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largedong
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Squallcloud
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On June 20 2011 23:25 Morfildur wrote: Well, i lost contact to everyone i knew years ago as i moved around a lot. I mostly don't even remember the names (except for maybe 2-3 people to which i haven't talked to in more than 15 years). As for the "working out" the guy above mentioned... i really hate the boring, repetitive working out stuff. I tried it but i'm just not made for it. I'm a 100% "mental" person, the physical stuff was never of any interest to me, eventhough i was still always quite fit until about 1-2 years ago. Since then i gained a few pounds because my diet would turn anyone who actually cares about his diet to tears (i don't). Why is "working out" always the first thing people mention when i say that i feel exhausted? Rather than just work out i would advise finding a sport you might have fun doing. I found myself in your shoes friendless, alone, a bit depressed, no will to do anything. Things like gaming, reading i used to like becoming tasteless. Working out just for its own sake wasn't helping. So i tought about sports i find fun, the only cool thing i could think about was martial art so i started! A sport will improve your shape, make you go out, have fun and meet new people. You should really consult some professional listener having someone you can really open up to help. | ||
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Deleted User 101379
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On June 21 2011 00:41 Mactator wrote: Exercise is a good thing for your health but it has never solved any problems for me. You say you have a "a very exhausting job" so perhaps you are stressed. If that's the case (which I don't know) then working out helps but it's not necessarily the full solution. Maybe a longer vacation is what you need? I had a vacation last week and i feel worse than before because the time was totally wasted. There was just nothing for me to do. I'm not the guy who likes going somewhere on his own because it usually ends up being on my own sitting somewhere in a corner, but i don't have anyone i could do anything with. Even if i would work out and have tons of energy, there is nothing i can think of that i could do with it. That is the true question in my OP that noone seems to have answered as everyone was too focussed on the unneccessary "work out" stuff: What can you do when you don't want to do anything on your own but don't have anyone to do something with? How to meet new people if you don't know anyone to meet others through? | ||
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