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dreamsmasher
Profile Joined November 2010
816 Posts
March 02 2013 19:08 GMT
#521
On March 02 2013 23:55 zbedlam wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 02 2013 23:27 Elurie wrote:
On March 02 2013 09:29 sunprince wrote:
From an evolutionary standpoint, the most important things for a woman to successfully pass on her genes are youth, health, and fertility (all of which are measured by beauty). Those traits are much less important in men, as men do not have to deal with menopause, surviving childbirth, or being the primary caretakers of children.

Wow, you certainly err on the side of chauvinistic. Yea, taking care of kids is a "woman's job". Men only have to bring home the bacon, and sit back on the La-Z-Boy while the woman fry up the bacon too! :p


He's talking about sexual attractiveness from an evolutionary perspective you stupid pleb. This is not an artsy sociology debate.


seems like you're the stupid pleb. most of these 'evolutionary theories' relating evolution to other aspects of our life are about as scientific as astrology.
Tien
Profile Joined January 2003
Russian Federation4447 Posts
March 02 2013 19:08 GMT
#522
On March 02 2013 03:28 Kyrillion wrote:
I don't see your point. A man expressing his desire for a woman with money won't be judged ?


It's not the same.

Men don't have the nagging thought of having to lose half a decade, to a decade of their lives career wise if they want to raise a family.

Women make that monetary sacrifice.
We decide our own destiny
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-03-03 00:07:18
March 03 2013 00:06 GMT
#523
On March 03 2013 03:56 Demonhunter04 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 03 2013 01:30 Jibba wrote:
On March 03 2013 01:05 ziggurat wrote:
On March 03 2013 00:49 xM(Z wrote:
On March 02 2013 09:29 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:46 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 00:17 xM(Z wrote:
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
On February 28 2013 18:17 xM(Z wrote:
[quote]
ye sure, feed me VR statistics from people proven to lie in them. (read dAPhREAk)


Except it doesn't matter whether or not they lie, because it's not a survey, it's the statistics of which men get the most messages.

it's not real, it's like making surveys on people imagination then assume the results apply irl.


The number of messages that people recieve are not imaginary. Nor is that data self-reported; the number of messages recieved is measured by the website's records.

the age reported is a lie, the income reported is a lie, the pictures are of a younger version of themselfs = lie. i don't think i should go on since the picture is clear.


All of your examples of self-reported data. Messages received, on the other hand, is not self-reported data. The only picture you see is the blindfold you deliberately put on.

Take the blindfold off and take a look around, and you can easily find tons of data that corroborates the notion that women are attracted to men with wealth. Let me get you started:

http://idei.fr/doc/wp/2008/genes.pdf
www.landofangels.de/py1/buss-barnes-1986.pdf
http://www.popline.org/docs/1239/131493.html

On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:46 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 00:17 xM(Z wrote:
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
On February 28 2013 18:17 xM(Z wrote:
besides, i'm asking here for your personal opinion on this matter. what do you think about money?, how do(if?) they compensate for the lack of (other) desirable evolutionary traits in you.


I've already told you what I think the facts, empirical evidence, and science shows. If what you're asking for is normative opinions, then I'm not interested in those.

empirical evidence?, facts?, science?, where?. you only have assumptions, other people assumptions, based on what is percieved to be the best for evolution.
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
On February 28 2013 18:17 xM(Z wrote:
i do not consider the media tainted beauty ideal of today to be evolutionary viable.


The ideal female has changed astonishingly little throughout human history. This is from a female fashion guide from the late 19th century.

that says nothing really, or i don't get it. i know it changes but how is the change related to our evolution as a species?. you just praise aestetics and say they're good for evolution.


You missed the point. I'm debunking your claim that today's beauty ideal is "media-tainted". The female beauty ideal is, and always has been, a combination of traits indicating youth, health, and fertility, all of which are evolutionarially advantageous.

http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/beauty
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aesthetics
there was never an agreement (and never will be) about the objectiveness of beauty, especially physical one.


You're giving philosophical links on the abstract nature of beauty, which is irrelevant to the discussion we're having on the biological facts of human sexual attractiveness.

On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:46 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 00:17 xM(Z wrote:
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
On February 28 2013 18:17 xM(Z wrote:
also, i do not consider the fear of scarcity driven by a percieved competition in women to be a good enough excuse for them to prioritize money over everything else.


It has nothing to do with a fear of scarcity, and everything to do with biological instincts to pursue the potential mate with the highest possible social status.

Whether you think that's "right" or "wrong" is irrelevant to reality, but if you have a problem with that, then I suggest you take it up with women.

it's not about social status then, it's about power as someone else already stated earlier in the thread so if money = power and women can get power(money) by themselfs, why whould they need the men with money for?. it doesn't make sense unless it's easier to get said men, then to get money by themselfs?.


Yes, it's easier for women to get wealth men than it is to earn that wealth on their own, and that's part of what's going on. However, you're again missing the main point.

Women are attracted to social status, of which wealth is a mere part, rather than wealth itself. And the reason they are attracted to that is not just because access to a man with high social status is advantageous, but because it is biogically advantageous to reproduce with the kind of man who attains high social status in the first place.

To put it simply, men with high social status are, on average, contributing higher-quality reproductive material. Women are attracted to that as well as the ability of said men to provide for them.

women can attain social status by themselfs. when that hapenss, why wouldn't beauty > social status for them too.
when the power shits, your point dies.
if your point is valid only in certain scenarios it means it was flawed to beggin with.


Because the traits which make a man biologically successful are not the same traits that make a woman biologically successful.

From an evolutionary standpoint, the most important things for a woman to successfully pass on her genes are youth, health, and fertility (all of which are measured by beauty). Those traits are much less important in men, as men do not have to deal with menopause, surviving childbirth, or being the primary caretakers of children.

By contrast, the most important things for a man to pass on his genes is his ability to provide for his mate(s) and children. For a social species like humans, this is first and foremost measured by his social status.

On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:49 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 06:41 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 03:16 Klogon wrote:
On March 01 2013 03:08 sc4k wrote:
[quote]

I am guessing English isn't your first language, due to the clumsily phrased 'your bar for relationship', and your location being listed as South Korea. You must have misunderstood part of what I wrote. I didn't explain where my bar is set, seeing as I only described what is the bare minimum I would require in a girl before being interested in them romantically. For me it goes:

unattractive girl + bad personality = no interest
hot girl + bad personality = no interest
unattractive girl + good personality = no interest
hot girl + good personality = bingo, let's do this.

If you call that ignorant then I'm pretty sure you are calling most men ignorant. And ignorant would be completely the wrong word to use, you would probably want to say superficial. I still don't think I'm superficial, just accept that physical attraction plays its part.


Pretty much. If I did not care about physical/sexual attractiveness and only personality, I would be dating my best dude friends. But I don't. It matters.

'cause you are judged by other males based on the woman you are with, it's that simple. in the man vs man war, a woman beauty is just a mean to an end, it's never the end itself. if ugly women would be in style, you'd date them all.


You are incredibly deluded if you think that the only reason men prefer beautiful women instead of men or ugly women is because they're "in style".

Go do some research on sexual attraction and physical attractiveness before spewing any more nonsense in this thread.

i agree with: "Though attempts have been made to devise objective criteria of sexual attractiveness, and even measure it as one of several bodily forms of capital asset (see erotic capital), a person's sexual attractiveness is to a large extent a subjective measure dependent on another person's interest, perception, and sexual orientation.", from wikipedia.

everything standardized about what you should be attracted to, is nurture. there isn't a link proving that beauty/symetry is evolutionary required.

http://www.plosone.org/article/info:doi/10.1371/journal.pone.0001201#s4
"In conclusion, both objective and subjective factors intervene in determining our appreciation of an artwork. The history of art is replete with the constant tension between objective values and subjective judgments. This tension is deepened when artists discover new aesthetic parameters that may appeal for various reasons, be they related to our biological heritage, or simply to fashion or novelty. Still, the central question remains: when the fashion and novelty expire, could their work ever become a permanent patrimony of humankind without a resonance induced by some biologically inherent parameters?"


Once again, you're posting bullshit red herrings about art. We're not talking about art here, we're talking about sexual attractiveness. Unlike art, there is substantial scientific evidence that human sexual attractiveness is objective and consistent across the vast majority of cultures.

i'll just call you a troll and move on. i made my point.
still, you should read your own links" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness#Social_effects
"The study believes this accuracy to be subjective to the eye of the beholder."
"Perceptions of physical attractiveness contribute to generalized assumptions based on those attractions"
"Individuals assume that when someone is beautiful, they have many other positive attributes that make the attractive person more likeable. This is also called the 'beautiful-is-good' effect"
.. and so on and so forth.

Sunprince is completely right about this. You are hopefully but naively arguing your opinion about how human attraction ought to work. The world would probably be a much nicer place if you were right. But the science is not on your side.

I think you've missed the argument.

The beholder is a part of a society and that society's norms are a very large aspect of what influences their perspective. Not evolutionary traits. And one society's norms are not every society's norms, because it's not based on objective reasons.

People like to backwards track to claim it's an evolutionary characteristic, just as scientists did in the 19th century when they were attempting to connect intelligence to skull shape differences between West Africans and Caucasians, but there's no evidence that humans necessarily attribute beauty because of evolutionary characteristics. Often times they may align, but it's because they align through social characteristics and perceptions, which is why often times they don't align. Sunprince wants to make a utilitarian argument for why some people are beautiful and others are not, but attractiveness does not fit that paradigm. From ancient Israelites to Egyptians to Chinese to Greeks to Romans to Middle Age Arabs to Europeans to South Americans, etc. There is no singular ideal form.

This isn't a case for "everyone is beautiful." It's a case for "in the time we're living in, in the parts of the world we're living in, there is a defined idea of beauty that is shared by most people in that space and time." It's not for health or fertility reasons, even if it started out that way, it's because we've been shown it our whole lives and all the other stuff that takes place in the socialization process.

Look at it this way, if you did a diagnosis on the entire human population, in what percentile do you think Victoria's Secret models would appear in terms of health, fitness and fertility? Now do the same thing for female basketball players. Do you really think people believe VS models are the most beautiful because they're in the 99th percentile of those areas, and female basketball players are not? Of course not. We think they are because of face type and breast size, but our ideal face type and breast size is not the same as Ancient Greek's or Ancient Chinese's and probably not even modern Chinese's or modern Greek's. Furthermore, face type and breast size are probably not of the same importance to those cultures as they are to ours.
I'm sure you know the evolutionary advantage of large mammaries
Oh? Please explain. Because breast size isn't an impediment to the amount of milk a woman can produce, and in many animals, such as chimps, they're relatively small. In humans, large mammaries can also be extremely disadvantageous depending on one's life style such as within nomadic tribes. They're a secondary sex trait that doesn't actually reflect reproduction and they don't serve a functional purpose, outside of attracting more attention in certain cultures. It could be evolutionary within a single culture, but there isn't a biological basis for it being attractive.

Pro female basketball players are almost certainly not in the 99th percentile in terms of fertility. The hormonal makeup that lends itself to reaching the top level of such a sport is relatively masculine and is quite different from one that maximizes fertility.
Yes. The point of the example was that both super models and athletes are poor in that regard, yet we view one as extremely attractive and the other as unattractive.
]As for using models as examples of ideal beauty within a culture, it may seem like a safe choice, but it's important to note that the people evaluating the models may have different standards than the general population. A large number of fashion models have rather androgynous bodies (which are therefore unattractive to straight men). This brings me to an attribute that is almost purely hereditarily preferred - the hourglass figure.
You're already pre-supposing what men find attractive, based on evolutionary psychology bullshit. What men find attractive differs from culture to culture, include waist-to-hip ratios and assuming an hourglass figure is the most fertile (of which only correlation has been found in a small amount samples), it's quite likely that fertility only plays a very minor role in what men find attractive. Furthermore, the ability to reproduce depends on many other social factors besides fertility, which is why women with wider waists (who may be less fertile) tend to do better in countries where women have economic independence. You're basically saying "men find hourglass figures most attractive, therefore supermodels, who don't have an hourglass body shape can't be attractive," when really what you should be thinking is that "men today no longer find hourglass figures most attractive." Look at this very site and the Kpop idols people fantasize about.

I've noticed that many people who try to explain things in terms of cultural influence do not take into account that culture arose from our nature and living conditions. Culture continues to influence and be influenced by our genetics, so attempting to take a side in the nature vs nurture dichotomy is somewhat pointless.
There is no doubt that culture arises from circumstances, which is why it's impossible to say there is an inherent, ideal form of beauty that's universal to all cultures, as sunprince tried to say. That is not to say biological factors were never a factor, but often times, especially in modern societies, they have been overridden by cultural norms. A woman with an hourglass figure may be more fertile, but that doesn't mean she's more likely to survive, more likely to reproduce or inherently more attractive to a given culture.
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zbedlam
Profile Joined October 2010
Australia549 Posts
March 03 2013 02:17 GMT
#524
Hourglass figure has nothing to do with fertility, larger hips means easier time with childbirth normally.

Men like attractive women, women like powerful men. This does not apply to all people, and what people find attractive varies from person to person.

Dominant males will generally go for submissive women with hourglass figures and likewise attractive women will normally go for dominant males.

Men like women with larger breasts because breast size is directly related to estrogen levels, dominant males (read high testosterone) want women with high estrogen levels for reasons not worth going into for this topic.

If you are androgynous, a manchild etc do not expect to follow this norm and likewise if you are an ugly girl (by common perception) do not expect to either.

Directly on topic though, money = power so women liking men with money is not even remotely uncommon or socially unacceptable. Women gouging men for money however normally is.

gruff
Profile Joined September 2010
Sweden2276 Posts
March 03 2013 03:56 GMT
#525
Are you suggesting that the norm for attractive women is to be submissive? Because that's pretty stupid. Also large breasts have not always been the norm for when or comes to the sexual ideal
rusedeguerre
Profile Blog Joined February 2013
121 Posts
March 03 2013 04:00 GMT
#526
On March 03 2013 04:08 dreamsmasher wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 02 2013 23:55 zbedlam wrote:
On March 02 2013 23:27 Elurie wrote:
On March 02 2013 09:29 sunprince wrote:
From an evolutionary standpoint, the most important things for a woman to successfully pass on her genes are youth, health, and fertility (all of which are measured by beauty). Those traits are much less important in men, as men do not have to deal with menopause, surviving childbirth, or being the primary caretakers of children.

Wow, you certainly err on the side of chauvinistic. Yea, taking care of kids is a "woman's job". Men only have to bring home the bacon, and sit back on the La-Z-Boy while the woman fry up the bacon too! :p


He's talking about sexual attractiveness from an evolutionary perspective you stupid pleb. This is not an artsy sociology debate.


seems like you're the stupid pleb. most of these 'evolutionary theories' relating evolution to other aspects of our life are about as scientific as astrology.

Everything about humanity has been determined by evolution. It is pretty dumb to suggest it has nothing to do with our lives...

The reference to astrology is quite ironic.
Some would say that hydrogen cyanide is a delicious and necessary part of the human diet, but others claim it is a toxic and dangerous substance. The truth must therefore be somewhere in between.
ziggurat
Profile Joined October 2010
Canada847 Posts
March 03 2013 06:06 GMT
#527
On March 03 2013 09:06 Jibba wrote:
Show nested quote +
On March 03 2013 03:56 Demonhunter04 wrote:
On March 03 2013 01:30 Jibba wrote:
On March 03 2013 01:05 ziggurat wrote:
On March 03 2013 00:49 xM(Z wrote:
On March 02 2013 09:29 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:46 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 00:17 xM(Z wrote:
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
[quote]

Except it doesn't matter whether or not they lie, because it's not a survey, it's the statistics of which men get the most messages.

it's not real, it's like making surveys on people imagination then assume the results apply irl.


The number of messages that people recieve are not imaginary. Nor is that data self-reported; the number of messages recieved is measured by the website's records.

the age reported is a lie, the income reported is a lie, the pictures are of a younger version of themselfs = lie. i don't think i should go on since the picture is clear.


All of your examples of self-reported data. Messages received, on the other hand, is not self-reported data. The only picture you see is the blindfold you deliberately put on.

Take the blindfold off and take a look around, and you can easily find tons of data that corroborates the notion that women are attracted to men with wealth. Let me get you started:

http://idei.fr/doc/wp/2008/genes.pdf
www.landofangels.de/py1/buss-barnes-1986.pdf
http://www.popline.org/docs/1239/131493.html

On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:46 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 00:17 xM(Z wrote:
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
[quote]

I've already told you what I think the facts, empirical evidence, and science shows. If what you're asking for is normative opinions, then I'm not interested in those.

empirical evidence?, facts?, science?, where?. you only have assumptions, other people assumptions, based on what is percieved to be the best for evolution.
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
[quote]

The ideal female has changed astonishingly little throughout human history. This is from a female fashion guide from the late 19th century.

that says nothing really, or i don't get it. i know it changes but how is the change related to our evolution as a species?. you just praise aestetics and say they're good for evolution.


You missed the point. I'm debunking your claim that today's beauty ideal is "media-tainted". The female beauty ideal is, and always has been, a combination of traits indicating youth, health, and fertility, all of which are evolutionarially advantageous.

http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/beauty
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aesthetics
there was never an agreement (and never will be) about the objectiveness of beauty, especially physical one.


You're giving philosophical links on the abstract nature of beauty, which is irrelevant to the discussion we're having on the biological facts of human sexual attractiveness.

On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:46 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 00:17 xM(Z wrote:
On February 28 2013 21:05 sunprince wrote:
[quote]

It has nothing to do with a fear of scarcity, and everything to do with biological instincts to pursue the potential mate with the highest possible social status.

Whether you think that's "right" or "wrong" is irrelevant to reality, but if you have a problem with that, then I suggest you take it up with women.

it's not about social status then, it's about power as someone else already stated earlier in the thread so if money = power and women can get power(money) by themselfs, why whould they need the men with money for?. it doesn't make sense unless it's easier to get said men, then to get money by themselfs?.


Yes, it's easier for women to get wealth men than it is to earn that wealth on their own, and that's part of what's going on. However, you're again missing the main point.

Women are attracted to social status, of which wealth is a mere part, rather than wealth itself. And the reason they are attracted to that is not just because access to a man with high social status is advantageous, but because it is biogically advantageous to reproduce with the kind of man who attains high social status in the first place.

To put it simply, men with high social status are, on average, contributing higher-quality reproductive material. Women are attracted to that as well as the ability of said men to provide for them.

women can attain social status by themselfs. when that hapenss, why wouldn't beauty > social status for them too.
when the power shits, your point dies.
if your point is valid only in certain scenarios it means it was flawed to beggin with.


Because the traits which make a man biologically successful are not the same traits that make a woman biologically successful.

From an evolutionary standpoint, the most important things for a woman to successfully pass on her genes are youth, health, and fertility (all of which are measured by beauty). Those traits are much less important in men, as men do not have to deal with menopause, surviving childbirth, or being the primary caretakers of children.

By contrast, the most important things for a man to pass on his genes is his ability to provide for his mate(s) and children. For a social species like humans, this is first and foremost measured by his social status.

On March 01 2013 18:01 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 12:49 sunprince wrote:
On March 01 2013 06:41 xM(Z wrote:
On March 01 2013 03:16 Klogon wrote:
[quote]

Pretty much. If I did not care about physical/sexual attractiveness and only personality, I would be dating my best dude friends. But I don't. It matters.

'cause you are judged by other males based on the woman you are with, it's that simple. in the man vs man war, a woman beauty is just a mean to an end, it's never the end itself. if ugly women would be in style, you'd date them all.


You are incredibly deluded if you think that the only reason men prefer beautiful women instead of men or ugly women is because they're "in style".

Go do some research on sexual attraction and physical attractiveness before spewing any more nonsense in this thread.

i agree with: "Though attempts have been made to devise objective criteria of sexual attractiveness, and even measure it as one of several bodily forms of capital asset (see erotic capital), a person's sexual attractiveness is to a large extent a subjective measure dependent on another person's interest, perception, and sexual orientation.", from wikipedia.

everything standardized about what you should be attracted to, is nurture. there isn't a link proving that beauty/symetry is evolutionary required.

http://www.plosone.org/article/info:doi/10.1371/journal.pone.0001201#s4
"In conclusion, both objective and subjective factors intervene in determining our appreciation of an artwork. The history of art is replete with the constant tension between objective values and subjective judgments. This tension is deepened when artists discover new aesthetic parameters that may appeal for various reasons, be they related to our biological heritage, or simply to fashion or novelty. Still, the central question remains: when the fashion and novelty expire, could their work ever become a permanent patrimony of humankind without a resonance induced by some biologically inherent parameters?"


Once again, you're posting bullshit red herrings about art. We're not talking about art here, we're talking about sexual attractiveness. Unlike art, there is substantial scientific evidence that human sexual attractiveness is objective and consistent across the vast majority of cultures.

i'll just call you a troll and move on. i made my point.
still, you should read your own links" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness#Social_effects
"The study believes this accuracy to be subjective to the eye of the beholder."
"Perceptions of physical attractiveness contribute to generalized assumptions based on those attractions"
"Individuals assume that when someone is beautiful, they have many other positive attributes that make the attractive person more likeable. This is also called the 'beautiful-is-good' effect"
.. and so on and so forth.

Sunprince is completely right about this. You are hopefully but naively arguing your opinion about how human attraction ought to work. The world would probably be a much nicer place if you were right. But the science is not on your side.

I think you've missed the argument.

The beholder is a part of a society and that society's norms are a very large aspect of what influences their perspective. Not evolutionary traits. And one society's norms are not every society's norms, because it's not based on objective reasons.

People like to backwards track to claim it's an evolutionary characteristic, just as scientists did in the 19th century when they were attempting to connect intelligence to skull shape differences between West Africans and Caucasians, but there's no evidence that humans necessarily attribute beauty because of evolutionary characteristics. Often times they may align, but it's because they align through social characteristics and perceptions, which is why often times they don't align. Sunprince wants to make a utilitarian argument for why some people are beautiful and others are not, but attractiveness does not fit that paradigm. From ancient Israelites to Egyptians to Chinese to Greeks to Romans to Middle Age Arabs to Europeans to South Americans, etc. There is no singular ideal form.

This isn't a case for "everyone is beautiful." It's a case for "in the time we're living in, in the parts of the world we're living in, there is a defined idea of beauty that is shared by most people in that space and time." It's not for health or fertility reasons, even if it started out that way, it's because we've been shown it our whole lives and all the other stuff that takes place in the socialization process.

Look at it this way, if you did a diagnosis on the entire human population, in what percentile do you think Victoria's Secret models would appear in terms of health, fitness and fertility? Now do the same thing for female basketball players. Do you really think people believe VS models are the most beautiful because they're in the 99th percentile of those areas, and female basketball players are not? Of course not. We think they are because of face type and breast size, but our ideal face type and breast size is not the same as Ancient Greek's or Ancient Chinese's and probably not even modern Chinese's or modern Greek's. Furthermore, face type and breast size are probably not of the same importance to those cultures as they are to ours.
I'm sure you know the evolutionary advantage of large mammaries
Oh? Please explain. Because breast size isn't an impediment to the amount of milk a woman can produce, and in many animals, such as chimps, they're relatively small. In humans, large mammaries can also be extremely disadvantageous depending on one's life style such as within nomadic tribes. They're a secondary sex trait that doesn't actually reflect reproduction and they don't serve a functional purpose, outside of attracting more attention in certain cultures. It could be evolutionary within a single culture, but there isn't a biological basis for it being attractive.
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Pro female basketball players are almost certainly not in the 99th percentile in terms of fertility. The hormonal makeup that lends itself to reaching the top level of such a sport is relatively masculine and is quite different from one that maximizes fertility.
Yes. The point of the example was that both super models and athletes are poor in that regard, yet we view one as extremely attractive and the other as unattractive.
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]As for using models as examples of ideal beauty within a culture, it may seem like a safe choice, but it's important to note that the people evaluating the models may have different standards than the general population. A large number of fashion models have rather androgynous bodies (which are therefore unattractive to straight men). This brings me to an attribute that is almost purely hereditarily preferred - the hourglass figure.
You're already pre-supposing what men find attractive, based on evolutionary psychology bullshit. What men find attractive differs from culture to culture, include waist-to-hip ratios and assuming an hourglass figure is the most fertile (of which only correlation has been found in a small amount samples), it's quite likely that fertility only plays a very minor role in what men find attractive. Furthermore, the ability to reproduce depends on many other social factors besides fertility, which is why women with wider waists (who may be less fertile) tend to do better in countries where women have economic independence. You're basically saying "men find hourglass figures most attractive, therefore supermodels, who don't have an hourglass body shape can't be attractive," when really what you should be thinking is that "men today no longer find hourglass figures most attractive." Look at this very site and the Kpop idols people fantasize about.

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I've noticed that many people who try to explain things in terms of cultural influence do not take into account that culture arose from our nature and living conditions. Culture continues to influence and be influenced by our genetics, so attempting to take a side in the nature vs nurture dichotomy is somewhat pointless.
There is no doubt that culture arises from circumstances, which is why it's impossible to say there is an inherent, ideal form of beauty that's universal to all cultures, as sunprince tried to say. That is not to say biological factors were never a factor, but often times, especially in modern societies, they have been overridden by cultural norms. A woman with an hourglass figure may be more fertile, but that doesn't mean she's more likely to survive, more likely to reproduce or inherently more attractive to a given culture.

1. What makes you think that Victoria's secret models aren't fertile? Are you basing this on something or is it just a hunch?
2. No one is "presupposing" what men find attractive. Everyone knows what men find attractive. If you have any doubts, flip open a men's magazine. It's not exactly a secret.
3. Where do you get the idea that the desirable waist-to-hip ratio varies between cultures? Everything that I've seen suggests that it's pretty consistent across cultures.
4. Why do you say that supermodels don't have hourglass figures? Pretty much all of them have a waist-to-hip ratio of .7, which is quoted is numerous studies as the ideal.
5. I'm pretty confident that most kpop idols have waist-to-hip ratios very close to .7 as well.
6. In every culture that I'm aware of, men tend to be attracted to women who are young, healthy, with symmetrical features and waist-to-hip ratios near .7. This is biology at work.
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-03-03 07:56:03
March 03 2013 07:46 GMT
#528
1. Less so, and because of body weight and fat %.
2. Read the actual post before you post. He says exactly that models have a specific body type that all men find unattractive, and his proof is that it doesn't fit the hourglass form. He's beginning with his answer in mind and trying to connect data to make it work.
3. This is wrong. Singh's study was flawed when he made it, and its publicizing is even worse because he never made the exact universal claim about .7.

http://www.fas.harvard.edu/~hbe-lab/acrobatfiles/preferred waist.pdf
Female waist-to-hip ratio (WHR) is widely cited by evolutionary psychologists as an example of an
evolved male preference. Although many studies have found men prefer a low WHR, almost all have been
conducted with college students. We tested men in a foraging society and found that they preferred high
WHRs. We interpret this as a preference for heavier women, which we think should be common where
there is no risk of obesity. Based on these results and others, we suggest that WHR preference varies with
ecology.

http://www.academia.edu/296731/Is_Beauty_In_the_Eye_of_the_Beholder
As in Yomybato, males from Shipetiarigrouped female figures by weight and thenby WHR, preferred ‘overweight’ figures,and considered high-WHR females to behealthier (Fig. 2). However, Shipetiari malesconsidered low-WHR females to be moreattractive and more desirable as spouses(Fig. 2). Note that Shipetiari males didnot consider the healthiest females to bethe most attractive or the most desirablespouses, suggesting that WHR preferencesmay be changing

4. They don't, they've actually steadily risen from .6 to now .7+. You can actually track the rise through Playboy models since the 60's, where "ideals" like Monroe and Welch were much more severe than .7 (closer to .6), to today where it's getting clser to .8. Women like Megan Fox and Kate Upton are perfect examples of it. There's variation all over the place regarding today's most attractive women and their hip-to-waist ratio, which gets to the next point:

6. Further research finds that hip-to-waist ratio also isn't very important at all.

http://www.staff.ncl.ac.uk/m.j.tovee/Malaysian-paper.pdf
Two purported cues to perceived female physical attractiveness are body mass index (BMI) and body shape as measured by the waist-to-hip ratio (WHR). This study examined the relative contribution of both cues in several culturally socioeconomically distinct populations. Six hundred and eighty-two participants from Britain and Malaysia were asked to rate a set of images of real women with known BMI and WHR. The results showed that BMI is the primary determinant of female physical attractiveness, whereas WHR failed to emerge as a significant predictor. The results also showed that there were significant differences in preferences for physical attractiveness along a gradient of socio-economic development, with urban participants preferring images of women with significantly lower BMIs than their rural counterparts.

...

It is also not the case that the relative ranges of
BMI and WHR values in these studies are unequal, as
whenTovee et al. (2002) used images of female bodies
where the range of BMI values was strictly controlled,
WHR still failed to emerge as a strong determinant for
attractiveness

These findings suggest that one simply does not
need to be very sensitive to shape cues. Tove´
e et al. (2002) have argued that the linkage of WHR with
fertility is far weaker than that of BMI and fertility,
and this may be one reason why WHR is a poor
predictor of attractiveness. For example, there is a
considerable overlap in the WHRs of populations of
normal women and anorexic patients (Tove´
e et al.,(1997). The latter group are amenorrhoeic, and so a
woman with an effective fertility of zero can have the
same WHR as a woman with normal fertility. Past
research supports the finding that shape cues are not a
salient factor in female physical attractiveness—the
‘ideal’female body in Western society, as depicted by
fashion models, has become thinner and less curvaceous over time

He goes on to posit that preference in BMI (which is significantly more important than waist-to-hip) varies most predictably by level of modernity and socio-economic status.
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rusedeguerre
Profile Blog Joined February 2013
121 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-03-03 08:12:33
March 03 2013 08:04 GMT
#529
‘ideal’female body in Western society, as depicted by
fashion models

This is what happens when people conflate transient social status with ingrained biological attraction, and when they conflate publicity with commonality.

For example, there is a
considerable overlap in the WHRs of populations of
normal women and anorexic patients

Obviously the data will be skewed towards BMI if you are rating the attractiveness of WHR of a starving woman....
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oneofthem
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Cayman Islands24199 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-03-03 08:40:24
March 03 2013 08:26 GMT
#530
the fact that saying someone is superficial is a pretty negative remark should give you a hint. people are not that simple, though they can live that simply. there's a lower level routine, and a higher level routine. they can both exist.

edit: yes, by seeing what's superficial as 'natural' behavior, you remove that stigma. but that's a different but interesting story
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Profile Joined November 2006
Romania5281 Posts
March 03 2013 08:54 GMT
#531
On March 03 2013 17:04 rusedeguerre wrote:

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For example, there is a
considerable overlap in the WHRs of populations of
normal women and anorexic patients

Obviously the data will be skewed towards BMI if you are rating the attractiveness of WHR of a starving woman....

i think the point there was that if women with 0 fertility have the same WHR as fertile women, how can you use WHR as a measure for fertility?.
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Arctic Daishi
Profile Joined February 2013
United States152 Posts
March 03 2013 16:34 GMT
#532
On February 22 2013 04:02 slappy wrote:
it depends... it's like I want a woman who is going to do a good job raising my children and has qualities that are beneficial in that regard. Naturally, a woman will want a man who can provide, that's kind of the flip side of that coin.


I never really looked at it that way before. What you're saying makes sense, though I think that if money or looks alone are the sole deciding factors for a relationship, then that is "shallow" and "superficial."
sc4k
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United Kingdom5454 Posts
March 03 2013 16:51 GMT
#533
On March 03 2013 17:04 rusedeguerre wrote:
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‘ideal’female body in Western society, as depicted by
fashion models

This is what happens when people conflate transient social status with ingrained biological attraction, and when they conflate publicity with commonality.


Wow...you really hit the nail on the head there with that sentence. This is what jars me about everything Jibba is talking about to do with society shaping your tastes. Also, fashion models aren't supposed to be ideal beauty, they are supposed to wear clothes well.
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-03-03 21:24:37
March 03 2013 20:51 GMT
#534
On March 03 2013 17:04 rusedeguerre wrote:
This is what happens when people conflate transient social status with ingrained biological attraction, and when they conflate publicity with commonality.

No, this is what happens when you don't follow the conversation and his argument about models of all generations displaying the same biological characteristic (even though it's not true.)

And you still haven't shown how ingrained biological attraction is measured. Assuming there is both an ingrained biological attraction and a socially instilled attraction, how would you distinguish the two? The only studies we have pursue a single, unified "attraction" and they've found that it is not universal across cultures. Could it be that socially instilled attraction, obviously derived from different cultures, overrides the ingrained biological attraction that's universal to everyone? It's possible, but how would you isolate that?

The only studies they've done have involved showing people silly pictures, often hand drawings rather than real photographs, and asking for their preference. Tovee's study found that the different hip-to-waist ratios didn't help them predict which picture was viewed as most attractive. In other studies, they found it was helpful for prediction but only within a single culture. So really, we don't have data to suggest that men judge attractiveness based on fertility or even perceived fertility.

All of this is based on Singh's study's finding of .7 among Western college students at that time. It may turn out that a hip-to-waist ratio of .7 and a certain range of body fat % produce most optimal fertility, but we haven't shown a universal preference of hip-to-waist nor a universal preference of BMI (which isn't exactly body fat %, but close enough for the discussion.) We only have evidence to the contrary.

Obviously the data will be skewed towards BMI if you are rating the attractiveness of WHR of a starving woman....

So you didn't actually read it, but decided to post anyways.

I will give evolutionary psychology credit for having more merit than astrology,.^
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Recognizable
Profile Blog Joined December 2011
Netherlands1552 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-03-03 21:01:12
March 03 2013 21:00 GMT
#535
Jibba and Rusedguerre, thanks for your insights. Having fun reading it
Demonhunter04
Profile Joined July 2011
1530 Posts
March 04 2013 00:19 GMT
#536
On March 03 2013 09:06 Jibba wrote:
Oh? Please explain. Because breast size isn't an impediment to the amount of milk a woman can produce, and in many animals, such as chimps, they're relatively small. In humans, large mammaries can also be extremely disadvantageous depending on one's life style such as within nomadic tribes. They're a secondary sex trait that doesn't actually reflect reproduction and they don't serve a functional purpose, outside of attracting more attention in certain cultures. It could be evolutionary within a single culture, but there isn't a biological basis for it being attractive.


You're right that the size of a mammary gland is not a large factor in its potential maximum milk production rate, and that they serve no additional function while adding weight and consuming resources. The extra weight on the front of the torso is even more detrimental for humans than for other animals because we walk upright, and our spines and lower backs are placed under more strain than ideal as a result. This begs the question as to why they are so much larger in humans (as a proportion of total body mass). Large breasts, as with low waist-hip ratio, are an indicator of a high estrogen: androgen ratio, which usually means higher fertility. Other indicators of health and fertility include:

-Clear skin: Androgens stimulate production of sebum, which increases acne, and growth of thick hairs (as opposed to "peach fuzz").

-Fat distribution away from waist, towards breasts and hips. This, along with body fat percentage, is a major contributor to a low WHR. It also helps that being attracted to women with low WHR reduces the chances of her already being pregnant. Note that the WHR of a woman with genes causing such a fat distribution would still increase if her body fat increases, because the decreasing volume: surface area ratio makes it highly impractical to maintain WHR.

-High voice pitch: Androgens cause development of the vocal chords, lowering pitch.

-Facial structure: I'll quote my previous post: Men on average have a taller and wider masseter, more angled jaw, wider cheek bones and eye sockets, bushier eyebrows, larger noses, more sloping forehead, more prominent brow ridges, and squarer chins. Once again, this is effected by androgens while in the womb, very early childhood, and in puberty.

-Symmetrical features: The brain is responsible for creating and maintaining symmetry in development, and symmetry is a reliable indicator of a healthy brain. Intelligence and symmetry are positively correlated. Further, since about half of all human genes play a role in the brain's development, symmetry indirectly demonstrates the absence of harmful mutations or unfavorable genes.

While not perfectly reliable, as demonstrated by conditions such as AIS, it was only possible to determine fertility through superficial means, so that was the best option. Men that prefers a low WHR, for whatever reason, will have higher average fertility than those who prefer high WHRs. If genetics has anything to do with WHR preference, then the male population will, over time, start to favor low WHRs, and this process has been going on for a very long time, longer than culture has existed. This applies to any of those features considered universally attractive. Unless you can show that genetics has an extremely weak or nonexistent connection with what a man finds attractive, your position on this topic is tenuous.

I won't comment on the fertility of models because they vary quite a bit in WHR, bust size, etc, but I noticed you used Kate Upton as an example - her WHR is her weakest point as a model, but she compensates for that with her other attributes, and the same could be said of Megan Fox. These two examples do not make a dataset, and all else held constant, it is likely that the majority of men would prefer a low-WHR version of Kate Upton/Megan Fox. But of course, this is only true assuming men prefer low WHRs.

I already addressed the variation in WHR preference due to socioeconomic status. The brain treats money the same way it treats food, so people with less money consume more food and prefer women with more body fat. Women who accumulate fat more easily are more likely to survive and provide enough sustenance for offspring in utero when resources are scarce. This is why poor people are more likely than average to be overweight/obese, and rich people are less likely to be (the rich sate this urge by buying things). Since body fat accumulates disproportionately around the waist for most people, a small change in body fat causes a large change in WHR.

Furthermore, the ability to reproduce depends on many other social factors besides fertility, which is why women with wider waists (who may be less fertile) tend to do better in countries where women have economic independence.


This is a little ambiguous. Do you mean that they do better than high WHR women who lack economic independence, or better than low WHR women when both have economic independence? I'm fairly certain you mean the former, in which case the disparity is easily explained by the fact that men losing the economic advantage means they lose a major advantage the sexual economy, which forces them to be less selective. So all women have a better chance when they have economic independence. Of course, nowadays, being successful in dating does not mean you are reproductively successful, but that is a topic for another discussion.

You're basically saying "men find hourglass figures most attractive, therefore supermodels, who don't have an hourglass body shape can't be attractive," when really what you should be thinking is that "men today no longer find hourglass figures most attractive." Look at this very site and the Kpop idols people fantasize about.

Read the actual post before you post. He says exactly that models have a specific body type that all men find unattractive, and his proof is that it doesn't fit the hourglass form. He's beginning with his answer in mind and trying to connect data to make it work.


That is not what I meant. I was saying that models are not selected by popular vote, but by a process that does not necessarily reflect the preference of the majority. For that matter, they are not selected purely on their looks. So you cannot take for granted that models are an example of ideal beauty in this culture. I was also not speaking in absolutes, and I hoped you would infer that I mean "most" or "on average". Obviously, not all models have androgynous and overly thin bodies, and not all men prefer low WHRs. Typing that out every time becomes cumbersome. Swami and Tovée also make the assumption that models represent ideal beauty in this study, which you previously linked. In any case, going from the data charts showing BMI vs attractiveness ratings, the results are fairly similar (all groups ranged from 20.79 and 22.78 in peak preferred BMI), and the differences are consistent with what you would expect based on the food=money effect mentioned earlier. Another problem with their study is that the people were rating attractiveness based on black-and-white photographs. It has been found that when looking at women, men focus more on the face and bust when they're still, and on WHR when they're moving. And in photographs, people weigh faces disproportionately. There is a weak correlation between an attractive face and low WHR, so it is not surprising that the correlation between WHR and rated attractiveness is very low. In contrast, body fat affects the full body, strongly affecting facial attractiveness, and produces aromatase, which converts testosterone to estradiol. This might seem beneficial to fertility, but body fat outside the 17-25% range leads to the storage of too much estrogen to ovulate normally.

A woman with an hourglass figure may be more fertile, but that doesn't mean she's more likely to survive, more likely to reproduce or inherently more attractive to a given culture.


It does mean she's more likely to survive and reproduce, unless she's living in a environment with resources so scarce that a woman who puts on fat more easily is at an advantage.

There is no doubt that culture arises from circumstances, which is why it's impossible to say there is an inherent, ideal form of beauty that's universal to all cultures, as sunprince tried to say. That is not to say biological factors were never a factor, but often times, especially in modern societies, they have been overridden by cultural norms.


I do not agree that there is a single universal standard of beauty either, because not all cultures are the same in this respect (and what are the odds that they would ever be?). I suspect that culture merely influences the standard of beauty one way or another from a sort of "starting point" or "range," determined by the genetic makeup of the beholder. Cultural influence is also not homogeneous, so its effect varies on people, too, resulting in greater variety. Genetics' significant role in perceived attractiveness is probably the reason why the diseased, old, obese, significantly asymmetrical, outrightly deformed, or handicapped have never been the ideal beauty standard. If culture could somehow, independently of genetics, favor any of those attributes, and actually override innate preferences, it might have happened before. In any case, don't think overriding is the right word. Do you have any particular examples of culture overriding genetics in mind?
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fatfail
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States386 Posts
March 04 2013 01:14 GMT
#537
I believe there is no universal standard of beauty. However, is it not true that most cultures tend to prefer pale skin? Having studied a bit of history, the plethora of skin whitening products and methods since ancient times and across cultures seems quite interesting. Take the Greeks, Romans, Japanese, Chinese, Indians, etc.
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theinfamousone
Profile Joined February 2011
United States103 Posts
March 04 2013 01:25 GMT
#538
I always thought women were gold diggers (not talking about the ones that come from poor backgrounds wanting a better life for their kids but the actual gold diggers that come from upper middle to upper class backgrounds and sleep around with rich guys) because it was actually more socially acceptable to do so. If a girl wants to tell her friends about the guy she's with, the fling she's having, and her friends happen to be well to do, she wouldn't be able to show her face if she told her friends she just got with a janitor with a really nice personality, or a garbage man with a great sense of humor, or a even a really hunkalicious guy that she met at McDonald's. Imagine if Kim Kardashian's "friends" and anyone for that matter found out she got knocked up by her mailman. She's be a slut. But if she is dating football players, or is having Kanye West's baby, no one thinks much of it.

It's pretty sad, because this is where we get the celebrity marriage stupidity where they are basically socially pressured to marry other egotistical people and it's a miracle when they last longer than a "Kardashian" (72 days if I'm not mistaken).
theinfamousone
Profile Joined February 2011
United States103 Posts
March 04 2013 01:26 GMT
#539
I always thought women were gold diggers (not talking about the ones that come from poor backgrounds wanting a better life for their kids but the actual gold diggers that come from upper middle to upper class backgrounds and sleep around with rich guys) because it was actually more socially acceptable to do so. If a girl wants to tell her friends about the guy she's with, the fling she's having, and her friends happen to be well to do, she wouldn't be able to show her face if she told her friends she just got with a janitor with a really nice personality, or a garbage man with a great sense of humor, or even a really hunkalicious guy that she met at McDonald's. Imagine if Kim Kardashian's "friends" and anyone for that matter found out she got knocked up by her mailman. She'd be a slut. But if she is dating football players, or is having Kanye West's baby, no one thinks much of it.

It's pretty sad, because this is where we get the celebrity marriage stupidity where they are basically socially pressured to marry other egotistical people and it's a miracle when they last longer than a "Kardashian" (72 days if I'm not mistaken).
Slakter
Profile Joined January 2010
Sweden1947 Posts
March 04 2013 01:43 GMT
#540
On March 03 2013 13:00 rusedeguerre wrote:
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On March 03 2013 04:08 dreamsmasher wrote:
On March 02 2013 23:55 zbedlam wrote:
On March 02 2013 23:27 Elurie wrote:
On March 02 2013 09:29 sunprince wrote:
From an evolutionary standpoint, the most important things for a woman to successfully pass on her genes are youth, health, and fertility (all of which are measured by beauty). Those traits are much less important in men, as men do not have to deal with menopause, surviving childbirth, or being the primary caretakers of children.

Wow, you certainly err on the side of chauvinistic. Yea, taking care of kids is a "woman's job". Men only have to bring home the bacon, and sit back on the La-Z-Boy while the woman fry up the bacon too! :p


He's talking about sexual attractiveness from an evolutionary perspective you stupid pleb. This is not an artsy sociology debate.


seems like you're the stupid pleb. most of these 'evolutionary theories' relating evolution to other aspects of our life are about as scientific as astrology.

Everything about humanity has been determined by evolution. It is pretty dumb to suggest it has nothing to do with our lives...

The reference to astrology is quite ironic.


Standard psychology plays a way bigger role than Biological psychology in modern times.

The human brain is just way too complex for us to be simply driven by evolution.
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