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She owns a hair salon, and I'm a regular customer there. I've been going there every month for like the past 3 (almost 4 now O.o?) years. And man, is she pretty, and nice, and really good with her hands... haha...
I mean shit, have you guys ever met a girl who has all the characteristics you would have ever wanted in a girlfriend? Then after daydreaming for a few minutes you come to the crushing realization that you'd never be able to hook up with her?
She's like the embodiment of my type of woman, mature, smart, nice, responsible and... and... and .. yea you get the point. Too bad she's old enough to be the "Big" sister, by big I'm not talkin bout the typical 2 - 3 yr difference, I'm talkin bout the 4 - 6 yr difference =(. I got like no chance, all I am is the good customer who stops by every month.
Well, I just got off the phone with her (her sweet nice asian voice is so soothing x.x), and I felt compelled to blog about it. FML. Sorry guys lol.
 
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depending on what age you are 4 to 6 years is not so much, if you are late teens then yea its a lil bit much. But like mid 20s and that shit pretty much goes away. Go for it if you like her, no shame in trying.
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Asians have the softest hands.
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Why have such a defeatist attitude?
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5 years is nothing, ask her out. I've had girls as much as 10 years older than me and never run into any issues more serious than not getting each others' pop culture references.
Worst thing that can happen is she says no.
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ok good at least there is an "er" right after "old"
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My wife is 4 years older than me ?
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Korea (South)1897 Posts
When I was 26 I dated this 32 year old who was the top commercial film producer in Korea and I was a lowly gov't analyst.
I picked her up in a hotel club at the RitzCarlton and she was absolutely my ideal woman. She was cultured, open minded, spoke English and Korean, she had this absolutely smoking body and was tall and I think she just loved me... but the age gap was too much. She wanted to have kids and so did I and shit got serious fast because of her age, we only were together three intense months, but I had to end it and it ended badly because I know I was so falling in love with her and I didn't want to tell her that, I just wanted her to think I was an asshole and to just move on.
When I was 30, I saw her again in Seoul, at a restaurant, I pretended not to see her, but of course this point she was 36 and damn, while she still looked great, she looked 36 and I was like, wow, I'm glad i dodged that bullet there and did the sensible thing. Not to say that I wouldn't have been a happy with her for the rest of my life, but being the superficial Korean man that I am, I think it was the best decision in the long run.
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Hyrule19053 Posts
Take your age. Subtract the difference between your age and her age. Is the number <18?
If no, go for it.
If yes, repeat calculation next week.
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On November 03 2010 02:16 mardi wrote:
just do it.
And if she says no, it will forever be weird going to that hair salon... so you will need to man up and start going to a barber shop!
Its a win-win in my book lol.
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There's nothing wrong with dating someone 5 years older than you. The thing that stands out to me is that you say you are in love with her but I'm guessing you've never gone out on a date with her or anything?
I say go for it though.
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you are infatuated, not in love
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you're obsessing over a girl whom you have no chance with. if you did have a chance, your idolation and worship of her has taken it away. you need to have your head right if you're going to seduce a girl (especially if she has 5 more years of experience recognizing bullshit than you have spitting game), but the only thing you'll be thinking about is her "sweet ass asian voice"
there are tons of other girls man, get your game tight.
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Calgary25980 Posts
I'm sensing some disturbing trends on TL:
i) Regarding Starcraft projects:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get praise.
3. Do nothing.
ii) Regarding Starcraft training:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
iii) Regarding girls:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
Please stop opening threads to get the feeling of accomplishment while bypassing the actual work. Getting mentally jerked off by some dudes on a forum is nice, but if you actually put in some effort you might get that girl / starcraft accomplishment / whatever.
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On November 03 2010 02:09 MightyAtom wrote:
When I was 26 I dated this 32 year old who was the top commercial film producer in Korea and I was a lowly gov't analyst.
I picked her up in a hotel club at the RitzCarlton and she was absolutely my ideal woman. She was cultured, open minded, spoke English and Korean, she had this absolutely smoking body and was tall and I think she just loved me... but the age gap was too much. She wanted to have kids and so did I and shit got serious fast because of her age, we only were together three intense months, but I had to end it and it ended badly because I know I was so falling in love with her and I didn't want to tell her that, I just wanted her to think I was an asshole and to just move on.
When I was 30, I saw her again in Seoul, at a restaurant, I pretended not to see her, but of course this point she was 36 and damn, while she still looked great, she looked 36 and I was like, wow, I'm glad i dodged that bullet there and did the sensible thing. Not to say that I wouldn't have been a happy with her for the rest of my life, but being the superficial Korean man that I am, I think it was the best decision in the long run.
this just made my day. Thanks a ton, man 
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Girl I'm with turned 24 today and I don't turn 20 til February. So who cares about the age, the thing you should be more worried about is that she's friendly to you because thats her job, you definitely seem to be more of having a little high school crush than saying you're in love with her. If you want to risk having to get haircuts from other people, then go ahead and ask her out to dinner or something. Simple as that.
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There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes.
Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes.
+ Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill.
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Calgary25980 Posts
On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill.
I've read this post 3 times and I have no idea what it says.
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Relax guys =P, I really just felt compelled to share my little story. Didn't think I'd get so many serious responses. I gave up on the idea of asking her out like a year ago, and I'm doin fine with my life. I said sorry at the end for a reason lol. I've read the other girl problem stories too, so I'm like heck I'll throw in my own for you guys to have fun with.
Hence the defeatist attitude johannes =D
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my parents are like 8 years apart, once you're over like 20 it hardly matters much anymore.
As usual dont be a pussy and give it a shot etc
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On November 03 2010 02:50 Chill wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill. I've read this post 3 times and I have no idea what it says.
Me neither, but it's hilarious.
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On November 03 2010 02:57 Djzapz wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 02:50 Chill wrote:On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill. I've read this post 3 times and I have no idea what it says. Me neither, but it's hilarious.
The poster is dudeman001, what do you expect.
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On November 03 2010 02:36 Chill wrote:
iii) Regarding girls:
1. Post who'd you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
Fixed.
In all seriousness, there's no way you could be "in love." It's been said before, infatuated is the term for this. Though it doesn't mean you shouldn't at least try... Who knows what could happen.
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On November 03 2010 03:01 HwangjaeTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 02:57 Djzapz wrote:On November 03 2010 02:50 Chill wrote:On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill. I've read this post 3 times and I have no idea what it says. Me neither, but it's hilarious. The poster is dudeman001, what do you expect.
Ya know, at no point in my post did I ever ask for advice or anything, but shit I am so glad I made it because that made me laugh my ass off.
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I'm playing inc's favorite game. OP is asian as hell.
in love despite never doing anything with the girl
gave up before it even started
envisions marrying her without even knowing her
yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
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Korea (South)1897 Posts
On November 03 2010 02:37 indecision wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 02:09 MightyAtom wrote:
When I was 26 I dated this 32 year old who was the top commercial film producer in Korea and I was a lowly gov't analyst.
I picked her up in a hotel club at the RitzCarlton and she was absolutely my ideal woman. She was cultured, open minded, spoke English and Korean, she had this absolutely smoking body and was tall and I think she just loved me... but the age gap was too much. She wanted to have kids and so did I and shit got serious fast because of her age, we only were together three intense months, but I had to end it and it ended badly because I know I was so falling in love with her and I didn't want to tell her that, I just wanted her to think I was an asshole and to just move on.
When I was 30, I saw her again in Seoul, at a restaurant, I pretended not to see her, but of course this point she was 36 and damn, while she still looked great, she looked 36 and I was like, wow, I'm glad i dodged that bullet there and did the sensible thing. Not to say that I wouldn't have been a happy with her for the rest of my life, but being the superficial Korean man that I am, I think it was the best decision in the long run. this just made my day. Thanks a ton, man
Any time ^^ keke
she was hot though...
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Remember that she is providing a service to you and judging by your location, gratuity is influenced by how nice she is to you so try not to confuse "being nice for a tip" with "shes nice to me".
having said that, you should confidently give it a shot and don't think about the age difference. No woman really wants to be reminded of her age.
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I don't see why a four-six year difference in age should deter you from trying. I'm 21 and my girlfriend just turned 26, it's not unheard of for a guy to date someone older. Try asking her out, worst she says is no.
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Even though the OP doesn't have his birthday in his profile can the mods put the YEAR of user's birthdays back in their profile? It's really annoying not knowing how old someone is especially when it comes to people seeking advice in blogs.
In regards to the OP... age is just a number?
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On November 03 2010 03:18 BuGzlToOnl wrote:
Even though the OP doesn't have his birthday in his profile can the mods put the YEAR of user's birthdays back in their profile? It's really annoying not knowing how old someone is especially when it comes to people seeking advice in blogs.
In regards to the OP... age is just a number?
Although more to your point, if it turns out this guy is 15, and that makes the girl 19-20, he has no shot.
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On November 03 2010 03:19 Salv wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 03:18 BuGzlToOnl wrote:
Even though the OP doesn't have his birthday in his profile can the mods put the YEAR of user's birthdays back in their profile? It's really annoying not knowing how old someone is especially when it comes to people seeking advice in blogs.
In regards to the OP... age is just a number? Although more to your point, if it turns out this guy is 15, and that makes the girl 19-20, he has no shot.
I'm clearly 13 yrs old guys, cmon. I thought you were all better than that. I am so disappoint.
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ask her out?
i dont get it whats the problem
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On November 03 2010 03:23 ShaperofDreams wrote:
ask her out?
i dont get it whats the problem
The problem is, people aren't realizing that there isn't any problem =P. Does that count as a troll?
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United States22883 Posts
On November 03 2010 03:05 Hawk wrote:
I'm playing inc's favorite game. OP is asian as hell.
in love despite never doing anything with the girl
gave up before it even started
envisions marrying her without even knowing her
yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
[14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] zulu
[14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=165750
[14:27:35] [@s2k|Jibba] only read first post
[14:27:36] [@s2k|Jibba] asian
[14:28:31] [@zulu_nation5] not only asian but korean, cuz of the older sister comment
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On November 03 2010 03:34 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 03:05 Hawk wrote:
I'm playing inc's favorite game. OP is asian as hell.
in love despite never doing anything with the girl
gave up before it even started
envisions marrying her without even knowing her
yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah [14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] zulu [14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=165750[14:27:35] [@s2k|Jibba] only read first post [14:27:36] [@s2k|Jibba] asian [14:28:31] [@zulu_nation5] not only asian but korean, cuz of the older sister comment
Verified by an asian and a half-asian, FUCK YEAH IM GOOD!!!
This game is incontrol's single greatest contribution to the site.
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On November 03 2010 03:38 Hawk wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 03:34 Jibba wrote:On November 03 2010 03:05 Hawk wrote:
I'm playing inc's favorite game. OP is asian as hell.
in love despite never doing anything with the girl
gave up before it even started
envisions marrying her without even knowing her
yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah [14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] zulu [14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=165750[14:27:35] [@s2k|Jibba] only read first post [14:27:36] [@s2k|Jibba] asian [14:28:31] [@zulu_nation5] not only asian but korean, cuz of the older sister comment Verified by an asian and a half-asian, FUCK YEAH IM GOOD!!! This game is incontrol's single greatest contribution to the site.
Yeah... you guys are good. lol... But I don't think it's that hard to pick out who's asian and who's not. We're all so stereotypical when it comes to these things =_=.
A real challenge would be to pick out who the asian is out of a ventrilo channel of people. Even with a perfectly fine american accent, asians tend to have a different tone to their voice.
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its all about beautiful hands
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Can we get the exact ages of both of you for reference? I had a 26-year old girl (well technically woman lol) into me and I am 20, but personally I couldn't simply because she was looking to settle down in terms of marriage (there were also many other reasons) while I am not really eager to do that at the moment.
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My mother is 10 years older than my father. I don't see an issue whatsoever.
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You're talking to her on the phone ? Why haven't you asked her to dinner/movie yet ?
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My gf is 7 years older then me. I don't understand this topic.
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My friend was 17 years old. Her boyfriend was 28. They are still together, after about a year.
If you still find her attractive, then age is really nothing to worry about unless you're like 14 years old.
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Katowice25012 Posts
On November 03 2010 03:38 Hawk wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 03:34 Jibba wrote:On November 03 2010 03:05 Hawk wrote:
I'm playing inc's favorite game. OP is asian as hell.
in love despite never doing anything with the girl
gave up before it even started
envisions marrying her without even knowing her
yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah [14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] zulu [14:27:32] [@s2k|Jibba] http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=165750[14:27:35] [@s2k|Jibba] only read first post [14:27:36] [@s2k|Jibba] asian [14:28:31] [@zulu_nation5] not only asian but korean, cuz of the older sister comment Verified by an asian and a half-asian, FUCK YEAH IM GOOD!!! This game is incontrol's single greatest contribution to the site.
I was so busy playing this game last weekend that I was late to go meet my friends. Definitely one of the better parts of the site.
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Something about the OP's story and his name (Snuggles) leads me to believe that he just might be a little trigger happy when it comes to romance.
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Dating an older women is just not a good idea. The day will come quicker than you'd expect when she is no longer attractive to you. Then you'll want to cheat on her, which is not ideal.
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hes dating, not marrying her. Lots of people posting these threads asking for romance advice can benefit from an older woman showing them the ropes.
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On November 03 2010 06:47 lixlix wrote:
hes dating, not marrying her. Lots of people posting these threads asking for romance advice can benefit from an older woman showing them the ropes.
Actually, because she's on on a clock with time running out, the older woman will guilt trip a guy into a serious commitment. It's not good to waste a woman's time when you know she's looking for a serious relationship and doesn't have many years to spare.
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This blog is bullshit. Nothing you said in your entire post suggests anything other than infatuation with her body/voice. You don't like her. You don't even have a clue what her personality is like, other than the fact that she is nice to you (guess what, that's her job!)
Get to know her, ask her out, and then blog about that instead. Thanks.
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Better older than younger.
Shit goes down when you date someone 7 years younger than you, and you're 19.
Sure, I see it as love. But everyone else sees it as a fucked up agenda of pedophilia.
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I was 18 when I dated a 15 year old O_o.
I am currently dating almost someone 3.5 years younger than me.
What's the problem? Some girls just like them young.
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I'm surprised nobody's mentioned that the Emperor Boxer himself is currently dating a woman 8 years older than he is.
- 'nuff said?
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My GF is 5 years older than me.
shinosai posted what I wanted to post. lol.
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On November 03 2010 10:59 OpticalShot wrote:
I'm surprised nobody's mentioned that the Emperor Boxer himself is currently dating a woman 8 years older than he is.
- 'nuff said?
this ...
tho u need to rape countless zergs in order for the society to acknowledge ur relationship =(
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On November 03 2010 10:56 lilsusie wrote:
I was 18 when I dated a 15 year old O_o.
I am currently dating almost someone 3.5 years younger than me.
What's the problem? Some girls just like them young.
That first one is so backwards. I just.. what? I can see dating younger MEN, but a fifteen-year-old when you're eighteen is just weird to see from a female.
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On November 03 2010 13:12 Cedstick wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 10:56 lilsusie wrote:
I was 18 when I dated a 15 year old O_o.
I am currently dating almost someone 3.5 years younger than me.
What's the problem? Some girls just like them young. That first one is so backwards. I just.. what? I can see dating younger MEN, but a fifteen-year-old when you're eighteen is just weird to see from a female.
Why? I was in the same shoes as the guy lilsusie dated at one point. All of the chicks I went after until I hit 20 were older than me. One was 25 when I was just turning 18.
Now I'm 22 and have no clue on what I want..... I've recently blown opportunities with younger, same aged, and older because of that.....
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You have the ideal opportunity for socializing/idle chatter... what is more common than a hairdresser talking to a customer while he/she gives a haircut? You'd probably want to get more than a surface level understanding of her before declaring that you're "in love".
That being said, though it may be difficult, try to avoid posting blogs that state what you're trying to do before you do it. People who announce their goals to others usually have this sense of accomplishment that makes them less likely to actually work toward said goal... this is doubly true for girl blogs.
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On November 03 2010 02:50 Chill wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill. I've read this post 3 times and I have no idea what it says.
LOL neither but its funny as heck.
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A Case for Older Women
So like, I know you're all like omg it's not a problem just blogging because like, you know, blogging and like everyone blogs and it's cool and shit. xP But just figured I'd share it, even if just as a like, you might find this applicable later on? *shrug*
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On November 03 2010 14:06 Korynne wrote:A Case for Older WomenSo like, I know you're all like omg it's not a problem just blogging because like, you know, blogging and like everyone blogs and it's cool and shit. xP But just figured I'd share it, even if just as a like, you might find this applicable later on? *shrug*
So, that article tells me I should be going for 30 year old women?
I'M DOWN!!!!!
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my gf's dad is 9 years younger than the mom. lol. he is a doctor, she was a nurse.
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On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill.
i find this post hilarious ...
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Whats with the OP? If you like her just ask her out already, six years is nothing if you are 20+. My Friend started getting serious with a´divorced woman who is 13 years older than he is and had a five year old son, he was 18 when they started. They are still together now like 8 years later. Not 100% sure when they started seeing each other but sometime around there.
Here is a little tip, throw a party or have a friend throw a party. Go to her and get a haircut and say you want to look good for the party. Topic is up, door is open all you have to do is ask her if she would like to come along.
Depending on the answer you should have no problem figuring out if she is interested.
*If she says she is busy but dont elaborate you are most likely screwed.
*If she says it would be fun but she already has plans for going out with her friends ask where they are going and if they are going out to a bar/club try to meet them there.
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On November 03 2010 02:36 Chill wrote:
iii) Regarding girls:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
Iono... I seen people do something, and posting their failures here...
Same with SC projects
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I've dated a few girls 4-5+ years my age. It never worked out, but it is more than possible.
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What you should do is tell her you have a puppy dog crush on her but realize the age difference is probably an issue, so you're ok with that. BUT, you still think she is cool as shit and want to hang out with her. Maybe in a few years when you age a bit, you will still be friends and something could happen. At the very least you've got a friend/companion for a while.
Get her number and send her invite texts when you go to a party or do social functions and vise versa.
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Wait, you said you got off the phone with her - were you making a reservation?
If it was not a business call, I'd like to know why you think you have no chance.
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dudeman001 , i understand you even when other people don't! i think cutting yourself is better though...since the OP likes pain like a good masochist.
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On November 03 2010 09:16 link0 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 06:47 lixlix wrote:
hes dating, not marrying her. Lots of people posting these threads asking for romance advice can benefit from an older woman showing them the ropes. It's not good to waste a woman's time when you know she's looking for a serious relationship and doesn't have many years to spare.
who cares man? thats her problem. He hasn't even gone on a first date with this woman yet and you already know that she wants a serious relationship?
Serious advice OP. Stop overthinking this shit. Just go in and ask her out with a confidence that shows that you know what you are doing even though you might not. The age difference thing might even help you. Instead of thinking "oh, whoa is me, she is older and so much more experienced, she won't want to be with me" think "I am younger and on the rise while she is a depreciating asset. Normally I would date a lot of hot girls my own age but because she is attractive, I'll make an exception".
Most importantly, stop overthinking this stuff. You might even get shot down initially due to her already having a boyfriend or something. Just go in and give it a shot and if it fails aint no thang, and if she says yes then don't make a big deal out of it either. Make the conversation brief.
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Stop giving me advice! I never even asked for it, and now I kinda regret making this thread cause it's embarrassing to read all these posts egging me on to do something I'm fine with not doing lol ;_;
Can an admin close this please? This is the last time I'll ever make a thread like this, I promise! =_=
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Understand the difference between limerence and love.
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yeah 5 years is not too much dude
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On November 04 2010 01:25 Snuggles wrote:
Stop giving me advice! I never even asked for it, and now I kinda regret making this thread cause it's embarrassing to read all these posts egging me on to do something I'm fine with not doing lol ;_;
Can an admin close this please? This is the last time I'll ever make a thread like this, I promise! =_=
You posted a girl blog and didn't expect anyone to tell you what's what? For shame. If you are that interested in her the least you could do is try and become friends and see what happens. Chances are her priorities are different in life right now, but hell, you never know.
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On November 04 2010 05:46 tonight wrote:Show nested quote +On November 04 2010 01:25 Snuggles wrote:
Stop giving me advice! I never even asked for it, and now I kinda regret making this thread cause it's embarrassing to read all these posts egging me on to do something I'm fine with not doing lol ;_;
Can an admin close this please? This is the last time I'll ever make a thread like this, I promise! =_= You posted a girl blog and didn't expect anyone to tell you what's what? For shame. If you are that interested in her the least you could do is try and become friends and see what happens. Chances are her priorities are different in life right now, but hell, you never know.
Yea I feel pretty dumb for making the thread now, completely my fault there haha. But I guess I can start talking to her a little more. I mean I go there every month after all so it's only natural to learn a bit more about her story. A lot of people also feel really strongly about me using the word "love", but honestly c'mon now I'm not that dumb, I can tell the difference between being infatuated and actually being in "love". I made this thread out of an impulse.
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5 years isn't much mate, especially if it's in the mid/late 20s it's okay, unless the girl has some social fixation about getting married and wants to find someone older.
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From what I've heard from her already, she's looking to settle down eventually. Her friends are all dating and looking for the right guy and so on... so yeaaaaaaah.
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On November 03 2010 02:03 Dr.Kill-Joy wrote:
Asians have the softest hands.
Goddamn if this post isn't creepy. I can just imagine Dr. Kill-Joy sitting in his dark room with TL open as he types that and just to the side, illuminated by his monitor, is a box of Asian hands displayed like a butterfly collection.
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5 Years older is okay when you are past twenty.
Being a customer for 3-4 years without trying it is not okay though. But if you really want it and the wrong is done anyway, it's time to try it.
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On November 04 2010 07:23 ZeaL. wrote:Goddamn if this post isn't creepy. I can just imagine Dr. Kill-Joy sitting in his dark room with TL open as he types that and just to the side, illuminated by his monitor, is a box of Asian hands displayed like a butterfly collection.
Hahahaha!
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Well, i'll keep it short. FIRST: In the Bible (you'll like it) there was a man called Amram who married his aunt, from there came Aaron, Sarah and Moses (the prophet) and I have a friend whom her father is 6 years younger than her mother. You are good foe her, and I'm pondering a friend who's 11 years older than me, she's divorced, I'm single and not a womanizer, she has a decent job and I'm studying, but she told me she thinks about me every day and even prayed about me (she doesn't want to tell me what she asked for). I'll eventually know.
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On November 03 2010 02:08 endy wrote:
My wife is 4 years older than me ?
Welcome to the club ^_^
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On June 30 2017 16:43 whitelamanite wrote:
Well, i'll keep it short. FIRST: In the Bible (you'll like it) there was a man called Amram who married his aunt, from there came Aaron, Sarah and Moses (the prophet) and I have a friend whom her father is 6 years younger than her mother. You are good foe her, and I'm pondering a friend who's 11 years older than me, she's divorced, I'm single and not a womanizer, she has a decent job and I'm studying, but she told me she thinks about me every day and even prayed about me (she doesn't want to tell me what she asked for). I'll eventually know.
This thread is 7 years old. Your thought here was, "Gee, 2010 wasn't that long ago, maybe this drama is still unfolding 7 years later. I guess I'll create an account to bump this thread and tell this random person that it's not weird to love someone older than yourself, because I myself am considering going out with a divorced woman, but it's okay because we both believe in the Bible, and people of different ages married in the Bible so it's all good, right?"
Did I get that about right?
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On July 01 2017 07:21 ninazerg wrote:Show nested quote +On June 30 2017 16:43 whitelamanite wrote:
Well, i'll keep it short. FIRST: In the Bible (you'll like it) there was a man called Amram who married his aunt, from there came Aaron, Sarah and Moses (the prophet) and I have a friend whom her father is 6 years younger than her mother. You are good foe her, and I'm pondering a friend who's 11 years older than me, she's divorced, I'm single and not a womanizer, she has a decent job and I'm studying, but she told me she thinks about me every day and even prayed about me (she doesn't want to tell me what she asked for). I'll eventually know. This thread is 7 years old. Your thought here was, "Gee, 2010 wasn't that long ago, maybe this drama is still unfolding 7 years later. I guess I'll create an account to bump this thread and tell this random person that it's not weird to love someone older than yourself, because I myself am considering going out with a divorced woman, but it's okay because we both believe in the Bible, and people of different ages married in the Bible so it's all good, right?" Did I get that about right?
my only question is when are we going to get our first ninazerg boy blog?
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Snuggles also hasn't been on TL for a while so his 'advice' would fall on deaf ears lol
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