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She owns a hair salon, and I'm a regular customer there. I've been going there every month for like the past 3 (almost 4 now O.o?) years. And man, is she pretty, and nice, and really good with her hands... haha...
I mean shit, have you guys ever met a girl who has all the characteristics you would have ever wanted in a girlfriend? Then after daydreaming for a few minutes you come to the crushing realization that you'd never be able to hook up with her?
She's like the embodiment of my type of woman, mature, smart, nice, responsible and... and... and .. yea you get the point. Too bad she's old enough to be the "Big" sister, by big I'm not talkin bout the typical 2 - 3 yr difference, I'm talkin bout the 4 - 6 yr difference =(. I got like no chance, all I am is the good customer who stops by every month.
Well, I just got off the phone with her (her sweet nice asian voice is so soothing x.x), and I felt compelled to blog about it. FML. Sorry guys lol.
 
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depending on what age you are 4 to 6 years is not so much, if you are late teens then yea its a lil bit much. But like mid 20s and that shit pretty much goes away. Go for it if you like her, no shame in trying.
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Asians have the softest hands.
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Why have such a defeatist attitude?
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5 years is nothing, ask her out. I've had girls as much as 10 years older than me and never run into any issues more serious than not getting each others' pop culture references.
Worst thing that can happen is she says no.
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ok good at least there is an "er" right after "old"
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My wife is 4 years older than me ?
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Korea (South)1897 Posts
When I was 26 I dated this 32 year old who was the top commercial film producer in Korea and I was a lowly gov't analyst.
I picked her up in a hotel club at the RitzCarlton and she was absolutely my ideal woman. She was cultured, open minded, spoke English and Korean, she had this absolutely smoking body and was tall and I think she just loved me... but the age gap was too much. She wanted to have kids and so did I and shit got serious fast because of her age, we only were together three intense months, but I had to end it and it ended badly because I know I was so falling in love with her and I didn't want to tell her that, I just wanted her to think I was an asshole and to just move on.
When I was 30, I saw her again in Seoul, at a restaurant, I pretended not to see her, but of course this point she was 36 and damn, while she still looked great, she looked 36 and I was like, wow, I'm glad i dodged that bullet there and did the sensible thing. Not to say that I wouldn't have been a happy with her for the rest of my life, but being the superficial Korean man that I am, I think it was the best decision in the long run.
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Hyrule19022 Posts
Take your age. Subtract the difference between your age and her age. Is the number <18?
If no, go for it.
If yes, repeat calculation next week.
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On November 03 2010 02:16 mardi wrote:
just do it.
And if she says no, it will forever be weird going to that hair salon... so you will need to man up and start going to a barber shop!
Its a win-win in my book lol.
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There's nothing wrong with dating someone 5 years older than you. The thing that stands out to me is that you say you are in love with her but I'm guessing you've never gone out on a date with her or anything?
I say go for it though.
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you are infatuated, not in love
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you're obsessing over a girl whom you have no chance with. if you did have a chance, your idolation and worship of her has taken it away. you need to have your head right if you're going to seduce a girl (especially if she has 5 more years of experience recognizing bullshit than you have spitting game), but the only thing you'll be thinking about is her "sweet ass asian voice"
there are tons of other girls man, get your game tight.
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Calgary25977 Posts
I'm sensing some disturbing trends on TL:
i) Regarding Starcraft projects:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get praise.
3. Do nothing.
ii) Regarding Starcraft training:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
iii) Regarding girls:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
Please stop opening threads to get the feeling of accomplishment while bypassing the actual work. Getting mentally jerked off by some dudes on a forum is nice, but if you actually put in some effort you might get that girl / starcraft accomplishment / whatever.
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On November 03 2010 02:09 MightyAtom wrote:
When I was 26 I dated this 32 year old who was the top commercial film producer in Korea and I was a lowly gov't analyst.
I picked her up in a hotel club at the RitzCarlton and she was absolutely my ideal woman. She was cultured, open minded, spoke English and Korean, she had this absolutely smoking body and was tall and I think she just loved me... but the age gap was too much. She wanted to have kids and so did I and shit got serious fast because of her age, we only were together three intense months, but I had to end it and it ended badly because I know I was so falling in love with her and I didn't want to tell her that, I just wanted her to think I was an asshole and to just move on.
When I was 30, I saw her again in Seoul, at a restaurant, I pretended not to see her, but of course this point she was 36 and damn, while she still looked great, she looked 36 and I was like, wow, I'm glad i dodged that bullet there and did the sensible thing. Not to say that I wouldn't have been a happy with her for the rest of my life, but being the superficial Korean man that I am, I think it was the best decision in the long run.
this just made my day. Thanks a ton, man 
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Girl I'm with turned 24 today and I don't turn 20 til February. So who cares about the age, the thing you should be more worried about is that she's friendly to you because thats her job, you definitely seem to be more of having a little high school crush than saying you're in love with her. If you want to risk having to get haircuts from other people, then go ahead and ask her out to dinner or something. Simple as that.
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EPT
