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Hi everyone heres a blog of me going to rage mode whenever i reached home after work,the reason i am writing this blog is that you TL people are going to decide this crazy shit that i am planning from next week onwards.Heres the problem i have.
I am a person who doesnt like to clean up my table,my table is always in a mess and i prefer that way since I can take things immediately from where its placed and save the trouble to take the stuff i want from my drawer.So everytime I leave home for work and when i come back,my room changed alot. My table is cleaned up,all the stuff are placed "properly" and my laptop + other stuff are shifted, Its been like 10+ years i told my Mom not to touch the things on my table and she insisted.Everytime she did this i will rage hard and start my rage at her.
So this is what i gonna do, I gonna lock up my room whenever i leave the house.I gonna make spare keys and keep for myself only,not even a spare key is kept for my family since i hate my mom for doing this.I can mob/sleep my own room whenever I at at home and do this by myself and NOT MY MOM.
Poll: SHOULD I LOCK MY OWN ROOM FROM NEXT WEEK ONWARDS??NO (55) 68% YES (26) 32% 81 total votes Your vote: SHOULD I LOCK MY OWN ROOM FROM NEXT WEEK ONWARDS?? (Vote): YES
(Vote): NO
  
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Is the crazy shit just that you plan on installing a lock, or is there something else?
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When your unclean room is what keeps you from getting that special someone in the sack, your gonna wish you let your mom clean your room.
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Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
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I know when I was younger if I pulled this bullshit my parents would have just removed the door from the hinges.
Their house, their rules, I guess. There is a baseline level of privacy that children should be granted by their parents, but that privacy and respect needs to be earned. If your parents want your room clean, and you refuse to clean it, they have every right to deal with it on their own. If you demonstrate that you're willing to accept their rules, then you can start complaining about a lack of respect. When you move the hell out and into your own apartment/house, you can keep your table as messy as you please. Until then, enjoy the free rent, and put up with THE HORROR!!!! of a clean desk.
Your problems are great and many, and I'll remember your bravery in this time of great struggle.
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You should take a day off work and not tell your mom, then hide in your room. When she comes in to mess with things, jump out and scream like a crazy person.
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FuDDx
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Imo If its their house its their rules. Why not you clean up and then mom does not have to. Also its good practice like post above if you want a lady to hang out with you they prefer clean places over pigsties. If you are planning on doing some remolding on the house so You can lock your door just make sure its an easy fix. If the property managers do not approve that can get sticky or if your parents own make sure your not devaluing the house for them. Just some random thoughts from mme . Good luck parents/teen relationships can be hard.
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grow up and move out....?
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Artifice United States. July 29 2011 00:49. Posts 215 PM Profile Report Quote #
You should take a day off work and not tell your mom, then hide in your room. When she comes in to mess with things, jump out and scream like a crazy person.
LOL, +1 , that is the best advice so far.
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Do you pay rent for said room?
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On July 29 2011 00:47 Nikopol wrote:
Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
hahaha
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Cleanliness is akin to Godliness
Also, if your living situation is not always in a state where you are prepared to bring a girl home, then you've clearly decided that that's not going to happen, and you've discounted even the possibility that you might bring a girl home. If you have that attitude, how are you ever going to get laid?
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On July 29 2011 00:58 StorkHwaiting wrote:
Do you pay rent for said room?
I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that anyone that gets this worked up about someone (especially his mom) cleaning his shit up (FOR FREE) probably doesn't cut a rent check each month.
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What if you cleaned your room, and then told your mother that since you cleaned your room on your own that she doesn't have to mess with anything THAT WOULD BE FUCKING CRAZY LOL
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On July 29 2011 00:47 Nikopol wrote:
Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
I almost burst into laughter in class from this. haha
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If you live with your parents, you have no reason to complain. In fact, you should instead be concerned about what your mess could be causing the house - unwashed dishes and dark confines allowing perfect nesting and breedinggrounds for bugs and vermin, putting the entire house in danger of having its walls, cielcings and floors swamped with rats and cockroaches, which could require a complete renovation to fix. Complete meaning tearing up floors, ripping down walls and then reassembling it all after a lengthy and extremely expensive process of vermin extermination.
Don't make excuses for being a lazy cunt. If these concerns don't worry you, then get your own place and expose yourself to a roommate with your attitude. It's not pleasant, I can assure you.
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On July 29 2011 01:06 dlcofls21 wrote:
What if you cleaned your room, and then told your mother that since you cleaned your room on your own that she doesn't have to mess with anything THAT WOULD BE FUCKING CRAZY LOL
Tone it down. No one needs to get hurt. Craziness has a limit, you know.
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i reached home after work Wait. You work, and still live with your mom?
Have you thought about i dunno moving out?
And tbh you sound like a teenager, revolting against the rules of your parents. Some people pay others to clean their shit up. U get that free, and complain about it. I just don't get it...
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It's not your house, you can't lock your parents out of a part of their own home no matter how old you are.
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teach your mum about how it is.
Rearrange her stuff and see how she likes it. If she doesn't, tell her to stop doing it with your stuff, since it's your kind of tidyness, because you know where what is placed.
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On July 29 2011 01:13 eNtitY~ wrote:
#Firstworldpains
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LOL KNIGHT
voted yes
My room is one fucking biohazard, so whether i lock it or not no one comes in. /win
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Dude, you're living in her house and you're the one dictating everything? Just respect the fact that she still lets you live there.
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On July 29 2011 01:47 xXFireandIceXx wrote:
Dude, you're living in her house and you're the one dictating everything? Just respect the fact that she still lets you live there.
Seriously. Her house, her rules. If you want complete freedom to turn the place into a dive, go rent your own place.
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What a bitch, I bet she washes your clothes without asking too
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lol the responses in this thread are pretty good~
voted YES so you can show that bitch who's the boss. make sure you make a small hole about 20cm x 10cm so she can make you a sammich without knocking the door which would greatly disturb your highness
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wow you rage when your mom cleans your room? i wish my mom would clean my room ;p
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On July 29 2011 02:02 Scarecrow wrote:
What a bitch, I bet she washes your clothes without asking too
The nerve of these mothers, helping you out? God, you have every right to lock them out of a room in their house.
/sarcasm
(Scarecrow, your post made me laugh.)
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I've got a crazy idea... Get your own apartment, and then you can put your stuff wherever you want. Until then, your parents are buying your food and paying your bills, and you can kindly shut the fuck up.
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lock the door, avoid making a big deal of it.
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On July 29 2011 00:47 Nikopol wrote:
Whooaaaa dude don't go do something crazy like open a bank account on this bender of yours!
Haha, reminds me of this:
http://www.theonion.com/articles/man-wakes-up-from-bender-with-financial-problems-s,19858/
+ Show Spoiler +EUGENE, OR—Though he has only the haziest memories of what happened between the time he left work Friday evening and woke up late Sunday afternoon, marketing associate Ben Taylor told reporters today that during his 36-hour drinking binge, he somehow managed to sort out his entire financial situation.
"The last thing I remember is getting a second tray of two-for-one mug-a-ritas with the guys from work," Taylor told reporters. "Next thing I know, I'm coming to on my couch, I'm nauseous, my head's pounding, and I'm fully vested in a Roth IRA that's completely deductible and contains a diverse spread of steady dividend-paying stocks with an impressive tax-to-growth ratio."
"How the fuck did this happen?" added Taylor, who upon waking also discovered he had left his front door wide open with his keys still in the lock. "Three days ago I didn't even have a savings account."
Assessing his situation, Taylor quickly discovered that his car and mobile phone were missing, and that his pockets were full of beer caps, crumpled napkins, and $465 in itemized drink receipts with an attached note from an accountant explaining the full amount could be written off as entertainment expenses.
While attempting to find his shoes and clean up the pan of burnt macaroni and cheese he found on the stove, Taylor placed calls to the police, several friends, and various financial advisers whose business cards he found on his nightstand.
"Turns out the accountant was a nice woman named Lauren Weisner," Taylor said. "When I asked her if anything had, you know, happened, she just said I'd seemed more interested in ways to set up tax-deferred accounts to save for retirement while also moving myself into a lower income bracket."
A fatigued and dehydrated Taylor said he cheered up after a return call from police confirmed the location of his Lexus, which he had traded back to the dealer for a more economical and fuel-efficient Toyota. And while the 38-year-old admitted he was disappointed to discover he had vomited repeatedly in his kitchen sink, burning out the garbage disposal in the process, he added that the damage was covered by the renter's insurance he evidently took out Saturday morning.
Taylor also told reporters that while rummaging through his medicine cabinet for ibuprofen, he discovered a new smartphone that turned out to be his—the result of an alcohol-fueled decision to switch to a carrier both cheaper and better-suited to his needs—and a quick glance at his call history revealed he had repeatedly dialed three ex-girlfriends, two doctors, and a brokerage house specializing in puts and margin calls.
"I thought Ben had a lot of nerve, calling me at three in the morning on a Saturday, considering how things ended between us," said Rachel Kornblum, 37, who shared an apartment with Taylor until their split last October. "But it turns out he just wanted to tell me he got a doctor to write a letter affirming we were both in a state of mental duress when we broke our lease and we should be getting back $4,281.67 within 10 business days."
After another call, Taylor confirmed he had left several messages telling investment brokers that as soon as the markets opened they should short several particular stocks, increase his holdings in various commodities he believed likely to rebound, and then "come on over here and have a fucking drink you sons of bitches."
Taylor, who conceded he was still recovering from his lengthy but financially advantageous bender, said he might never know all the details of his lost weekend.
"There's all kinds of things I don't remember, and though most of them are documented in this big accordion file I found on the coffee table here, many questions remain," Taylor said. "Like, how did I get my credit rating up over 750, and on a weekend? Did I really sell my Jet Ski for more than I paid for it? Why is there an entire pizza in the glove box of my car? Lucrative or not, I don't think I ever want to get that drunk again."
"Also, for the life of me, I can't figure out if I fucked that accountant lady," Taylor added.
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On July 29 2011 01:13 eNtitY~ wrote:
#Firstworldpains
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LOL I just about to write this. Can't believe you beat me to it 
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On July 29 2011 02:02 Scarecrow wrote:
What a bitch, I bet she washes your clothes without asking too
LOL
Dat bitch
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So you dont clean yourself, and your mom does it for you, and you get mad? When the house isn't yours?
Really bro?
My parents would kick my ass out if I acted up like that for literally no reason.
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lol if i put a lock on my childhood door my dad wouldve come at it with an axe.. . no f ing way could i have gotten away with that...
grow up imo clean up your trash lazy
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On July 29 2011 02:02 Scarecrow wrote:
What a bitch, I bet she washes your clothes without asking too
looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
basically sums up my feelings on this thread. Bookmark this page, come back to it in ten years and you'll either laugh hysterically at what you once were or feel so ashamed that you bend over backwards to help out your mom from that day forward =)
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I'm a bit dissapointed.
Locking a room is not really crazy, more like something normal to conserve your privacy.
Best move is to move out ^.^
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1. Grow up.
2. Move out.
3. Stop whining.
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On July 29 2011 01:07 plated.rawr wrote:
If you live with your parents, you have no reason to complain. In fact, you should instead be concerned about what your mess could be causing the house - unwashed dishes and dark confines allowing perfect nesting and breedinggrounds for bugs and vermin, putting the entire house in danger of having its walls, cielcings and floors swamped with rats and cockroaches, which could require a complete renovation to fix. Complete meaning tearing up floors, ripping down walls and then reassembling it all after a lengthy and extremely expensive process of vermin extermination.
Don't make excuses for being a lazy cunt. If these concerns don't worry you, then get your own place and expose yourself to a roommate with your attitude. It's not pleasant, I can assure you.
i wonder how many tlers can say they used the word "cunt" in their 1000th post...
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....are you serious? There is no reason for you to actually rage at your mom for cleaning for you, let alone consider locking them out of your room... first world pains indeed.
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No offense but you sound like a spoiled little kid. I would know because I was one too.
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well I know i am a spoiled child,the main point was i hate people touch my things without permission.Some of the stuff I have to prepared for outings and such are being put on my table so when that day comes I can just take and go BUT I just cant stop my mom from cleaning it even though I told her about it =/
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I'm interested in the legality of you locking a room in your parents house.
Any law students know?
Liquid'Tyler?
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On July 29 2011 21:56 Zorkmid wrote:
I'm interested in the legality of you locking a room in your parents house.
Any law students know?
Liquid'Tyler?
It's not illegal to lock it, and neither is it illegal for the owners of the house to unlock it. Only when a written agreement is made, such as with renter's lease, can some level of ownership be given to the occupant. Even then, the home owner has options/ways of accessing the room. However, in this case, with the occupant being the owner's kid, he really doesn't have a leg to stand on unless he actually pays rent and has some sort of signed lease. They could put all his stuff outside if they wanted. However, installing his own lock for privacy wouldn't be defensible in court, since its not his house.
I'd just suck it up and maybe say THANK YOU MOM FOR CLEANING UP AFTER MY LAZY SELF, okay? You've been telling her for 10+ years, but it can't be all that bad, you've put up with it for quite a long time.
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Clean/messy isn't just a scalar where cleaning is automatically better, because different people like their things arranged differently. I've had the same situation happen a lot where 'cleaning' ends up meaning things get put out of the way of where they need to be, and things get lost/have to be re-arranged the way I want again.
I sympathize with you OP, but acting whiny won't solve the issue.
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On July 29 2011 03:20 smacky wrote:Show nested quote +On July 29 2011 01:07 plated.rawr wrote:
If you live with your parents, you have no reason to complain. In fact, you should instead be concerned about what your mess could be causing the house - unwashed dishes and dark confines allowing perfect nesting and breedinggrounds for bugs and vermin, putting the entire house in danger of having its walls, cielcings and floors swamped with rats and cockroaches, which could require a complete renovation to fix. Complete meaning tearing up floors, ripping down walls and then reassembling it all after a lengthy and extremely expensive process of vermin extermination.
Don't make excuses for being a lazy cunt. If these concerns don't worry you, then get your own place and expose yourself to a roommate with your attitude. It's not pleasant, I can assure you. i wonder how many tlers can say they used the word "cunt" in their 1000th post...
Actually, my blog post about the killings 22. of July was my 1000th post.
I can sprinkle in some 'cunt' in this post as well though, if your general desire is to want posts to be come genetalifized.
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On July 29 2011 03:16 hmunkey wrote:
1. Grow up.
2. Move out.
3. Stop whining.
I think #1 is sufficient.
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On July 29 2011 02:02 Scarecrow wrote:
What a bitch, I bet she washes your clothes without asking too
Lmao this pretty much sums up how I feel about this blog. Get a grip man. You must be in high school... I hope.
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I wish my mom cleaned my room still.
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I was born in Malaysia so I know a bit on how the Asian mentality works. And I lol'ed at the OP - one day, when you've grown up and matured, you'll realise what a spoiled kid you are. Well, I hope that you're still a kid right now...
Haha, this reminds me of a little story - I have a friend who went to England for some student exchange thing. She went with a fellow classmate (a guy, and they're just friends) to that exchange as well. At the end of it, they went touring a little around Europe or something... AND GUESS WHAT?? The guy's mum went with them... lololol
I couldn't stop laughing when I heard that and she tells me I'm pretty mean. I agreed, but I couldn't stop laughing anyways. And I tell her that her goal should be to keep me away from him (I've never met him b4) because I'll randomly burst out laughing if I ever see him.
Morale of the story: Don't be a mummy's boy or some other guy that you've never met will be laughing at you.
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Although my room was also very messy when I was younger, I followed one particularily important rule and you should do so, too: No dirty dishes, no banana peels or whatever biological stuff which could rot and attract flies etc., no half-empty bottles, no half-empty chips or whatever.. just don't collect whatever could attract any sort of insect, bugs or even cockroaches etc..
Tell your mum that she misplaced stuff you urgently needed when she cleaned up, which surely wasn't on purpose, but it happened. Also tell her that now that everything which might harm anyone else in the house (which bugs etc WILL do) is gone and will stay gone, there is no reason to clean up behind you.
If that doesn't work, well, at least you have the really disgusting shit out of your room, and yeah, it IS disgusting, which you hopefully will see in a few years from now as well.
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What would the thoughts me if he paid rent? Just wait until you get married, then you can transfer responsibility of clothes from mother to wife.. I managed to only have to do my own laundry for a year, imagine! 
When you said do some crazy shit, I must admit I was kind of disappointed. I was thinking along the lines of physical outbursts of anger caught on video.. or at least breaking something..
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This thread is hilarious. Good job all.
OP: lol
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Well, if your computer is in your room (i assume it is) then let's face it, she's probably looking at your web history to see if you're looking at porn.
If you think about that for a moment theres plenty you can do, you could open notepad fullscreen and type "Stop going through my room, bitch" ("bitch" part is optional) with approx. 50 font size.
If your computer isn't in your room... Hm, well, I don't know. Though I reccomend the movie series "Home Alone" for general tips (not the fourth one though, it's horrendous. Actually, if you tie down your mom and make her watch Home Alone 4- Never mind, would be too cruel)
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maybe your mom should get a special lock for her front door and not give YOU the keys. Grow the fuck up, if you work then you're way too old to be this immature and if you're still in school... then you live off the charity of your parents and need to google the word "grateful"
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Wait what? My first impression was that this was written by a 12 year old going through puberty...but you also work? Holy shit you are retarded.
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I wholeheartedly agree with the OP; the audacity!
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Glue everything to where ever you want it to be.
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Clean the whole house without even consulting her about it. That'll show her!
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