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Misanthrope
United States924 Posts
I suppose a stronger sense of self-assurance would solve this. Not sure how to do that exactly. I typically do the things I know I'll respect myself for tomorrow, and that gives me an overall positive self-image. This feels like a whole other beast compared to the mental challenges I've faced in the past. Tips?   | ||
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0123456789
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jubil
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0123456789
United States3216 Posts
On February 18 2012 04:52 jubil wrote: I find it's best to just be super polite, and/or silly with them. Doing this, I find myself starting to pity the person BM'ing, rather than accepting what they say. Although, it's a lot easier to do this when you're winning than when it's a offensive GG or BM like that... Dude, u r ok with bending over, and letting the 12 year old run his bm all over your shiny virgin ass? U r theoretically giving the bm'er what he wants, responses, and letting him do it and give him validation to do it by trying to be nice. | ||
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Misanthrope
United States924 Posts
I suppose that leaves me with managing my emotions as best as possible to maintain a calm viewpoint. The intimidating fact about this solution is that even experienced, hardened competitors like FlaSh have trouble maintaining an absolutely clear and focused mind. | ||
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English
United States475 Posts
On February 18 2012 04:53 0123456789 wrote: Dude, u r ok with bending over, and letting the 12 year old run his bm all over your shiny virgin ass? U r theoretically giving the bm'er what he wants, responses, and letting him do it and give him validation to do it by trying to be nice. Actually in most cases, I found that BM'ers want to invoke rage responses. Being polite (ignoring or not responding is part of being polite to an extent) or silly is the opposite of what he wants. Saying "I love you" in response to any BM works pretty well. | ||
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Uranium
United States1077 Posts
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0123456789
United States3216 Posts
On February 18 2012 05:07 English wrote: Actually in most cases, I found that BM'ers want to invoke rage responses. Being polite (ignoring or not responding is part of being polite to an extent) or silly is the opposite of what he wants. Saying "I love you" in response to any BM works pretty well. We need proof of this. I will post my results, u post yours. Then we can all laugh together. | ||
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Vorenius
Denmark1979 Posts
"Your mother was a saint and you father a respectable citizen!" and then block communication. | ||
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AnachronisticAnarchy
United States2957 Posts
Second of all, you need to realize that when somebody is BMing you, they typically either got their butts kicked unusually hard by you or they are on a monster losing streak. Either way, I take it (and you should as well) as a compliment and a good source of laughs. Nothing says "I'm fucking sick of losing to better players" quite like dropping the F-bomb at the start of the game and going mass voidrays or something. | ||
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nath
United States1788 Posts
if you cant shake it off or realize that they are the ones being pathetic and probably also bm'd because you owned them, then maybe cheese the next few games as their race? idk? punch a pillow? smash shit on the wall? jerk off? w/e makes you calm down | ||
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