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Soliciting vs. Douchebaggery

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Caller
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
Poland8075 Posts
August 24 2009 03:28 GMT
#1
As you probably don't know, I'm currently trying to run a forum as my summer/fall job. One thing that was suggested to me was, of course, to ask friends/family to try and look around at the website. Now, I know that this is how most people make business connections and the like, but I also know that people tend to get pissed if someone holds a tupperware party.

So, TL, I ask you: how would you go about soliciting people you know to do something for you, or how do you feel about people who do that? When does a mere solicitation turn into douchebaggery?

-not going into the other concerns i have, namely, how to avoid the trolling flamewars that will probably happen as well.

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29 fps
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States5725 Posts
August 24 2009 03:37 GMT
#2
it's douchebaggery when you become too persistent even after they decline your offer/services. and if you solicit them at the wrong hours (meal time, night time, usually), it might be seen as douchebaggery (even though dinner times vary and you have no way of knowing)
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Licmyobelisk
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Philippines3682 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-24 03:42:44
August 24 2009 03:39 GMT
#3
I think try to grab a few beers with your friends then assert in the "solicitation" within the conservation. Usually between "moments of silence", and I think it's best that you try to make a conversation about business.

With family, I don't know about it but just try to be direct to them. If you guys are pretty close then it's not going to look like douchebaggery since that's just family helping family out.


Edit: Yeah I forgot that multi level marketeers tend to do the stuff regarding grab a few beers except they don't have a beer with them when we meet up.

Try to make it as casual as possible without being too focused on your business;
and Yeah, follow the rule not do disturb them in their "lunch or work etc."
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Sharp-eYe
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada642 Posts
August 24 2009 03:44 GMT
#4
I think its more about who you ask. When I need something done, I go to people who I know for sure will help me 100%. Otherwise, don't be to repetitive, or else it gets annoying. But looking at a website isnt a big deal, so I do not think anyone will say no.
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intruding
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
157 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-08-24 04:32:50
August 24 2009 04:31 GMT
#5
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esla_sol
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States756 Posts
August 24 2009 04:41 GMT
#6
bribes.
MutaDoom
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Canada1163 Posts
August 24 2009 07:34 GMT
#7
One avenue is to change your facebook status to something about it. Everyone you know will be notified
IntoTheWow
Profile Blog Joined May 2004
is awesome32277 Posts
August 24 2009 07:58 GMT
#8
Just don't put them into a situation where they can't say no.
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pyrogenetix
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
China5098 Posts
August 24 2009 09:04 GMT
#9
i dont see why not, but then im chinese and in my culture people help each other with stuff like this all the time.
Yea that looks just like Kang Min... amazing game sense... and uses mind games well, but has the micro of a washed up progamer.
Caller
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
Poland8075 Posts
August 24 2009 13:12 GMT
#10
On August 24 2009 13:31 intruding wrote:
OP...i dont get it...what? what are you trying to say. you're "trying to run a forum as your summer/fall job" ?! Job or business? you mean you're starting a brand new website and you're trying to create traffic that could potentially earn you revenues? and you're asking friends and family to try to spark the initial interest in the website so that it becomes some kind of network effect to increase popularity?

if i get it right...then i mean yeah..why not..friends and family would love to see a relative succeed in business.. as long as you're not bugging them too much...but then again...whats the target audience of that forum? if they are likely to be in the target audience..just ask them to take a look... if you can clearly see why they would never be interested in that stuff...then just try other means of advertising....although i know your budget is probably limited right now..

also...are you sure a forum could be lucrative? even a successful forum like TL which has a big ass amount of traffic is, i heard, not very lucrative.
anyhow, GLHF.

i mean to say i'm working for somebody who is starting this forum. I have no idea whether or not it is profit or non-profit, though.
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