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On November 03 2010 02:50 Chill wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill. I've read this post 3 times and I have no idea what it says.
LOL neither but its funny as heck.
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A Case for Older Women
So like, I know you're all like omg it's not a problem just blogging because like, you know, blogging and like everyone blogs and it's cool and shit. xP But just figured I'd share it, even if just as a like, you might find this applicable later on? *shrug*
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On November 03 2010 14:06 Korynne wrote:A Case for Older WomenSo like, I know you're all like omg it's not a problem just blogging because like, you know, blogging and like everyone blogs and it's cool and shit. xP But just figured I'd share it, even if just as a like, you might find this applicable later on? *shrug*
So, that article tells me I should be going for 30 year old women?
I'M DOWN!!!!!
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my gf's dad is 9 years younger than the mom. lol. he is a doctor, she was a nurse.
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On November 03 2010 02:45 dudeman001 wrote:There are many ways to approach the situation, your best bet is romantically. Even though she's older than you, girls love it when guys go out of their way and do cute things for them. Go to another barber and ask him/her to cute "Date?" into your head. Go to a female barber, a male might question your masculinity. It may feel like you're cheating on this asian beauty, but this is love and do whatever it takes. Schedule an appointment with this sultry voiced hairdresser and wear a hat until the moment she sits you down and drapes that cozy covering around you with her soft, gentle hands. When she removes your hat spin around in the chair and, in your most seductive voice, tell her to not say anything just cut her answer below. As she trims your locks don't show any signs of nervousness or defeat. Emit confidence. How she sees you at that moment makes all the difference between and no and a n-yes. + Show Spoiler +unless she's skilled enough to turn an n into a y or vice versa. If she can then keep going to her even if she says no because that's fucking skill.
i find this post hilarious ...
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Whats with the OP? If you like her just ask her out already, six years is nothing if you are 20+. My Friend started getting serious with a´divorced woman who is 13 years older than he is and had a five year old son, he was 18 when they started. They are still together now like 8 years later. Not 100% sure when they started seeing each other but sometime around there.
Here is a little tip, throw a party or have a friend throw a party. Go to her and get a haircut and say you want to look good for the party. Topic is up, door is open all you have to do is ask her if she would like to come along.
Depending on the answer you should have no problem figuring out if she is interested.
*If she says she is busy but dont elaborate you are most likely screwed.
*If she says it would be fun but she already has plans for going out with her friends ask where they are going and if they are going out to a bar/club try to meet them there.
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On November 03 2010 02:36 Chill wrote:
iii) Regarding girls:
1. Post what you'd like to do.
2. Get motivation.
3. Do nothing.
Iono... I seen people do something, and posting their failures here...
Same with SC projects
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I've dated a few girls 4-5+ years my age. It never worked out, but it is more than possible.
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What you should do is tell her you have a puppy dog crush on her but realize the age difference is probably an issue, so you're ok with that. BUT, you still think she is cool as shit and want to hang out with her. Maybe in a few years when you age a bit, you will still be friends and something could happen. At the very least you've got a friend/companion for a while.
Get her number and send her invite texts when you go to a party or do social functions and vise versa.
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Wait, you said you got off the phone with her - were you making a reservation?
If it was not a business call, I'd like to know why you think you have no chance.
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dudeman001 , i understand you even when other people don't! i think cutting yourself is better though...since the OP likes pain like a good masochist.
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On November 03 2010 09:16 link0 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 03 2010 06:47 lixlix wrote:
hes dating, not marrying her. Lots of people posting these threads asking for romance advice can benefit from an older woman showing them the ropes. It's not good to waste a woman's time when you know she's looking for a serious relationship and doesn't have many years to spare.
who cares man? thats her problem. He hasn't even gone on a first date with this woman yet and you already know that she wants a serious relationship?
Serious advice OP. Stop overthinking this shit. Just go in and ask her out with a confidence that shows that you know what you are doing even though you might not. The age difference thing might even help you. Instead of thinking "oh, whoa is me, she is older and so much more experienced, she won't want to be with me" think "I am younger and on the rise while she is a depreciating asset. Normally I would date a lot of hot girls my own age but because she is attractive, I'll make an exception".
Most importantly, stop overthinking this stuff. You might even get shot down initially due to her already having a boyfriend or something. Just go in and give it a shot and if it fails aint no thang, and if she says yes then don't make a big deal out of it either. Make the conversation brief.
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Stop giving me advice! I never even asked for it, and now I kinda regret making this thread cause it's embarrassing to read all these posts egging me on to do something I'm fine with not doing lol ;_;
Can an admin close this please? This is the last time I'll ever make a thread like this, I promise! =_=
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Understand the difference between limerence and love.
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yeah 5 years is not too much dude
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On November 04 2010 01:25 Snuggles wrote:
Stop giving me advice! I never even asked for it, and now I kinda regret making this thread cause it's embarrassing to read all these posts egging me on to do something I'm fine with not doing lol ;_;
Can an admin close this please? This is the last time I'll ever make a thread like this, I promise! =_=
You posted a girl blog and didn't expect anyone to tell you what's what? For shame. If you are that interested in her the least you could do is try and become friends and see what happens. Chances are her priorities are different in life right now, but hell, you never know.
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On November 04 2010 05:46 tonight wrote:Show nested quote +On November 04 2010 01:25 Snuggles wrote:
Stop giving me advice! I never even asked for it, and now I kinda regret making this thread cause it's embarrassing to read all these posts egging me on to do something I'm fine with not doing lol ;_;
Can an admin close this please? This is the last time I'll ever make a thread like this, I promise! =_= You posted a girl blog and didn't expect anyone to tell you what's what? For shame. If you are that interested in her the least you could do is try and become friends and see what happens. Chances are her priorities are different in life right now, but hell, you never know.
Yea I feel pretty dumb for making the thread now, completely my fault there haha. But I guess I can start talking to her a little more. I mean I go there every month after all so it's only natural to learn a bit more about her story. A lot of people also feel really strongly about me using the word "love", but honestly c'mon now I'm not that dumb, I can tell the difference between being infatuated and actually being in "love". I made this thread out of an impulse.
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5 years isn't much mate, especially if it's in the mid/late 20s it's okay, unless the girl has some social fixation about getting married and wants to find someone older.
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From what I've heard from her already, she's looking to settle down eventually. Her friends are all dating and looking for the right guy and so on... so yeaaaaaaah.
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On November 03 2010 02:03 Dr.Kill-Joy wrote:
Asians have the softest hands.
Goddamn if this post isn't creepy. I can just imagine Dr. Kill-Joy sitting in his dark room with TL open as he types that and just to the side, illuminated by his monitor, is a box of Asian hands displayed like a butterfly collection.
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