EPTThanks for all the input again. I feel that people are entitled to their own privacy and if your in a relationship long enough that privacy slowly goes away and you start to trust your companion more where you can share your text message, facebook and then your bank account ect... but it has only been 2 months
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Dr.Kill-Joy
United States627 Posts
Thanks for all the input again. I feel that people are entitled to their own privacy and if your in a relationship long enough that privacy slowly goes away and you start to trust your companion more where you can share your text message, facebook and then your bank account ect... but it has only been 2 months | ||
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
On August 24 2010 01:09 Terrakin wrote: she is of morman faith, I mean, I don't mean to dis religions or get into a debate, but (most) mormons are fucking crazy... of course nice non-creepy ones every once and a while You don't want to get into a debate because you don't want to support your claims? I am not calling you for a debate now, just like to point that out. Perhaps it is smarter that you don't say such things if you don't want to talk about it. Edit: on topic. You have to love yourself before you can love another. Easy catchphrase to break the ice if you want to bring up the conversation. | ||
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brian
United States9629 Posts
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Never.Die
Japan189 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32083 Posts
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MiyaviTeddy
Canada697 Posts
I can trust you aren't a player, cheating on her and whatnot right? That being said, there's a communication/trust issue. If she doesn't trust you enough to stay with her and being loyal and whatnot then why bother? | ||
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kidd
United States2848 Posts
If she refuses to budge on issues, and you refuse to budge as well then obviously move on and be happy you discovered these problems 2 months in instead of 2 years. | ||
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Dr.Kill-Joy
United States627 Posts
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TimmyMac
Canada499 Posts
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guN-viCe
United States687 Posts
she is scared of losing you, she is paranoid about you cheating on her. there are 2 possible reasons for this; 1) you make her feel insecure by talking to your EX's, and doing other stuff 2) she was hurt in the past by a BF/ she is paranoid i mean, think about it. why would a good/nice girl start spying on you? | ||
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Comeh
United States18919 Posts
On August 24 2010 07:16 Dr.Kill-Joy wrote: Yeah, dunno if this is smart or not but I like to get the GF to move in with me as soon as possible. So i can see what really is going on instead of wasting time going to the movies , dinner ect. Er, WHAT I don't get this - you are having clear problems in your relationship and it seems like things are rocky/ you've had thoughts about breaking up with her/ you don't love her (yet?)...so you want to take your relationship about 5 steps forward? IMO - you need to do things in a logical manner. Plus, breaking up with someone that has moved in with you / is paranoid isn't...fun. Her moving in with you won't stop her being paranoid. Trust me. I'm a TLer. | ||
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Romance_us
Seychelles1806 Posts
On August 24 2010 12:59 guN-viCe wrote: i can tell its kids posting most of these responses(obvious they have never lived with a GF) she is scared of losing you, she is paranoid about you cheating on her. there are 2 possible reasons for this; 1) you make her feel insecure by talking to your EX's, and doing other stuff 2) she was hurt in the past by a BF/ she is paranoid i mean, think about it. why would a good/nice girl start spying on you? I generally agree this this. I am really surprised by a lot of the responses in this thread.. the early ones especially. How do you guys not see it as ENTIRELY reasonable that his girlfriend would be incredibly suspicious of him talking to his ex? You have to take into consideration how long their relationship has been going on. Two months is not a large foundation to build trust upon. Putting myself in her shoes, I would be skeptical as well. I'm not saying you are being disloyal but you might want to make it extra clear to her that your intentions are good if you really care about the relationship. | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10343 Posts
Also, your g/f sounds like an awful person. | ||
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
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yourwhiteshadow
United States442 Posts
On August 24 2010 12:59 guN-viCe wrote: i can tell its kids posting most of these responses(obvious they have never lived with a GF) she is scared of losing you, she is paranoid about you cheating on her. there are 2 possible reasons for this; 1) you make her feel insecure by talking to your EX's, and doing other stuff 2) she was hurt in the past by a BF/ she is paranoid i mean, think about it. why would a good/nice girl start spying on you? ^^exactly. she moved in with him, so while she might seem 'needy' or whatever, she also apparently either cares a lot for him and wants to be with him or is a major bum. my guess is since she cares that he's talking to an ex, then she is a little worried. i never understood why people still talk to their EX..."oh we're still friends..." ok, if you're on good terms now, why aren't you still together? what she did though, is definitely a little unacceptable as well...just sit down and talk it out. | ||
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OhJesusWOW
United Kingdom127 Posts
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RawrAnOcean
United States359 Posts
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SirJolt
the Dagon Knight4005 Posts
On August 23 2010 21:46 choboPEon wrote: leave This man is equal parts correct and succinct. People need to learn that they need to afford others their privacy, and until she does she's not worth the time/effort  | ||
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zenMaster
Canada761 Posts
On August 24 2010 21:24 OhJesusWOW wrote: Women with trust issues are the worst thing a man could ever ask for. If I had to choose between the hottest bitch on the planet who had serious trust issues or a gunshot in the leg, I would take the gunshot. Lack of trust almost always come from lack of self-esteem, so it's unlikely that hot bitches would have trust/confidence issues. | ||
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THE_DOMINATOR
United States309 Posts
On August 25 2010 01:45 zenMaster wrote: Lack of trust almost always come from lack of self-esteem, so it's unlikely that hot bitches would have trust/confidence issues. you don't talk to many women do you? | ||
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