EPT[Girl Blog] A peculiar problem - Page 2
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iTzSnypah
United States1738 Posts
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
Unfortunately you do not want to be involved with a woman like this, as sad as this is. Not sure the best way to proceed forward for you, but it is the correct course. | ||
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AnachronisticAnarchy
United States2957 Posts
Probably best to leave the relationship. | ||
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don_kyuhote
3007 Posts
thats why you dont just have sex with random person you meet, | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
On July 01 2012 13:08 Entirety wrote: I just talked to her and told her that she seemed particularly interested in sex. That's when she suddenly broke down in tears and hit me with her life's sob story. Her mom had AIDS (currently deceased). Her father has AIDS. It was transferred to her at birth, so she has AIDS. Her curiosity for sex was because she won't get to experience it. Wow, I'm at a total loss for words, I don't even... Oh my god Completely unexpected result I guess you know what to do, but be nice to her about it | ||
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bibilisk
France44 Posts
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
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dakalro
Romania525 Posts
And yeah, these kinds of girls end up being the most fun partners for sex - if they're sane that is. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
As for her AIDS, can't do much about it. Be nice, don't ostracise her. | ||
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Entirety
1423 Posts
Holy crap, I never expected something like this. Wow, seriously, meeting someone with AIDS can really change your life. | ||
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Jestalt
United States28 Posts
On July 01 2012 13:08 Entirety wrote: I just talked to her and told her that she seemed particularly interested in sex. That's when she suddenly broke down in tears and hit me with her life's sob story. Her mom had AIDS (currently deceased). Her father has AIDS. It was transferred to her at birth, so she has AIDS. Her curiosity for sex was because she won't get to experience it. Wow, I'm at a total loss for words, I don't even... Okay forget what I said. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER. Abort mission. Get the fuck out. Nothing to do here. Eject. She actually can have sex though. It's possible to have sex with her without the AIDS transmitting to her partner, although I wouldn't risk it unless you're seriously involved with her (as in marriage.) | ||
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FryBender
United States290 Posts
Again I am highly skeptical of this whole story but whatever; the information here is no less true even if you're just having fun. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On July 01 2012 14:12 Salv wrote: Crazy twist. Unfortunately you do not want to be involved with a woman like this, as sad as this is. Not sure the best way to proceed forward for you, but it is the correct course. That's not true. Only OP can set the best course for himself. Anyway, "coffee dates" are pretty low commitment. It doesn't sound like OP is head-over-heels in love or anything, and she'd probably not either. From her perspective, she probably wants to have as normal a dating life as anyone else, save some extra modifications for safety. It can't feel good to have guys run away at the very mention of a permanent condition. If OP would date the girl otherwise then he still should. | ||
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
On July 01 2012 13:08 Entirety wrote: I just talked to her and told her that she seemed particularly interested in sex. That's when she suddenly broke down in tears and hit me with her life's sob story. Her mom had AIDS (currently deceased). Her father has AIDS. It was transferred to her at birth, so she has AIDS. Her curiosity for sex was because she won't get to experience it. Wow, I'm at a total loss for words, I don't even... she's how old? | ||
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DeepElemBlues
United States5080 Posts
BUT Still definitely don't have sex with her. What she needs is a lot of emotional support at a very intimate level and unless you want to have a super-duper-serious relationship with her... the craziness that having sex with her will cause is not worth it. | ||
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Otolia
France5805 Posts
TL community, you should be ashamed of propagating lies like this. This kind of alienation really pisses me off. | ||
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bibilisk
France44 Posts
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serge
Russian Federation142 Posts
On July 02 2012 05:42 Otolia wrote: For fuck sake, man up put a condom and enjoy sex. Don't listen to those sheeps who are telling you not to enjoy yourself. As long as you don't stick your tongue in any holes except the mouth, remember to wash yourselves after sex and put have a good quality condom ALL THE TIME, you should be fine. TL community, you should be ashamed of propagating lies like this. This kind of alienation really pisses me off. If I could rate comments I'd give you 5/5. Some of these posters are total party poopers. Wear like 2 condoms and you'll be fine. | ||
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DRTnOOber
New Zealand476 Posts
In saying that I'm not a medical professional, just talk to someone who is and find out the real deal. | ||
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Entirety
1423 Posts
I think there's a misunderstanding here... it's not that she feels deprived of sex. She feels deprived of what sex represents - a partner for life (no one-night stands), raising a family, holding her baby child. She doesn't want a one-night stand (like I said, she has "high morals"), she wants a family. This is probably my fault, I left out a lot of details, didn't feel like typing them all out. FryBender, I'm not sure of the details, she did not go in-depth into her conditions. She was mostly talking about her life and her dreams. That said, I THINK (I can't be sure) that her father had HIV, her mother got HIV from her father and her mother's HIV developed into AIDS. During birth, HIV (presumably) was transferred to my friend. I don't think my friends has AIDS because she seemed to be in decent condition (AKA not worrying about her life every waking minute). I'm sorry about any inaccuracies, I wasn't in the mood to worry about such distinctions. By the way, I'm sure you guys can find alternative means of pregnancy so that she can raise a family despite having HIV. She's not interested in that either... she doesn't want to pass it on. "Let the disease die with me" sort of mindset Anyway, the shock is slowly disappearing. I don't know if I overreacted or not, nothing like this has EVER happened to me before. I found out why she was so interested in sex, she wanted to understand everything about it so she looked it up in books, etc. and became more curious. No, I am not interested in the best way to bang her without contracting HIV myself. I'm not in love with her either, she was an acquaintance and I think I can call her a friend now. I never had thoughts of getting into a relationship with her. | ||
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