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About two weeks ago, I met a new lady-friend. She had a very traditional upbringing and carries high morals with her (no sex until marriage, no smoking, no drinking, etc.). Which is good, I have high morals too (in my opinion)
We have met to have a cup of coffee a few times as acquaintances. What I've noticed on these coffee dates is that she constantly talks about sex.
All the time...
Random comments... "Funny how milk and sperm have a near-identical consistency and color, yet I cannot imagine that they would taste anything alike." After she says a comment like this, she immediately covers her mouth, turns bright purple-red-orange-funny colors from shame, and runs to the bathroom for a minute to collect herself. (Washing her mouth out with soap perhaps?)
I can safely say that she's not a slut or anything, she's just interested... very interested, I suppose...
My conclusion: she's a closet pervert. A virgin too.
My dilemma: How do I show her that sex isn't pure wonderment and amazement and something only to be talked about in hushed whispers? (A little tact please)
  
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Talk to her about it and show her your rationale behind your beliefs and have her explain her rationale behind hers. If shes half-way reasonable and worth anything she'll pick the most reasonable of the two.
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Well her thinking that sperm has the consistency of milk at least proves she hasn't gargled any yet.
You better marry her fast or someone else is popping that cherry pretty soon lol.
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Well perhaps you can lead by example. If you bring up sex in a nonchalant manner, perhaps She'd be more likely to follow suit and realize its not a big giggly deal.
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wtf is high morals? So not having sex before marriage and not drinking makes someone high moral?
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Just let things progress and be patient. She's shy and has a different upbringing. Don't force anything on her. They'll get over it as they get older and meet more and more people.
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She's into you, and curious about finding these things out
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On July 01 2012 08:48 Elegance wrote:
wtf is high morals? So not having sex before marriage and not drinking makes someone high moral?
Pretty sure he said in his opinion.
But then again, maybe he just meant HE thinks HE has higher morals.
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My dilemma: How do I show her that sex isn't pure wonderment and amazement and something only to be talked about in hushed whispers? (A little tact please)
What do you mean sex isn't pure wonderment and amazement? Is my life a lie?
Just bring it up in a normal way. she'll get used to talking about it eventually.
Also, she's into you, she's courious about sex and wants to explore it. She'll do it with you or somebody else eventually, I'd say go for it.
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Lol I think she wants to major in human anatomy/physiology
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On July 01 2012 09:13 Entirety wrote:
Lol I think she wants to major in human anatomy/physiology
So tell her having sex is only helping her with her future and study
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She wants your penis in or around her mouth area
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On July 01 2012 09:29 Zeller wrote:
She wants your penis in or around her mouth area
agreed. This is the first girl blog in a while were the op needs no help your in man dont worry about it.
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>meets girl
>shes high morals (lol wtf?) no sex before marriage.
>she always talks about sex
your in mate.
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How do I show her that sex isn't pure wonderment and amazement
Definitely don't have sex with her.
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Have sex with her. If you don't have sex with her I'll never forgive you. She wants to have sex with you. I will say it once more: She wants to have sex with you.
In conclusion, you should have sex with her.
But wear a condom. That shit's important.
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I just talked to her and told her that she seemed particularly interested in sex. That's when she suddenly broke down in tears and hit me with her life's sob story.
Her mom had AIDS (currently deceased). Her father has AIDS. It was transferred to her at birth, so she has AIDS. Her curiosity for sex was because she won't get to experience it.
Wow, I'm at a total loss for words, I don't even...
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On July 01 2012 13:08 Entirety wrote:
I just talked to her and told her that she seemed particularly interested in sex. That's when she suddenly broke down in tears and hit me with her life's sob story.
Her mom had AIDS (currently deceased). Her father has AIDS. It was transferred to her at birth, so she has AIDS. Her curiosity for sex was because she won't get to experience it.
Wow, I'm at a total loss for words, I don't even...
Holy shit.
*mind blown*
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