Probably because his name is Chef? Just a thought. Unless you were being sarcastic, then thanks for the link, haven't seen it before, and I laughed :D.

Chef

10810 Posts

December 06 2009 03:39 GMT

#22

On December 06 2009 12:15 Psyonic_Reaver wrote:
I think love is a waste of time. Everybody thinks, oh, there is somebody for me. No. No there isn't. There are a ton of girls out there, and they are all bitches without souls. Except the Fat ones but only because they are trying to get laid just like you.

I hope this is a troll. Serious nerd rage will soon ensue because of you.

Psyonic_Reaver

United States4341 Posts

December 06 2009 03:47 GMT

#23

Not a troll. I won't go as far to say all but what MOST women want are power via your money or your good looks to show off to other women. I have very rarely met a woman who isn't a shallow husk of shit.

Edit: Around my town anyways.

Chef

10810 Posts

December 06 2009 03:51 GMT

#24

I think what all human beings want is someone they can trust and live under the same roof with. Sure, that isn't very important for a person living with their parents and just going to school, but eventually it becomes something you really want in life. Just because someone has money or looks good doesn't mean they're trustworthy... Life I think is more complicated than that.

That's my serious response

KingofHearts

Japan562 Posts

December 06 2009 03:52 GMT

#25

On December 06 2009 12:47 Psyonic_Reaver wrote:
Not a troll. I won't go as far to say all but what MOST women want are power via your money or your good looks to show off to other women. I have very rarely met a woman who isn't a shallow husk of shit.

Edit: Around my town anyways.

what if there is a special woman who doesnt want your money or your good looks, she just want your care. she is well dependent on herself . will you love her too , without minding about her past such as divorced or had a son or poor family background.

Arnic

81 Posts

December 06 2009 05:01 GMT

#26

I see love as the difference between a house and home.
A house is a common building, a place that can be utilized and visited, empty or furnished. You can feel comfortable there, you can relax and put your feet up. Maybe drift for a while. Everywhere you go, you can see houses. Some may look nicer than others, some may have a rather superb fireplace or an enchanting garden but nothing to keep you there. Nothing that makes you feel, this is "my" place and mine alone.

That place is a home. It may have some creaky floorboards and sometimes things may break and will need to be fixed. So you fix them. Because you care about a home. Every time you add to it, every time something breaks and is mended... that house becomes a little more yours and you can feel happier in it. When you're tired; angry or frustrated, home is where you want to be because you'll feel safe, welcomed and able to sit without saying anything or let the walls take the weight of words from your shoulders.
It can be the mansion, the castle, the streamlined penthouse with the skyline city views that you dreamed of owning when you were young or it can surprise you by being a quirky little building full of secrets or the cottage by a river next to fields that don't stop until the grass brushes the horizon.
Whatever the building, a home is where your heart is happiest.

And the underside to a home is that there's no insurance for sentiment, no guarantee of compensation for total loss should it occur. If you're left standing in the ruins with the knowledge that you'll be choking on those particular ashes for months or years to come, it can be a fucking bitter thing.

But that's the risk when you invest in a home and why you should invest wisely.

With regard to OP's comments on a person's past; someone's past and their present may affect who they are. Everyone travels and we stop off at other people on our journey. It's easy to talk to someone for a short length of time and feel a sense of similarity, something in common because you're in the same place at the same time and perhaps you're both there for the same reason but that doesn't necessarily mean you're going to be awesome travel friends for life.
However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't risk a little to discover what chances and opportunities might be possible with someone. There's nothing to stop you checking out houses and renting for a while but be damn sure of where you want to live if you plan on building or buying permanently

KurtistheTurtle

United States1966 Posts

December 06 2009 11:05 GMT

#27

this made me lol

i dont understand why you choose to think that way but im not judgin. i think its really funny

love is when you sacrifice something for somebody else. when you start living for more than yourself. like when parents will not eat as much to afford their child an experience they don't actually need.

this thread made me think of up. that movie is so poignant

Elvin_vn

Vietnam2038 Posts

December 06 2009 13:42 GMT

#28

there are many types of love so I don't know what type you are referring to

love is some chemical in your brain that makes you go dumb

plated.rawr

Norway1676 Posts

December 06 2009 16:22 GMT

#29

There's 'in love', and there's 'love'. 'In love' is intense and obsessive, but fleeting. 'Love' is long-lasting, permanent and serious. 'In love' is for girls, 'love' is for men.