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Northern Ireland23738 Posts
On August 30 2012 10:33 valium wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:28 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:26 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:23 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:19 jalstar wrote:On August 30 2012 10:15 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 valium wrote:
Him showing anybody, let alone 2 people, those pics was beyond acceptable behavior for any human being. That was a terrible thing to do and showed that destiny is infact a terrible person.
That said, what a stupid stupid stupid stupid EXTREMELY STUPID thing to do sending others nude pictures of yourself. Especially by means that have anything to do with the internet. So utterly god damn stupid.
Worst of all, all this stupidity and shitty behavior hurt ROOT which has only recently reformed and is probably not on solid footing. How is it up in your ivory tower? This is standard behaviour, unless pretty much every guy I know is some kind of outlier? in my experience the kind of guys who share nudes/sext are incredibly uneducated In this instance I'm not saying my friends and I sit around sharing pictures of our partners and circle jerking over them, jesus. However, sitting around debating whether people are attractive/not attractive to you is standard behaviour. In the case of these guys it was perhaps a bit blunt/insulting, but it is standard behaviour. The problem here is the existence of the phrase "standard behaviour," in this context. Saddening to say the least. Yeah, and saying somebody you have never met is a 'terrible' person is a really nice thing. Gossiping about who is fuckable is something everyone with a dick pretty much indulges in. They may express it in differing ways but yeah it happens? He showed nude pictures a girl sent him to other people, how is this is anyway similar to gossiping to friends? The former being an extremely terrible thing to do, the latter just generally shitty being talking behind people's back.
It's shitty behaviour, but it's not exactly uncommon. Shouldn't be any kind of sackable offence to behave like a dick in your personal life.
God I hate the hypocrisy that comes with any kind of 'fame' or influence. You're held to these standards by people who fall far short themselves
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On August 30 2012 10:33 valium wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:28 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:26 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:23 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:19 jalstar wrote:On August 30 2012 10:15 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 valium wrote:
Him showing anybody, let alone 2 people, those pics was beyond acceptable behavior for any human being. That was a terrible thing to do and showed that destiny is infact a terrible person.
That said, what a stupid stupid stupid stupid EXTREMELY STUPID thing to do sending others nude pictures of yourself. Especially by means that have anything to do with the internet. So utterly god damn stupid.
Worst of all, all this stupidity and shitty behavior hurt ROOT which has only recently reformed and is probably not on solid footing. How is it up in your ivory tower? This is standard behaviour, unless pretty much every guy I know is some kind of outlier? in my experience the kind of guys who share nudes/sext are incredibly uneducated In this instance I'm not saying my friends and I sit around sharing pictures of our partners and circle jerking over them, jesus. However, sitting around debating whether people are attractive/not attractive to you is standard behaviour. In the case of these guys it was perhaps a bit blunt/insulting, but it is standard behaviour. The problem here is the existence of the phrase "standard behaviour," in this context. Saddening to say the least. Yeah, and saying somebody you have never met is a 'terrible' person is a really nice thing. Gossiping about who is fuckable is something everyone with a dick pretty much indulges in. They may express it in differing ways but yeah it happens? He showed nude pictures a girl sent him to other people, how is this in any way similar to gossiping to friends? The former being an extremely terrible thing to do, the latter just generally shitty being talking behind people's back.
Keep in mind Bluetea did the same thing except she made them public. Destiny only ever showed her pictures to two people. What if it was the other way around?
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On August 30 2012 10:31 SilSol wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:27 Ryder. wrote:
I can't believe some people here actually think its ok to go passing around nude pics a girl sends to you in private...
It is unfortunate that people went to Destiny's sponsors, but I guess that is the double edged sword of being 'famous'; people gain a lot out of being famous and consequentially are held to higher standards.
Who exactly leaked the 'private' conversation though? If it was just Fayth and TT1, then who leaked it? I suppose Destiny ought to choose his friends better. Read everything thru. She had his password to his email which LEADS to his skype. She could of easily just spy'd the hole time and then made the conclusion after that. I don't think that TT1 and Fayth would do something like that between them 3 at all. Like you should not say that Destiny should choose different friends when you don't know for sure :p
She would have had to change his skype password in order to hack into it (unless he had the same password for email and skype) and all it mentioned her hacking was twitter and facebook I think.
The argument also makes it sound like somebody leaked it to her, just the way it was worded.
Edit: obviously the 'choose his friends better' only applies if it was somebody in the convo who leaked it.
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On August 30 2012 10:34 Conti wrote:
Okay, I'm confused now. Did Destiny send his buddies nude pictures of the girl or perfectly ordinary ones? That's kind of a really damn important distinction here, and people keep saying one thing or the other in this thread.
On August 30 2012 09:49 ROOTT1 wrote:
nop what she posted was 100% true. me and fayth did receive nude pics of her, dunno why u guys would assume otherwise. i know theres alot of loyal destiny fans and ur trying to protect him but u guys need to stop twisting the truth. the reason why i linked that pic of bluetea was to show that we were looking at pics of bluetea in the main chat and not the 15 y.o girl -.,-. he just mentioned her
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On August 30 2012 10:35 Wombat_NI wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:33 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:28 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:26 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:23 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:19 jalstar wrote:On August 30 2012 10:15 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 valium wrote:
Him showing anybody, let alone 2 people, those pics was beyond acceptable behavior for any human being. That was a terrible thing to do and showed that destiny is infact a terrible person.
That said, what a stupid stupid stupid stupid EXTREMELY STUPID thing to do sending others nude pictures of yourself. Especially by means that have anything to do with the internet. So utterly god damn stupid.
Worst of all, all this stupidity and shitty behavior hurt ROOT which has only recently reformed and is probably not on solid footing. How is it up in your ivory tower? This is standard behaviour, unless pretty much every guy I know is some kind of outlier? in my experience the kind of guys who share nudes/sext are incredibly uneducated In this instance I'm not saying my friends and I sit around sharing pictures of our partners and circle jerking over them, jesus. However, sitting around debating whether people are attractive/not attractive to you is standard behaviour. In the case of these guys it was perhaps a bit blunt/insulting, but it is standard behaviour. The problem here is the existence of the phrase "standard behaviour," in this context. Saddening to say the least. Yeah, and saying somebody you have never met is a 'terrible' person is a really nice thing. Gossiping about who is fuckable is something everyone with a dick pretty much indulges in. They may express it in differing ways but yeah it happens? He showed nude pictures a girl sent him to other people, how is this is anyway similar to gossiping to friends? The former being an extremely terrible thing to do, the latter just generally shitty being talking behind people's back. It's shitty behaviour, but it's not exactly uncommon. Shouldn't be any kind of sackable offence to behave like a dick in your personal life. God I hate the hypocrisy that comes with any kind of 'fame' or influence. You're held to these standards by people who fall far short themselves
The problem is that the distinction between private and public life is nothing more than that, the sphere in which it happens. It is entirely up to other authorities to determine how relevant it is, and in the world of advertising/marketing there is literally no difference in importance.
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Destiny is a dick, don't get me wrong. He may be good as like a show host or something related to SC2.
ANYWAY..
I think I speak for most of us when I say we've all stepped on the wrong girls toes from time to time. It happens..
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Northern Ireland23738 Posts
On August 30 2012 10:35 OmiDeLta wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:33 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:28 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:26 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:23 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:19 jalstar wrote:On August 30 2012 10:15 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 valium wrote:
Him showing anybody, let alone 2 people, those pics was beyond acceptable behavior for any human being. That was a terrible thing to do and showed that destiny is infact a terrible person.
That said, what a stupid stupid stupid stupid EXTREMELY STUPID thing to do sending others nude pictures of yourself. Especially by means that have anything to do with the internet. So utterly god damn stupid.
Worst of all, all this stupidity and shitty behavior hurt ROOT which has only recently reformed and is probably not on solid footing. How is it up in your ivory tower? This is standard behaviour, unless pretty much every guy I know is some kind of outlier? in my experience the kind of guys who share nudes/sext are incredibly uneducated In this instance I'm not saying my friends and I sit around sharing pictures of our partners and circle jerking over them, jesus. However, sitting around debating whether people are attractive/not attractive to you is standard behaviour. In the case of these guys it was perhaps a bit blunt/insulting, but it is standard behaviour. The problem here is the existence of the phrase "standard behaviour," in this context. Saddening to say the least. Yeah, and saying somebody you have never met is a 'terrible' person is a really nice thing. Gossiping about who is fuckable is something everyone with a dick pretty much indulges in. They may express it in differing ways but yeah it happens? He showed nude pictures a girl sent him to other people, how is this in any way similar to gossiping to friends? The former being an extremely terrible thing to do, the latter just generally shitty being talking behind people's back. Keep in mind Bluetea did the same thing except she made them public. Destiny only ever showed her pictures to two people. What if it was the other way around?
That's what I mean. Ok there was a nude picture, presumably sent in person involved. I just don't see a world of difference between linking to say a public Facebook profile and going 'oh do you think this girl is hot' while among two friends, and using such a picture.
Again, it's not behaviour I condone or indulge in myself, but as usual with Destiny it's being blown out of proportion I feel.
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On August 30 2012 10:17 MountainDewJunkie wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:13 ROOTFayth wrote:
the picture I've seen of bluetea first is different from the one tt1 posted, the face pic was absolutely 10x worse that this, I genuinely thought it was a man at first, I wasn't even trying to be a douche or anything, there were 2 girls on the pic (left one being bluetea looking like a man, and the right one I don't know but she was cute) Mission failed. Why are you two digging yourselves deeper holes by posting here?
yeah dude keep white knighting, it might do you some good
seriously I see people calling me a terrible person in this chat when what I've said was probably fairly mean but anybody here would have agreed, even the white knights, and it was a PRIVATE CONVERSATION, I don't know wtf is wrong with you guys, talking about the attractiveness of a random girl is the most natural thing in a guy's conversation wtf -.-
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On August 30 2012 10:36 Khang wrote:
Destiny is a dick, don't get me wrong. He may be good as like a show host or something related to SC2.
ANYWAY..
I think I speak for most of us when I say we've all stepped on the wrong girls toes from time to time. It happens..
actually i don't think you speak for must of us..
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On August 30 2012 10:34 Conti wrote:
Okay, I'm confused now. Did Destiny send his buddies nude pictures of the girl or perfectly ordinary ones? That's kind of a really damn important distinction here, and people keep saying one thing or the other in this thread.
N-U-D-E.
Unfortunately it isn't that uncommon. A friend of mine dated a smalltime finnish celeb and after they broke up showed some people pics of her nude / sucking his ****. I thought it was a pretty assholish move, but then again most people are assholes to some extent. Most people just hide it better than others.
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I can't believe Destiny would threaten to go to her boss or dean and try to get this girl harmed that way. That is ridiculous, and it makes it impossible for me to think much of Destiny (especially when he was the one that started this chain of events).
He makes that comment in the reddit thread
Thanks for the new work location, I wonder what your boss will think of this. Or your dean, for that matter. I wonder if it'd affect your scholarship or financial aid?
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On August 30 2012 10:37 ROOTFayth wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:17 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 ROOTFayth wrote:
the picture I've seen of bluetea first is different from the one tt1 posted, the face pic was absolutely 10x worse that this, I genuinely thought it was a man at first, I wasn't even trying to be a douche or anything, there were 2 girls on the pic (left one being bluetea looking like a man, and the right one I don't know but she was cute) Mission failed. Why are you two digging yourselves deeper holes by posting here? yeah dude keep white knighting, it might do you some good
You got to be above this shit. Don't argue with these guys on here..
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On August 30 2012 10:37 ROOTFayth wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:17 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 ROOTFayth wrote:
the picture I've seen of bluetea first is different from the one tt1 posted, the face pic was absolutely 10x worse that this, I genuinely thought it was a man at first, I wasn't even trying to be a douche or anything, there were 2 girls on the pic (left one being bluetea looking like a man, and the right one I don't know but she was cute) Mission failed. Why are you two digging yourselves deeper holes by posting here? yeah dude keep white knighting, it might do you some good seriously I see people calling me a terrible person in this chat when what I've said was probably fairly mean but anybody here would have agreed, even the white knights, and it was a PRIVATE CONVERSATION, I don't know wtf is wrong with you guys, talking about the attractiveness of a random girl is the most natural thing in a guy's conversation wtf -.-
That's not white knighting.
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On August 30 2012 10:38 Dundron2000 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:36 Khang wrote:
Destiny is a dick, don't get me wrong. He may be good as like a show host or something related to SC2.
ANYWAY..
I think I speak for most of us when I say we've all stepped on the wrong girls toes from time to time. It happens..
actually i don't think you speak for must of us..
And I don't think this scenario has happened to most of us.
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On August 30 2012 10:38 Dundron2000 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:36 Khang wrote:
Destiny is a dick, don't get me wrong. He may be good as like a show host or something related to SC2.
ANYWAY..
I think I speak for most of us when I say we've all stepped on the wrong girls toes from time to time. It happens..
actually i don't think you speak for must of us..
Most of us who have some sort of social life and have lost their virginity, sorry.
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On August 30 2012 10:37 Wombat_NI wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:35 OmiDeLta wrote:On August 30 2012 10:33 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:28 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:26 valium wrote:On August 30 2012 10:23 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:19 jalstar wrote:On August 30 2012 10:15 Wombat_NI wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 valium wrote:
Him showing anybody, let alone 2 people, those pics was beyond acceptable behavior for any human being. That was a terrible thing to do and showed that destiny is infact a terrible person.
That said, what a stupid stupid stupid stupid EXTREMELY STUPID thing to do sending others nude pictures of yourself. Especially by means that have anything to do with the internet. So utterly god damn stupid.
Worst of all, all this stupidity and shitty behavior hurt ROOT which has only recently reformed and is probably not on solid footing. How is it up in your ivory tower? This is standard behaviour, unless pretty much every guy I know is some kind of outlier? in my experience the kind of guys who share nudes/sext are incredibly uneducated In this instance I'm not saying my friends and I sit around sharing pictures of our partners and circle jerking over them, jesus. However, sitting around debating whether people are attractive/not attractive to you is standard behaviour. In the case of these guys it was perhaps a bit blunt/insulting, but it is standard behaviour. The problem here is the existence of the phrase "standard behaviour," in this context. Saddening to say the least. Yeah, and saying somebody you have never met is a 'terrible' person is a really nice thing. Gossiping about who is fuckable is something everyone with a dick pretty much indulges in. They may express it in differing ways but yeah it happens? He showed nude pictures a girl sent him to other people, how is this in any way similar to gossiping to friends? The former being an extremely terrible thing to do, the latter just generally shitty being talking behind people's back. Keep in mind Bluetea did the same thing except she made them public. Destiny only ever showed her pictures to two people. What if it was the other way around? That's what I mean. Ok there was a nude picture, presumably sent in person involved. I just don't see a world of difference between linking to say a public Facebook profile and going 'oh do you think this girl is hot' while among two friends, and using such a picture. Again, it's not behaviour I condone or indulge in myself, but as usual with Destiny it's being blown out of proportion I feel.
Amen to that! There are multiple issues at play here I think. One of course is that Destiny's reputation preceeds him. Another, though I am SCREAMED at for talking about it, is honestly, I think, gender! Think about if Destiny was a girl and Bluetea was a boy and the exact same thing happened. The reaction would NOT have been the same. At all.
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On August 30 2012 10:38 Dante_A_ wrote:I can't believe Destiny would threaten to go to her boss or dean and try to get this girl harmed that way. That is ridiculous, and it makes it impossible for me to think much of Destiny (especially when he was the one that started this chain of events). He makes that comment in the reddit thread Show nested quote +
Thanks for the new work location, I wonder what your boss will think of this. Or your dean, for that matter. I wonder if it'd affect your scholarship or financial aid?
Are you saying she shouldn't be held responsible for her actions? Why, because she's a woman?
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On August 30 2012 10:18 PanN wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:17 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On August 30 2012 10:13 ROOTFayth wrote:
the picture I've seen of bluetea first is different from the one tt1 posted, the face pic was absolutely 10x worse that this, I genuinely thought it was a man at first, I wasn't even trying to be a douche or anything, there were 2 girls on the pic (left one being bluetea looking like a man, and the right one I don't know but she was cute) Mission failed. Why are you two digging yourselves deeper holes by posting here? Fayth doesn't have the balls to say that to the girls face thats for sure. I guess some people love digging themselves deeper as you say...
lol just cuz u wouldnt have the balls to say that doesn't mean other people don't ....
don't misunderstand, I don't go around telling every ugly chick that they are in fact ugly.. because that's just how you should behave in public, but yeah in private with friends I don't mind it
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On August 30 2012 10:39 Khang wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:38 Dundron2000 wrote:On August 30 2012 10:36 Khang wrote:
Destiny is a dick, don't get me wrong. He may be good as like a show host or something related to SC2.
ANYWAY..
I think I speak for most of us when I say we've all stepped on the wrong girls toes from time to time. It happens..
actually i don't think you speak for must of us.. Most of us who have some sort of social life and have lost their virginity, sorry.
just stop posting you abviously have no input to the discussion
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On August 30 2012 10:36 Yggdrazil wrote:Show nested quote +On August 30 2012 10:34 Conti wrote:
Okay, I'm confused now. Did Destiny send his buddies nude pictures of the girl or perfectly ordinary ones? That's kind of a really damn important distinction here, and people keep saying one thing or the other in this thread. On August 30 2012 09:49 ROOTT1 wrote:nop what she posted was 100% true. me and fayth did receive nude pics of her, dunno why u guys would assume otherwise. i know theres alot of loyal destiny fans and ur trying to protect him but u guys need to stop twisting the truth. the reason why i linked that pic of bluetea was to show that we were looking at pics of bluetea in the main chat and not the 15 y.o girl -.,-. he just mentioned her
Thank you.
In that case.. bye bye Destiny, we're not going to miss you.
And yes, what she did was equally unacceptable, but that in no way makes what Destiny did any better. Not to mention he completely disqualified himself later on with that public comment indirectly threatening her to get her out of her job, too.
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