This is a much better outcome than you never making a move, she thinks you're just friends and can finally relax around a guy because she enjoys your company in a non-romantic way, and then 3 months later finds out that you have feelings for her and hid it for months. That'd be awkward.
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Haemonculus
United States6980 Posts
This is a much better outcome than you never making a move, she thinks you're just friends and can finally relax around a guy because she enjoys your company in a non-romantic way, and then 3 months later finds out that you have feelings for her and hid it for months. That'd be awkward. | ||
VeNoM HaZ Skill
United States1528 Posts
On July 18 2011 21:29 Tatum26 wrote: Thanks everyone for their advice, I manned up and asked her to a movie, and she said yes, further proving why TL has the best forums. Not to mention the 10 or so posts about god-sperm. those were a plus Misguided "I thought it was romantic", but actually uber-platonic maneuver complete. Next step: Facebook stalking... | ||
TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
Instructions:
Deep down this girl wants you to take charge and start making her your girl. All you have to do at this point is just that. Be confident knowing that she wants you and go for it. Don't be a pussy. On July 18 2011 21:29 Tatum26 wrote: Thanks everyone for their advice, I manned up and asked her to a movie, and she said yes, further proving why TL has the best forums. Not to mention the 10 or so posts about god-sperm. those were a plus Just saw this. Good job - you're in! Make a move at the end of the night like I said. Oh, and P.S.: Don't ever think of a girl as being out of your league. There is no such thing. This girl is in your league, because she was smart enough to choose you. Feel free to show her off if she's that good, but don't act like you won the lottery or anything. Also make sure to seal the deal first. | ||
Razith
Canada431 Posts
Just pick up the phone, call her and ask her out somewhere. Drinks, movie, bowling, golf, park, food, whatever it doesn't matter. The confidence will definitely be recognized by your bold move and you'll have yourself an answer. If she says no, well don't beat yourself up, knowing is better than not knowing and you can just move on to the next girl. If she says yes, you have an in! Just be yourself, be polite and be fun and you'll have her waiting for the next date. This isn't some science with builds and timing windows like in starcraft; so don't get worked up about the small details. The girl obviously likes you and will be thrilled to be asked out by you. Best of luck! | ||
Elsid
Ireland318 Posts
On July 18 2011 21:29 Tatum26 wrote: Thanks everyone for their advice, I manned up and asked her to a movie, and she said yes, further proving why TL has the best forums. Not to mention the 10 or so posts about god-sperm. those were a plus Congratulations ^^ All you have to do from her is just play it out and see what happens. GL | ||
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