This morning I had a really really really important interview with Deloitte that I was very lucky to receive in which I've spent weeks preparing for. You know how in movies and shows there's that cliché line that goes, "This is the job interview of my life?" Well, it described this one pretty well.
Last night I met up with my long-distance GF, where she came to visit me from another university and we spent the whole night together, with her spending the night at my place. After sleeping together we ended up talking until really late, after which I slept like a baby because I was so tired.
Then I woke up this morning, around 11am, and my interview was at 10am. I panicked and checked my alarm, I set THREE alarms 5 minutes apart because I was afraid I would just hit one and keep on sleeping, but somehow I slept through all three of them.
Turns out my caring GF turned off all the alarms because she wanted me to get a good night's sleep. I didn't tell her about the interview because I wanted to surprise her with my amazing job if I do get the offer. Then I started raging like I have never done so in my life before, I'm normally a pretty laid-back guy that doesn't get angry over anything. But this morning, I raged so hard at my GF I was a completely different person, and all her crying and pleading just infuriated me even more, and I ended up slapping her and telling her to stfu, and gtfo.
And she did.
I KNOW IT'S NOT HER FAULT. I AM SO MAD AT MYSELF. In fact, I am disgusted and horrified at the way I acted. I would have NEVER, ever, in a million years, thought that I'd actually hit my GF.
So after I calmed down, the panic and indescribable guilt settled in. I was in shock at the monster that I had been just a few minutes ago, I honestly couldn't believe the way that I acted could come from me in a billion years. I tried calling her as I picked up my coat determined to chase after her. But when I got to the parking lot, she had already left.
I called her for 3 hours, I lost count how many times I had tried. Without a doubt, those were absolutely THE most horrible 3 hours of my life. In the end, she did pick up, and before I could pour my heart out to her about how sorry I was and how much I wanted to kill myself, she just said, "don't worry, I know, and I forgive you."
Man, talk about a bad fucking day. It's unjustifiable, but I don't think you're a bad person. You just need to learn to tell yourself when you're really upset to go on a walk outside until you clear your head. That way you don't do things you'll regret in the heat of a moment.
Although your gf is seriously stupid if she turns off not one, but THREE alarms. Hahaha, what the hell was she thinking. I guess she was just distracted by her happiness, and it was late at night... It wouldn't warrant a slap either way, but I think if you looked into her mind she's probably kicking herself for it.
screw Deloitte, you can explain the story and they might give you another shot. If not, you don't have to sweat it since you should be pretty relieved about your girlfriend not leaving you…
but dude come on, how can you hit a woman? not right.
I guess I haven't been in that situation before, but that girl really is something. She was really nice to let you sleep early, (even though she didn't know), and then after all that bad stuff that happened, she's still got it for you.
Wow....just wow. That really touches me, to know that there are people out there who are like that.
You're not a bad person. Don't worry. I think it was definitely a rational response and it was your big day. Granted, you overreacted just a tad bit (haha), but I think you shouldn't get yourself down. If there's one thing to look at, it's that you're girlfriend is definitely one in a bajillion.
You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
are you retarded? lmfao...
@op: she's a keeper lucky you and hope the deloitte thing works out. i might be applying there in a few years o.o"
screw Deloitte, you can explain the story and they might give you another shot. If not, you don't have to sweat it since you should be pretty relieved about your girlfriend not leaving you…
but dude come on, how can you hit a woman? not right.
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
are you retarded? lmfao...
@op: she's a keeper lucky you and hope the deloitte thing works out. i might be applying there in a few years o.o"
wtf are you talking about? how is he retarded? You should never put your hands on another person no matter what. Are you advocating what he did? My father was abusive to my mother, and I grew up seeing some shit no child should ever see. Your a douchebag...
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
are you retarded? lmfao...
@op: she's a keeper lucky you and hope the deloitte thing works out. i might be applying there in a few years o.o"
wtf are you talking about? how is he retarded? You should never put your hands on another person no matter what. Are you advocating what he did? My father was abusive to my mother, and I grew up seeing some shit no child should ever see. Your a douchebag...
how is your father being abusive related to him hitting his girlfriend once?! of course i'm not advocating him hitting her or encouraging it, but because he did it once, that it makes him a bad person? sorry if we're not all perfect like you. morons..
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
are you retarded? lmfao...
@op: she's a keeper lucky you and hope the deloitte thing works out. i might be applying there in a few years o.o"
wtf are you talking about? how is he retarded? You should never put your hands on another person no matter what. Are you advocating what he did? My father was abusive to my mother, and I grew up seeing some shit no child should ever see. Your a douchebag...
uhh actually I agree, him seeing a councilor would be pretty stupid imo
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
Agreed.
Wow, I commend you guys. Good job on looking at both sides of the equation.
I certainly don't see any problems with taking everyday situations in like manner.
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
are you retarded? lmfao...
@op: she's a keeper lucky you and hope the deloitte thing works out. i might be applying there in a few years o.o"
wtf are you talking about? how is he retarded? You should never put your hands on another person no matter what. Are you advocating what he did? My father was abusive to my mother, and I grew up seeing some shit no child should ever see. Your a douchebag...
Then you're just on one extreme of the spectrum.
Try looking at the other side for once so you can settle down somewhere between the two extremes.
I'm all for compromise. I understand what you're saying but if anyone's being a douchebag, it's you. For what? For failing to take into account everything presented in the OP.
She forgave you, but do NOT let this continue. You won't premediate if violence occurs again, but if you find yourself in a similar rage, just remember: her forgiveness is not an excuse.
this is so pathetic hope shes the type that never forgives and one morning you wake up with a slit throat and a job application wrapped around your penis
On December 06 2009 15:10 perfectteeth wrote: this is so pathetic hope shes the type that never forgives and one morning you wake up with a slit throat and a job application wrapped around your penis
Never do it again and I think your relationship with this woman will be great. Just try to look from her perspective before you hit her again in an angry rage, but don't beat yourself up about it. I'm mean, we're only human.
On December 06 2009 15:10 perfectteeth wrote: this is so pathetic hope shes the type that never forgives and one morning you wake up with a slit throat and a job application wrapped around your penis
You should take a leaf out of the OP and go make this blog urself and unlike this blog, no one will care
hitting a girl? big no no at least you are man enough to admit that you were wrong and you acted out of blind rage. still doesn't leave you off the hook. you gotta do something to keep that rage under control
wow.. she said that before you could even start? she's either really, really stupid or really stupid and thinks she knows you well. don't ever forget how lucky you are, because she sure as hell won't.
On December 06 2009 19:26 dethrawr wrote: The fact that you felt so terrible essentially means that you arent a bad person, you are human.
Not necessarily true! I can be a bad person and feel guilty for it but continue my ways. His feelings of guilt are more of a way to identify and perhaps justify his actions. As long as I feel guilty it should work out right?
I've never laid a hand on anybody before in my life, uh except for that fight back in high school but that was with a guy and he totally deserved it. Anyway of course I'll never do it again, I'm usually really easy-going, I just lost it because the co-op program at my university requires me to be on a work term starting in January, and I'm still unemployed. The job opportunity with Deloitte is blown unfortunately, but as cheesy as it sounds, I think I might have found my soul mate.
So naturally I'm going to spoil and love my girl hard after this to make it up to her, to start last night I took money out of my car budget and ordered a Coach bag for her online. I'm also planning to take her to a ski resort on an upcoming weekend, but I need more ideas.
On December 06 2009 19:34 Zidane wrote: You're going to hit her more. I call it.
we all have our share of mistakes, except you were man enough to post yours to be humiliated by others. I'd say that slap was unnecessary, but ya know occasionally if a women is bitching about something and no other way to calm her down, that might be the only solution. Im not trying to provoke anything like that, but just saying.
On December 07 2009 05:24 YPang wrote: we all have our share of mistakes, except you were man enough to post yours to be humiliated by others. I'd say that slap was unnecessary, but ya know occasionally if a women is bitching about something and no other way to calm her down, that might be the only solution. Im not trying to provoke anything like that, but just saying.
Maybe you should reread what you were 'just saying'. It's okay to hit women if they don't shut up whenever you want them to? What? How the fuck should her 'calming down' be your objective if it's achieved by scaring her into submission? What the hell is okay about that? How about waiting it out?
On December 07 2009 05:24 YPang wrote: we all have our share of mistakes, except you were man enough to post yours to be humiliated by others. I'd say that slap was unnecessary, but ya know occasionally if a women is bitching about something and no other way to calm her down, that might be the only solution. Im not trying to provoke anything like that, but just saying.
uhhh what? women are crazy, but you don't make them sane by hitting them. let them cool off and if they're still crazy, then you're with the wrong woman. BUT YOU DON"T HIT THEM!
On December 07 2009 05:24 YPang wrote: we all have our share of mistakes, except you were man enough to post yours to be humiliated by others. I'd say that slap was unnecessary, but ya know occasionally if a women is bitching about something and no other way to calm her down, that might be the only solution. Im not trying to provoke anything like that, but just saying.
Maybe you should reread what you were 'just saying'. It's okay to hit women if they don't shut up whenever you want them to? What? How the fuck should her 'calming down' be your objective if it's achieved by scaring her into submission? What the hell is okay about that? How about waiting it out?
Thank you, I was confused why no one brought that up yet.
Uhh I definitely disagree with YPang... If anything, the girl should be hitting you to calm down. When my gf was really mad we would wrestle a bit, but I'm like 6 foot and 170 pounds, and she was like a 90 pound asian girl. It was a great way for her to take her anger out, plus afterwards there was a chance that the wrestling ended up in the bedroom...
The amount of self-righteousness on the internet's never going to cease amazing me, seriously you guys, you've never done anything in your lives you regretted later? Of course that doesn't excuse his behaviour, but lots of you need to get off your high horse and realize that living is sometimes more difficult than it sounds from behind your computers.
To OP, congrats on finding what sounds like an awesome girl.
I agree with YPang, sometimes you just gotta let it all out and hit somebody. Does it really matter if it's a girl or not? You all act like girls are cute little fragile creatures who can't defend themselves, it's your values that help patriarchy and misogyny. You hypocrites.
On December 07 2009 08:10 zulu_nation8 wrote: i agree with ypang, you guys are being way too self righteous
I think a lot of the responses here are ridiculous (everyone's pro tip: don't beat your wife lol), but common. You don't kick someone you love onto the street to a lonely ride home.
On December 07 2009 08:24 Shauni wrote: I agree with YPang, sometimes you just gotta let it all out and hit somebody. Does it really matter if it's a girl or not? You all act like girls are cute little fragile creatures who can't defend themselves, it's your values that help patriarchy and misogyny. You hypocrites.
Nothing wrong with hitting someone whenever you feel like it, perfectly excusable.
Who the hell is bringing the subject of women in here anyway except for you and ypang?
This blog was something that really got to me, I'm glad you realized your mistake. And I'm also glad you're doing nice stuff to her, gl with everything!
On December 07 2009 08:24 Shauni wrote: I agree with YPang, sometimes you just gotta let it all out and hit somebody. Does it really matter if it's a girl or not? You all act like girls are cute little fragile creatures who can't defend themselves, it's your values that help patriarchy and misogyny. You hypocrites.
Nothing wrong with hitting someone whenever you feel like it, perfectly excusable.
Who the hell is bringing the subject of women in here anyway except for you and ypang?
You're saying the comments would look even remotely similar if it was his male friend he slapped? I'm not implying that it's justified hitting somebody - just that it is excusable because we are after all animals doing human-like things in human clothes. Anyone who is not emotionally detached from other people CAN snap and lose self-control which is why people in this thread are harsh against the OP. They realize they could do the same thing but just don't want to admit it.
On December 06 2009 14:26 RoyW wrote: You are a bad person. You hit someone who was trying to do you a favour, and only ignorant because of you. It's inexcusable to act this way, and you should definitely see a councilor.
I agree, except with the councilor part.
That does not need to happen yet. If any kind of outburst like this ever happens again, then yes, councilors should be involved.
I think the big thing is that the OP realized what he is capable of doing. It is up to him to hold himself back. The truth is, everyone is capable of doing that kind of thing, whether you think you are or not. The real question is whether you are capable of holding back. I'm glad that I came to this realization without having to take part of an incidence like this one.
However, spoiling her is not going to make up for it. Not even close. You two are going to remember this incident for the rest of your lives. It will hang over you all the time, consciously or subconsciously. Whether that is a good thing or a bad thing has yet to be determined.
I'm not surprised she forgives you, in fact women come back after being hit averagely 9 times. Most of the time they will search the guilt on her side, which in especially in this example is not the case (in fact nothing qualifies for hitting your gf, I'm glad you agree). Also women seem to be embarrassed and deny the fact that they are victim of domestic violence, so really I'm not surprised. You really have to make sure, that this will never ever happen again. However I wouldn't be surprised either, when she might be a little distant to you in the future, for understandable reason. Good luck and work it out!
yea i hope you dont marry the girl and instead introduce her to a guy who wont hit her and also teach her to leave boyfriends who hit her instead of forgiving them.
On December 07 2009 10:36 DoctorHelvetica wrote: You didn't really have a good reason to hit her either. If she cheated on you or killed your dog or something I might understand.
Man sucks you missed the interview thats really harsh
There are VERY few things that would want to make me miss an AC with any of the big IB's out there (not sure about big 4, not a big fan of them haha)
Feel really bad for you. Seriously, how did she have the bright idea to turn off THREE alarms? Obviously there are 3 for a reason..
edit: wow hahaha all the focus is on the girl huh. Seriously dear god. I feel bad for you, the OP. Not the girl, the OP. I hate that feeling of being forced into the most rediculous position out of someone elses goodwill when common sense on their part (and in my eyes) would have prevented it.
Maybe in this case i really over-value these kinds of jobs I put my trading interviews on a higher regard than anything - In monetary terms they are worth tens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of pounds. Id skip holidays, seeing my GF, seeing my parents to get to one of them. They are more important than your fucking university degree (because why do you even need a degree if you can get a grad job in trading)
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Having said that, one of the competencies you need for the interviews should describe exactly situations like this - you woke up at 11, and once that is happened there is nothing you can do except call up and explain your situation, and cry. One of the competencies required is to be able to handle exactly something like this
edit edit: omg reading some of the posts in this thread wants to make me tear my eyes out
Telling op to deal with rage issues? Just gtfo right now. Some of you have absolutely no idea what these job processes are like, the literally make or break the future of your life. The exit oppourtunities in big4 are CRAZY good. Id be raging JUST as hard as op if something like this happened to me, id shout and scream in the streets until my lungs burned out.
I mean, if it was something like strategy consulting, you are talking about a 5000-1 applicant ratio (and assessment centre means you got to the last 5/1) and thats the difference between sitting on your ass doing nothing all your life and scoring a job that starts of well paid and ends up as sky is the limit (hundreds of thousands to millions depending on how good you are)
On December 07 2009 10:36 DoctorHelvetica wrote: You didn't really have a good reason to hit her either. If she cheated on you or killed your dog or something I might understand.
Or if she cheated on you with your dog...
But yeah, you shouldn't have hit her. She's definitely a keeper though, if you lose her, you'll probably be making a big mistake.
To OP: Failure to communicate. First on the level that you should have told her you have an interview. Second on how you "communicated" your anger.
To BrTarolg: You don't get paid well in the beginning if you work audit or tax in the Big 4. They work you like dogs the first 2-3 years and pay you below market average by a fair bit. Also, you're assuming that most people want to put in 80 hour weeks 20 years down the line to get that big pay check you're drooling about.
I don't really know anything about audit or tax (other than their relative positions in operations)
I am almost certain that the working hours in operations/audit/tax/assurance is probably less than 80, but probably more than 80 if you start dipping into finance or M+A or something like that.
For someone who works in M+A (which is probably overkill for me, id start sweating after 15 + hours a day) or corp finance you can expect their hard work to pay off by the fact that it is the fastest way to move up the career ladder
Either way, id be SERIOUSLY pissed if i missed AC's or interviews with any reputable company. Not only do you miss the once in a lifetime oppourtunity, it looks absolutely terrible on your record with that company and their HR department
First: How stupid are you when you decide to NOT tell her you have an importnant interview? Interview is not the same thing as actually getting employed. If the interview was for anything importnant at Deloitte you would probably go through a process of 3-5 interviews. And if you already gone through 3 interviews they would without any doubt reschedule the interview - IF they really wanted you. Tough shit, you probably didn´t cut it in the first place.
Second: To take out your anger on her, over a thing like that, is bordeline psychopathic. If you have any decency you break this relationship up before it turns into something far worse, for her that is.
Third: Who wants to work at Deloitte anyways? And rage over it?! Laughing out loud. If you don´t have bigger plans or higher expectations of yourself and look into you own future farther than a first (I assume) interview at Deloitte I´m actually a little sorry for you (didn´t think I would write that).
I would at least call them up and explain, because it's a small chance of getting another interview vs getting nothing. I would be pretty damn pissed too though. It sucks that you hit her but everyone makes mistakes. And it probably won't happen again, because you'll think of this moment next time. Just be glad you learned your lesson for a relatively cheap price. Losing a job and your GF would be horrible.
Is it just me but does someone who hits girls not deserve to have a good job? Hope you get some help for those anger issues. It probably wont be the last time you do something like this, get some help.I know nothing of you other than your op I haven't read any other posts. I really am trying to be understanding but I can not condone something that Men never do to a woman. The few memories I have of my real dad is bullshit like that, I really hope you grow up and find a place inside your self you can go instead of raging on a girl.
EDIt: Ummm Really, just read through most of the post here. You guys feel bad for him? omg are we raising a bunch of assholes who make excuses for beating women you all should be ashamed of yourself.
edit again and it being ok to rage on someone because of the great job OO are you living in a wonder land? Your job gonna protect you from the cops showing up at your door ready to take you to jail for beating again or killing the girl cause you raged over a fucking job.This world is about so much more than some stupid 6 figure a year job. Hopefully one day you'll see that many other things are way more important than some high stress omg I got to kill myself if I dont get job shit. Let me add an IMO ^_^
People hit each other, deal with it. Its wrong, don't do it
This doesn't mean that OP has anger or rage issues, it just means he made a mistake, like any normal person does
Fck people on their high horses seriously
"i slapped my gf" = " i am a wife beater who should be sent to jail and rot for the rest of my life" nice. Seriously i feel bad for some of my friends who get slapped by their GF's and for them its like "oh you deserved it"
On December 08 2009 01:28 BrTarolg wrote: People hit each other, deal with it. Its wrong, don't do it
This doesn't mean that OP has anger or rage issues, it just means he made a mistake, like any normal person does
Fck people on their high horses seriously
"i slapped my gf" = " i am a wife beater who should be sent to jail and rot for the rest of my life" nice. Seriously i feel bad for some of my friends who get slapped by their GF's and for them its like "oh you deserved it"
I don't really have anything to say to you other than I am sorry you feel that way.I try to live my life to certain standards ones I believe firmly in. There is no reason imo to hit a women I defiantly wasn't raised that way seeing my mother beaten by my real father and my step-dad for years.Watching your mom being held down while your dad drops a knife onto her chest while yelling at her tends to leave some mark on you. Or seeing my mom draged down the hallway by her hair telling me call the cops while my dads sya its ok we are just playing. fuck you dude These are my believes and I know I am right.Just because it happens does not mean we have to participate or accept it. Try to change it.
I don't really have anything to say to you other than I am sorry you feel that way.I try to live my life to certain standards ones I believe firmly in. There is no reason imo to hit a women I defiantly wasn't raised that way seeing my mother beaten by my real father and my step-dad for years.Watching your mom being held down while your dad drops a knife onto her chest while yelling at her tends to leave some mark on you. Or seeing my mom draged down the hallway by her hair telling me call the cops while my dads sya its ok we are just playing. fuck you dude These are my believes and I know I am right.Just because it happens does not mean we have to participate or accept it. Try to change it.
Man you should be able to at least see the difference in what you just wrote and this case...
I do see the difference but i still believe firmly in not hitting women.My examples were not to say this is the same, but I do believe without some sort of help it can only get worse.Those examples are the reasons I have 0 tolerance for hitting women. It confounds me in this day in age I have to try and explain why hitting women is wrong even without my own personal examples its just fricking wrong.
I don't think the op needs "help" because it would be a bit of a vast exaggeration to say that this particular time (where he was incredibly unlucky and put under a lot of stress) is indicative of a great big underlying problem where he is going to get worse and worse in the future
Never a big fan of the slippery slope idea, always seems to have very little basis and mostly relies on fear of the unknown to pressure people around
On December 08 2009 02:19 BrTarolg wrote: I don't think the op needs "help" because it would be a bit of a vast exaggeration to say that this particular time (where he was incredibly unlucky and put under a lot of stress) is indicative of a great big underlying problem where he is going to get worse and worse in the future
Never a big fan of the slippery slope idea, always seems to have very little basis and mostly relies on fear of the unknown to pressure people around
And he will never be under a lot of stress again? This isn't a slippery slope, he's already hit his gf.
On December 08 2009 02:19 BrTarolg wrote: I don't think the op needs "help" because it would be a bit of a vast exaggeration to say that this particular time (where he was incredibly unlucky and put under a lot of stress) is indicative of a great big underlying problem where he is going to get worse and worse in the future
Never a big fan of the slippery slope idea, always seems to have very little basis and mostly relies on fear of the unknown to pressure people around
And he will never be under a lot of stress again? This isn't a slippery slope, he's already hit his gf.
hitting a girl once is not something that would make me instantly believe someone needs to get help I'm sure many of us have things that were really important to us that we'd rage if they were messed up
On December 08 2009 02:19 BrTarolg wrote: I don't think the op needs "help" because it would be a bit of a vast exaggeration to say that this particular time (where he was incredibly unlucky and put under a lot of stress) is indicative of a great big underlying problem where he is going to get worse and worse in the future
Never a big fan of the slippery slope idea, always seems to have very little basis and mostly relies on fear of the unknown to pressure people around
And he will never be under a lot of stress again? This isn't a slippery slope, he's already hit his gf.
hitting a girl once is not something that would make me instantly believe someone needs to get help I'm sure many of us have things that were really important to us that we'd rage if they were messed up
No doubt, and I don't think he'll become some wife-eating lunatic. But to say he'll never do it again when he already has seems to be wishful thinking.
Man I'm sorry u missed the Deloitte interview...must've been tough to get that interview though I guess it's not as bad as a year ago when every NYC-based firm basically froze...
Seems like she understood that you were in a reasonable rage and a heat of the moment...but even than to be accepting towards being slapped...man, that's true love...
U confirmed the strength of a true love at the expense of missing an accounting/consulting company interview...not a bad payoff in the long run since the former is much more difficult to find than the latter...there are more good accounting/consulting firms than there are true love (who knows, maybe u end up at KPMG, E&Y, or PWC, etc and find urself much happier than Deloitte)...
To all those who attribute fault to the OP simply "because men should never hit a woman" by relying on antiquated notions of chivalry/morality/tradition/etc... are not reasoning at all. Simply saying something shouldn't be done because "it is so" doesn't fly, such are far from compelling arguments. I find that there could be limited situations, which really depend on the surrounding circumstances, where hitting a woman may be justified, and the OP's situation is certainly not one of them imo.
Anyway, good luck on the job search and hopefully you won't do this again.
He realized what he did was wrong. I mean, the way he missed his interview is pretty ridiculous and I'd get really pissed at it too. He just lost his mind momentarily and hit her. Losing your head happens to everyone, it just manifests in different ways at different times. Comparing this guy to your lunatic father and step-father makes little sense as they do it constantly, abuse your mother in far more horrific ways, and they do not repent for what they have done, nor do they believe what they are doing is wrong; "we're just playing".
Christ. I can't believe some people are looking at this as a problem just because a man hit a woman, not due to a person hitting a person who wronged unintentionally.
On December 08 2009 07:53 koreasilver wrote: He realized what he did was wrong. I mean, the way he missed his interview is pretty ridiculous and I'd get really pissed at it too. He just lost his mind momentarily and hit her. Losing your head happens to everyone, it just manifests in different ways at different times. Comparing this guy to your lunatic father and step-father makes little sense as they do it constantly, abuse your mother in far more horrific ways, and they do not repent for what they have done, nor do they believe what they are doing is wrong; "we're just playing".
And u give me bad raiting cuz I lose my head somtimes when I play against an opponet? lolz How does ur brain work man?
It's never right to hit a sum1 like that, It's never right under any surcomstances. But atleast he's sry for it and let's hope it never happens again.
Op you're not a bad person beacuse you hit her once. You would be a bad person if you did it continuiously without remorse.
On December 08 2009 08:33 koreasilver wrote: No, you're an idiot because you've been flipping all over the place about LOL PROTOSS EASY TERRAN IS SO MUCH HARDER SKILLZZZZ this entire year.
I've said it like once before the blog, And I know I was wrong. That's what I tried to point out in the blog.. Im sry u were unable to understand that. Do I not deserve 2nd chance as well if a Man hit an innocent women?
gtfo you son of a bitch, you should just tell her first hand why u set three alarms and it'll be all fine. u finding a job is not a surprise its a priority as a bf fucker.
I don't know if this has been mentioned in the thread -- only read the first page:
It kinda raised a red flag for me that she turned off THREE SEPARATE ALARMS and did not have the presence of mind to wake you up and ask "Hey is there something going on today?"
I wouldn't say it's a dealbreaker, nor does it even come close to justifying what you did, but one has to wonder.
Ok bro you made a mistake but you are not a bad person. I can tell you shit I did in the past 24 hours that can make you feel a whole lot better about yourself lol.
On December 09 2009 03:10 fanatacist wrote: Ok bro you made a mistake but you are not a bad person. I can tell you shit I did in the past 24 hours that can make you feel a whole lot better about yourself lol.
On December 09 2009 03:10 fanatacist wrote: Ok bro you made a mistake but you are not a bad person. I can tell you shit I did in the past 24 hours that can make you feel a whole lot better about yourself lol.
On December 09 2009 03:10 fanatacist wrote: Ok bro you made a mistake but you are not a bad person. I can tell you shit I did in the past 24 hours that can make you feel a whole lot better about yourself lol.
On December 09 2009 03:10 fanatacist wrote: Ok bro you made a mistake but you are not a bad person. I can tell you shit I did in the past 24 hours that can make you feel a whole lot better about yourself lol.
Did it involved cumming?
No but it did involved kissing.
blog it pls
Not that interesting, just amoral. No thanks. Too many shitty blogs nowadays.
EPT
lucky you
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