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Hi everyone heres a blog of me going to rage mode whenever i reached home after work,the reason i am writing this blog is that you TL people are going to decide this crazy shit that i am planning from next week onwards.Heres the problem i have.
I am a person who doesnt like to clean up my table,my table is always in a mess and i prefer that way since I can take things immediately from where its placed and save the trouble to take the stuff i want from my drawer.So everytime I leave home for work and when i come back,my room changed alot. My table is cleaned up,all the stuff are placed "properly" and my laptop + other stuff are shifted, Its been like 10+ years i told my Mom not to touch the things on my table and she insisted.Everytime she did this i will rage hard and start my rage at her.
So this is what i gonna do, I gonna lock up my room whenever i leave the house.I gonna make spare keys and keep for myself only,not even a spare key is kept for my family since i hate my mom for doing this.I can mob/sleep my own room whenever I at at home and do this by myself and NOT MY MOM.
Poll: SHOULD I LOCK MY OWN ROOM FROM NEXT WEEK ONWARDS??NO (55) 68% YES (26) 32% 81 total votes Your vote: SHOULD I LOCK MY OWN ROOM FROM NEXT WEEK ONWARDS?? (Vote): YES
(Vote): NO
  
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Is the crazy shit just that you plan on installing a lock, or is there something else?
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When your unclean room is what keeps you from getting that special someone in the sack, your gonna wish you let your mom clean your room.
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Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
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I know when I was younger if I pulled this bullshit my parents would have just removed the door from the hinges.
Their house, their rules, I guess. There is a baseline level of privacy that children should be granted by their parents, but that privacy and respect needs to be earned. If your parents want your room clean, and you refuse to clean it, they have every right to deal with it on their own. If you demonstrate that you're willing to accept their rules, then you can start complaining about a lack of respect. When you move the hell out and into your own apartment/house, you can keep your table as messy as you please. Until then, enjoy the free rent, and put up with THE HORROR!!!! of a clean desk.
Your problems are great and many, and I'll remember your bravery in this time of great struggle.
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You should take a day off work and not tell your mom, then hide in your room. When she comes in to mess with things, jump out and scream like a crazy person.
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Imo If its their house its their rules. Why not you clean up and then mom does not have to. Also its good practice like post above if you want a lady to hang out with you they prefer clean places over pigsties. If you are planning on doing some remolding on the house so You can lock your door just make sure its an easy fix. If the property managers do not approve that can get sticky or if your parents own make sure your not devaluing the house for them. Just some random thoughts from mme . Good luck parents/teen relationships can be hard.
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grow up and move out....?
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Artifice United States. July 29 2011 00:49. Posts 215 PM Profile Report Quote #
You should take a day off work and not tell your mom, then hide in your room. When she comes in to mess with things, jump out and scream like a crazy person.
LOL, +1 , that is the best advice so far.
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Do you pay rent for said room?
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On July 29 2011 00:47 Nikopol wrote:
Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
hahaha
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Cleanliness is akin to Godliness
Also, if your living situation is not always in a state where you are prepared to bring a girl home, then you've clearly decided that that's not going to happen, and you've discounted even the possibility that you might bring a girl home. If you have that attitude, how are you ever going to get laid?
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On July 29 2011 00:58 StorkHwaiting wrote:
Do you pay rent for said room?
I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that anyone that gets this worked up about someone (especially his mom) cleaning his shit up (FOR FREE) probably doesn't cut a rent check each month.
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What if you cleaned your room, and then told your mother that since you cleaned your room on your own that she doesn't have to mess with anything THAT WOULD BE FUCKING CRAZY LOL
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On July 29 2011 00:47 Nikopol wrote:
Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
I almost burst into laughter in class from this. haha
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If you live with your parents, you have no reason to complain. In fact, you should instead be concerned about what your mess could be causing the house - unwashed dishes and dark confines allowing perfect nesting and breedinggrounds for bugs and vermin, putting the entire house in danger of having its walls, cielcings and floors swamped with rats and cockroaches, which could require a complete renovation to fix. Complete meaning tearing up floors, ripping down walls and then reassembling it all after a lengthy and extremely expensive process of vermin extermination.
Don't make excuses for being a lazy cunt. If these concerns don't worry you, then get your own place and expose yourself to a roommate with your attitude. It's not pleasant, I can assure you.
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On July 29 2011 01:06 dlcofls21 wrote:
What if you cleaned your room, and then told your mother that since you cleaned your room on your own that she doesn't have to mess with anything THAT WOULD BE FUCKING CRAZY LOL
Tone it down. No one needs to get hurt. Craziness has a limit, you know.
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i reached home after work Wait. You work, and still live with your mom?
Have you thought about i dunno moving out?
And tbh you sound like a teenager, revolting against the rules of your parents. Some people pay others to clean their shit up. U get that free, and complain about it. I just don't get it...
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It's not your house, you can't lock your parents out of a part of their own home no matter how old you are.
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