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Sexico5880 Posts
Being a videogame fan is not the greatest way to be popular in highschool. | ||
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December12345
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On July 06 2010 23:10 TheAntZ wrote: Xiao, dont pm Polemarch! Hes a bad bad man and he doesnt deserve your love like i do kk? look I gave evidence from this thread: click HE WANTS PEOPLE TO DISRESPECT OTHERS. Do you see what kind of man he is? No? ok here is more evidence From here: click He wants to allow allied mines! He likes cheating in starcraft! So bad...omg omg very k YOU SEE? He is undeserving of being graced by your angelic PMs kk? ![[image loading]](http://img295.imageshack.us/img295/7159/iloveyouthismuch.jpg) 我爱你 <3 rofll maybe xiao is cute, who knows. but have you read her blog? there is no coherent thought process. bad news. hahaha xiao  you are too easy to tease. Now I'm doing it too. Look what you made me do. You are horrible!! | ||
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TheAntZ
Israel6248 Posts
On July 06 2010 23:19 December12345 wrote: rofll maybe xiao is cute, who knows. but have you read her blog? there is no coherent thought process. bad news. hahaha xiao you are too easy to tease. Now I'm doing it too. Look what you made me do. You are horrible!!hey man dont call my XiaoAngel- horrible kk? I will get my friend shuttle to drop me near u and throw storms all up in this bitch | ||
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United States10328 Posts
On July 06 2010 23:24 TheAntZ wrote: hey man dont call my XiaoAngel- horrible kk? I will get my friend shuttle to drop me near u and throw storms all up in this bitch roflrofl you are too good | ||
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dtnmang
Vietnam752 Posts
- IRL: call friends to meet up and hang out when you have free time. find activities which you can do together. it feels less awkward when you talk while having something to do. | ||
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
On July 06 2010 20:06 XiaoJoyce- wrote: One day I am so upset during composition writing I wrote about my feelings. Teacher find it ridiculous and read my writing to every1. I got condemed ever since  This teacher is a dick, I can't believe someone would do that. At my school they would instantly lose their job | ||
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TheAntZ
Israel6248 Posts
Gonna have to write a poem for you maybe kk Give me just a sign, any sign that u return my feelings? I will be very thankful You are, to me, a goddess, i admire ur every word kk? Up til now, i havent felt such electricity in my hheart and veins! You arent a stranger to love, are you joyce?  | ||
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China13814 Posts
On July 06 2010 20:19 TheAntZ wrote: I dont think the guy on irc even knew you were a girl. But anyway, i'd LOVE to socialize with you. asl? hi. XiaoJoyce- is a girl......?????? Holy shit it all makes sense now On July 06 2010 23:42 n.DieJokes wrote: This teacher is a dick, I can't believe someone would do that. At my school they would instantly lose their job China, I'm guessing. They do that. | ||
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exeexe
Denmark937 Posts
Maybe teacher will say, so today we are gonna talk about (insert name of book) ------ that you have read because you made your homework, then you instantly raise up your hand. Teacher say your name and then you say something like Yeah this book taught me how to (insert something here) --- and i really like this book because (...) , However the most important thing we should get from this book would be (...) , teacher what do you think about (insert something here)? And teacher will be like ???? Teacher will be like blur. | ||
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niteReloaded
Croatia5281 Posts
The girl is a mess at the moment and I wouldn't wanna spend too much time with a person like that. She needs to see this too and get her shit together. Currently, you're feeding her with some self-esteem, but you can't do that forever, she needs to be self dependant. On July 06 2010 22:25 XiaoJoyce- wrote: Maybe you are right.. sometimes I think too much. I am sensitive, but not to so big extent.. Actually I already forgot about the incident the moment I quit IRC. I just remember my IRC experience today because there is anoter blog about IRC and I just want to write about it. Erm, ah, I don't know what to say to defend myself. Why would you defend yourself? I'm not attacking, I'm observing. If I'm right, and I pointed out some truth, then I helped you. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong, you don't have to prove me I'm wrong coz I am a nobody to you and my opinion should be worth shit to you. Maybe next time I will share more nice experience on blog instead of bad things.. Why would you do that? You wrote this blog for a reason. It bothered you so you shared it. Why would you share a more nice experience? To show us you can be positive? Why would you want to show us anything? See where I'm getting at? None of your actions should be motivated by what you expect others to react with in return. The reason your high-school experience was bad is because you were probably weird as fuck. You're trying to impress other people, which means you're tweaking your behavior and calculating everything, i.e. you're being a weasel even if you've never thought of it that way. Nobody likes weasels and believe me, weasels are not hard to spot. You need to be yourself to be happy, but you can't do that until you feel confident you can show your real side. So... what can you do to pump up your confidence? | ||
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TheAntZ
Israel6248 Posts
On July 07 2010 00:28 niteReloaded wrote: TheAntZ, you're creeping me out. I know you're joking and tryin to make her feel better, but it just feels over the top. nite I think if u read my last post again you'd realize I dont want to be creepy, a full commitments what I'm, thinkin of. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
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Xeris
Iran17695 Posts
On July 06 2010 23:42 n.DieJokes wrote: This teacher is a dick, I can't believe someone would do that. At my school they would instantly lose their job This is pretty standard in Chinese culture. At my best friend's middle school in China, the teacher would throw bad grades on the floor and make the kids go pick them up off the floor in front of the rest of the class. Chinese education is very demanding, in America kids are way too soft and get babied by everyone. Our kids wouldn't be as dumb if we had a humiliation-based way of punishing people for incompetence the way China does. Think you'd be motivated to get a good grade on a test if you knew getting a bad grade meant humiliation? You bet. | ||
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alypse
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Anyway, no need to think too much. There're a lot of bad people in life but rest assured that the number of good guys is much more. Find yourself something to do, make yourself busy so that negative thoughts don't have chances to appear. | ||
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
On July 07 2010 00:45 Xeris wrote: This is pretty standard in Chinese culture. At my best friend's middle school in China, the teacher would throw bad grades on the floor and make the kids go pick them up off the floor in front of the rest of the class. Chinese education is very demanding, in America kids are way too soft and get babied by everyone. Our kids wouldn't be as dumb if we had a humiliation-based way of punishing people for incompetence the way China does. Think you'd be motivated to get a good grade on a test if you knew getting a bad grade meant humiliation? You bet. Thats bullshit, if I thought a teacher would humiliate me when I did poorly I would tune out his opinion and his class. The classes I've tried my hardest in are the ones where I liked and respected the teacher. I don't know whats warped your perception in this way but education isn't for everyone, not every student should be pushed and shoved and kicked into doing well in school. There are other things in life and it's very a stressful and unhealthy experience for the Chinese kids I've met who are pushed in this way. Obviously in this case it didn't do XiaoJoyce any good, he made her feel embarrassed and ashamed for trusting him and sharing her feelings. Tell me how it breaking her self-confidence and aleinating her from her classmates promoted her intellectual growth. | ||
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TunaFishyMe
Canada150 Posts
On July 07 2010 02:14 n.DieJokes wrote: Thats bullshit, if I thought a teacher would humiliate me when I did poorly I would tune out his opinion and his class. The classes I've tried my hardest in are the ones where I liked and respected the teacher. I don't know whats warped your perception in this way but education isn't for everyone, not every student should be pushed and shoved and kicked into doing well in school. There are other things in life and it's very a stressful and unhealthy experience for the Chinese kids I've met who are pushed in this way. Obviously in this case it didn't do XiaoJoyce any good, he made her feel embarrassed and ashamed for trusting him and sharing her feelings. Tell me how it breaking her self-confidence and aleinating her from her classmates promoted her intellectual growth. i find that people who come from china (average wise), are stronger in science and anything math related because its beaten into them. People from NA, the ones who arent idiiots, are better at creative thinking. I think it has a lot to do with education standards. In China/Asia, kids are forced to do standard exams that literally dictate their life. If you fail, gg. So all these kids are studying day in and day out, regurgitating textbooks etc etc. The end up being like computers, not really able to think creatively. Here, most kids fool around at a young age. Most end up completely worthless. However, the ones that do stand out, are ones that can think for themselves. | ||
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
On July 07 2010 02:21 TunaFishyMe wrote: i find that people who come from china (average wise), are stronger in science and anything math related because its beaten into them. People from NA, the ones who arent idiiots, are better at creative thinking. I think it has a lot to do with education standards. In China/Asia, kids are forced to do standard exams that literally dictate their life. If you fail, gg. So all these kids are studying day in and day out, regurgitating textbooks etc etc. The end up being like computers, not really able to think creatively. Here, most kids fool around at a young age. Most end up completely worthless. However, the ones that do stand out, are ones that can think for themselves. Meh, i dunno, i'm asian but mostly raised and been to school here @ USA, science/math are my strongest subjects, but i think thats only true is because i have a chinese background and my first language was manderin not english. Or else perhaps my english would be better. who knows. | ||
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