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hello everyone.
you may remember my last 2 girl blogs which was me jackassing.
As some of you know i am still a pussy i never asked her out but today she came to me and straight up " I Don't Like You, I will never like you or go out with you " those words sank into my heart as a knife through my heart. The problem I've liked her for 4 Years and i told her last week. i think i found the problem. I was so gullible. I actually believed her Best friends on facebook that felicity liked me.
Now i feel so stupid. i liked this girl for 4 years. I ain;t no jackass who looks on their looks.
This is how i feel right now Having No Girlfriend, Exactly how i feel
GG Wp NO RE
  
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Did you tell her that her friends said that?
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she said that to you? lol. thats pretty bitchy.
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On May 11 2012 14:50 dAPhREAk wrote:
she said that to you? lol. thats pretty bitchy.
Yeah I thought about calling her a close-minded ***** but I refrained.
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Yeah, I liked a girl for 3 years, but instead of it ending with rejection, I was just pussy enough that nobody ever even found out I liked her and then I just got over her.
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Dude, she just did you a huge favor. Yeah it sucks, but better to not waste time on her.
+ Show Spoiler +Actually I would argue it's better not to spend time on any woman, but I'll spare you the Greg House stuff for now...
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On May 11 2012 14:54 Luepert wrote:
Yeah, I liked a girl for 3 years, but instead of it ending with rejection, I was just pussy enough that nobody ever even found out I liked her and then I just got over her.
Haha, pretty much the story of my life in high school. Now I'm in college with minimal dating experience. Not the best position to be in.
The best thing is to move on. You'll find someone eventually. Believe it.
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You couldn't have played it any worse and didn't take any of the advice you asked for, hopefully you've learnt something for next time.
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On May 11 2012 14:29 rOse_PedaL wrote:
As some of you know i am still a pussy i never asked her out but today she came to me and straight up " I Don't Like You, I will never like you or go out with you " those words sank into my heart as a knife through my heart.
You probably won't fully appreciate this for a few years, but she did you a huge favour by telling you that flat out. Much better to sever all ties immediately than continue what you've gone through for the last 4 years. I've seen so many people get soft-rejected with lines like "I just don't know you well enough right now", giving them just enough hope to do absolutely nothing with their lives for the next few years.
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:s,aww... this isent the epic ending to a cute story... I hope you can find someone new soon :-].
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On May 11 2012 15:27 pirsq wrote:Show nested quote +On May 11 2012 14:29 rOse_PedaL wrote:
As some of you know i am still a pussy i never asked her out but today she came to me and straight up " I Don't Like You, I will never like you or go out with you " those words sank into my heart as a knife through my heart. You probably won't fully appreciate this for a few years, but she did you a huge favour by telling you that flat out. Much better to sever all ties immediately than continue what you've gone through for the last 4 years. I've seen so many people get soft-rejected with lines like "I just don't know you well enough right now", giving them just enough hope to do absolutely nothing with their lives for the next few years.
Yeah, seriously, a chick being straight up about shit like that is such a wonderful thing. Either way, straight up is good. Yeah, it sucks that you didn't get the girl, but it sucks worse to have a chick drag you around wasting your time.
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Ouch that is cold, but at least you can move on now.
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It may not be the best feeling in the world, but trust me, eventually you will find the person that is right for you :D :D
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Trust me, it's far better that she be straight up with you and tell you the score now than give you a wishy-washy answer to keep you around just in case she needs you for something. I agree with TheToast that she did you a huge favour.
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The truth hurts most of the time. At least now you know, and can find someone else.
Do find someone else 
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She did you a service, yeah 4 years is a long time, but imagine if she told you in another 4 years time.
Time to not waste any more thought on her and move on. Your only a loser in this situation if you let yourself become one, you are going to find a bigger better deal, someone who actually appreciates you for who you are.
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Hahaha that's what you get for being a narrow-minded, optimistic fool? Try to engage your brain more in these situations next time Casanova. In case you weren't aware, things don't always go your way, people aren't always honest and the world isn't filled with rainbows and smiling faces. Get over it.
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On May 11 2012 14:56 TheToast wrote:Dude, she just did you a huge favor. Yeah it sucks, but better to not waste time on her. + Show Spoiler +Actually I would argue it's better not to spend time on any woman, but I'll spare you the Greg House stuff for now...
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Just in case you should prepare for the worse.
It is entirely possible that you will never find anyone and die alone.
You may never find someone.
Try to think positively but don't rule out all contingencies because they may bite you in the ass later. Prepare for everything.
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Thanks for the comfort everybody
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