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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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farvacola
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DarkPlasmaBall
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On June 05 2016 23:38 Dumbledore wrote: Can someone PM me what PUA is? I have no idéa what the disclaimer thing is talking about lol :p Pick Up Artist... a supposed master of "playing the game" to pick up tons of chicks and bed them... PUAs are often known to overly objectify women though, and often times only care about superficial things (e.g., "What's the easiest way to "get laid/ get pussy"). This thread is more about dating and acknowledging that women are people too, and don't exist for the sole purpose of your one night stands  | ||
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farvacola
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B.I.G.
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Dark_Chill
Canada3353 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46243 Posts
On June 06 2016 01:04 Dark_Chill wrote: All interaction is based on manipulation either way though. Just because it's not for only sex doesn't mean you don't try to cause a certain outcome. I think that's more of a semantics argument in using the word "manipulation". Also, the intended outcomes/ goals are different. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
Other side of the same coin is a person who focuses on the goal of getting into a relationship and achieving it through manipulation techniques such as pleasing, adapting to her personality, dishonesty, withholding own traits and opinions he fears might be undesirable and forcing commitment. It was basically a self-help movement bubble and routines, openers etc. are actually widely renounced by the very people who came up with them, even those who still work in the industry. | ||
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Volband
Hungary6034 Posts
On June 05 2016 23:36 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: I'm really hoping it's a Bo3. He should live report it next time. Haha, it would've been 3 pages of "WTF" and "gggggggggg" once I got to live report to you that she has 2 vaginas. She still owes me fucking ~4$ but as tempting it is to chat her up, it's basically gambling. I should quit here and maybe wait if she'll initiate something or not before the 14th of June. That's when she voluntarily goes to that mental ward. Typing that out felt a bit weird, I have to say! The girl I eventually asked out seen my message but did not respond, for two days now, so got cold shouldered. You can't win them all, right? Bonus round: I went through the pictures of this crazy girl, and turns out they are (or were) friends, even posed on a photo together. I'm fairly sure there is a possible threesome in this story somewhere. The woman (the mature one) said she fell sick yesterday, did not even go to work, but it usually passes in a few days, so she hopes we can have our meeting Tuesday. I don't think the experiences I gained the other day would be useful on Tuesday (and I hope so, because my ringfinger is still in agony), but at least I am not stressing about how I'm going to greet her. However, I still plan to leave the decision of where we go and what we do up to her. After all, it's me visiting her in her own city. Though if she asks me what I'd like, I'm going to say I'd be fine to walk through the city a bit then settle down in a café of some sort. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
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Volband
Hungary6034 Posts
On June 06 2016 03:46 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: I'm not sure what your financial situation is, but I wouldn't lose sleep over $4. I was just jesting. :D Aside from that, I mentioned it because that's a topic to initiate a conversation/meeting about, because she was keen on saying she'll pay me back. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46243 Posts
On June 06 2016 04:06 Volband wrote: I was just jesting. :D Aside from that, I mentioned it because that's a topic to initiate a conversation/meeting about, because she was keen on saying she'll pay me back. Ah okay iirc, you had mentioned about each of you buying things for like $1 or so and it sounded like a big deal. Having more topics of conversation to initiate is a good thing! | ||
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bloodwhore~
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
http://www.fromtexttospeech.com/ to create my very own bed time story from Volbands post. Thanks mate | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
try it out guys | ||
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Volband
Hungary6034 Posts
On June 06 2016 05:32 bloodwhore~ wrote: Are you seriously even considering meeting her again after that date? Hey, if she would initiate it or if it would require only a minimal effort, why not? Aside from the whole batshit crazy part, of course. Empire Strikes Back was better than A New Hope. On June 06 2016 05:38 Kleinmuuhg wrote: this is actually amazing, try it out guys Seems like I managed to please a lot of people! Not sure if this thread will ever be ready for me having sex. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On June 06 2016 05:48 Volband wrote: Hey, if she would initiate it or if it would require only a minimal effort, why not? Aside from the whole batshit crazy part, of course. Empire Strikes Back was better than A New Hope. I guess "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a lesson best learned yourself. | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
On June 06 2016 05:48 Volband wrote: Hey, if she would initiate it or if it would require only a minimal effort, why not? Aside from the whole batshit crazy part, of course. Empire Strikes Back was better than A New Hope. Seems like I managed to please a lot of people! Not sure if this thread will ever be ready for me having sex. the two minutes that will be your first time will be so dissapointing compared to the telltale you just survived | ||
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Volband
Hungary6034 Posts
On June 06 2016 05:49 bloodwhore~ wrote: I guess "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a lesson best learned yourself. Meh, I know it would be a mistake, but all I'm saying if it would (literally?) fall into my lap, I might as well bring it home. Won't actively pursue it anyway; I'm pretty sure she's like a boomerang and would just message me one absolute random day. On June 06 2016 05:54 Kleinmuuhg wrote: the two minutes that will be your first time will be so dissapointing compared to the telltale you just survived Come on man, if you won't give me the benefit of doubt to be a total stud ~30 minutes after that, at least assume I'll find a way to make the circumstances or pre-/after-play interesting! Also, do not underestimate my ability to fuck up even the simplest of things. :D | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
On June 06 2016 06:02 Volband wrote: Meh, I know it would be a mistake, but all I'm saying if it would (literally?) fall into my lap, I might as well bring it home. Won't actively pursue it anyway; I'm pretty sure she's like a boomerang and would just message me one absolute random day. Come on man, if you won't give me the benefit of doubt to be a total stud ~30 minutes after that, at least assume I'll find a way to make the circumstances or pre-/after-play interesting! Also, do not underestimate my ability to fuck up even the simplest of things. :D youll do fine im sure good luck mate and if i may add my very personal opinion, try to find someone whom you have some feelings for to spend your first time with and not some crazy witch | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On June 06 2016 06:02 Volband wrote:Meh, I know it would be a mistake That seems like a somewhat odd mindset hehe. I guess if you just want to get your dick wet, go ahead, however you don't really seem like the type that couldn't fuck someone who was slightly sane. | ||
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