wrote:On September 11 2012 12:04 StateofReverie wrote:
I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool I hope so, you're really lucky tbh what makes you say that?
Out of the 5 room mates I had, the best one was a convict, who burned down a club/bar.
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On September 11 2012 13:02 Nymphaceae wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 12:34 StateofReverie wrote:On September 11 2012 12:10 Nymphaceae wrote:On September 11 2012 12:04 StateofReverie wrote:
I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool I hope so, you're really lucky tbh what makes you say that? Out of the 5 room mates I had, the best one was a convict, who burned down a club/bar.
Seconded. Nymph's story is absolutely insane.
Nymph, you should probably publish it. There's nothing in there that would be inappropriate for TL
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On September 11 2012 13:02 Nymphaceae wrote:Show nested quote +On September 11 2012 12:34 StateofReverie wrote:On September 11 2012 12:10 Nymphaceae wrote:On September 11 2012 12:04 StateofReverie wrote:
I don't really get why this is still going. For the record, we are cool. He asked me "are we cool" and I said "yes". Now we are cool I hope so, you're really lucky tbh what makes you say that? Out of the 5 room mates I had, the best one was a convict, who burned down a club/bar.
Please do publish it as a blog, I've very interested in hearing about roommate stories ^^
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It's not appropriate, the only one's I could talk about would be the convict or the twins.
Anyways, I just think this guy should stop caring so much about the small things. To me, his story sounds like this...
I had just ironed my newspapers this weekend, and my room mate took my newspapers that I had paid 50 cents for, and just started reading them in front of me. Like who the fk does that? I was like, "I JUST IRONED THOSE, WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING?" so I wrote on a blackboard, "Go Fk yourself!" to help him get the message. He thought I was joking, but if you stacked all the newspapers that I've read in my lifetime, it would probably go up to the moon, so I have to iron them.
Also, my room mate is poor, it's hilarious. He doesn't own a computer, and I have a nice computer that my parents bought me. Neither of us have jobs, so I won't share my computer with him, so he can't do his homework. I just pretend to be asleep, and let him work on his paper, and then I'm like GTFO, after he's been doing it for about 2 hours. He won't have time to save it or anything. It's hilarious, and he's smaller than me, because he comes from a family, in which he couldn't eat all the time.
Oh, did I mention, that he's really social? I mean he smells extremely bad, and he's annoying as fk, but he's always is socializing. I don't know how he's so much more popular than me, but I guess it's because he showers before he goes out, but he does stink. Did I also mention that he's as annoying as fk?
He just won't shut up! He's not social in big groups, but when he's in small groups, he just won't shut up! I don't know how to deal with him, other than beating him up. I'm going to teach him to stop talking, by giving him a black eye for every time he tries to talk to me. If anything, he should just go back to the kitchen and make me a sandwich. I mean I'm a really big guy, and he's small, and I have needs ya know! I'm going to put him in his place, because that's what college is all about. Fk bitches, and make money, right?
I'm going to get a degree in engineering, so I can make the props in a porno, and have the money to buy me some chains, because I'm a P I M P BABY!!!!
Did I tell ya, that every time I sit down to see my room mate, I wear a watch, that's coated in diamonds, and flash it with every bite I take. I mean, I'll have a spoon of EZ mac, and be like "SWOOSH," and to me, he just stares at the watch, like WOAH! In reality, he's thinking, my room mate is such a douche, I need to get outside and meet some better people.
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On September 11 2012 09:31 Nymphaceae wrote:
I don't know how else to explain it to you, in a way that it would be TL appropriate. You should invite him to study with you. It sounds like he needs some one to help get his attention on the books. I could give you numerous examples of my bad room mates, but most of them are too inappropriate for TL. Going to write a short list of things that weren't too bad, and ask you if they've happened.
1. Has your room mate pissed in the ice maker?
2. Has your room mate pooped in the vacuum?
3. Has your room mate pooped on the couch?
4. Has your room mate tried to convince everyone that you're a jezebel?
5. Has your room mate tried to convince people that he's had sex with you?
6. Has your room mate begged to cry on your shoulder?
7. Has your room mate left their blood undies on the floor, until bugs started to live off of them?
8. Has your room mate screamed at himself all throughout the night?
9. Has your room mate been to prison?
10. Has your room mate stolen all of your food?
11. Has your room mate poured milk all over your computer?
12. Has your room mate talked a lot about raping an anonymous some one, and then asked you what certain drugs would do to you?
13. Has your room mate had a long lecture with you about how you shouldn't study what you're studying, because it's for sinners, and then tried to burn your books?
14. Has your room mate told people that you were in satan club?
Everytime you post in the blog section it always seems to be about some unbelievable thing that has happened to you or your friends.
I've come to the conclusion that you're either
1) a pathological liar
2) a particularely unlucky girl with a talent for storytelling.
In either case, keep posting on TL, you're easily top 10 most entertaining poster here !
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