I've gotten my heart broken.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 19 2005 19:53 GMT

After 2 years of good/bad times, My girlfriend went on a "Break" with me on wednesday night. I was engaged to her, but since we are just getting out of highschool, she wanted to make sure that "I" was the one for her. Anyways, she has been going over to her friends house the past month A LOT. Her friend's boyfriend has a best friend. This best friend is not very good looking, and is a big time loser. Anyways he falls in love with my girlfriend. Writes her a poem, draws her pictures, and basically pours his heart out to her. This was yesterday. She was flattered, and started flirting with him. In the meantime I'm calling her, trying to talk to her and work it out. She tells me this last night, when she comes home very late. Tells me that she could end up liking this guy, because he is very sweet. I get heartbroken immediately. This "Break" was supposed to end this wednesday, but I could lose her all together. The love is mutual between us, me a little more. Tonight I will find out if she likes this guy, because she swears up and down (I believer her) that she doesn't like him right now. That it's a 60% - 40% Favor that she will end up liking him. I work tonight from 5-12:30AM, which makes it horrible. She's going to a party tonight at 9:00PM , and this kid doesnt arrive until 10:30. So at 11:30 I'm going to ask her if she likes him. What do you guys think the chances of saying no is? And should I just completely drop her. Should I let her get her free time in. She says that she is scared that she will lose me. If she does date this guy and realizes that she has made a terrible mistake, she says she is worried I will not take her back. I love this girl so much I'd wait years for her to take me back. Anyways what should I do? And if anyone else has gone through this thing before, how did they handle it? Thanks A lot!

EDIT: Forgot to add that we have been 90 Miles apart for a good year, my dad moved up north, and I have been dieing to come back for her. (Making Plans, College, Etc) So I would go and crash that party If I didn't have to work today, or tomorrow.
-FlavOrs

Verbloten

Australia750 Posts

May 19 2005 20:00 GMT

This doesn't sound right to me buddy.. I don't believe in this stuff about having a "break" to be sure etc etc.
I'd lay it down to her - if she is serious about you - then she needs to stop all this bullshit man. If i had said to my wife when we were engaged that i needed a break to see if she was the right girl for me - and then started flirting with other girls - man - i just wouldn't have - but she woulda dumped my arse in a flash. If she did that shit to me - i would tell her "you have answered your question by even suggesting this - you don't want to be with me. I love you - but you don't love me - i think we should call it a day"

Don't forget to give her a bit of a dirty look too man - she has taken time out of your life making you think she was the one for you for the rest of your life - and then jammed it up your arse.

But fear not mate - you will find love again. Just make sure it's for real before getting engaged/married and living in misery for the rest of your life.

HnR)hT

United States3468 Posts

May 19 2005 20:00 GMT

Definitely ask her and definitely let go of her if you don't like what she says. It sounds (as in most male/female relationships) that you are far more emotionally invested in her than she in you.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 19 2005 20:04 GMT

The great thing with my relationship with her is that we are very open, and trusting. I believe anything she would say, because Over 2 years, we have been that way. I know that she loves me, but not the love to get married. I really am stressing out about this, I've been shaking since last night, and only slept for 2 hours. I don't want to drop her because...she's perfect. Perfect with children, very good heart, and beautiful. She was crying her eyes out yesterday just thinking these things. But I guess you'e right. I shouldn't have to put up with this shit. I wish I could just drop it and call it a day. But it's very very very hard. If she did want me back, should I go back with her?

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 19 2005 20:04 GMT

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coreyw709

Canada2 Posts

May 19 2005 20:07 GMT

The same thing happened to me a few weeks ago bro. She ended up being with the guy for a bit, then came back to me saying she still had feelings for me. I started talking to her again, but not going back out. Until 1 day when she told me how she met him, and that she had fucked him after 1 week. (The met downtown at a fucking bar when she was drunk.)
After I had heard this i was crushed. And I could not even look at her since.
So, if you want any shot of that working out.
Dont go to work.
GO to the party with her.
If you want to wait, for some other guy to snatch your girl. Then just wait it out.

But don;t expect to be able to wait it out for her to dump him, then get back with her. It will not work that way. You will be insanely jealous and depressed.

anyway, hope it works out.
-all the best

VdP]fuNfUn

United Kingdom7 Posts

May 19 2005 20:16 GMT

On May 20 2005 05:07 coreyw709 wrote:
The same thing happened to me a few weeks ago bro. She ended up being with the guy for a bit, then came back to me saying she still had feelings for me. I started talking to her again, but not going back out. Until 1 day when she told me how she met him, and that she had fucked him after 1 week. (The met downtown at a fucking bar when she was drunk.)
After I had heard this i was crushed. And I could not even look at her since.
So, if you want any shot of that working out.
Dont go to work.
GO to the party with her.
If you want to wait, for some other guy to snatch your girl. Then just wait it out.

But don;t expect to be able to wait it out for her to dump him, then get back with her. It will not work that way. You will be insanely jealous and depressed.

anyway, hope it works out.
-all the best

i definately agree that you should go to the party, there'll on be one thing on that guys mind tonight and with you not being there there is a big chance that your 'fiance' will get with him. if i was you id go to the party, if you end it before the party then it will just drive her to him, and leaving it till after the party may be too late.

Kazoo

Canada211 Posts

May 19 2005 20:20 GMT

Long Distance relationship rarely work out i find in the beginning sure everything is fine but after a while there is this 90 mile gap in between people and when you want to be with someone cause you're lonely that's where 90 mile gap causes problem so you just turn to a good friend that's close-by. Someone who's close enough
Long distance relationships suck. Though you had a good run with her time to get drunk and forget all about it

FirstProbe

1206 Posts

May 19 2005 20:22 GMT

errr don't worry?
if she's not interested now, then you probably don't have a thing to worry about.
I'm 99% convinced a girl decides whether or not she's keen on you within the first few minutes of talking to you... and if she needs to grow to like him... well then, he's out.

however if shes been cheating on you... then bugger. dump her before she dumps you.
plenty of fish in the sea
bro's before hoes
the pins out, throw the grenade

1hp

Korea (South)903 Posts

May 19 2005 20:23 GMT

#10

Don't just dump her! Seems like you really love her. If she's worth the pain you're going through, wait it out.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 19 2005 20:46 GMT

#11

Well I love all your guys' advice, and really appreciate it. I'm going partying right after work, but I will definately tell you guys tomorrow how tonight went. I would go crash the party in a heatbeat but these things are not allowing me.
1)I work.
2)Car is getting fixed, and I'd have to use my dads.
3)I wouldn't get to the party until 2:30 at the least.

And about liking someone, she was grossed out by him. He's some 21 year old loser, who works at a fastfood restaurant, and drinks/smokes pot everynight. That is not her type at all. I think that she is very flattered by him. I told her, "Shelley, would you rather have a really good friend, and a love, or just a different boyfriend." So I don't know. She's going to call me around 3:30 - 4:00 PM before I go to work. I guess I can find out, and maybe try and talk her out of it. She says it's not me at all, and that it's her own doing. There is nothing that I can do to stop this. I really feel that I can. She started to get to like him when he poured his shitty heart out to her. Could be fake, could be real.

DooMeR

United States1519 Posts

May 19 2005 20:49 GMT

#12

Breaks are dumb and always make the relationship wierd if u do get back together. In all honestly, just try and get on with ur life and let her know, u love her, but at the same time she is the one that is making u go through all this, so now she has to come back to u :p dont go chasing her around too much. Because its only going to backfire;\

imRadu

1798 Posts

May 19 2005 20:51 GMT

#13

Shelley do you see this desk? Well you should get confortable with it because you are going to be spending a lot of time under it making up for all this bs.

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 19 2005 20:55 GMT

#14

Seriously dude, you are letting this going out of your hands. My suggestions are: crash the party, confront the other dude, tell him you are her bf etc... see how he reacts, if he stubbles, then give him a talk and politely tell him to fuck off, if he act aggressive, then you should too. You don't really have to confront him face to face but you do have the right to speak to him, even if its on a phone.

And man, don't fucking let her go on a date with him. For christ sake, she is YOUR gf, i don't care how open you are, unless you dig all those wife swapping crap, you shouldn't let any males go near enough to catch her attention.
Just because you are both open minded doesn't mean you have to go through with this, this situation that she has created is totally unfair towards you, wtf is she thinking? fuck another guy to see if her bf is the right one?

No offense but sometimes chicks have weird ideas and you have to put them in their right place.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 19 2005 21:01 GMT

#15

Open as in telling the truth all the time, and being honest. I would never let her be with another guy. I wouldn't be stressing out about this. I can't CRASH THE PARTY and she will not answer her phone tonight. She will be expecting my text message, and will replay back. That is it. She said she doesnt want to start crying at the party. So in the text, she won't break out crying. And she's not going to fuck him, she's not a whore...yet.

imRadu

1798 Posts

May 19 2005 21:03 GMT

#16

What's with all the people who get engaged before finishing highshchool? It's not very realistic. 5 years from now you are going to be really different people. I don't mean you should not spend these 5 years together....but can you spend it? Are you going to the same college?

Also what's with all these girl problems thread?

This is between you and the girl.

It's normal for people to try different things and meet new people etc. If you guys have/had such a great thing together it should stad up to all of it tho.

And wtf is a 4 day "break" ? lol? Yeah you go girl 4 days will be enough. If she comes back to you in a year it dosen't mean she's a bad person either. People need time to sort their shit (life) out. You might wanna know what you want from life (e.g beeing with her) but she might not.

Wtf am i doing in this thread anyway 8(

MVP[eV]

United States270 Posts

May 19 2005 21:03 GMT

#17

Honestly, if I was you I wouldn't even bother trying to convince her to stay with you. Thats just stupid and desperate. She sounds like she is to young and stupid to know what she wants and just wants to do her own thing. Tell her you have been thinking about this alot and you arent sure if you want to be with her anymore and see how shes reacts. I know its hard but you have to make her feel like you arent waiting around for her. She is doing what she wants and is taking advantage of your love. She figures well if I screw around with ronald mcdonald and it doesnt work out I still have my old boyfriend on deck. Fuck that man, step up and put the bitch in her place. If she acts this way now, who says she wont do this again in a month. Trust is a huge factor but I certainly wouldnt trust her after all this shit happened. A friend of mine went through this when the girl he liked ended up liking me so I saw first hand what he went through. After I rejected her for obvious reasons, he felt 2nd best but to this day still likes her.

Kazoo

Canada211 Posts

May 19 2005 21:28 GMT

#18

Heed the words of wisdom from MVP[eV], grow a penis dump the hoe

Muhweli

Finland5328 Posts

May 19 2005 21:39 GMT

#19

Heart is a muscle that pumps blood!

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 19 2005 21:40 GMT

#20

If she feels so bad then why is she going there at the first place? dude you are not in control!
you are treating this whole deal too philosophical, your relationship isn't a democracy. By the looks of it, you are just satisfying her needs, but what about you? if she goes to this party and hang with that other guy and turned out didn't like him, what next? do you honestly think she will come back to you? even if she does, whats going to stop this happening next time some body moved in next door? I know you care very much for her and that is why you have to ACT, letting her going off on her own is not going to solve anything, what if the other dude spike her drinks? the way you play this is totally wrong, trust me, with a girl you have to pick where to stand, some times you have to give her space and some times you have to be firm, and now is the time to be firm!
DON''T let this happen, if you really love her, you WILL regret it.
and you have to teach her to respect your feelings, she obviously didn't see this from your view point, ask her how would she feel if the situation is reversed?
if you let this one slide, you are asking for it, really, don't just rely on her words, some times a woman's feeling for the moment betray herself.

MVP[eV]

United States270 Posts

May 19 2005 21:40 GMT

#21

On May 20 2005 06:39 Muhweli wrote:
Heart is a muscle that pumps blood!

Spammers have high post counts!

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 19 2005 21:44 GMT

#22

i agree with mvp[ev]. i know the feeling is difficult to overcome, but you can't be in a relationship where she just fucks around and gets off with it. Woman are born to screw with your feelings, just man up and tell her that.

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

May 19 2005 21:46 GMT

#23

wtf, i would definatly beat the living shit out of that guy

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 19 2005 21:50 GMT

#24

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MVP[eV]

United States270 Posts

May 19 2005 21:55 GMT

#25

You just got out of high school and you probably think shes it, either you end up with her or you will be alone forever. Man there's so much more to see and so many more women to meet. Trust me, you have a long life ahead of you and this kind of behavior is ridiculous. Don't let her walk all over you and don't let the crying fool you. I really doubt she will be thinking about your feelings with a drink in her hand layin all over the other guy at the party.

pinbaLL

Sweden1711 Posts

May 19 2005 21:55 GMT

#26

That.. fucking... bitch / Walter in The Big Lebowski

Jeez, how the fuck can she just do that. Leave you in great pain while she "finds out" if she likes another guy MORE? And you two are engaged? Its unacceptable!

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 19 2005 21:56 GMT

#27

I guess when she calls me around 4 I'll tell her. I told her last night but it didn't work. I'm just gonna be like, "Shelley, this hurts me to say this, but if you fuck around with this guy, you probably wno't get me back." "You have the choice to like this guy, don't give me bullshit you don't." "You love me so much, you shouldn't want to like this guy." "I have to do this in order to save me with you." "If you do not respect this, then we are done for good."

pinbaLL

Sweden1711 Posts

May 19 2005 21:59 GMT

#28

Thats the spirit.

Kazoo

Canada211 Posts

May 19 2005 21:59 GMT

#29

Quite rankly girls are just good for sex anything else is bullshit

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 19 2005 22:00 GMT

#30

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MVP[eV]

United States270 Posts

May 19 2005 22:01 GMT

#31

Flavors you have a really high tolerance for bullshit. Dammmmmn.

DooMeR

United States1519 Posts

May 19 2005 22:04 GMT

#32

On May 20 2005 06:39 Muhweli wrote:
Heart is a muscle that pumps blood!

yea i suggest u see a phisician ASAP guy. muhweli is right

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

May 19 2005 22:26 GMT

#33

On May 20 2005 06:50 LaZyScV wrote:

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Oh yeah, that would get his girl back. Yeah.....

the guy says that her gf wants to date the other guy, but shes worried that if it doesnt work, that he will not take her back? rofl, i would dump her, and beat the guy for stealing her away from me.

the only way he would get her back, if he is actually really really desperated, is to talk to her, and make her choose now! not after she "tried" out the oter guy. rofl this is so dumb, dump her, try to forget about her (probably will be hard) and move on

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

May 19 2005 22:28 GMT

#34

On May 20 2005 06:56 FlavOrs wrote:
I guess when she calls me around 4 I'll tell her. I told her last night but it didn't work. I'm just gonna be like, "Shelley, this hurts me to say this, but if you fuck around with this guy, you probably wno't get me back." "You have the choice to like this guy, don't give me bullshit you don't." "You love me so much, you shouldn't want to like this guy." "I have to do this in order to save me with you." "If you do not respect this, then we are done for good."

yup, but i would already dump her just for wanting to date another guy

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 19 2005 22:52 GMT

#35

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LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 19 2005 23:02 GMT

#36

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haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 19 2005 23:15 GMT

#37

throw off the nice guy act, chicks don't dig that. Be demanding, be intimating, be an asshole!

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 19 2005 23:18 GMT

#38

"Who's more attractive?"
Shelley : "You"
Me: "Who do you see yourself with?"
Shelley : "You, I can see me raising kids with you."
Me: "Wtf is the problem then?"
Shelley : "I need to make sure that you're the one for me, things haven't been going to good lately"
Me: "This guys a fucking joke, he works at fast food and he's 21."
Shelley: "I know."

Clutch3

United States1344 Posts

May 19 2005 23:20 GMT

#39

Don't bother trying to convince her of anything.

Just make sure that she is totally clear where you stand, which should be: The choice is hers, but there's no fricking "break". If she wants to fool around, then you guys are over. There's no "saving a seat". The last thing you want to do is be clingy at this point.

But by all means,

1) Don't bother confronting the guy...even if he is a total tool, whatever you do won't help the situation. There will always be another guy ready to swoop in; the only way to solve the problem is to have her be totally sure that you are the one.

2) It sounds counterintuitive since you're getting advice on a forum, but be yourself. When you interact with her you want to basically be as clear as possible about your feelings. Once you are sure she's gotten the message, give her space and let her figure it out. After two years, she should know enough about who you are.

TheOdMan

Sweden238 Posts

May 19 2005 23:28 GMT

#40

Oh man, I got a really bad feeling in my stomach reading this, since I have first hand experience about being heartbroken.
Some might remember my post a month or so back, where I said that my gf had been cheating on me and so on.
All the advice I can give you is that if you truly love her, and really think you guys can work things out, you should go for it, and try to talk to her.
If things fall apart, and she leaves you for good, you will be in a veeery bad shape, or atleast I was.
But I can also tell you that it WILL pass, I know it doesnt feel like it in the beginning, but time heal all wounds as they say, and it's true. Now some two months ago after finding out that my gf was cheating on me, my life is beginning to come back to normal, so just keep in mind, if things turn out for the worse, they will eventually be good again.

Got nothing else to say, hope this gives you some comfort in your agony.
Good luck.

MVP[eV]

United States270 Posts

May 19 2005 23:52 GMT

#41

Wow I want to shoot both of you for being stupid. My patience has run out!

Pro.NT_Knight

Australia539 Posts

May 19 2005 23:54 GMT

#42

bah sounds unlucky for you mate

ive been in the same situation with a girl from work , u find they fuck around early then when they are older they come back to you when they realise u can provide/care/look after them and love them more then any other.

its jus that u wish they were that way now

Sean.G

Spain889 Posts

May 19 2005 23:57 GMT

#43

Let's get one thing straight. you're not supposed to let her "try out" other people to see whether they're better thank you or not. It's either you, or not you. tell her to fucking make a decision, you're not a doll.

best of luck

BloodBath

United States409 Posts

May 20 2005 00:04 GMT

#44

sounds to me like she is young and she wants to hook up with more guys and stuff before she commits big to someone, i say tell her its over (seeing as how she said she doesnt want to lose you) have her see what it feels like. also find the ugliest bitch you can find to carry on your arm and show off to her. if this doesnt work get over it, nothing else you can do , sorry man.

Wizzra

Netherlands514 Posts

May 20 2005 00:13 GMT

#45

On May 20 2005 08:18 FlavOrs wrote:
"Who's more attractive?"
Shelley : "You"
Me: "Who do you see yourself with?"
Shelley : "You, I can see me raising kids with you."
Me: "Wtf is the problem then?"
Shelley : "I need to make sure that you're the one for me, things haven't been going to good lately"
Me: "This guys a fucking joke, he works at fast food and he's 21."
Shelley: "I know."

You shouldn't have to compare you to other guys about such things, because love is nothing rational. If the other guy were rich and goodlooking, then you would've given up already because he's better 'fit' for her?

You should make it clear to her that what she's doing is unacceptable for you. Be stern even if it goes against your feelings for this once. If she really loves you, she'll comes back to you and realize she can't miss you and she'll like you more because you showed you're a 'real' man. Then you can be sweet to her again, and your relationship will be even better. And the other way around, if she has been losing her feelings for you, now she has an opportunity to get it out. Then you know where you stand.

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:15 GMT

#46

i think everybody know what is my option about.
girls = lie
starcraft = even bigger lie

and life is so damn shitty somedays...
will i get just a little fun and luck in my life ever ?
i am pesimist because my life is soooooooo badddd and FlavOrs,that is nothing u will be happy if u know my situations in my 'normal' week

So if u have someone to fuck - fuck it cool
If u have someone to hate - hate it forever cuz stupit people in big groups making shits that stay forever on you (like my parents)

exalted

United States3612 Posts

May 20 2005 00:28 GMT

#47

Haha, don't mind Girlzsux, he's just "about to break" with his emo spirit.

Seriously, attraction is not a choice, you can't "force" her to like or dislike this guy, what you need to be prepared for is just to drop her, becuase it's useless to "force" feelings on other people - especially women, who are more emotional than men - men will date a woman becuase they are at least good for sex, but women if they're into a guy, it's almost hopeless to get with her.

Tons of single women out there, sounds like you are getting too "attached" to her (in comparison to her to you) and as assholish as it sounds, you shouldn't care so much - sometimes I feel that Reese's way of dealing with girls is the least compassionate but most effective - it's obvious that that kind of attitude is killer when dealing with females, everyone wants what they can't have, and we all have an insane attraction for those who are cool, aren't afraid to say their opinion, bust out on you and are cool about it, but at the same time you're not sure if they really like you or not.

exalted

United States3612 Posts

May 20 2005 00:30 GMT

#48

Is she your first girlfriend? Quite frankly, how do YOU know she's the one for you? Getting engaged right out of highschool is really not the right idea, and you seem to just be willing to dump your life for her when the feeling does not seem to be mutual, when you say you both love each other "you a little more", that is a gigantic understatement.

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:36 GMT

#49

i just wanna know why i am unlucky and bad things happent to me any time.my father beat me and my mother

(((((
what can i do ?
i cant sucess in nothing because of this

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 00:46 GMT

#50

Ok, If she does go to this party tonight, and likes the guy. I asked, "would you kiss him if you liked him?". She said yes she would. That hurts me, because in my mind kissing is very romantic. Shoudl I drop her completely if she kisses this guy?

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:47 GMT

#51

yes and kill the bitch !!!

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 20 2005 00:49 GMT

#52

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Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:50 GMT

#53

u must be so damn freak if she kisses the guy
i have idea - why dont u first fuck her and afhter this kill with naked hands !!!

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:51 GMT

#54

is this good idea guys ??

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 00:52 GMT

#55

Man 7 hours of work is going to be really really fucking tough. Me stressing out that she kissed/likes him is going to tear me apart. Thanks for the advice guys. I just talked to her online, and it got no where. I really just have to drop it and live on. If she comes back, hey she comes back, but other than that I have to really suck it up, and be a man.

Ceril

Sweden1343 Posts

May 20 2005 00:53 GMT

#56

If things get realy bad ask around to borrow a cold beer and a bicycle lock...

Seriously, a break does not include flirting with others and possibly kissing++ them, they are for silent meditation(^_^) on your feelings, quite often you might just need a little breather to be away for awhile to remember what it feels like to miss the one you love... Not humping the first girl/guy that comes along in a haystack.

Girlzsux

Bulgaria10 Posts

May 20 2005 00:55 GMT

#57

nooooooo u must kill the bitch right now !!!!
if u know where she lives do it at the night and today !!!
dont wait - if not now she will die afther years but what is realy matter when ? just kill it and the connection between you and she will be broken forever!
am i right ?
answer me !

lil.sis

China4650 Posts

May 20 2005 01:23 GMT

#58

On May 20 2005 08:18 FlavOrs wrote:
Me: "This guys a fucking joke, he works at fast food and he's 21."
Shelley: "I know."

ROFL

Dude if nothing else you should show up at his job and make him make you a sandwich

Ceril

Sweden1343 Posts

May 20 2005 01:28 GMT

#59

On May 20 2005 10:23 lil.sis wrote:

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ROFL

Dude if nothing else you should show up at his job and make him make you a sandwich

That would be so awesome...

Clutch3

United States1344 Posts

May 20 2005 01:33 GMT

#60

On May 20 2005 09:52 FlavOrs wrote:
Man 7 hours of work is going to be really really fucking tough. Me stressing out that she kissed/likes him is going to tear me apart. Thanks for the advice guys. I just talked to her online, and it got no where. I really just have to drop it and live on. If she comes back, hey she comes back, but other than that I have to really suck it up, and be a man.

Good for you. You probably feel like crap now but, as someone said, time heals all wounds.

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

May 20 2005 01:34 GMT

#61

On May 20 2005 10:23 lil.sis wrote:

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ROFL

Dude if nothing else you should show up at his job and make him make you a sandwich

agreed, and just because she said she would kiss him, shes giving you a hint : "LEAVE HER"

PaeZ

Mexico1627 Posts

May 20 2005 01:36 GMT

#62

OMG being heartbroken is one of the most horribly things that can happen to anyone... i know your situation.. sucks as hell, i was cheated twice fuck women... you need to have dignity, pride and honor, do not let her play with you, not caring how much you love her, i waited for a year for a girl and in the end she told me to fuck off..... no breaks, no time IS NOW OR NEVER, yu have to use absolutes here, you have to use determinism, if not, you will get screwed, and she willb e happy with this nerd looser or whoever comes next, i dont know you, but you are worth a lot, and that is for the patience and the love you have for her, but do not confuse this love that can later on lead you in a big ass depression, if she DOES KISSES THIS guy, then its time to... put an end to this.. best of luck

uiCk

Canada1925 Posts

May 20 2005 01:38 GMT

#63

leave her now, wtf, dont wait for her to kiss the guy, WTF WTF big mistake if u wait, do it now!!! NOW!

Tien

Russian Federation4447 Posts

May 20 2005 02:06 GMT

#64

You poor bastard.

I can see throughout this thread your heart is being eaten alive.

Hope this works out well for you. It probably will though, I don't think you should worry about it too much, this guy is a nobody.

Ghin

United States2391 Posts

May 20 2005 02:12 GMT

#65

On May 20 2005 10:28 Ceril wrote:

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That would be so awesome...

I've done that, it doesn't make you feel much better. Not to mention what's extra on the sandwich...

schooled_bc

141 Posts

May 20 2005 02:18 GMT

#66

Quit being an idiot, and dump her. your letting her push you around like a little boy. Your so whipped at this point its gonna eat you forever if you dont do it. She's just hoping that she can do whatever she wants, and using the 4 letter word as an excuse for you to take her back after. Dont trust a crying girl. EVER! Its 90% bullshit. The fact that she'd even kiss another guy while your on your "break" is just rediculous. Unbelievable. I know how you feel though, i've been in a VERY similiar position, and I regret taking her back. Still do... shhhhh

Go out have fun, and enjoy your young life.

Sean.G

Spain889 Posts

May 20 2005 03:07 GMT

#67

You should forget about her now, and just tell her it's already over. TRUST ME you will thank me (and the others who share my opinion) later in your life, may it be tomorrow, or may it be in a couple of years.

Seriously, if she even told you she would KISS the guy.. I mean.. good lord.. when a girl even CONSIDERS kissing another guy, it's OBVIOUS she doesn't love you enough to be in a relationship with you.

Even if she comes back, her love for you won't be as strong as your love for her, which would make the relationship imba. Nope, it won't work.

Just let go, I know it's hard, but hey.. as I said, you'll feel great about it after you've given it some time. If you don't realize it now, you'll realize later it was the right thing to do.

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 03:33 GMT

#68

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OhThatDang

United States4685 Posts

May 20 2005 04:48 GMT

#69

damnit...rich....boyle...--;
well hopefully you get her back

8882

2718 Posts

May 20 2005 05:47 GMT

#70

maybe he doesn't use the f word all the time
it pisses off many girls

I'd advise something, but I don't know what you should do.

[X]Ken_D

United States4650 Posts

May 20 2005 06:43 GMT

#71

It is understandable that you are mad as you should be. However, with that attitude, no wonder she question if you are the right person for her. Looks and money isn't everything. Have you try asking yourself what does the other guy do that you don't do? Maybe you should try doing it too.

Revlett

United States61 Posts

May 20 2005 10:23 GMT

#72

Not to sound too harsh or anything, but taking a "break" means she wants to go fuck around with someone. My ex and I took a "break" at one point before I moved away to college because she wasn't sure she loved me or whatever. I figured it was some other guy, which I later found out to be true. After I officially broke it off completely, she wanted me back, but I wouldn't take her back as much as I wanted to. My advice is to get rid of her and stay far, far away no matter how much it hurts.

Casper...

Liberia4948 Posts

May 20 2005 12:22 GMT

#73

psst
she's been fucking that guy the whole time haha

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 12:50 GMT

#74

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Manifesto7

Osaka27139 Posts

May 20 2005 12:58 GMT

#75

Get on msn rich.

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 13:08 GMT

#76

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ZaplinG

United States3818 Posts

May 20 2005 13:23 GMT

#77

Y o u r i n h i g h s c h o o l (the end of it, anyway) Dont base your life around someone else. Its too early. Drop it like its hot and enjoy yourself.

Chibi[OWNS]

United Kingdom10597 Posts

May 20 2005 13:27 GMT

#78

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lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 13:28 GMT

#79

Uh ok, it's 12:22 AM. She hasn't texted me saying whether or not she likes him. I'm assuming she does. This sucks, really does fucking suck.

Zorglub1

Denmark532 Posts

May 20 2005 13:38 GMT

#80

dude i feel for you, but you have to let her go. If she doesnt like this guy she will soon find another one she likes and as long as your sucking up to her she will disrespect you.... The only way you will have a chance is to be a cold bastard towards her, but then again you shouldnt even want to have her back after this...

Casper...

Liberia4948 Posts

May 20 2005 16:14 GMT

#81

On May 20 2005 09:55 Girlzsux wrote:
nooooooo u must kill the bitch right now !!!!
if u know where she lives do it at the night and today !!!
dont wait - if not now she will die afther years but what is realy matter when ? just kill it and the connection between you and she will be broken forever!
am i right ?
answer me !

hahahahahahaha

anarchyplz

100 Posts

May 20 2005 17:53 GMT

#82

whats wrong with being 21, smoking pot and working with fast food? chanses are he enjoys life more than you dude

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 19:55 GMT

#83

Answer is that she does like him. I don't know what happened last night. She could have fucked him, she could have slept toghether with him, Anything. Shit's bad, real bad. Thanks everything for your help.

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 20 2005 20:29 GMT

#84

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EnDeR_

Spain2629 Posts

May 20 2005 20:36 GMT

#85

On May 21 2005 04:55 FlavOrs wrote:
Answer is that she does like him. I don't know what happened last night. She could have fucked him, she could have slept toghether with him, Anything. Shit's bad, real bad. Thanks everything for your help.

I feel for you, just leave the bitch

BTW, Why did chibi get banned?

[edit] never mind, week ban for shitty posting

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 21:03 GMT

#86

I'm trying to see if she fucked around last night. I am really going to break it off. I had so much faith that she wouldn't like this guy, but I guess I'm a foolish bastard. Two years of great love, life, and happiness and it ends in 2 days. 2 Motherfucking days. Show's how much I really meant to her.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 21:04 GMT

#87

On May 21 2005 02:53 anarchyplz wrote:
whats wrong with being 21, smoking pot and working with fast food? chanses are he enjoys life more than you dude

If he plans on not going anywhere anytime soon.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 20 2005 21:16 GMT

#88

I just takled to her, and yes she did kiss him on the lips. Not making out. Very depressing. And I guess she did it a lot. She told me that she wouldn't do anything physical until wednesday, after we talk this shit out. THis is bullshit, im done, close this thread.

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 20 2005 21:34 GMT

#89

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[X]Ken_D

United States4650 Posts

May 20 2005 21:41 GMT

#90

On May 21 2005 06:16 FlavOrs wrote:
I just takled to her, and yes she did kiss him on the lips. Not making out. Very depressing. And I guess she did it a lot. She told me that she wouldn't do anything physical until wednesday, after we talk this shit out. THis is bullshit, im done, close this thread.

That's sad to hear. I know the feeling so I can relate. What she has done to you is unacceptable. She should know how painful it is for you yet she stills do it. I can't believe she would even tell you! Girls who are clever enough wouldn't say anything at all. Even after you drop her, your heart might still tell you to take her back. It will be hard, but it is best to forget and move on. One day maybe you'll meet someone as good as her but minus the bad traits or maybe worse. You're still in high school and have a long life ahead of you.

Have you heard the song "Mr. Bright Side" by The Killers?

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 20 2005 23:14 GMT

#91

show her this thread next time she came on msn . make her cry! fucking bitches.

Tien

Russian Federation4447 Posts

May 20 2005 23:29 GMT

#92

Update us!!

IronMentality

United States1129 Posts

May 20 2005 23:32 GMT

#93

Flavors: Life goes on. Two years is a long time, but you have 60+ left to go. Keep your head up!

Taiche

France1963 Posts

May 21 2005 03:35 GMT

#94

Flavors : don't wait 'til wednesday about anything. Dump her now and get over it. I got dumped by my GF 10 days ago after 3+ years and there was a story a bit like yours in the end ; my advice is : go out, talk a lot of it with friends/parents/family and live your life. I know it's probably something you don't wanna think about but you'll find another GF and she'll be much better than this one.
For now, all you have is pain and there's nothing you can do about it. Just go on living your life, see your friends and time will do the rest. Don't see her, don't talk to her, don't mail her, if she's in MSN or any other IM, remove her from your contacts, etc... the cut must be complete in order to be clean so that you can live without being bothered too much by stupid and harmful attempts of getting in touch with her.
Anyway, remember : talk about it with your relatives, that's generally a great relief.
Good luck man, I know how hard it can be.

LetMeBeWithYou

Canada4254 Posts

May 21 2005 03:39 GMT

#95

I dont believe in "Breaks" =P

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 21 2005 04:40 GMT

#96

Ok here's the final verdict. Shes likse him a lot. She did make out with him quite a bit. They stood up all night talkign to each other. He did grope her boobs with her shirt on. He didn't actually feel them under teh shirt. When she left him this morning, she did kiss him goodbye. When she had to pick up her money that she left, she also kissed him goodbye. Things are not going good. I said that I will let last night be forgotten, if she will stay true until Wednesday. If she doesn't want to go back otu with me, I'm going to have to accept it. If she does, then thats great. SHe did make out with him yesterday because I called her a million times. (I was drunk) and said some pretty harsh shit. Anyways, I'm going to try and talk to her at 4:00 PM (20 minutes) And see whats up. Ask her if she really wants to wait, or if she wants to be with him. She said she dosent want to get into a relationship with him, she wants to date other boys while being with him. So I don''t know. This is really getting to me. My dad says I'm a fool, that Shhelley did it once, she will do it again, and again, and again. She knows that I will forgive her. I'm going to ask her if she really wants to wait until wendesday. Anyways, Thanks everyone. I'll update as soon as im done talkign to her. I made a promise that I wouldnt call / text her until wednesday, as long as she stayed true to me, and didn't kiss him. I dno't know if she's going to trust that. Thanks .

Love4Terran

United States74 Posts

May 21 2005 04:59 GMT

#97

Aight all i can say, dude! LEAVE THAT CHICK. Sure you may like her, but guess what? thats more time playing Starcraft. lol more starcraft means more skill meaning, you can move to korea some day and pay for those hookers with your pro gaming money. muhahaha. lol. but your different man, all of us would of dumped her and gone on. But, whatever.

LazySCV

United States2942 Posts

May 21 2005 05:03 GMT

#98

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Taiche

France1963 Posts

May 21 2005 05:03 GMT

#99

Flavors, just leave her now. Not doing so will definitely bring you more pain than if you do... anyway, it's your life and all we can do is just advising you :/

OhNoKickedAgain

Czech Republic232 Posts

May 21 2005 05:20 GMT

#100

What The FUCK ? well when i read this it really makes me sick. I know and admire your love to her but for the christ sake dump her, she doesn't deserve so cool guy that you are! If she will change her mind later, u can work it out, BUT let activity on her ! Now it's not in your "hands" now you can only get back and wait or live your "new" life. And remember that time is really good painkiller

LetMeBeWithYou

Canada4254 Posts

May 21 2005 05:22 GMT

#101

On May 21 2005 02:53 anarchyplz wrote:
whats wrong with being 21, smoking pot and working with fast food? chanses are he enjoys life more than you dude

He might be enjoying it now but he already failed at it, wait till hes older

you spelled chances wrong

LumberJack

United States3355 Posts

May 21 2005 05:44 GMT

#102

uh, if shes the type of woman to do this you, after all you've been through, then its obvious shes fucked up in the head, and you're still young, not like you've commited you're life to her. By the way you're talking it seems like you dont really need her, you just like/love her alot, love isnt enough, specially one sided. Even if she does love you, it still isnt enough, if shes fucked up in the head. Btw, all that 'groping boobs w/o shirt, with shirt' its all bs, thats arbitrary, she still made out with him and let him get physical with her, and she liked it and wanted it, so she made the descision for you, find a nice girl this time

Invincible-SCV

United States93 Posts

May 21 2005 05:49 GMT

#103

First off: Don't try to get girl advice on a computer game board.

Second off: whatever happens, happens. You're young and immature, at least shrug it off.

draeger

United States3256 Posts

May 21 2005 06:06 GMT

#104

Details of the situation aside, you mentioned that you are fresh out of high school. Unless you two are planning on attending the same school, or the schools are less than 20-30 minutes apart, your chances of keeping this relationship together PERIOD is slim to none.

I can't begin to tell you how many people I met incollege who were engaged to a high school sweetheart and broke it off within a year or two. The ones that didn't lost out on a lot of fun. They spent so much time trying to keep the relationship together that they would never want to go out and would never even give another girl a look. College is a time for discovery and you can't discover shit if you're engaged.

If you do decide to try and keep the relationship going in school, realize that you are going to spend 1/2 of your day sitting on the phone talking to each other and missing out on 95% of the college experience.

Keanu_Reaver

Djibouti1432 Posts

May 21 2005 06:36 GMT

#105

uh draeger is right
break up with her, no matter, even if she does want you back. i know from experience its the right decision, you'll miss out on far too much of your young adult life tied down with a high school crush...you'll be far happier in the long run.

oh and hahaha your girlfriend left you for a 21 year old burger flipper

AeroGx

United States37 Posts

May 21 2005 07:10 GMT

#106

On May 21 2005 14:49 Invincible-SCV wrote:
First off: Don't try to get girl advice on a computer game board.

Second off: whatever happens, happens. You're young and immature, at least shrug it off.

lmao good advice bro

FroZZoR

China925 Posts

May 21 2005 07:15 GMT

#107

dump the bitch seriously
it might be hard but you gotta do it

zero89

United States295 Posts

May 21 2005 07:34 GMT

#108

maybe your feelings block your thinking...

analyze this:

if a girl really loves you, will she be having a "break" and hang out with another dude?....

i dont really think so

let me clarify

the way you love her compared to the way she "loves" you
can only be brought to the conclusion of:

she ain't worth your love and everything that you'll do for her.

it happened something similar to me
right after the girl told me about a "break"
i immediateley said "you aint worth it anyway, take care" and i left.

hope this helps

HeadBangaa

United States6512 Posts

May 21 2005 08:13 GMT

#109

On May 21 2005 02:53 anarchyplz wrote:
whats wrong with being 21, smoking pot and working with fast food? chanses are he enjoys life more than you dude

It's OK, nobody's judging you

HeadBangaa

United States6512 Posts

May 21 2005 08:36 GMT

#110

Thread Author: You're a man. RAWR! Don't let her reduce you to anything less; you don't have to tolerate her. Also, I hate to break this to you. There is no love between you and her. Let me reiterate:
There is no love.
There is no love.
There is no love!

All the key ingredients for love are missing. She is not in love with you, and you are NOT in love with her. Based on your posts/behavior/age, you are certainly mistaking infatuation for love. It's a common mistake, especially at your age. The sooner you acknowledge this, the sooner your heartbreak will be over.

Hmm, I also want to add, your descriptions of her and what she's done brings to mind somone I dated in high school. She did the same shit and hurt me, a very similar situation actually. Well, I ran into her this past year and she's doing horribly! She's assimilated all the negative characteristics of the group she started hanging out with (weed, cigarettes, 21+ yrs old living with parents, no goal in life, failed junior college, etc). These people still act like they are kids. It was strange seeing her, because I had all good news about my life, while her news was just depressing. I don't take solace in seeing people's lives go down the shitter, but it did seem like justice was served. If it's any consolation, girls who are attracted to failure usually end up failing themselves. You are better off without her. Don't get dragged down. RAWR!!

reh_smith

United States82 Posts

May 21 2005 08:39 GMT

#111

Dude, drop that bitch fast. It just sounds like you just have low self-confidience to me. This girl is seriously worthless for doing what she is doing to you.

I'd kick your ass for "negotiating" with this girl like you are doing if I knew you in real life. You'd thank me later too. You need some common sense. Don't you know you deserve better?

Excuse me for ranting, but your about the millionth guy I've met that doesn't know his own self-worth. Don't let anyone shit on you like that!

She doesn't love you. This girl just likes attention. Just your run-of-the-mill dumb hoe. Just say goodbye and learn from the experience. Thank god you didn't marry her...

reh_smith

United States82 Posts

May 21 2005 08:43 GMT

#112

On May 21 2005 17:36 HeadBangaa wrote:
You're a man. RAWR!

That pretty much sums up my entire post. It captures everything I was trying to say.

SiZo

3 Posts

May 21 2005 09:21 GMT

#113

Don't even take her back if she comes back to you. If you married her, it would only be a matter of time before she starts to wonder if she coulda done better, and then you'd be divorced. You're too good for that ho. She's not thinking about you anymore. The best thing you can do is stop thinking about her. I know it really hurts, but you'll make it through this hell. Just learn from your mistakes and move on. You really have at least another 10 years before you should even think about marriage.

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 21 2005 10:10 GMT

#114

shes slut, no question about it. and you are letting her walking over you.

Darki[CKG]

Peru60 Posts

May 21 2005 11:27 GMT

#115

just tell her that if she decides to broke with u u will never wait for her any longer she is the typical girl who is a slut and tries to look like if she was a victim i had something similar i just said GG NEVER RE U BASTARD!

baal

10533 Posts

May 21 2005 12:12 GMT

#116

wtf you are a low self steem lil snail....

dump the bitch.

Amnesty

United States2054 Posts

May 21 2005 12:40 GMT

#117

man i thought my relationship was bad enough to consider breaking up with my g/f. But yours is 1000x worse. I was thinking my g/f didn't love me or loved me a little bit (if there is such a thing); but i now know she does love very much, she just don't express herself like that.

Staying with her will just hurt you more and more. And it's clear she doesn't love you. Why would you stay with someone who does not love you?

I could never consider having a break and going out with another girl because all i want to be with is this one. I just could not even imagine doing that.
BTW, breaks is the biggest piece of shit ever invented, right up there with timeouts.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 21 2005 12:50 GMT

#118

Well I guess I have a bigger dick. And I am not gonig to talk to her for a while. Things are basically over with. So fuck it. She wants me, she can have me. I'm not going to be depressed about this shit anymore. It's over, and she ended it this morning. What the fuck am I giong to do about it? Nothing. Fuck her. I can't dump her, because she already dumped me. But, I'm not going to call her, or do anything. If she kisses this fucker, thats her choice. I'm just going to party, and live my life as a young adult. Fuck this girl, I'm out.

baal

10533 Posts

May 21 2005 12:51 GMT

#119

i just read the entire thread OMG!!!! your dad is wrong, you are not a fool.... YOU ARE AN IDIOT THAT CALLING YOU A FOOL IS INSULTING TO FOOLS... FOOL!

what the fuck is wrong with you, have some freaking balls, this is pathetic it truly pisses me off that you are such a clown and let her do this to you.

What you have to do is be a fucking man and end this, ive never seen such a pathetic display seriously.

Probably im fucked up but i'd DESTROY that girl if i could... So if my post is too rough well hopefully it will slap you back into your senses.

lastprobeALIVE

United States973 Posts

May 21 2005 14:15 GMT

#120

Baal, would YOU have sex with me?

DV8

United States1623 Posts

May 21 2005 14:40 GMT

#121

On May 21 2005 21:51 baal wrote:
i just read the entire thread OMG!!!! your dad is wrong, you are not a fool.... YOU ARE AN IDIOT THAT CALLING YOU A FOOL IS INSULTING TO FOOLS... FOOL!

what the fuck is wrong with you, have some freaking balls, this is pathetic it truly pisses me off that you are such a clown and let her do this to you.

What you have to do is be a fucking man and end this, ive never seen such a pathetic display seriously.

Probably im fucked up but i'd DESTROY that girl if i could... So if my post is too rough well hopefully it will slap you back into your senses.

I'm with baal on this one it absolutely irritates me that some dumb bitch got away with this shit.

Casper...

Liberia4948 Posts

May 21 2005 16:54 GMT

#122

women are not stupid

if they leave they do it because they've jumped up and down on some other guy's cock and liked it better

they don't leave for feelings, women are practical

she kissed you with the mouth she sucked his dick with

never look back

Chris307

3095 Posts

May 21 2005 16:54 GMT

#123

Every person who has posted in this thread would enjoy watching The Ricki Lake Show.

Chris307

3095 Posts

May 21 2005 16:56 GMT

#124

Except Casper, hahahahahaha.

Chris307

3095 Posts

May 21 2005 17:18 GMT

#125

Most women have absolutely no idea what love is, sadly/ironically.

You picked a bad one to invest your emotions into. How unfortunate. And it doesn't matter if you say you're gonna be a man and party or whatever, you're still going to feel like absolute shit for quite a while and will probably bawl your eyes out.

And even when you stop feeling bad for the moment, the pain will still linger. What loneliness was before, isn't half of what it will be now. You will feel so sad and so alone without her, and the only medication is to fall in love with another woman.

Being the veteran of two relationships that have failed in jaw-dropping fashion, I can say it's better never to have loved, than it is to have loved and lost. Still waiting and hoping on what it might be like to have loved and lost and loved and lost again and then loved even more. I'll probably still feel like shit, I'm betting.

Women are poison. Women are devils. Your emotions are nothing more than a game to them. They insist that love is so important to them, but they never truly feel it; all they can do is dance around the idea of it. They think they're in love, yes they're sure they're in love; it's easy to say these things when you've never loved at all. Sort of like how younger kids who've never orgasmed think they've orgasmed. But as those who have orgasmed know, there is no THINKING you've orgasmed, either you know you have or you know you haven't.

So cheer up son

anarchyplz

100 Posts

May 21 2005 17:51 GMT

#126

On May 21 2005 14:22 LetMeBeWithYou wrote:

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He might be enjoying it now but he already failed at it, wait till hes older

you spelled chances wrong

dude, how can you fail life? do they give out medals at the end?

haduken

Australia8267 Posts

May 21 2005 18:19 GMT

#127

On May 22 2005 02:51 anarchyplz wrote:

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dude, how can you fail life? do they give out medals at the end?

think real hard my son, the answer is in posts above u.

Casper...

Liberia4948 Posts

May 21 2005 18:37 GMT

#128

On May 22 2005 01:56 Chris307 wrote:
Except Casper, hahahahahaha.

maury povich is some funny shit

TLKiD

China1136 Posts

May 21 2005 19:31 GMT

#129

dont worry, u know there arent many 2 legs tables but 2 legs women are EVERYWHERE!

anarchyplz

100 Posts

May 21 2005 19:51 GMT

#130

no its not

Chris307

3095 Posts

May 22 2005 17:36 GMT

#131

On May 22 2005 03:37 Casper... wrote:

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maury povich is some funny shit

I call it fat mothers with slutty daughters.

I love it when Maury is like "HEY! I will not have you swearing on my show! DIGNITY!" then a minute later he's like "Now bring out the 13-year-old trailer whores that think their 29-year-old boyfriends love them"

Chris307

3095 Posts

May 22 2005 17:37 GMT

#132

On May 22 2005 04:31 TLKiD wrote:
dont worry, u know there arent many 2 legs tables but 2 legs women are EVERYWHERE!

What?

SpeedDemonToss

108 Posts

May 22 2005 17:56 GMT

#133

god that girl is the kinda girl i would give a chocolate browny too...break her anal virginity, blow my wod in her face and when she goes to kiss me open hand slap her across the face and walk away like nothing happened. dude that female is no angel, shes confused and doenst wanna be confined to one guy because she beleives this is her college years or whatnot. beleives she should be single and have fun. so my advice...go out sleep around and if u talk to any of her friends tell them every single detail there is too...if u ate some broad out tell them how he cunt tasted, tell them how well teh girl plays with your balls while giving you head, tell her friensd how the girls u fuck like to drink your jizz everything...the more detailed the better. guarantee that female will come back to you eventually and if u can give details to her friends by the time she wants you back you will most likely be over her and can exact your revenge...that girl deserves to get raped honestly.

Casper...

Liberia4948 Posts

May 22 2005 17:57 GMT

#134

uh ya someone's been watching too much porn

SpeedDemonToss

108 Posts

May 22 2005 18:01 GMT

#135

not at all chief...friend told me that and i think its genious:D there are some females out there very deserving of that.

Brett

Australia3820 Posts

May 22 2005 19:27 GMT

#136

You would have to be the biggest SOFT COCK I have ever heard of. Jesus christ man... you're like "oh ill wait and see if she likes him". Then she does. "Oh I'll wait and see if she kisses him". Then she does."Oh i'll wait and see if she wont do it again till wednesday" .... fucking hell man HAVE SOME DIGNITY. This has nothing to do with her, it's your fault. You let her WALK ALL OVER YOU, so she did.

Hopefully you learnt something from that :\

apan-a

71 Posts

May 22 2005 19:49 GMT

#137

yeah, listen to Brett.
time to get some balls man, if not this will happen to you more then this time with other girls.
To be kinde and understanding is one thing, to be weak is another.

Gryffindor_us

United States5606 Posts

May 22 2005 19:55 GMT

#138

I'd rather live and fall one hundred times over than never have fallen at all.

Smurg

Australia3818 Posts

May 22 2005 19:59 GMT

#139

I'd rather have had 100 surgically implanted light bulbs in my eyes, than to have have never light-bulbed at all.

Gryffindor_us

United States5606 Posts

May 22 2005 20:07 GMT

#140

On May 23 2005 04:59 Smurg wrote:
I'd rather have had 100 surgically implanted light bulbs in my eyes, than to have have never light-bulbed at all.

lol. Thanks for the commentary Smurg. I could not have said it better myself!

Edit:

FlavOrs if it is any consolation, we played on PGTOUR a season or two ago and you crushed me Z v T haha. ;p Fucking CrayOn. You really like drop harass T_T.