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On February 14 2011 08:26 FlopTurnReaver wrote:Show nested quote +On February 14 2011 07:55 Blackjack111 wrote:On February 14 2011 07:51 FlopTurnReaver wrote: So what's this about now? That's the beauty of it... it's about nothing. I just write absolutely random blogs about nothing at all. ^^ Oh, a bragblog then. Your girlfriend can kick other girls' ass. I'm sure that's a cool feeling. Are you doing something like that too?
Blogs are usually about the writers like journals and diaries. If he wanted to brag, I'm sure he'd come up with something better than "my girlfriend hates women with large breasts and she has little breasts, but can whoop ass (which implicitly might say that he's a scrawny nerd)".
In other words, stop projecting your insecurities.
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On February 14 2011 08:26 FlopTurnReaver wrote: Oh, a bragblog then. Your girlfriend can kick other girls' ass. I'm sure that's a cool feeling. Are you doing something like that too?
Not really, if i wanted to brag, i would talk about myself. A topic i thoroughly enjoy exploring. ^^
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On February 14 2011 08:26 Torte de Lini wrote: I think you underestimate the rationality of people. In a conversation where their verbal decision weighs little difference, most would say yes as a reaction or purely as a joke.
If they were given a method for an enlarged penis, I'm sure the numbers would tell a different story. I dislike parts of my body, but I am comfortable with them and by having a girl who finds me appealing and sexually attractive, the leniency of my body's faults or negative traits raise higher.
So there's a lot to consider before throwing around generalizations. The double-effect of seeing your familiar body, the positive reinforcement of previously good or currently good sexual occurences, etc. etc. (so much more).
There will always be exceptions and it's more skewed towards personal insecurities or need of control moreso than insecurities about their body. A desire for an enlarged penis may just be a cheap compensation of a man's weak sexual expression, meaning they replace quality by quantity (hence, the previous saying: "Not how big it is, but how you use it).
Look what you made me fucking do
That is all perfectly rational. Which is why i think you are overestimating the general population. (Who knows, maybe i just happen to cast my ohh so lazy and disapproving gaze, on all the wrong people.) I agree with everything you said. I don't personally have an issue with that particular part of my anatomy. As a functional tool, it is effective enough. Although, visually i wouldn't mind it presenting itself better, if i was to drop my pants in public. Maybe have like a peacock.. cock. You know, get a few ooh's and ahh's. Before the police picks me up for indecent exposure.
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On February 14 2011 08:37 Blackjack111 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 14 2011 08:26 Torte de Lini wrote: I think you underestimate the rationality of people. In a conversation where their verbal decision weighs little difference, most would say yes as a reaction or purely as a joke.
If they were given a method for an enlarged penis, I'm sure the numbers would tell a different story. I dislike parts of my body, but I am comfortable with them and by having a girl who finds me appealing and sexually attractive, the leniency of my body's faults or negative traits raise higher.
So there's a lot to consider before throwing around generalizations. The double-effect of seeing your familiar body, the positive reinforcement of previously good or currently good sexual occurences, etc. etc. (so much more).
There will always be exceptions and it's more skewed towards personal insecurities or need of control moreso than insecurities about their body. A desire for an enlarged penis may just be a cheap compensation of a man's weak sexual expression, meaning they replace quality by quantity (hence, the previous saying: "Not how big it is, but how you use it).
Look what you made me fucking do That is all perfectly rational. Which is why i think you are overestimating the general population. (Who knows, maybe i just happen to cast my ohh so lazy and disapproving gaze, on all the wrong people.) I agree with everything you said. I don't personally have an issue with that particular part of my anatomy. As a functional tool, it is effective enough. Although, visually i wouldn't mind it presenting itself better, if i was to drop my pants in public. Maybe have like a peacock.. cock. You know, get a few ooh's and ahh's. Before the police picks me up for indecent exposure.
Emotionally, people side with comfort than impressions. Though to be honest, they go hand-in-hand.
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On February 14 2011 08:29 Torte de Lini wrote:Show nested quote +On February 14 2011 08:26 FlopTurnReaver wrote:On February 14 2011 07:55 Blackjack111 wrote:On February 14 2011 07:51 FlopTurnReaver wrote: So what's this about now? That's the beauty of it... it's about nothing. I just write absolutely random blogs about nothing at all. ^^ Oh, a bragblog then. Your girlfriend can kick other girls' ass. I'm sure that's a cool feeling. Are you doing something like that too? Blogs are usually about the writers like journals and diaries. If he wanted to brag, I'm sure he'd come up with something better than "my girlfriend hates women with large breasts and she has little breasts, but can whoop ass (which implicitly might say that he's a scrawny nerd)". In other words, stop projecting your insecurities.
Sounds like a brag blog to me.
Mentions how much his GF kicks ass, how she likes sexy underwear, how he got her into anime (and he's the geek here, with a rough and tough GF). Mentions how she's pretty, although he did mention she doesn't have huge breasts.
So, it's not about nothing, it's about his awesome GF, who is indeed awesome (based on this blog/story/thing).
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On February 14 2011 08:45 RageOverdose wrote:Show nested quote +On February 14 2011 08:29 Torte de Lini wrote:On February 14 2011 08:26 FlopTurnReaver wrote:On February 14 2011 07:55 Blackjack111 wrote:On February 14 2011 07:51 FlopTurnReaver wrote: So what's this about now? That's the beauty of it... it's about nothing. I just write absolutely random blogs about nothing at all. ^^ Oh, a bragblog then. Your girlfriend can kick other girls' ass. I'm sure that's a cool feeling. Are you doing something like that too? Blogs are usually about the writers like journals and diaries. If he wanted to brag, I'm sure he'd come up with something better than "my girlfriend hates women with large breasts and she has little breasts, but can whoop ass (which implicitly might say that he's a scrawny nerd)". In other words, stop projecting your insecurities. Sounds like a brag blog to me. Mentions how much his GF kicks ass, how she likes sexy underwear, how he got her into anime (and he's the geek here, with a rough and tough GF). Mentions how she's pretty, although he did mention she doesn't have huge breasts. So, it's not about nothing, it's about his awesome GF, who is indeed awesome (based on this blog/story/thing).
What would a blog consist of? What do you have to add to the topic because all you're doing is shitting.
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On February 14 2011 08:45 RageOverdose wrote: Sounds like a brag blog to me.
Mentions how much his GF kicks ass, how she likes sexy underwear, how he got her into anime (and he's the geek here, with a rough and tough GF). Mentions how she's pretty, although he did mention she doesn't have huge breasts.
So, it's not about nothing, it's about his awesome GF, who is indeed awesome (based on this blog/story/thing).
Personally find it hard to see. But then again, being the narcissist i am. I would never consider writing about someone else as anything that could acredit me in any way. If i didn't find her pretty, i we would most likely be friends rather than a couple. And the story is true enough. And as much as the blog is about nothing. Wouldn't it have been even worse, had i written about her studying. Or her visiting her parents and playing with her dogs?
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On February 14 2011 08:51 Blackjack111 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 14 2011 08:45 RageOverdose wrote: Sounds like a brag blog to me.
Mentions how much his GF kicks ass, how she likes sexy underwear, how he got her into anime (and he's the geek here, with a rough and tough GF). Mentions how she's pretty, although he did mention she doesn't have huge breasts.
So, it's not about nothing, it's about his awesome GF, who is indeed awesome (based on this blog/story/thing). Personally find it hard to see. But then again, being the narcissist i am. I would never consider writing about someone else as anything that could acredit me in any way. If i didn't find her pretty, i we would most likely be friends rather than a couple. And the story is true enough. And as much as the blog is about nothing. Wouldn't it have been even worse, had i written about her studying. Or her visiting her parents and playing with her dogs?
Well at least its better than the title implied.
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The title is to attract viewership. Classic.
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On February 14 2011 08:46 Torte de Lini wrote:
What would a blog consist of? What do you have to add to the topic because all you're doing is shitting.
According to the OP there is no topic therefore I can't be shitting on something that doesn't exist. Also I don't see how I shit on anything, perhaps you could elaborate.
If you want me to discuss the nature of her breasts and any sort of social issues related to people and what they think they should look like or how they respond in situations where they are confronted with someone who is more "ideal", then tough luck because I don't actually care. She has small breasts, frankly I don't know what that means because small could be large to me, based on this person's interpretation and I wouldn't even know.
Also, why you asked me about what a blog would consist of is odd, but I'll answer in some way I guess. Just about the only thing that blogs seem to retain between each other is a common format and frequent updating, otherwise they can be composed of whatever. They are not exclusively personal, Engadget and Joystiq are examples of news or hobby blogs (mostly news).
On February 14 2011 08:51 Blackjack111 wrote:Personally find it hard to see. But then again, being the narcissist i am. I would never consider writing about someone else as anything that could acredit me in any way. If i didn't find her pretty, i we would most likely be friends rather than a couple. And the story is true enough. And as much as the blog is about nothing. Wouldn't it have been even worse, had i written about her studying. Or her visiting her parents and playing with her dogs?
If you didn't intend to brag, whatever, it's how it came off to me initially. But you and the above poster I quoted seem to think that I think of that as a bad thing. Well I don't. All I got from your OP is that your GF may be a bit insecure about her breasts but can kick any girl's ass anyway. And she likes kinky underwear and to some degree anime now.
Frankly, despite the fact I don't have a problem with it, maybe it's refreshing to see someone who doesn't really abstract a relationship into ownership, a very good thing indeed, as usually you brag about something you own. So, if you found my interpretation of this blog as a brag blog offensive, then I apologize, I could be reading into it too much instead of considering other reasonable possibilities.
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On February 14 2011 09:10 RageOverdose wrote:Show nested quote +On February 14 2011 08:46 Torte de Lini wrote:
What would a blog consist of? What do you have to add to the topic because all you're doing is shitting. According to the OP there is no topic therefore I can't be shitting on something that doesn't exist. Also I don't see how I shit on anything, perhaps you could elaborate. If you want me to discuss the nature of her breasts and any sort of social issues related to people and what they think they should look like or how they respond in situations where they are confronted with someone who is more "ideal", then tough luck because I don't actually care. She has small breasts, frankly I don't know what that means because small could be large to me, based on this person's interpretation and I wouldn't even know. Also, why you asked me about what a blog would consist of is odd, but I'll answer in some way I guess. Just about the only thing that blogs seem to retain between each other is a common format and frequent updating, otherwise they can be composed of whatever. They are not exclusively personal, Engadget and Joystiq are examples of news or hobby blogs (mostly news).
There is no actual topic(s) to which the blog has a direction, but it has content and a subject (to which you titled as him bragging about his girlfriend).
Do you always contradict yourself? You're just criticizing the aim of the topic and how it's "bragging" without contributing directly to the topic or the content (than through needless criticism from your skewed perspective).
You're being very critical about a very flexible and completely anecdotal blog-post.
To end, it sounds like you're being offended and easily hurt by something construed as bragging, if that's not your intention than I'm really surprised.
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On February 14 2011 09:10 RageOverdose wrote: Frankly, despite the fact I don't have a problem with it, maybe it's refreshing to see someone who doesn't really abstract a relationship into ownership, a very good thing indeed, as usually you brag about something you own. So, if you found my interpretation of this blog as a brag blog offensive, then I apologize, I could be reading into it too much instead of considering other reasonable possibilities.
I certainly do not claim any ownership over her, or any credit for her accomplishments. I have a feeling, being a complete unknown, and a wildcard on TL. That a wide array of the forums users, Torte excluded for some reason, might misunderstand my intentions with the blog.
I would expect 99.9999% of people to not give a fuck about my life. Good or bad. I'm tempted to create another blog with a bunch of embarrassing facts about myself and my history. Because, as horribly pretentious as this sounds, should i talk about myself and my life now, people would likely presume i'm bragging. Unless i'm narrating a story about how i realised i'm the laziest person in the world, when i jizzed myself in the face. But if i go back, to the days when things really didn't look so bright. It might make them feel better.
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I'm special O: !!!
Create a blog post when you are comfortable and say what you want. If you check out my blog posts, it's a large diatribe of nothing consisting of day-to-day rants about my cynical view of my peers that I surround myself with alongside the whiny addition of the predicament I put myself in.
In all honesty, just realize two things: people who don't care, won't read. People who do care, will post and people who will hate will make sure you know.
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On February 14 2011 09:30 Torte de Lini wrote: I'm special O: !!!
Create a blog post when you are comfortable and say what you want. If you check out my blog posts, it's a large diatribe of nothing consisting of day-to-day rants about my cynical view of my peers that I surround myself with alongside the whiny addition of the predicament I put myself in.
In all honesty, just realize two things: people who don't care, won't read. People who do care, will post and people who will hate will make sure you know.
Yes, you are special. (I feel like that is mostly something you say to people wearing helmets on the bus.)
I'll have a look at your blog.
I'm perfectly comfortable with just about everything. As horribly insecure as i was at 12, now i've got more than enough confidence to also make fun of myself. People will hate on me regardless. ^^
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this has turned into an even more interesting blog, ugh
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Pics, or she (they) dont exist!
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On February 14 2011 09:57 DyEnasTy wrote: Pics, or she (they) dont exist!
EXACTLY WHAT i WAS SAYING
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On February 14 2011 10:02 Torte de Lini wrote:EXACTLY WHAT i WAS SAYING
And so it begins...
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